How do you deal with permanent STD and dating

magnamu · 2022-09-28T12:50:57+00:00

You have oneitis for a chick you have not even met yet and that way of thinking will sabotage you more than dick blisters.

I take pity on op though. I was gonna tell you about my cold sores. I had it since college in the 90s before there were good pills. Was gonna tell you about getting treated for genital warts 15 yrs ago, how theres no test for men with hpv, no way of knowing if I still carry it or if its the cancer causing kind. But I have a better word of advice for you.

I have turned down awesome hot chicks who disclosed genital herpes to me. Hypocrite, yep. Funny as hell considering back in the day I plowed raw through enough skanks theres no way I was not exposed by women who didnt care or know enough to disclose. The good news I have for you is chicks with herpes are the coolest girls. With all these women I thought I really lucked out before the big reveal. They are on their best fuckin behavior, because they have the same shame you do op. Call it natural dread? Dunno but I say you have no good reason to not tap into that sweet herpes puss. Do it for me op.

PillUpAss · 2022-09-28T10:47:44+00:00

You control what you can control.

https://markmanson.net/std-guide

PutABabyInThat · 2022-09-28T04:52:21+00:00

Sounds like you're still experiencing a bit of denial. It's not going away. You need to fully accept that you have this. That's the only way you'll be able to make any real progress.

it's really hard for to me to think of myself as the prize when I have herpes

There is no other prize. You're the only thing you get. This life.. is it. You can either fight it and be unhappy, or you can embrace it and get the most out of it.

SBIII · 2022-09-28T07:28:58+00:00

Future wife?

Already searching for Oneitis, P2.

Herpes motherfucker.

Purity-Of-Essence · 2022-09-28T21:05:12+00:00

I have cold sores and take a daily 200mg acyclovir. With this I have 2 attacks per year. Without it, the attacks come once a month and sometimes weekly. In three decades with my wife I have never passed it on.

You need to get a feel for the prodrome and cease any contact until your sure it's an attack or not.

Prodrome on the lips, face or nose feels like an itch or tingle or slight swelling. A "fat lip" feel. Sometimes I have bitten the inside of my mouth and realised it was a prodrome.

I can't help with what it feels like at the other end. Good luck.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2022-09-28T04:45:27+00:00

Having herpes is outside of your control now.
Trust yourself to take the precautions (within your control) to not transmit it to others.
???
Continue life?

WolfofAllStreetz · 2022-10-18T19:51:30+00:00

90% of all Adult Film stars have or have had HSV2 fyi. Its way more common than you think.

Get on a good antiviral daily.

Lysine and Zinc for immune system.

sicrm · 2022-09-28T12:17:44+00:00

google HSV2 dating app and there’s some options.

omured · 2022-09-28T11:03:07+00:00

If standard medicine is not helping, you can try "out of the box" medicine. I do not have experience with herpes, but in my life (49) I have tried homeopathy and chinese acupuncture, with good results.

Get an appointment with a good profesional, explain your situation, get feedback, and if it seems ok, give it a try. Worst case, you will be at the same point where you are now, with a new experience you can use for your social works.

An additional way I can suggest is read through this book: "the healing power of illness" from Thorwald Dethlefsen and Rudiger Dahlke. You can probably get some more insights about what is happening with this herpes, looking from a psicoterapeutic approach. Very good book, easy to read, and still very useful.

We_Are_All_One · 2022-09-28T15:31:49+00:00

Germ theory has been a 200 year old lie.

https://whatreallymakesyouill.com/theres-no-such-thing-as-a-sexually-transmitted-disease-2-2/

We_Are_All_One · 2022-09-28T12:07:24+00:00

There are no such thing as sexually transmitted diseases.

When the body becomes so toxic it goes into one or more of several detox modes.

Discharging toxins through the skin is one method. A Cold sore is an example of this.

The body uses the skin essentially as a third kidney.

The orifices are sometimes used as one or more of these waste dumps.

Sometimes, one partner in a relationship can "catch" a genital disease while the other doesn't.

This is because the toxic discharge is not contagious.

However, it is not unusual to have both partners discharging in a similar fashion.

This is due to the fact that people who are in a relationship are often participating in the same lifestyle and therefore are consuming and are exposed to the same toxins at the same frequency, creating the illusion of contagion.

Furthermore, when one is discharging from the skin there will be a high concentration of bacteria and/or fungus feeding upon the dead and damaged tissue.

These microbes are themselves discharging toxic waste.

Therefore if one were to have sex with a discharging/detoxing person, the genital skin of the healthy person can become quite irritated by the friction with the microbial waste in their partner's genital area and develop a temporary rash which creates another illusion of contagion.

Furthermore still, the medication that is prescribed for these "conditions" is itself toxic and being designed to suppress the pain of the detox process also stops the toxins from being discharged, increasing the bodies toxic load. This guarantees more detox events in the future, perpetuating the process indefinitely which itself creates another illusion of chronic disease, this of a seemingly sexual nature.

There is also the phenomena of recurring channel detox. When the body establishes an open detox channel from a particular area, it can leave that channel open over long periods of time, perhaps for life, and as long as we keep poisoning ourselves it will keep outflowing from that spot.

If this happens in the genital area it is mistaken as an infectious chronic genital disease by mainstream medicine.

It's also important to acknowledge how bias human beings are to remembering things in a way which absolves them of accountability and/or in a way which reinforces previously held beliefs and education.

We hear lots of anecdotes about people catching an std after sex when in fact it is likely the symptoms were beginning to emerge already (due of course to toxic lifestyle choices) though by change the healing event didn't peak until soon after a sexual exchange and so the sexual encounter is blamed.

This kind of biased interpretation of past events is equally responsible for the illusion of contagious flu and cold, etc, symptoms emerging after an encounter with a person or group of people.

olebobman · 2022-09-30T05:01:35+00:00

I'm also new to the RP and I'm building and defining my frame along they way.

Based on everything you wrote, you haven't even touched the sidebar. Oneitis? Check. Over investment? Check. No mention of lifting? Check. No mention of sidebar readings? Check. Check. Check. Get back to the basics and the fundamentals of what this place is all about.

MassiveGround · 2022-10-21T18:30:01+00:00

I would consider you as a consolidation prize.

Title	How do you deal with permanent STD and dating
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Date	September 28, 2022 4:29 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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