This is a bit of a bummer because all else considered we’ve been on a few awesome dates, have great communication and connection. I see mostly green flags in him (in the areas that matter to me most). There is no real concerning parts I’ve seen but obviously I know better than to call him HV this early in the game, suffice to say he’s been on the right track so far.
Anywho, I was cleaning up my OLD inbox today and happened to go to his profile to reread it for no real reason. I notice his height is listed as 5’11” but he’s definitely at/very near my eye level and I’m 5’5”. I’m not one of those people that can guess how tall someone is just by looking at them, especially if they’re much taller than me, but because we’ve stood side by side I know this dude can’t be more than 5’6”. I honestly think if he was 6 inches taller than me then it would be noticeable to me. I’d be looking up, not straight ahead, right?
The point is, there is definitely a discrepancy between his actual height and what he’s got listed on his profile. This is something I probably would’ve never noticed had I not reread his profile.
I feel like this is something I’m willing to look past, but that it would go against FDS principles to not address this.
So ladies, what do I do here and how? Do I end things? Do I straight up call him out on it? Do I ask him if there’s anything he wants to come clean to me about his profile? Do I do this in person or over text or a phone call? Suddenly blocking and deleting seems a bit harsh, as to use an analogy the punishment doesn’t seem to fit the crime committed (I’d do this if it was something super egregious like it turns out he’s married).
Thanks ladies, if you do leave advice on what to do I’d really appreciate if you can explain your reasoning as I sometimes struggle with connecting the dots or making an inference.
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