I thought I knew what frame was but then reading this post on the mystery method, I realised it has more to do with than what I thought it was. I initially thought it was about not being phased by anything in some interaction, but it turns out to be more than that. I’m slowly going through the iron rules posts on the rational male blog but having a hard time understanding what this really is.

Can you guys give some examples of how you developed your frame and an example of an interaction where you held your frame and how you came to do that? I don’t want to assume I understood it again.