My LTR is a great girl I have no complaints at all she adds a lot of value to my life and we get along very well. I only have one issue. She entertains her orbiters quite a bit. And when I say entertain. I mean responses. She will say she has a boyfriend say it’s me but she still continues talking to them nothing overboard but still. She doesn’t ignore them. That or I constantly see guy sending her Snapchat. I don’t think she responds but the fact that she has them it’s quite annoying. Also catch her liking pictures on social media. Is this something I should address. It a minor thing that I’m sick of worrying about.

can I also do it in a way that doesn’t seem insecure?

I was thinking about saying “is there a reason you entertain every guy that hits on you? Do you want me to set you up on a date?” But say it playfully.

Or the old “my girlfriend isn’t going to be entertaining every guy who messages her”