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InconspicuousWand/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 04:11 PM
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Victim PukeInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP17/10/18 06:29 PM
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Field ReportInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP10/06/18 06:06 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:09 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP04/07/18 12:25 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP05/10/17 09:16 PM
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Field ReportInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP06/10/18 05:36 AM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP12/07/18 11:13 PM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP25/08/18 10:35 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP21/06/18 08:55 PM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP30/10/18 10:17 PM
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Victim PukeInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP02/10/18 04:44 PM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP13/06/18 08:48 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP19/08/18 02:04 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP15/09/18 05:17 PM
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Field ReportInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP21/09/18 12:56 AM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP02/09/18 01:07 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:10 AM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP24/09/18 03:33 PM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP05/10/17 03:25 PM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:22 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP08/06/18 03:39 AM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:11 PM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:01 AM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP21/06/18 08:56 PM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP07/06/18 10:19 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:18 AM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:36 AM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP18/08/18 08:25 PM
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Field ReportInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP14/06/18 02:13 AM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:24 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP05/03/18 11:59 AM
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Red Pill ExampleInconspicuousWand/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 05:15 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP14/09/18 01:25 AM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:29 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP18/08/18 09:34 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:44 AM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP14/09/18 01:30 PM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP22/10/18 10:05 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:23 AM
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Field ReportInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:32 AM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP03/09/18 07:58 AM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP01/11/17 10:56 AM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP05/10/17 03:02 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:11 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:24 AM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP24/06/18 03:51 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP18/08/18 01:17 PM
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InconspicuousWand/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:54 PM
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Basic QuestionInconspicuousWand/r/askMRP07/10/17 08:16 AM
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That was everything I needed to read. I need to read that everyday for the next month. I am doing the bare minimum I ain’t owning shit the way I should. Thank you. Idk why I haven’t read that before. I need no more responses from anyone. I needed that
/r/askMRP22/10/18 11:07 PM
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Roids I mean
/r/askMRP22/10/18 10:15 PM
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I’m feeling this right now. I got sad today for some reason. I need to call my boys and keep busy
/r/askMRP22/10/18 09:30 PM
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That’s good for you man. But this is my mission and it doesn’t include her anymore. I’m relieved
/r/askMRP19/10/18 12:20 AM
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I don’t need the dog. I don’t need anything or anyone.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 12:17 AM
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Appreciate the brutal honesty. But this shit had to be done. I have so much work to do on myself and I just couldn’t fucking it do it given the situation. I tried. I hated it. I need her out of the picture. Now I will work on myself. I was upset about the dog when I wrote this. Was emotional because of it. And prob came off as that but fuck it. I needed her out of the picture and i knew it a long time ago and was too pussy to do it because of excuses like rent. Or afraid of hurting her. So I thr…
/r/askMRP19/10/18 12:13 AM
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I couldn’t take the nagging. I couldn’t put up with her. it was too hard to juggle her and all my other shit going on
/r/askMRP17/10/18 10:17 PM
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Lift. And honestly put together a plan for the months to come. She added a lot of value that will definitely be missed. I will need to take on new responsibilities. Finances. Work. I will use this time to get everything organized. And maybe fuck a plate to keep my mind off her
/r/askMRP17/10/18 07:01 PM
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Thanks man
/r/askMRP17/10/18 06:47 PM
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No
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:22 PM
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Yes
/r/askMRP06/10/18 11:36 PM
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I’d feel more guilt than anything
/r/askMRP06/10/18 06:42 PM
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Good plan. I’ll see you over at OYS next week
/r/askMRP06/10/18 05:49 PM
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To be able to what. Be a totally jerk?
/r/askMRP06/10/18 05:46 PM
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That’s where I’m at right now. Figuring it out. I’ve lived my whole life as a drug addict who literally just zombied through life without thought. Planning. Or thinking. So I’m trying to go deep as fuck and figure my shit out. I love coming here and you guys ask me shit that makes me think about “why the fuck am I doing this?” Etc. I appreciate that
/r/askMRP06/10/18 05:45 PM
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this is where I wonder what’s really going on in my head. In a huge sense I don’t care if she does. I been saying I don’t care. But then I care enough to ask this question. Why? Maybe the feeling of not wanting to be a totally jerk to her. But it’s almost she leaves me no choice. It’s like she’s doing all this stuff. I just don’t want to deal with. And just remove my attention. Constantly bc she sucks to be around. And then I think. Well she seems lost by why all this is going on. Maybe I should…
/r/askMRP06/10/18 05:04 PM
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I’m realizing that. And I just. Don’t. Fucking. Want to. Is it because I have fucked my life upside and am slowly picking up the pieces? I’m not sure. I’m sticking it out until I figure that out. But I’m telling you bro. I make plans for us and I’d rather do them alone most of the time. Just miserable for no reason it’s like she looks for it. Because she wants everything done her way. And when she doesn’t get it. She literally acts like a child. I just don’t want to deal with it. I have so much …
/r/askMRP06/10/18 04:58 PM
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You’re right. I swear bro my head feels like it’s been in a blender. Idk how to fix it or even where to begin. I feel like I just woke from a shit storm and everything is thrown everywhere and I’m here trying to worry about finances. Mission. My sick dog. My side business. My annoying wife. My addiction to women and validation. My new place need so much work done to it. And I need even more work. I’m taking on so much. I guess it’s overwhelming and finding a starting point has been rough. I’m al…
/r/askMRP06/10/18 03:48 PM
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Got you. I will be posting more
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:31 PM
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I just don’t care dude. I don’t.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:25 PM
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I do
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:24 PM
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That guy was a genius. I guess I realize I have a way tougher road and I think (a lot actually) given such a fuck up of my past and the results of her behavior because of my actions. Maybe it’s just best to leave. Get my shit together. And move on.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:15 PM
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I’m fun man. She’s a harpy cunt. I hate being around her
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:07 PM
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She’s just a cunt dude. I literally have tried everything to change this. For her. And then I realize. Fuck her. I need to do this for me. So I just don’t care. I’d love to make it work but I literally don’t like being around her anymore. My favorite days are when she’s at work
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:05 PM
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I give her tons of comfort. She’s still being a cunt. So idc
/r/askMRP06/10/18 01:59 PM
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I used to love this girl so much. Now I don’t really want to be around her. Ive been trying. I really have. But It’s like nails on a chalkboard. It’s constantly bitching. So I just treat her the like oldest teen in the room. This is how I been keeping my sanity.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 06:00 AM
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I get what you’re saying but I also reached a point where I don’t care enough. I just don’t care. I really don’t even like being around her anymore bc she’s just not fun to be around for the majority of the time. So if she’s not going to be fun. I am. Because she has been sucking the fun from me for a while and I’m trying to gain it back. Starting with myself. I’m at a point where I’d rather just be myself and live how I want and her either fall into place or Leave. I literally have 3 other wome…
/r/askMRP06/10/18 05:50 AM
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You don’t get her to lower it. You climb that bitch
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:22 AM
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I see it fine. Must have got banned. What’d you do?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 10:06 PM
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Dude I really relate to all this shit and glad you can relate to what I’m experiencing. I’m going to shoot you a pm if you don’t mind
/r/askMRP02/10/18 10:02 PM
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In what matter
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:59 PM
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Good point
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:37 PM
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But this is about sex not drinking. I don’t really have a problem with not drinking. Are you saying when I want to fuck take it? Lol
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:32 PM
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Damn alright time to get to it. I guess that means even a chick is begging to fuck me i should decline
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:13 PM
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So pretty much monk mode.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:10 PM
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I will look into this. Isn’t it like taking a low dose or something? I read about it in the past
/r/askMRP02/10/18 07:33 PM
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You’re right. I’m deleting it.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 07:29 PM
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No idea. I’m addicted to them.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 07:27 PM
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I know but it gets me so much pussy.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 06:05 PM
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This is great advice. Can I bet honest here and say that I am horrified of that. Deleting social media bc I know the attention will be gone? But to be far I guess it’s normal. When I first tried to stop heroin I was horrified I’d never feel good or have fun without it and that was bullshit. My question now would be how do I figure out if this is something I should fix or if it’s actually something I want to do? Be single and spin plates. I know you’re going to say. Do what you want to do. But I …
/r/askMRP02/10/18 06:04 PM
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I am very familiar with nal. I have used vivitrol. The shot version for months. The issue is it doesn’t fix the problem when you come off it’s still there. I haven’t taken nal for like 6 months. I feel better actually but of course the problems are there to face
/r/askMRP02/10/18 06:00 PM
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I did. For months. Then I got it back bc of this shit. It’s an issue. I need to delete it again.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 05:12 PM
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I do then I post pictures of it on social media so women will know I do fun shit. I disgust myself
/r/askMRP02/10/18 05:03 PM
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Fake number bro
/r/askTRP02/10/18 04:08 PM
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What are you here for? I mean really what is your purpose here. You want us to tell you how to get your ex back? Wrong sub. And the RP answer to this is something you’re not willing to do. So I ask again. What are you here for?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:08 PM
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Meditate. You can’t have less emotions. Emotions are the symptom. You can predict when or how they will pop up. All you can do is observe them instead of reacting or letting them control you
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:09 PM
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I wasn’t responding to the picture. I honestly didn’t even look at it. I was responding to his original comment
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:12 PM
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Ok only reason I did the audio book is because I can listen to it while I’m at work.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 05:48 PM
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Jesus Christ. You think a fat bald guy has high T levels? Or that a woman looks at him and thinks he does? What I’m saying is being bald doesn’t fucking mean anything
/r/askTRP25/09/18 05:38 PM
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Being fat isn’t a sign of high t levels. Women don’t give a fuck about being bald. They care about you not being a lazy piece of shit. Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP25/09/18 04:30 PM
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That shit always happens I was even hesitant to listen to NMMNG bc I been through it twice and figured I remembered and got everything that was in it. I wasn’t even 5 mins in and I was like. Holy shit. I’m still a nice guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 04:23 PM
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I did bro. That’s how I listened the first time but my ADD kicks the fuck in and it’s tough. I’ll get through it tho
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 03:37 PM
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OYS #1 u/weakandsensitive suggested I end up here. So I’m listening. background I am a recovering heroin user. I am currently a year and 2 months clean. I was using off and on mostly on for about 12-15 years. I’m lucky to be here. Overdosed. Stole drugs from my old place of work (hospital) was in anesthesia and almost went to jail because of it. Twice but can say I am blessed enough to not only be free and on a better path. But to be alive. Went to in-patient rehab. Went to out-patience rehab. W…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 12:40 PM
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I haven’t even thought about actually doing the OYS. I’m going to start. And she found out I actually asked the girl for her number. Idk if she saw a message or what so I did start the problem. At some point I told her last night. “Look I got her number. It was just a text. I’m not spending anyone time on this. If you want to leave over a text do it. But I’m not wasting anymore time on this” Now I guess I have to figure out what I need to do bc I think I’m always going to cheat on her when the o…
/r/askMRP24/09/18 10:06 PM
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How’d I know you were going to say that shit lmao. Thank you. I have an update. And I’d like to thank you for kicking me in this mindset right at the right time. I come home from work. She said she found a t shirt in the laundry and washed it and she didn’t know who’s it was. (I had people over for my birthday this past weekend both male and female. She worked). Told her okay. Idk who’s it is. She goes you don’t remember who was here? I said. Yea. Jason. Tim. Sarah. Pat. Alexa. Tyra. And Vince. …
/r/askMRP24/09/18 10:01 PM
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Over came a heroin addiction. continue to get into the best shape of my life. Found my purpose. Got 3 promotions in the last year in a trade I came in knowing nothing about. Got someone to not only pay for my schooling that I start next week but going to hire me as a project manager right out of school making good money. Started running a side personal training gig. Digging myself out of debt. Organizing and planning my life more than ever. Might not mean shit to you bc I didn’t post it in the O…
/r/askMRP24/09/18 09:48 PM
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You the man bro.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 09:41 PM
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So what brought you here
/r/askMRP24/09/18 08:28 PM
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How did you get there?
/r/askMRP24/09/18 08:22 PM
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I know and the problem there is I was raised to believe the same shit she does. I’m trying to unlearn that. Because not only was I raised to believe that it’s bad to text another woman when in a relationship. It’s been programmed In me that it feels bad too. But deep down I just want to do it. Keep my game sharp and I see it as harmless. I even see cheating as harmless on the mans part. (Hypocrite? Probably) I can see why she doesn’t see it that way bc I would have agreed with her before finding…
/r/askMRP24/09/18 08:13 PM
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She’s more worried if I’m cheating than what I think. I have cheated before
/r/askMRP24/09/18 08:10 PM
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And right here is the level I need to get at. This is where I inspire to be. Because right now any of those responses would go a totally different way. It would be why not? Because that’s not something you do when you’re in a fucking relationship. makes me feel special. Wow. You’re pathetic you need other girls attention to feel good about yourself. if I didn’t want you I wouldn’t be here. You know I got options Are you fucking kidding me? I would never do this shit to you. this is not how a rel…
/r/askMRP24/09/18 08:04 PM
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This is where I know I have cracks in my frame. No I don’t care. In fact I re added them and continued to message them. Do I care about how she reacts. I want to not. And when I say that I mean I want to be able to keep frame when she does and I can’t. She ask me questions and I fuck up and break frame. “Why do you need to be getting phone numbers and messaging other women?” “I’m not okay with this. Why do you have to disrespect me “ “Do you think it’s okay to be doing this in a relationship?” “…
/r/askMRP24/09/18 07:14 PM
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How am I acting like a bitch
/r/askMRP24/09/18 06:30 PM
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Mac book but I don’t think she knows the pw. It’s something on her phone. I re added the number and she was on her phone and asked why I re added it
/r/askMRP24/09/18 06:03 PM
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This is where I fucked up. I have cheated in the past. So I guess I kind of deserve this but this is still overboard
/r/askMRP24/09/18 04:16 PM
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I do. I just want to figure out how I wanted to handle this before asked any other questions and got called a faggot. Lol She works so I won’t get to see her for 2 days. I think I’m going to have a boundary talk. But I know she will try to say. Me texting other women or having their numbers saved is crossing hers. She knows I don’t work with many women. And my track record isn’t the best. But come on this is too much. And I know she has dudes numbers from before and idgaf but I can’t bring it up…
/r/askMRP24/09/18 04:02 PM
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I don’t though. It’s just mine unless she went in and somehow changed it to do that. She had my Apple ID password I think but I changed it right when I realized she had access
/r/askMRP24/09/18 03:50 PM
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Just read this wow. Read my last post. She is tracking my shit. And I tried that yesterday. Kissing her. Fucking with her. She flipped out “this isn’t a joke! I need you to be serious” I ignore it and kept fucking with her. Trying to kiss her as she turned her head and she laughed. Then I knew I had her. And she lighted up a little. I’m working on it
/r/askMRP24/09/18 03:45 PM
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Red pill is amoral. Do what you want.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 08:11 PM
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I didn’t give anything trickle truths. It’s written In my previous post. I’m not getting high so it’s irrelevant
/r/askMRP21/09/18 04:27 PM
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You’re 1000% right about my track record and that causing a lot of the issues.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 04:25 PM
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You’re right every part of it. I know to do B but I’m so caught up in my shit I didn’t realize it was that simple. On the contrary the fact she called to question my were about annoyed me a bit. So I saw it as bad behavior and didn’t feel like kissing I actually wanted to upper cut her but I showered instead lol
/r/askMRP21/09/18 02:05 PM
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And I dismissed it as soon as I realized that
/r/askMRP21/09/18 02:03 PM
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I go 6 days a week man. I am ripped the fuck up and I juice. Lifting is not the issue
/r/askMRP21/09/18 02:16 AM
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I wish it was that easy with her it isn’t. Other women I’ve dealt with yes. Her. She’s a royal pain in the ass. Our dog went to the vet. I have business things that happen. I need to keep my phone on. I wanted to make sure nothing was wrong with the dog. Once I realized there wasn’t. I said I’ll talk to you after. I feel I handled that fine. I was at the gym.... come give me a hand to get the spots I can’t reach.... She would ignore it and continue asking where I was. Why I’m avoiding the questi…
/r/askMRP21/09/18 01:38 AM
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Yes just said I do.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 01:36 AM
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Was spending way too much time on it. And honestly I started to became addicted to the validation.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 05:32 PM
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Yes that’s def why I did. It was becoming out of hand
/r/askTRP15/09/18 05:30 PM
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The votes don’t mean shit in this sub anymore. It’s filled with lazy autistic incels who don’t read the side bar. Play video games and talk about how alpha they are because they called a girl a bitch. This sub is washed up man. And I been here for a long time to see it happen. Seriously tho. No offense to your post it wasn’t a bad post it just is redundant. Very redundant
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 10:52 PM
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Yes especially the third example. When it comes to status I get it. I’m the boss I act this way. It’s in the mist of conversations. Usually with a women or my women that I get confused. Usually those “certain circumstances” you mentioned when I’m not sure if it’s appropriate to treat her like a teen. But yes that helps
/r/askTRP14/09/18 03:37 PM
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Saying thank you doesn’t me they get it. It means thank you for the mental masturbation. Usually. They’re the same guys posting about the same shit next week in asktrp. Read the sidebar, you won’t need this particular post.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:40 PM
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I think I’ve read every post known to man on frame and for some reason I still get confused at times
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:39 PM
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If they actually read everything in the sidebar. And don’t understand this basic stuff. They are never going to get it from this post or the same variation of it that gets posted every week. That’s what the ask sub is for if they still don’t get it after reading the sidebar. This is just mental masturbation for the lazy. I’d say 80% of this sub has not actually read the sidebar Not to mention the stuff in this post aren’t some crazy hard concepts that are hard to wrap your head around
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:22 PM
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I also have to work on my DEERing. I always will do shit that will not be “acceptable” to society and feel the Internal need to come up with reasons why it’s okay for me to be doing incase I am ever questioned. When in reality. I don’t need to explain shit to anyone.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:16 PM
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I see what you’re saying. Having good frame is what I defined but the actual definition is different. I guess what I meant is “ having good frame can be simplified to that”
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:14 PM
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Thank you. I always fucking ask why and dig. It’s time to start meditating again and becoming present.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:12 PM
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I get what you’re saying but again. In that situation it is just being sure of yourself and holding that down or sticking to it
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:02 PM
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Again that comes down to just being sure of yourself and your decisions/actions
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:00 PM
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This is something for asktrp sub. Go there with this before it gets deleted. Also. Sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:33 PM
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You’re right man. It was my life. My habit. Over and over for years. Drink. Drug. Party. Fuck. And through the mist of all that. My mission was finding my drug and women. Getting women was all I cared about besides getting high. It’s like I knew nothing else. So this is definitely a change in more ways than one. I look back on all the women I slept with and think damn I miss those times. I miss that chick. She was hot. How the hell did I get her. Etc. It doesn’t depress me enough to make me want…
/r/askMRP14/09/18 12:34 PM
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or do you just miss the sensation and gratification from spinning plates It’s this 100%
/r/askMRP14/09/18 12:29 PM
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That why we always repeat sidebar when they post.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 12:28 PM
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Wrong we are promoting laziness. Guys who actually read the sidebar don’t need to rehear what is stated over and over again in the sidebar and here every week. Only the lazy do.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 12:27 PM
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Don’t. He’s lazy. This is all in the sidebar. You’re wasting your time
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:27 AM
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Not to be a dick man but this is not only in the sidebar. It’s posted here once a week in some form or other. it’s RP 101 brother
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 04:11 AM
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Yes 2 times honestly. But it’s been a while though and I was probably high as a kite through both times. It could probably use another read.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 03:29 AM
1

Good shit bro. I think I’m so used to doing the wrong thing my whole life I’m always trying to do the “right” thing. And I’m basing it off society instead of my own rules. So I look for confrontation that what I’m doing is “okay” instead of allowing it to be okay because I said so. Idk why I always feel so much guilt for my actions. Fuck I got a lot of work to do. Thanks again man.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 03:13 AM
1

Did you just bring this up in conversation? A while back I tried this exact thing and she was so confused on where it was coming from Her last words were. I don’t want to know about it till it happens. So I said okay. But I know she would go crazy if I told her when it happened. But she wouldn’t leave bc if it. So I’m better doing it. Not telling her. If she finds out. Then I tell her and own it. She cries. I Own it. She gets over it. I think this isn’t more of me doing it because I have. It’s m…
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:57 AM
1

Thank you 🙏
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:38 AM
1

I do the only thing I don’t agree with in is you need variety? Create your slut I have. But I still need new the unknown. I can cheat and have cheated am ready for any consequences I just am lacking the abundance I had in the past to cheat. Now I’m Being a bitch about it
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:26 AM
1

So that’s what I was doing. I got caught 3 times. She didn’t leave. I owned it. She made it clear she wasn’t cool with it each time. But she never left. The issue I’m finding now with that is we live together now. Makes it a lot harder to fuck randoms. And a couple that I have found weren’t cool with the fact I have a wife. They “felt bad for her” even though we still made out. But no sex was had. So I thought about doing that but I found it a lot harder to do with a wife. So maybe when I say I’…
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:22 AM
3

When I went to rehab for heroin. In my out patient program my counselor recommended this to me. But for me it’s not even so much the sex. Idc that much about the sex. It’s the challenge to getting there that I’m addicted to. I won’t just fuck anything. It has to be the hot girl who no one can get. Or someone I find really attractive.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:18 AM
1

If I look at that perspective I’d have to say she brings a lot to the damn table. Idk what more I could honestly ask for in a woman knowing what I know. The question of her value is it’s there. So now why do I care so much about random pussy? It must be a validation thing, my wife is my slut. But I always loved new/variety and it was what I was used to. I was known in my group as the chad. They looked up to me because of it. It became my identity in a way. The challenge and constant conquer of f…
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:15 AM
11

Tried NA. Failed. Tried. Rehab. failed Tried therapy. Failed. Tried. Suboxone. Not for me. Only thing left was to kill my drug dealer... No in all reality. I got on a shot called vivtrol it literally doesn’t allow you to get high for a whole month. No matter how much you use. Took the mental fuck out and gave me space For 3 months. In that time period I changed my surroundings. Told my one dealer to never sell to me again. And block me. He respected it. Then when I got off the shot I was able to…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 01:38 AM
2

TRP for sure
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/18 01:35 AM
29

Thanks. That has been the hardest part of this journey
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 05:21 PM
2

When I sit down and weight the pros and cons out on her. The pros significantly out weight the cons. Even though there are def some there. Last year if you weighted the pros and cons out on me. I’d have to say it was the opposite. (With in myself at least). Clearly there has always been value there for her when it came to me. But I’m trying to get to a point where it’s undeniable instead of just mental. (Frame, game, manipulation. etc)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 05:19 PM
17

I see what you mean. I guess I just got a glimpse of how things should work and got excited and I wanted to share
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 04:40 PM
1

I knew someone would say this. But I mean you can have an opinion and outlook on it. If you’re part of this community you have a good understand of how relationships work so when you hear certain things or see certain things happening in front of you. You’re going to analysis it. It’s like working as an accountant. And someone comes along and starts talking about their finances. It’s not really your business but Let’s not act like you wouldn’t be able to understand what’s going on and be thinkin…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 12:29 PM
1

If you provided any type of value maybe I’d think about it.
/r/askMRP02/09/18 08:27 PM
1

This is what I came here for. Yes. Thank you. My last question to you would be. If it is me. What do I do in the meantime to getting to where I need to be. I guess. Stfu and lift lol
/r/askMRP02/09/18 06:38 PM
1

I’m 215. 6 foot. Probably sitting at 9% body fat daily. 8 on good days. My bench is 365 Squats 415 Deadlift 430 I also juice so that’s probably way all of that looks so great.
/r/askMRP02/09/18 05:29 PM
2

What you’re saying makes sense. Here is what I face with that. And maybe it’s just a matter of stop being an apathetic pussy and man up. Get out of her frame. When she has those outburst and ignore it. She feels like I’m not with her in this shit. And I feel bad bc she does do a lot for me. And I don’t give a fuck about her other than feeling bad for her because I don’t give a fuck (maybe the beta still in me). I know for a fact it’s def what you said. She wants attention. But the issue isn’t me…
/r/askMRP02/09/18 05:08 PM
1

???? What the fuck.
/r/askMRP02/09/18 04:39 PM
1

Okay thanks for not just saying “sidebar and lift” Anyway. Here’s my issue with all that in my relationship. She will be annoying. Throw a temper tantrum. I will playful tease her about it. And smack her ass. She won’t change. Bad mood. I don’t want to be around that. So I will remove myself from her direct area. Then the problem becomes. “You don’t show me love. You don’t show me attention” it’s because I don’t like being around her when she’s like that. But the kicker is that removal doesn’t c…
/r/askMRP02/09/18 04:03 PM
1

Yes I lift. A lot. Yes I read the sidebar. Cliché. Anyway. But what you’re failing to see and what I see a lot in some of the ECs lives. that I actually doubt that’s how things really are in real life for them. Is.. The behavior will continue. No matter if you act aloof to it or not. Unless there is a boundaries/guidance/correction. Put into place. Everything I read from most of the ECs is they don’t have conversations with their wives about problems. They just ignore them. That doesn’t fix it. …
/r/askMRP02/09/18 03:09 PM
1

The actually say DONT be yourself. It’s the worst thing you can do. Being yourself is what brought most of us here.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:48 PM
1

You have to give a fuck about something
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:31 PM
1

I mean in the work place. Which he does. He is there to look after everyone and report to the higher ups. But he’s not easy to deal with. He will use that power to his advantage
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:30 PM
1

I do try to ignore him. There’s no reasoning with him. But he’s good at putting you in a corner. He’ll explain things complicated things that’s he understands but no one else does, very fast. then when you ask a question he will say “I already told you. You don’t listen”
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:29 PM
1

He’s not my boss he just has “boss” status in a very unorganized workplace
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:49 PM
3

It’s washed up unfortunately. It will never be what it once was
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:47 AM
1

Explain please
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:34 PM
9

That was my plan. Cool
/r/askTRP19/08/18 02:32 PM
1

Yea man I’ve had girls and a new girlfriend. Still I always think about her. I’d say it’s been 4-5 months
/r/askTRP18/08/18 11:45 PM
1

I keep telling myself that but damn it’s been months.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 09:39 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP18/08/18 05:44 PM
1

Doesn’t k come off as butt hurt
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:42 AM
2

It’s hard for a woman to get a real feel for you off cold approach or sliding in DMs or a quick meet. She’s most likely to take the validation and run with it. I’ve tried both ways my way always. Always works better. She will usually give me a couple days she’s free and I’ll decide from there. And we actually meet, less flaking.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:33 AM
1

Is it bad that I want to tell her I know. I hate being lied to.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 04:28 AM
1

My LtR works nights so she wasn’t home. And I totally agree with new>better
/r/askTRP15/08/18 04:19 AM
1

Writing this I said to myself. I’d say she found some other dude. But I don’t get why she planned to come then bail literally all in a half hour.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:50 AM
1

so what’s the issue? Where do I go from here?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:46 AM
5

It’s so funny this is the advice on here all the time and it never really works. IME this is almost always the worst way to set up a date. If she’s unsure. She will say she’s busy. If not she’ll say she goes and flake. It’s better to get a feel for each other’s schedules and make plans on your off day idc what TRP says. I’m about 50 experiments with this. It always worked wayyy better than above
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:44 AM
6

This is his LtR of course he should have said something. Enforce boundaries and if it don’t stop leave
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:39 AM
1

Instead of lashing back. I want to thanks you first for taking the time to write that. Especially given my seeming thick headed comments prior. I need to Reread it. But at first read It made sense and gave me a little different perspective. I must ask though. In your “helping her to look for the most handsome guy” example What actually was your reasoning for doing that?
/r/askMRP14/08/18 11:36 PM
1

That clearly makes you feel some type of way (you thinking I’m down voting you). Just like when your girl flirts with another guy.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 08:55 PM
3

I cheated on my girl so I have the same issues. In my case it’s my fault so I just withdraw attention, or treat it as a shit/comfort test. If you didn’t cheat and she’s just jealous for no reason or due to something in her past. You need to address it and then leave if she doesn’t change
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:23 PM
3

It has nothing to do with that. If it was abundance, you wouldn’t even bring it up to her because you legit wouldn’t care. Period. This argument is just going back and forth saying the same things. But my point is if you’re bringing it up to her. You already show you care more than you don’t. And there’s a reason for that. And you’re not giving any valid reason why that would be any different than bringing it up about every other guy. You’re just saying my mentality is wrong. But you’re totally …
/r/askMRP14/08/18 08:14 PM
2

I’ve actually done this at every job I ever worked at and never had it back fire. Most dudes can’t handle it and don’t know how to act if it goes bad. But some can That being said it’s better not to do it. I tell that to everyone but I’m a hypocrite for it
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 07:34 PM
1

It’s just the facts of the situation. Why would you say something just to say it. You’re saying it for a reason. The reason being one of those to. Idk I’m a realist and dig deep when it comes to physiology. Surface level. You may just be saying it to joke. But there’s usually another deeper reason. You wouldn’t be saying that about every guy she comes in to contact with. Because you don’t feel that way about them
/r/askMRP14/08/18 06:33 PM
1

You’re just lying to yourself. If you’re saying it there’s a reason for it
/r/askMRP14/08/18 04:42 PM
2

I think the reason men do that. “Oh someone has a crush” is they want to hear the girl say “ew no way” to feel better. Say what you want if you’re bring up about him being a crush or even poking fun at it. There’s some underlying feelings going on there about it. You’re either just trying to cover it up. Or hope to hear here say “ew” to feel better about it. Otherwise it’s pretty pointless to say anything
/r/askMRP14/08/18 04:01 PM
0

Of course it will matter. You can then just leave if you catch her. And shutting up is better than playful shaming. It’s what it portrays to her. Insecurity. If you’re keeping an eye on her you’re not portraying anything, you’re looking out for yourself with out her knowing
/r/askMRP14/08/18 03:32 PM
2

Why? What would poking fun do besides come off as jealous. Even if you’re not saying it in a jealous way and in an “I could careless, go for it” kind of way. It still will have an underlying jealous motive. I’d say just keep doing what you’re doing, STFU about him. But keep and eye out still, till you can prove something. There’s no need to even mention him, it’ll make it seem like you don’t suspect anything and she may be less on her guard if it is happening. In the meantime keep dread high and…
/r/askMRP14/08/18 02:35 PM
3

My buddy is, He’s white. And a pilot and most of his colleges are also white pilots
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 04:28 PM
1

Nope. She actually just hit me up saying she wants both me and the anavar.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 02:50 PM
1

Does there come a point where you stop asking them to hangout if they aren’t down a couple times in a row? I have a plate who we were fucking quite often. I’d hit her up when I was free. She’d come running. For 2 years now. Well the last 3 times she has either not responded or said she was sick. And she might be. But my question is when comes the time we’re I stop trying so I don’t look needy? I told her since I don’t want to be wasting my time. Let me know when she’s free
/r/askTRP11/08/18 06:25 AM
5

Yea that feeling is from the drugs. I know bc I abused them for years. Come off for a year and see what happens. You’ll wish you never did them and will realize all the reasons you thought you needed them were all bullshit to keep you addicted
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:44 PM
-1

We’re not fans. We’re just looking to help all the losers who sit inside on their laptops all day reading theories and typing away without going out and actually doing anything
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:27 PM
6

Hey look it’s “ VAN I spent ALL my time on reddit and none doing this stuff in real life DAALEN” aka the keyboard alpha 😂 Your post history has you commenting on this stuff every 4 mins. Do you even sleep bro? I think it’s time to go outside
/r/askTRP06/08/18 03:18 PM
1

Wait am I missing something? Isn’t this Painfully obvious? And written all in the sidebar?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 08:31 PM
20

Man it’s like some of these guys just can’t handle the fact that some people take roids even though they don’t. I appreciate the time you put into making these and the knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 11:51 PM
4

What does she have to do with what you want to do? She would do a lot of things I hope you wouldn’t do
/r/askMRP13/07/18 12:09 AM
1

we’re halfway across the continent Didn’t need to read any further. I can’t believe a woman has you orbiting her from halfway across the world. Who you never met. On top of that you wrote a novel on here about her. She’s killin it. can’t stop acting like a LTR Because you allow this nonsense Sidebar
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 06:00 PM
1

Alright. If you are almost 50 I find it more believable. Still think you’d lose count somewhere after 100 unless your writing them all down. Or actively tallying them. We tend to exaggerate our N count when we guess
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:38 PM
-1

Over 250 lmfao. Righttt. I went through a period we’re i was sleeping with around 1-2 new women almost every single week. And I’m in the 100s. And it was literally taking up all of my time. If you were really in the 250s which you’re not. You would have lost count somewhere around 100s Not to mention. You would have to be making women your mission instead of your mission to be at this number. I don’t believe that for a second. But that doesn’t matter, anyway.. How old are you?
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:33 PM
2

Lol for an EC he sure gets butt hurt. Breaks frame and DEERs easily. I’m not even trying to be a dick I just am calling what I see. Maybe the mods might want to recheck who they’re giving the EC tag to. He gives good advice but you can tell from his responses on here he doesn’t practice what he preaches. He’d be the first to call someone a faggot if they acted this way towards a woman. Yet he’s doing it to random dudes on the internet who suggest maybe he spends too much time on here
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:47 PM
0

Name calling. You’re so red pilled dude
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:43 PM
3

Wow you do all that stuff and still have time To write a novel DEERing yourself to some “faggots” on the internet. I can only imagine what you do when your “plates” call you a weenie. Point proven.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:33 PM
4

This dude is literally on Reddit all day everyday. Posting in this sub. There’s no way he’s living this shit.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 11:20 AM
-3

A girl is attracted to a hot guy. This isn’t AWALT. This is being a human dude. What is the point of the post. I swear a hot girl will breathe around you guys and you will scream AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 01:35 PM
1

A side what everyone else said. About shutting up and lifting. No they aren’t the same. Guys will always want to fuck a fat girl
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:42 PM
1

Cool
/r/askMRP24/06/18 06:39 PM
1

She most 150% does not have a second phone
/r/askMRP24/06/18 06:02 PM
1

Search verbal I course is optional in married red pill
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:39 PM
1

So there’s no fear in you that she might be cheating and you’d never know and would be walking around like a fool without knowing it?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:43 PM
0

My wife’s text all link to her computer. She’s unaware of this. But I ain’t. I will occasionally check that.
/r/askMRP24/06/18 04:41 PM
1

Yea but she KNOWS for a fact I can get other women. And she’s free to go if she thinks she can do better but I’ll be damned if I’m going to sit around kissing a chick who just had another mans dick in her mouth. Or is cheating on me
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:40 PM
1

Nope don’t even own a system or console
/r/askMRP24/06/18 03:48 PM
1

Now do you take them just for the knowledge or do they give you some sort of cert for completing
/r/askMRP21/06/18 10:28 PM
3

Yes honestly when you put it that way. That’s exactly what’s happening. And when I tell her no. She acts like I don’t do anything around the house. Or in general. But I do But all things Aside I could be using my free time for something more productive. Just not sure what
/r/askTRP21/06/18 09:13 PM
1

That’s a good way to put it. Would a person who is really religious and lives life by those rules be considered that being their frame?
/r/askMRP14/06/18 08:15 PM
1

She is and when she fears I might leave she goes off on these tangents and tries to make me feel bad as if I don’t care and “she would never do that to me” And this is where I fuck up
/r/askMRP14/06/18 08:12 PM
1

I have already had her missing and I was completely fine. I don’t care if she leaves I guess the fact she does add a lot of value to my life. She does everything for me. That I feel like I don’t do enough
/r/askMRP14/06/18 08:08 PM
1

I don’t know to be honest. I understand what you’re saying. I guess I sleep a lot. I’m always tired Bc of my day and she complains all I do is sleep. And I guess I’m worried I’m being a shitty husband because of it
/r/askMRP14/06/18 08:06 PM
1

I tell her chicken or turkey. And I will get her a drink if I’m up because I know she would do the same for me
/r/askMRP14/06/18 08:04 PM
1

Oh it happens. Her best friends do it. She hates it.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:53 PM
1

I don’t know why I can’t grasp it..
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:22 PM
2

I’m ripped I’m 215 10% body fat. I run gear the lifting is the main thing I got in check. Always
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:19 PM
1

I workout a lot. I work a lot. I run gear. I need my sleep or I literally become useless and can’t even get off the couch to shower. I can’t keep my eyes open
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:17 PM
1

Awesome examples. So is frame me thinking every chick wants me (even tho not true) I think it. I believe it. So I act as If I already have them.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 06:33 PM
1

I don’t think I’m afraid as much as I hate dealing with it. It will literally cause her to me miserable all day. Who wants to be around a miserable chick all day. It’s weird the way to get her out of this is to literally explain myself which i know is the wrong way. But that’s what I’ve seen work
/r/askMRP14/06/18 06:28 PM
1

Laughed
/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:17 PM
1

I’ve read it and will def read it again. Thank you
/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:17 PM
1

Aite I really need to work on that I’ve read probably every post there is to read about frame and still do this shit.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:16 PM
1

Sex is good actually always has been. I never get rejected. But sometimes she will ask me shit and I don’t know how to respond
/r/askMRP14/06/18 01:22 PM
2

I guess because she REALLY thought I was lying and it was so dumb to be lying about. And the more I dodged it. The angrier she got. And kept pressing it to the point I was like are you kidding me. Why would I lie about that. I feel like there comes a point where I have to be like. I’m not entertaining this because it’s ridiculous. Otherwise she doesn’t give up
/r/askMRP14/06/18 11:26 AM
1

So when I start to give less fucks and she says “Do you even care anymore?” Because it’s coming
/r/askMRP14/06/18 11:24 AM
-1

So if I was married I’m not allowed to have alone time? It isn’t always but we live together so I still like alone time
/r/askMRP13/06/18 11:17 PM
2

Thank you this is what I was looking for. I do engage a lot. We hangout and do stuff together almost always on our days off and in down time. Thats were I come to the point where “Am I doing enough?” Or “is she asking too much?” She does this thing where I’ll be in a loving mood. And she acts like she doesn’t want anything to do with it. Then she’s in a loving mood and I won’t be as loving and she tells me she wants me to be like that loving person again. It’s like we can’t join them times both …
/r/askMRP13/06/18 11:13 PM
1

Lmao alright. I suck at AA unless it’s simple
/r/askMRP11/06/18 01:29 PM
1

Any advice on AA. I suck it at it edited my post about talking about it
/r/askMRP11/06/18 12:17 AM
1

She brought it up this morning. She said please don’t talk shit about me or disrespect me. I didn’t really know how to AA so I just said I didn’t. And changed the subject. Then she brought up “ X has the biggest crush on you” I said “oh yeah?” She said yea you can tell by the way she acts around you. I just didn’t say anything and then fucked her shortly after in the bathroom over the sink 🤷🏻‍♂️ I kind of suck at AA. I’m good at it for simple shit like “Are you cheating on me?” Yes I slept with …
/r/askMRP11/06/18 12:03 AM
2

I said stop it in a laughing “oh stop it” type manner but I will engage less next time. Thank you
/r/askMRP10/06/18 06:14 PM
1

How about focusing on just the books or read other stuff in the side bar in between
/r/askMRP08/06/18 02:38 PM
1

Nice story. But I’m actually coming here to ask for help so I CAN organize properly. On what to read in what order so I’m not all over the place.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 02:33 PM
1

I told her I’m just going to go to bed i got to be up early. Have a good time. I guess i was trying to spend more time with her to get her more comfortable. She said she doesn’t just fuck random guys so I was going to give her 2 times hanging out before I drop her. As long as things were leading in that direction. And it was something to do. But the more I think about it. She’s getting her “friendship time” and I’m not getting sex
/r/askTRP08/06/18 04:08 AM
1

I’ve read them both before. About a year ago I’m wondering if I should re read them first or later
/r/askMRP07/06/18 11:45 PM
2

Thank you! I’ll get To it. And that’s exactly what I said. When she asked. 👍🏻
/r/askMRP07/06/18 11:02 PM
1

Your whole life
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:56 PM
1

She does everything way before I would do it. She obsessively cleans. I wouldn’t feel the need to clean something as soon as she does. She has the free time so she does it right away. Then acts like she does everything. And gives me chores for the stuff she couldn’t get done.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:35 PM
1

If I was single I would be fucking tons of other women. But I like this advice
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:24 PM
1

“All I want is my husband back. The one who paid attention to me, loved me, didn’t show off to the world, wasn’t always focused on social media. That’s it” I wake up to this. So I guess you’re right about the social Media
/r/askMRP07/06/18 11:11 AM
0

Yes. I read NMMNG. WISNIFG. I’m working on the sidebar but I’m pretty busy with work and all lately. Can you elaborate on what you mean more or point me to an article or post you might recommend
/r/askMRP07/06/18 06:38 AM
1

Makes sense but it’s easier to say. Just enjoy the ride than to actually deal with what I’m going through at the moment
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:12 PM
1

That I understand but in the meantime. It’s my turn
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:05 PM
1

Why does all this seem less appealing than the women
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:12 PM
2

Man this is some quality advice. I’m a recovering addict and am still always searching for another high. Women give me that
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:11 PM
1

To start my own hvac company. To get a house. Bank money. Become the best version of myself and be financially stable enough to support a family. And continue to get jacked But for some reason I focus so much on women. I fucking love the game
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:09 PM
1

It’s a tough thing to own lol
/r/askTRP27/05/18 12:05 AM
1

Because women don’t fuck just anyone
/r/askTRP07/03/18 11:56 PM
1

My girl gets so mad when I flirt with other women in front of her. I know it’s a shit test/comfort test but I have a hard time passing it. She gets pissed and will talk about it all night
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:31 PM
1

Even over social media? You’re responding to these advances?
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:29 PM
1

I’m an only child. I wouldn’t say I was raised over protected tho and my relationship with my family is really good. Maybe being an only child has something to do with it. I just don’t understand why that female attention makes me feel so good. Literally almost as good as the drugs made me feel. Getting a hot chick just to admit she wants me alone can put me in a better mood. Fucking her makes me feel like the man. Then it’s on to the next. It’s weird because you say low self esteem which I real…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:11 AM
1

What are you seeing that I’m not
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:54 PM
1

That’s true. So what’s you’re solution
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:53 PM
1

Thanks now if I can just get this in order I’ll be alright
/r/askTRP04/03/18 05:47 PM
2

I haven’t become stagnate per say. I am working a lot because I am trying to start my own business eventually. And I have to take necessary steps to give myself the best chance at succeeding. I took a pay cut to work at a job where I can learn a lot about the business I will be trying to start. In turn I am working more hours for less. It keeps me busy but the little free I have. I am pretty tired and broke because of the pay cut. So I think due to this. Boredom and lack of finances (when I had …
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:52 PM
4

I used to meditate everyday and haven’t in a looong time. Good idea
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:43 PM
14

Do deadlifts with improper form and it won’t
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:49 PM
1

I will try to learn from it that’s all I can do
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:13 PM
2

Thank you. I needed to see that. You’re right and I spoke to him he’s giving me my money back tonight
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:12 PM
2

Best way to look at it. Thanks
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:10 PM
1

Why was I wrong to come clean. It was either that or Cheat behind her back.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:09 PM
1

Why would I come clean for her. It was for my own benefit. I was aware of the consequences and the whole I didn’t care till push came to shove then I seconded guessed myself
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:08 PM
2

It’s life shit happens. People don’t work. I had no intention of things turning out this way. But they did. I was honest with her. Some people do this shit on their wedding day. When they are married. Cheat nonstop. Fuck your morals. I did what I felt was right as it was happening. I’m not perfect. And neither is your ass. Stop acting like you don’t make mistakes. Never fucked up or screwed anyone over. Some of you people here have your heads so far up your own asses. You don’t offer advice. You…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:20 PM
1

Read the sidebar. Knew I could get pussy way before anything. Expected to turn this girl into a plate. Things happened differently
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:19 PM
1

I know It was blue pill but I was afraid the new girl will never be as good as her. Things are more than great right now but it’s still fresh
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:26 AM
1

Should I tell her brother what’s going on?
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:06 AM
1

Yea you’re right but I am a recovering addict so I tend to obsess over things. It sucks. I’m trying to control it
/r/askMRP24/10/17 08:37 AM
1

And I realize that I never have acted this way it’s freaking me the fuck out
/r/askMRP20/10/17 01:16 PM
1

Yea
/r/askTRP19/10/17 03:41 AM
1

You’re right bro this thing has me so fucked up. I’m sick to my stomach. I feel like such a pussy because I never had this feeling or whatever before. Probably because I was doing drugs and numbing everything. I’m clean now and like my girl really is awesome. But I’ve been hanging out with this other girl who I like a lot. But I’m constantly checking if I can trust this new girl. So now I’m juggling both. And not sure if I should leave my current. Tell her what’s going on. It just fucking leave …
/r/askMRP18/10/17 11:04 PM
1

She adds a lot of value to my life and I Trust HER. I find it had to trust any women these days.
/r/askMRP18/10/17 10:53 PM
1

Yea I miss it
/r/askTRP18/10/17 10:03 PM
1

I’m on testosterone so my test isn’t dropped but You might be right about the other stuff
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:48 PM
1

The only issue I see with deny deny deny. Which I have cheated and got caught in the past. So she doesn’t trust me then. She’s constantly on the look out. Trying to see who I’m texting. Checking my shit. Etc. if she thinks I’m lying
/r/askMRP18/10/17 09:31 PM
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Yea I did lol
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:31 PM
1

I’m trying to follow you’re help you don’t need to be a whiny bitch about it. “Stop asking me questions! Fuck off” Jesus Christ. Some of you guys act like your shit don’t stink or you were born all knowing alphas. Who never asked a fucking question someone didn’t want to answer
/r/askMRP10/10/17 06:10 PM
1

I just read the intro again I didn’t see it in there
/r/askMRP10/10/17 05:26 PM
1

Okay I will. What post are you referring to. The 21 convention one. I read it. I didn’t see the 12 month thing
/r/askMRP10/10/17 05:03 PM
1

I want to thank you for taking the time to help me out. I need to re read those both to really grasp what it’s saying. It does make sense but it doesn’t “feel” right (I get it that’s a beta thing to say). It will take some deprogramming on my part. It’s just if we go by AWALT. What I’m doing shouldn’t be an issue. She would do it to me. But she hasn’t. I’ve seen her remain loyal. I have left and she didn’t branch swing. I have cheated before and she came back. She really does a lot to try to kee…
/r/askMRP10/10/17 04:11 PM
1

You know what it is honestly. I want to be told it’s okay to do what I’m doing. I’m happy with how things are but deep down I know I’m hurting one if not both. I can ignore the guilt but I just wish I had a rationalization to myself of why it’s not bad.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 03:47 PM
1

Okay and I have. It’s been almost 8 months now and she has no idea. But I was just trying to prepare if that day would ever come.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 03:31 PM
1

What if I get caught red handed for some reason. Do I own my shit then and say. “It happened. What do you want to do” And what if she asks then (because she will) why did you lie then?
/r/askMRP10/10/17 05:25 AM
1

No I actually like her. Like I’m emotionally invested in her. And I DID NOT expect it to get to that point. That’s why I feel like I should say something. Bc it is no longer just sex. I’m starting to care more for side girl than my ltr. I’ve slept with a lot of women in my life. Triple digits so I’m not doing it because I need the validation or lack abundance. Yes I’m working on my ego tho. That’s an issue for me
/r/askMRP07/10/17 08:46 PM
1

Perfect
/r/askMRP07/10/17 04:15 PM
1

So when I put up these terms for her to agree with and she comes back with. How is it fair you can sleep around but I can’t? What is your response
/r/askMRP07/10/17 02:20 PM
2

Thank you the comment under it actually really hit home on to what I’m trying to pull I just can’t understand how he told her he can have sex with other women but SHE can’t. And she just agreed? How is that fair. My girl would even ask, how is that fair? I don’t see how it is. Wouldn’t she just do it behind his back anyway?
/r/askMRP07/10/17 09:08 AM
1

I needed to read this. I’m in a similar situation the ONLY thing I can’t seem to justify or can’t see even being able to convince is my being able to get some on the side. But HER not being able to. How did you pull that off? What if she asks “how is that fair?”
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/17 09:07 AM
1

Yea you’re right I’m too focused on her. I do lift I’m actually jacked as fuck I juice. I do read. I need to stfu
/r/askMRP06/10/17 02:13 AM
5

He was just on the front page of TRP sub on his laptop right before his mom killed his dad
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:47 PM
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Says removed.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 10:03 PM
1

😂
/r/askMRP05/10/17 08:52 PM
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Just one. Which is obviously. You guys are worst than people giving me shit for miss using their and there. You knew what I meant
/r/askMRP05/10/17 06:37 PM
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Thank you. Thank you. Will do. My issue with the plate is I’m so tied up in this chick. My sexual interest for the plate isn’t very high. I guess find a new plate?
/r/askMRP05/10/17 06:36 PM
-1

I’m the second person she’s slept with. I know for a fact
/r/askMRP05/10/17 05:14 PM
1

Okay I will. In the mean time what the fuck do I do. It’s stupid to say “my girlfriend isn’t going to be entertaining these guys” I’m assuming. But it’s leaving an uneasy feeling in my stomach. How can I make that go away in the mean time. Or learn to accept this better or accept myself (this insecurity)
/r/askMRP05/10/17 04:53 PM
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Oh no I have. I know what it is. I’m just honestly so fucked up by this. I never been this invested in a girl that I’d even care about it this much. It’s confusing to me. But I also have a fear Bc I seen a guy who didn’t mate guard his girl. And she cheated on him nonstop. He’s still with her and has no idea.
/r/askMRP05/10/17 04:50 PM
1

Okay this makes sense to me because every girl in my past wouldn’t entertain them. Why do I think she does it? I honestly think she’s insecure and likes the attention from them. She dated a beta loser before me and had been with him for 6 years. Now she got a little taste of freedom and I think she’s enjoying the attention. What are proper ways to handle it?
/r/askMRP05/10/17 04:31 PM
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Well yes my wording was off. You’re right. I have one. I don’t think that’s my issue tho. I have abundance I actually have a plate on the side and other girls I can fuck whenever I want. I think it’s more oneitis which is weird to me because I never had that. I also never dated a girl that entertained orbiters
/r/askMRP05/10/17 04:00 PM
1

But she’s the one liking their stuff. She literally asked if I knew the one Bc her friend was trying to set her up before we dated. I said I’d have to see him. She showed me a picture of him. I said no I don’t recognize him. To go on a date with him and laughed. She said I don’t like that you said that. I said why. She said Bc I want to date you. I said well don’t say ew to him but then show me a picture of his you liked. That’s just feeding me bullshit
/r/askTRP05/10/17 03:54 PM
1

And I can’t come to terms with that. It makes me ill to my stomach
/r/askMRP05/10/17 03:44 PM
1

How’s that work?
/r/askTRP05/10/17 03:44 PM
1

So when I see her getting snapchats from them or liking their pictures. I shouldn’t say anything even though it bothers me
/r/askTRP05/10/17 03:34 PM
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