Head - from birthdays only to regular?

Sepean · 2017-08-30T11:26:54+00:00

There's this one weird trick to get daily blowjobs. It's called being alpha.

Instructions are in the sidebar. Just keep working on that and it'll be as easy as unzipping.

470_2_700_nm · 2017-08-30T14:11:06+00:00

There is no cheat code mother fucker. Put in the work.

My experience: I hit lifting and weight loss along with other mapping for 10 months straight. Became under 12% body fat. Then I started to have legitimate IOI's from women, some were totally obvious to my SO. She wasn't used to this and wondered out loud a la comfort test about this behaviour not being normal. I laughed at it, because well fuck, it was funny. I had become a man that woman (including my own) wanted to fuck. And now she was uncomfortable with this fact. I genuinely found this funny.

And the blowjobs returned. Not special ocation blowjobs, or ones given because I convinced her to, but normal healthy relationship kind of blowjobs, ones she actually enjoyed giving.

Become the man your wife wants to fuck. Look in the mirror - you are looking at a man either a woman wants to give head to, or you are not. If the former, you should know you can get one elsewhere within maybe 2 days time. I do. If the latter, then get to work.

Triadis3 · 2017-08-30T11:07:35+00:00

Only a month in.

She still doesn't find you attractive.

Stop doing everything she asks for - you are rewarding shitty behaviour.

Dread is what you're missing. She knows she has you on lockdown, because you just told us you're not willing to pick-up. SHE should not know this.

You're just dipping your toes in. You can't expect changes to appear in your wife until much later. The image of the man she married is a static one, so that's what you'll be until the 1000 foot rope pays out. Only then will she notice the captain has regained control of the ship.

Slow and steady.

There was a post here somewhere about blowjob frequency being a lagging indicator of success.

FF0000_captain · 2017-08-30T12:55:32+00:00

Some women legit do not like receiving oral due to heightened sensitivity or their own hangups about their anatomy. Who cares.

As for not giving oral? In my opinion, a little oral should be on the menu every time you have sex. It's no different than you being unwilling to kiss. She's willing to give head on bdays, which means she's not against it, she's just using it as a reward...when her little beta bitch has been a good boy.

Fuck that shit. If it's that important to you, stop accepting sex with these bullshit terms and conditions. You wouldn't accept starfish every time, would you? This seems equivalent to me. Once she sees you truly DNGAF about what she does or doesn't do, she'll stop using shit like this against you.

At the end of the day, she's giving a half-assed attempt to satisfy you 364 days of the year, because she doesn't think you deserve more. Stick to your MAP and I'm betting 6 months from now will be a different story.

simbarlion · 2017-08-30T10:02:48+00:00

You sound v beta. Look up negotiated desire. She has to want to blow you.

Look up tingles. ( weird term sounds like disease to me).

Sounds like she locked down her beta and turned off the tap.

U/matrixtospartanLV will hopefully fill you in on the rest.

rocknrollchuck · 2017-08-30T14:46:18+00:00

I'm gonna quote Stoney on this one:

It seems otherwise, because most women aren't stupid - but you start pulling ahead, and they step up their game to keep you. It's not the goal, it's an added side benefit. I guarantee any guy taking his self-improvement seriously was pretty much on his way to ditching her when all of a sudden, she found the gym, laid off the Cheetos, and learned that she loved to give blowjobs out of nowhere.

justpickanyusername · 2017-08-30T15:40:10+00:00

Put in the time. It may take a while, but it is worth it. Before MRP I had already started lifting, but I didn't know anything about the red pill. 6'0" and 150lbs the day I started not quite 3 years ago. Skinny fat. Never had a blow job in 13 years of marriage. Crazy no? Who wouldn't want that lanky soft unkempt body of mine? She's my wife. She should just automatically want to right?

Been at this MRP thing for 7-8 months now in addition to the prior years of lifting. I am now closer to 190lbs with a hell of a lot more muscle on my frame. Started owning my shit, stopped walking on eggshells, and pushing boundaries. I dress and groom well now and have an athletic build. I get IOI's now just out and about. I have become someone that women want to fuck.

Wife has now started exercising herself and sucking my cock for the first time in our marriage. Hmmm... interesting...

Stay the course captain.

red-sfpplus · 2017-08-30T16:34:28+00:00

We live in Texas and our AC went out a few weeks ago and we had to stay in a hotel for 3 days while the ordered parts and fixed it. It was business as usual while I dealt with a crisis many beta pussies would delegate to their wife.

Had a room with two queen size beds, wife and I in one and the kids in the other a few feet away.

I got head the first night at 1:00am when she went down under the covers and the next day she took me in the bathroom when I got home from work.

Just keep working on OYS and being a true man no women would say no to. When she finally realizes you are the prize because you have realized this, then your wife will be giving you head under the sheets in a hotel with your two kids sleeping a few feet away.

If you want head then make that expectation clear in non verbal ways. How to do this is all on the sidebar.

matrixtospartanatLV · 2017-08-31T00:59:09+00:00

"How do I get her to give me head?"

Become the man she wants to suck.

She will suck YOU, when YOU no longer suck.

IF you have really been working out '6 days a week for years,' then your body is not the problem.

It's your masculinity.

She wants to suck on your masculinity, your Alpha-ness.

Like everyone else has so eloquently told you already, keep it up. (Sorry, couldn't resist)

And don't be in a hurry.

You're building something here.

YOU.

Actually, think of it more like a renovation. The faster you go, the more mistakes you make, the more shit you'll have to spend more time going back to fix.

One month.

Put this on the back burner. Don't get distracted by it. Work your dread level metric out to five months, WITH ALL THE ASSOCIATED READING/WORK DONE, and then revisit it.

Rian_Stone · 2017-08-30T12:05:51+00:00

I love my wife and am focused on learning how to become the man that everyone else here also wants to be.

cutting this shit out is your first step. Irrational confidence and tingle generation are your goals. you want blowies on the regular, thats all

alphabeta49 · 2017-08-30T23:58:03+00:00

My wife has never been interested in giving head. Until the last couple years. It seems she has discovered an interest in learning how my cock works. The other night, in fact, she went down on my merely with the encouraging pressure of my hand on the back of her head. A few minutes later, I was ready to fuck her (she just came off her period, and I ain't about to part the red seas, so I was beyond horny). Funny, she was incredibly wet already. Just from sucking on my dick!

Couldn't possibly be related to the reduction in my bf%, ownership of my own home and vehicles, amazing dad skills, constant flirting/teasing/slapping, some very visible dread, and my ability to not care if she gives me blow jobs or not. Couldn't be that.

nineworldseries · 2017-09-06T16:35:55+00:00

Bye, Felicia

Title	Head - from birthdays only to regular?
Author	alwaysdoubledown82
Upvotes	3
Comments	26
Date	August 30, 2017 9:53 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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