Chap checks chick's rich exchanges; catches sketchy reaches. Itching beach scratches cheeky chases, chalking up to much channelled cheers.

Impressive-Cricket-8 · 2022-07-17T00:34:39+00:00

The thing with damaged chicks is that, while they're awesome rides, they're - surprisingly - damaged. Most will even consider it a personality trait - and how dare you to suggest otherwise. So enjoy the ride (bring your own condoms), don't get too attached, and have an escape plan.

And if you have a saviour complex, steer away from them. You cannot save them. You cannot save other people - they need to want to save themselves. These chicks will only drag you down - in my language there's an idiom that roughly translates to a hug from a drowning person, and that's pretty much the case. Be smart.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2022-07-17T00:44:38+00:00

He "went through" her Snapchat...?

Does this mean all of that information was displayed in public, or did he get her phone without permission?

If it's the former, you put that out there for people to see and they can judge you on what you do in public. If it's the latter, then there's a problem with the relationship beyond the Snapchat.

Third possibility: She's leaving out a vital detail about what happened and/or mischaracterizing exactly how he found this out.

gentle_lemon · 2022-07-17T01:18:15+00:00

What else has he yet to discover about her past? He best cut sling load now before he's made a laughing stock.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-17T11:44:57+00:00

Its funny she claims to feel bad about those messages but never deleted them, so obviously they meant something to her. She only feels that way because she got caught.

GundamZero83 · 2022-07-17T13:51:38+00:00

Why would she save 4 yr old snap chat convos?

CliffordThRed · 2022-07-17T17:28:39+00:00

This was written by a guy.

secretagent_117 · 2022-07-17T18:33:38+00:00

This post title gave me a stroke trying to read it lol

Balefirez · 2022-07-17T21:16:16+00:00

Every time I see one of these shocked pikachu face posts where women say, “But my past doesn’t matter!” I just laugh. They know their past matters. That’s why they at the very least don’t bring it up or at most actively try to hide it. They know it matters. They just don’t want men to think it matters. Now, if what she experienced was actual sexual abuse, I feel bad for her and she needs to seek counseling for it. However, you need to be up front about your past. Get in front of it, as I was always told. People need to be able to make informed decisions and they can’t do that if you hide stuff.

As a side note, if these things didn’t matter, why did she keep the exchanges? If she wanted to be done with that part of her life, why keep reminders of her past that she is trying to forget?

OrphanSlaughter · 2022-07-17T16:21:49+00:00

I don't know why, but this title feels like British rap lyrics

V_M · 2022-07-17T18:35:01+00:00

The true red flag is she only regrets not using the "delete" button, not what she did, in fact its endless hamster babble about how she has no free will and she never made things happen, things just happened to her, and everything she's ever done is someone else's fault. She's so close to breaking thru childhood and becoming a adult with her "regretted her actions" and stuff that's almost there. In the old days kids would mature in their teens but kids grow up much slower now, so of course she's acting like a teen despite being 22 calendar years old. She's close to being an adult but not yet. Pitiful that she's in her 20s.

Anyway that's the kind of conversation nobody wants to have so they're both going to pretend its about her being used up or whatever, not that he's dating a chick acting like she's stuck in her teens.

Somehow I think something's getting sugar coated. "flirting" happens and nobody cares. On the other hand, sexting under the age of consent (that's usually 18) is legally CP and I wouldn't want to get involved with a felon too dumb to hit the delete key or even realize they're doing something illegal. So I'm predicting what's sugar coated by her as "show my sexuality a lot" is actually CP pics of her underaged kitty or her pair of man-magnets, which is quite illegal. I'd want nothing to do with that.

Flat_Doughnut · 2022-07-17T01:59:42+00:00

I had bad parents too who didn’t instruct me on shit, women are exposed much much more in this sense, men get a pass for being incels, and it won’t ruin their lives, although they suffer in many other ways, and undignify themselves with porn and other cuckoldry… now if that girl had a father and a mother that thinks, maybe she’d have had it differently. I as a man don’t think selfishly just for myself, If that were my girl she would have known better than to whorearound.. all the good men gone should be like that, gone like the wind

Title	Chap checks chick's rich exchanges; catches sketchy reaches. Itching beach scratches cheeky chases, chalking up to much channelled cheers.
Author	Impressive-Cricket-8
Upvotes	104
Comments	51
Date	July 17, 2022 12:29 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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