Young Australian man asks for advice on finding a decent woman in this day and age of the CC. Is fed a succinct version of the sidebar in two minutes.

mrbonsoir · 2017-12-13T21:42:27+00:00

Literally watched it yesterday- truer words have never been said.

This sub should honestly place a much heavier emphasis on SMV cultivation, like an entire fully completed section on the sidebar , not just one article on GOALS.

It’s what half the kids/teens are lacking anyway.

slutnip · 2017-12-13T21:50:45+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVS3FPqeBjA

His video is correct, a lot of people in the TRP community miss this very big picture.

They focus on money, or fucking 100 bitches, or whatever, complain about feminism or the feminine imperative, marriage, etc. Once you start doing any of these things, you lose... because you take your eye of the prize... YOU

the_real_chronos_ · 2017-12-14T11:28:04+00:00

Yeah yeah yeah. I like his advice because every man should aspire to become better but for the average man it is completely unrealistic and wilfully ignores the shitshow that is modern woman today.

For example, what did my father have to do to get married back in the day? Have a job, take a shower once a day, and show up on time. That was literally it. All he had to do was be average and he could secure a good woman to build a family with. And so it was for the rest of his peers.

But now? You're supposed to be or act like a small celebrity, a wealthy person, and a soft sociopath (game) to be able to find a good woman. At least this is largely the advice given here.

This is fine because it works but haven't you thought how degenerate and fucked up our society is that we are devolving to the point where all the women belong to the top 20% of men and the rest of the 80% of men just get to watch and be pathetic on Twitch / Instagram / Facebook?

This can't be good for civilization at all. The average women and men are just so far out of touch with reality that it is sickening if you really think about it.

November-Actual · 2017-12-14T04:17:48+00:00

I freaking love Milo.

...no homo

Snoopy_Doggy · 2017-12-15T03:15:54+00:00

Good interview.

I thought Milo was a complete tool for the longest time so avoided him, e.g. how could a flamboyantly gay man support republicans? He must be a complete idiot or a self-loathing nut, even if he is conservative leaning. Then I thought about it a bit more, I mean Obama only supported gay marriage after Biden pushed him to, and Clinton never really did until it became popular. Actually Dick Cheney supported it before any of the big name democrats (other than Sanders).

But now I find I agree with many of Milo's views (even though I'm a liberal, or rather, a classic liberal who rejects SJW nonsense), especially on the media's constant scapegoating of men and white men especially. I love how he mercilessly pokes fun at the absurdity of the chattering hens of our nanny media keeping us safe from badwrongthoughts.

After watching a few of his vids I am a fan now, although he does hang out with some real trolls like Pamela Geller, who is a disgusting hate-monger and war crimes apologist, and part of the propaganda wing of one of the worst groups of SJW snowflakes out there: zionists, who constantly whine about anti-semitism the second you criticize the theocratic racist dystopia they're building. Think about it for a sec, who can ruin your career, your life, in an instant, if you say one thing about them that's not pure deferential boot-licking? Feminists? They have ruined some careers, like James Damore, and are ruining higher education by proscribing speech that even questions their orthodoxy. But there are actual laws on the books now in the US about not being able to criticize the ubermensch. If you want a patriarchy to point fingers to, oppressing everyone, that's it, right there. And Milo cozies up to them, so yes, he's a total hypocrite if he expects us to believe he's all about freedom of speech no matter what.

I'll do some more digging about Milo to try to ascertain his true views. He also made a pact with Louise Mensch, that total loon, who pushes the Russia-owns-us fantasy as part of a plan conceived the day after Trump won, in order to undermine Democrats, or rather help Democrats undermine themselves, with a huge nothing-burger that is the Russia collusion story.

Milo's advice on dating is good TRP material but still, I think the ultimate Red Pill advice is not actually self-improvement per se, except physically and monetarily. If all you want is women, becoming a truly "better man" can actually be a detriment, because women don't actually want good men, generally, they want strong, rich, aggressive, selfish men. Not better men. Not more moral men. Just more brutish and rugged and provider-ey. So self-improvement physically, sure, but within reason. Lifting is good but past a certain point gym culture starts to look VERY gay and rather narcissistic (checking yourself out in the mirror all the time, no man, leave that to the chicks putting on their makeup) and rather pathetic. Too much of a good thing (lifting) is bad, shows you're a one-trick pony and not much else going on in your life.

Being successful is about making yourself happy, which was kind of his point, but he misses the mark about women coming after you. Most guys will still have to pound the pavement before pounding the tang, even if they achieve their goals. Or maybe especially. Becoming top of your field requires massive time and money investment and while it's true that being driven and ambitious is attractive to women, most of the guys I know who had women in the hundreds or even thousands weren't exactly over-achievers in any other aspect of their lives. Actually rather mediocre. If you want to be the best at picking up and getting laid, focus on that. Women might love the idea of banging a doctor, but be prepared to sacrifice your 20s being too busy and too tired to even get to do much of that.

FullmetalVTR · 2017-12-13T22:00:53+00:00

I am always wary of any person who tells you not to listen to critics.

What is success, if not measured against the success and impact it has on others?

Listening to criticism is vital, it is choosing which criticism one takes stock in that matters.

Chaddeus_Rex · 2017-12-14T04:48:20+00:00

Here is more advice from Milo on the topic:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gdEIljY82U

MattyAnon · 2017-12-14T14:41:01+00:00

Your success will attract the kind of women who are worthy of you.

Up to a point. But don't think this means you don't need any game or are relieved of the burden of escalation. Being attractive to women still means you need to escalate, deal with shit tests, and all the rest of it.

Given the value of escalation and shit-test-passing, it's faster easier and more effective to get good at dealing with women rather than spending a decade becoming the best version of yourself you can be, which will STILL require getting good with women.

I am saying don't rely on women to escalate and be clear in their attraction. Not gonna happen. Don't wait for them, they don't work in this way. They go for the best man that goes for them, not the best man they can find.

GreenPiller · 2017-12-16T09:26:34+00:00

You forget that some of these guys are still virgins that have no game whatsoever. These guys need to talk to women, learn game and actually touch a woman.

shelton97 · 2017-12-13T20:53:33+00:00

Just watched this this morning. I’m from Australia

cazzah123 · 2017-12-15T12:13:49+00:00

I feel like you can work out, kill you career, do all this shit he mentions and when you turn around there won’t be a horde on woman after your attention. There will be no one. You still have to put in the effort to go get woman.

That’s the only part I don’t like. It gives off the impression that if you go into monk mode they will just flock to you. They won’t.

There’s plenty of ripped, Rich, funny charming men with zero women in their life.

There’s also plenty of chubby, poor, funny charming guy with woman for days.

Silviapold · 2017-12-15T17:37:05+00:00

From my own experience, most important thing is Your confidence. You don’t have to be a model or have big muscles, because your confidence, self-esteem & belief in Yourself is what stands out and eventually gets You the girl

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