Crossroads

freshona · 2016-09-20T05:21:21+00:00

Oh, you're done and cooked. She tells you to get your rocks off elsewhere, because you're not worthy of the air from her queefs. She is repulsed by you living with your parents, while married. The ONLY thing she wants from you is a baby, but see problem 1. Huh?

And you told her to fuck off from your life, then TOOK IT BACK?

How much have you really lost weight or gotten fit? Lost a kilo, but still weigh a hundred? Can run the stairs (all 7 of them) without being exhausted? Whooo... Also sounds like you're not really passing any tests, shit or cottoncandy.

ParadoxThatDrivesUs · 2016-09-20T05:18:50+00:00

This is the same basic shit you posted three weeks ago. How about you tell us what you're going to do and then actually do it?

For fuck's sake, though, don't have kids.

redearththeory · 2016-09-20T06:35:20+00:00

Told to go get it else where and for her to not find out (lol).

You're 9 months into a MAP, you should be in a position to go fuck other women if you want to. How's your game?

The dread of me improving isnt resulting in more sex and affection

What stage of dread are you on? Sounds like 4.

You might find some strange pussy gives you some perspective, OI, abundance and you learn some important lessons. What's stopping you? Honestly, a lot of men would kill for this, why don't you want to exercise this option?

I feel like ive been chasing her for 5 years now to try and get back the affection

If you need her affection to feel OK, this is a big problem.

she says if only youd / wed to X then wed be happy.

She probably thinks this is true.

She wants kids

I guarantee that the things you don't like about this relationship will get 3 to 5 times worse if you have kids. Right now you can walk away without having to choose between never having a good sex life and losing your kids. Don't have kids.

DrPillPopperMD · 2016-09-20T12:43:54+00:00

I must be lost somewhere - she says she wants a divorce and then says we need to hurry up and have kids.

You live with your parents, so I assume money is an issue, but you want to have a child?!? They're not cheap and def will not save your marriage, just add more stress to an already fragile (maybe shattered) situation.

Sounds to me like you have some oneitis and she is still not giving it up (which confuses me since she wants to have a kid).

I agree with the other poster, have sex with someone else (preferably more than one person) and get some perspective - she fast approaching the wall and wants a kid, ur not in a place to have one yet.

9 months into ur MAP and these are ur results?!? It doesn't seem like you've been married that long so the timetables are a little odd - it seems like she just genuinely doesn't care for you (or care to have sex with you)

Now for the hard truth - if you have a baby with the woman, your a god damn idiot, if you think that will make her fall madly in love with you and increase the passion, it won't. She'll have her baby and you'll get raped in the divorce, it's as simple as that. Then she'll branch swing with ur kid to Chad and ur fucked holding ur balls (prob who she was with the other night)

My advice, from a newbie, fuck other woman (since you have permission), get her off the fuckin pussy pedestal and man the fuck up - you sound fit and shit and are in ur prime, you can do better - don't be a fool and waste ur efforts on someone who seemingly doesn't give shit to be with you.

PS - I get that it's tough now cause you're with ur parents (fix that shit ASAP as its a failure as a man on ur part) - at the minimum, lead with a plan and say this is how we are going to get out - but the real point to wonder is if you can't count on her to follow ur need and be supportive when times get hard, what the fuck in she worth.

Alpha_Rising · 2016-09-20T14:57:42+00:00

Do you really need other guys to tell you what you already know because your wife has made it so obvious? She's not into you anymore and the only reason she keeps you around is so that one day you can be a sperm donor so that she can have a baby so that she can drop her 70-hr/week job, and she resents the fuck out of you because you aren't making that happen. Spoiler alert: even if you started making Beta Bux and got her a 4 bedroom house in a beautiful neighborhood with great schools and made so much money she could be a stay-at-home mom, she'd still find reasons to resent you and not fuck you.

If you had half a brain and half a dick you'd be out the door with your car keys in hand before she even finished her sentence telling you to go fuck someone else. Jesus. Almost every guy would love to hear those words come out of his wife's mouth. You think you can find other women to fuck you? Prove it. What are you scared of?

outplayedRP · 2016-09-20T15:41:58+00:00

You're 30, live with parents and wife, no kids. She tells you to get sex somewhere else, just don't let her find out.

Agree with pretty much everyone else, except that I see no reason to keep this together. She doesn't like you; you don't like her, there are no kids to injure or ruin. Divorce her. Fix yourself before you foist yourself on someone else.

Under absolutely NO circumstances whatsoever should you get your wife pregnant. In fact you should stop having sex with her.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-09-20T16:37:28+00:00

could it be because of the hours shes working 70+ per week

Are you also working 70+ hours a week? How can a Captain lead and inspire lust when the FO is doing most of the hard work?

She always seems to pop her head up when I have something important on to either shit on me or tell her how unhappy she is.

TFB- Typical Female Behavior. They ALWAYS shit test the hardest when you need their support the most. It's not a bug. It is the programming.

Passing the shit tests but not the comfort tests.

Why not? Comfort tests are easy to pass. Are you even able to hug your wife. You can't take her in your arms and reassure her?

shes on the prowl for a bb

I sure would be if I was working 70 hours a week. Do you have a plan to lower her burden? What you describe is pretty ridiculous.

If it were me I would order her to cut back her hours and even quit her job if necessary. I would tell her to trust me and if we lose the house and have to move into something smaller that should be fine. I would tell her we need to cut back because you are going to put a baby inside her next year.

That's just me. It's your call 100%.

The dread of me improving isnt resulting in more sex and affection

Because you are failing comfort tests. You are also validation seeking and want affection from your mommy which is very unattractive. Would you really want to be with a women who likes to fuck little boys?

things will improve when we move somewhere cheaper

JHC! This sounds like a good idea. Who is the leader of this family? Never mind.

I feel like ive been chasing her for 5 years now

STOP chasing. Try leading.

Edit: I am giving you a loaded gun with this advice to have her quit her job and make babies instead. I am sure the consensus is that you are not ready to use it and will fuck this up royally so take it with a bucket of salt.

DarkAges1 · 2016-09-20T06:25:07+00:00

Do you want children with this person? You said she wants children but didn't say you want them. I suspect you don't really want to stay in the relationship but are too scared to end it.

Persaeus · 2016-09-20T12:31:57+00:00

Me 30, ~~her 28 and married~~ no kids.

Sex is once a month. Told to go get it else where and for her to not find out (lol).

we need to have babies soon.

Any woman that would say all this is either already getting strange cock (most likely) or fucked in the head. Not marriage material. Period. NEXT Run cap'n-sav-a-ho; run for your life.

UEMcGill · 2016-09-20T13:06:34+00:00

Why in the world are you going to put a fuck ton of effort into woman who values you so little?

Let's run the McGill2000 translator for you:

. Told to go get it else where and for her to not find out

"I value you so little I want to farm out sexual intimacy while maintaining you for a meager provider"

Give me 1 good reason why you should pack her shit and put it on your parents front steps? One.

blarggggggggggg · 2016-09-20T15:35:37+00:00

Don't fuck other women unless you're in a state that doesn't have at fault divorce.

Her unhappiness is hers, not yours.

She keeps telling me things will improve when we move somewhere cheaper, where she doesn't have to work as many hours / isnt as stressed. I feel like ive been chasing her for 5 years now to try and get back the affection she used to show me, she says if only youd / wed to X then wed be happy.

Just guessing, you do all that and she will find some new excuse to complain about. She is trying to manipulate you with this stuff - "give me what I want and I will stop being a cunt" - but you do it once, they see it works and they just push for more and more and the cycle never ends.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-09-20T16:01:12+00:00

Since you're ass deep in her frame, take her advice. Go find out why other women aren't fucking you and fix that.

Shell come around, or she won't. Either way, you'll get sex again.

ThrowTheEgg · 2016-09-20T06:38:29+00:00

You still living w/mums & pops, aren't you? Did you think about and more importantly do anything the guys advised you in your last ~~whinge~~ ~~puke~~ post?

You are not serious about your life. You don't really care what happens to you. Why don't you just accept it and let shit happen to you? You clearly seem OK with that.

logger1234 · 2016-09-20T20:13:15+00:00

I wanted to do a point by point, and I might later, if I have time, but man, you are clearly in a covert-contract running implementation of the pill.

Why? This:

I feel like ive been chasing her for 5 years now to try and get back the affection she used to show me, she says if only youd / wed to X then wed be happy.

YES. That is exactly how I felt ...

... when I was bluepilling.

Man.

Read What Did you expert her to do?

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4rdmv7/what_did_you_think_she_was_going_to_do/

So that's problem one.

Problem two: She is working 70 hour weeks, you have a job, and you are STILL with your parents? WHAT IS THE DEAL? Do you have six figures of student debt? Do you both work at a gas station? Is she very-low-salaried (paid a small amount to work 40 hours a week) and cheating on you?

Seriously, let us know, we can help figure it out.

screechhater · 2016-09-21T02:30:03+00:00

You last post was 25 days ago ..... what have you done for improvements

Unpluggedredmist · 2016-09-21T13:28:47+00:00

Yo broski I was thrown out of my parents house at 18 it was sink or swim. Guess what I learnt to swim this whole thread is one hamstered up excuse not to move out of your parents. IMHO your a pathetic little cuckold of a man. I hope your parents are ashamed of you. Obviously your wife is. Fuck even I'm ashamed to be commenting on your post your that much of a pussyhole. Stop arguing with everyone and trying to justify your faggotory. Accept the truth. I don't believe you quite understand the matrix yet. Men are built here.

Title	Crossroads
Author	outplayedRP
Upvotes	3
Comments	62
Date	September 20, 2016 5:06 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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