Now why would any guy have a problem with this?

Overkillengine · 2019-04-30T23:11:46+00:00

The part that really infuriates me is that this man still does not make the logical connection between spending a significant amount of time, resources, and effort bending over backwards for for a woman and her just taking it for granted that she can walk all over him and openly cuck and disrespect him.

ricstone100 · 2019-04-30T23:41:56+00:00

Cunts like this deserve shunning from civilisation for the rest of their miserable lives.

This wretch actually thinks her husband is dumb enough not to get suspicious that of all the people she could have as a room mate, she choses her ex-boyfriend from high school?!

I don't know what pisses me off more, the brazeness of it or the fact she thinks the guy wouldn't freak out!

CaptainMaxelson · 2019-05-01T00:17:12+00:00

This is an exceptionally common theme in the military. Dudes on deployment, wife is banging her lover on the side, spending all HIS HARD EARNED MONEY, and often ends up pregnant with her side cock's baby then divorces Joe WHILE he is still deployed and can't fight it very well.

The movie Jarhead is a good example of a giant red pill. There is a wall of shame up with Pictures and Dear John letters, and the writings of the solider victims themselves explaining what happened. I wish I had taken pics of some of the wall of shame where I was deployed but it felt really disrespectful to act like some tourist in such a sobering place and moment.

It pains me to agree that our modern military is falling to shit. I know because I've seen it first hand. HOWEVER, I will go to my grave defending my brothers in arms who were fucked over by horrible women. We were ALL bluepilled and optimistic once.

None of the men I saw this happen to were stupid, weak willed, or cucks. These women who screwed them over were parasitic cunts who hid extremely well in the masks of the "Good Girl *TM".

I'll kindly ask any who think ill of these poor bastards to take a moment and reconsider that stance, because they do not warrant such a harsh criticism (99% of the time. There is always that one asshole who knew he was marrying a whore he thought he could tame.).

loneliness-inc · 2019-04-30T23:29:17+00:00

My head is spinning just from trying to figure out the details of this story.

Regardless, I don't know any men who would deliberately sign up for bullshit like this. Every married man that I know did so hoping for guaranteed regular sex from a loving wife who's nice to him and who cares for him.

logandriggers · 2019-05-01T04:41:57+00:00

I think this is why our ancestors sometimes allowed wife beatings and always allowed honor duels.

NoFaithInThisSub · 2019-05-01T00:28:06+00:00

My Dad wrote some gnosis (knowledge for you kewl kids) a long time ago. It's called Proverbs 5, 6, 7, and 30.

Have a read, be warned.

Proverbs 30:20 This is the way of an adulteress: she eats and wipes her mouth and says, “I have done no wrong.”

Proverbs 5:7-12 Now then, my sons, listen to me; do not turn aside from what I say. 8 Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house, 9 lest you lose your honor to others and your dignity[a] to one who is cruel, 10 lest strangers feast on your wealth and your toil enrich the house of another. 11 At the end of your life you will groan, when your flesh and body are spent. 12 You will say, “How I hated discipline! How my heart spurned correction!

Get out while your still alive!

EffigyDijjih · 2019-04-30T23:39:32+00:00

Ay yeah, chick's a bitch , no doubt. That's evident, but why the fuck are you marrying a broad that wouldn't even go on a movie date with you? I'm not saying she's alleviated in anyway, fuck her, but seriously what happened?

It bugs me there's men out there that are so incredibly blue pilled that this shit is actually possible.

keithrockz · 2019-05-01T00:51:33+00:00

What's really sickening is that she will come out on top..and she will reap all the rewards of his hard work and sacrifice... I'm tired of hearing about women sobbing about losing the best years of their lives and the "men are dogs"narrative....what about this poor guy?

PhilNEvo · 2019-05-01T00:09:24+00:00

Sunk cost fallacy~

Arsimael · 2019-05-01T00:39:59+00:00

Sorry, if that would be my wife? Instant divorce. Doesn't matter the costs.

1st: This is disrespectful AF. You just DONT TO THIS if you are marreid and have the slightest emotional intelligence.

2nd: Conclusion: she knows EXACTLY what she is doing, She even planned this. I call it "cheating with announcement"

3rd: "Playing dump" - As I said, she knows exactly what she is doing, and also that she shouldn't doing it. She is not only totally aware whats going on, she is mocking him. and tells him though the lines "You are a stupid dumbfuck, while I go out and have fun!"

Dicorce her. right now. And strip her as much as you can!

FactCheckOnTheFly · 2019-05-01T01:08:28+00:00

This is a shit test so large it needs its own septic tank.

smfuel87 · 2019-05-01T02:18:40+00:00

If you know 1/100th of what runs through the mind of men getting railroaded like this, with how badly they get fucked by their personal network, the legal system and society, you'd NEVER spend a fraction of a moment around another man's wife. Just because events and their causes are repressed in the media, it doesn't mean they aren't happening in droves. All men have a breaking point and the last thing you should want to be is target number one or two when his anger and discontent hits critical mass.

keithrockz · 2019-05-01T00:54:54+00:00

I say bring back the scarlet "A"on her forehead..she deserves nothing except a kick in the ass out the door but she will wind up with everything.... as usual

heyheyitsdatboi · 2019-05-01T02:57:17+00:00

What sucks is this whole ordeal was supposed to save money but I have a feeling the guy isn’t paying a dime and the wife is actually paying the way for this “ex” boyfriend of hers.... on the husbands dollar...

thefilthyhermit · 2019-05-01T03:45:00+00:00

When he gets home, he'll get her back just the way he left her. Crying and freshly fucked.

Devilsgun · 2019-05-01T04:25:49+00:00

I had a woman tell me that she wanted to marry <redacted> but have MY baby once... Her next trick was to try and convince him to have me move into their basement, which I am 100% certain would have resulted in a lot of me boning her while <redacted> was out making money... Now TBF at the time I was fucking her on the side a bit anyways, but moving in was a step too far for me so I declined.

Wifey here is getting hot boned on the regular by the "roomie" ex, there's no doubt about it. Hubby is fronting the BetaBux and providing the rent for Casa Del Puta and Honey Wifey is getting Chadboned PLUS buying them both Starbucks after the squirtin' with Husbo's cash... He's getting played as fuck on deployment, what a classic tale. Hell, even I'VE been there done that going Full Metal Jody Mode back in the day because I was a loose fucking cannon, and they were VERY willing...

762Rifleman · 2019-05-01T06:14:48+00:00

"You got a girlfriend, Swafford!"

"Sir, yes, sir!"

"Bullshit! Jody's bangin her right now! Drop and gimme 25 for every time he fucks her this month!"

AshyBoneVR4 · 2019-05-01T06:24:40+00:00

"This is failing, but I don't want to waste all the dedicated time and effort I put into this relationship. I'll just dedicate more time and effort to it."

This way of thinking gets us every time. I realize that anything worth having is hard to keep. I realize that anything you really want in life takes work, but when shit's failing, it's fuckin failing. If you know you tried, you gave it your all, and you busted your ass, what the fuck can you do but run yourself ragged? He sacrificed for that woman, and even tried talking to her about it and she refused to see things from his perspective. Doesn't even seem like she tried. Time to pack it up and throw in the towel. What's probably keeping him in that relationship is the fact that he's gotten used to being with her. That's his new normal and he really cares about her. He's using his emotions to come to his conclusions, when logically, he knows he's in a fucked up situation.

Poor dude.

x6x6x61982 · 2019-05-01T07:43:20+00:00

I don't care if it's an ex or not, any woman suddenly deciding to take a man as a room mate is red flag

[deleted] · 2019-05-01T14:40:51+00:00

Welcome to 2019 clown world, where married couples have roomates...

AbsoluteMercenary · 2019-05-01T07:03:04+00:00

Poor dude, he's suffering from the Sunk Cost Fallacy.

TheImpossible1 · 2019-05-01T04:10:07+00:00

Women are such amazing people aren't they...

OniTan · 2019-05-01T11:24:03+00:00

Seems like a common story. Joining the military while married is not a good idea.

IcebergHermit · 2019-05-01T12:04:04+00:00

Getting married is a bad decision - getting married while in the military is a disaster

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2019-05-01T09:04:01+00:00

There is only one response to this: "Hey, I am glad you found someone new to take care of you. The divorce papers will be in the mail soon."

bigdaveyl · 2019-05-01T15:36:43+00:00

I had a friend that was talking to a woman on an OLD site where something like this was happening.

It ended up her ex-husband was still living with her despite them being legally divorced.

The kicker is that they got divorced when they were 25, and currently have a toddler together. They are in their mid 30's. Do the math (they had the kid after the divorce).

It was hilarious when my friend called her on it: There was a bunch of mental gymnastics going on to justify why she was looking for a "man" while they were still living together and shacked up even though they were divorced. Typical AF/BB.

arkyleslyfox · 2019-05-01T03:34:54+00:00

Sunk cost fallacy

anyoneinamerica · 2019-05-01T13:10:35+00:00

There was a time where men serving in the military had to request permission to get married from their commanding officer. I'm not sure of the details and when it changed, but I think that it may be a good idea to bring the policy back.

ILOVEASIANCUNTS · 2019-05-01T04:09:06+00:00

poor bastard

user_miki · 2019-05-01T10:41:37+00:00

another cuck in the military.

oh_no_aliens · 2019-05-01T20:36:41+00:00

Do people seriously not see the issue with this?? How dumbfuck stupid is this bitch?

Cuntplainer · 2019-05-02T02:51:57+00:00

She's sucking the ex's dick fool!

GamingYourMom · 2019-05-09T20:01:00+00:00

"I've already invested so much into our marriage"

Sunken cost fallacy.

[deleted] · 2019-05-14T11:45:35+00:00

That's what happens when a wife doesn't fear any kind of consequences

jeff_vii · 2019-05-30T08:26:46+00:00

What a weak pathetic excuse for a man. 'I tried to talk to my wife' .. gtfo, If you had an ounce of respect you'd have stuck that sloot on the road

MillieBobbyFrown · 2019-08-05T06:26:08+00:00

"I left for depl-" say no more fam, she's cheating on you.

Dr_Bukkakee · 2019-05-01T11:23:37+00:00

Jody got your girl.

techtesh · 2019-05-03T17:12:31+00:00

Any one wanna bet 20 bucks that the 'best friend', put her feet down because his wife refused to share the room mate?

SnapshillBotFan · 2019-06-10T18:27:52+00:00

He had it coming though. Men should also be responsible for their actions. Don’t marry someone you can’t trust and don’t join the military. Easy.

Title	Now why would any guy have a problem with this?
Author	SirKolbath
Upvotes	825
Comments	152
Date	April 30, 2019 10:56 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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