Acceptable female n-count?

JimFury · 2016-04-14T16:28:27+00:00

It she's just a plate or FWB I don't really give a shit. If I'm gunna LTR a chick less than 5. Yeah she's probably lying but at least she's classy enough to know that anything over 5 is slut material.

GaiusScaevolus · 2016-04-14T17:12:18+00:00

for a 18 yo, is 9 notches to much?

Really depends on your tastes and what you want.

Assuming she started between 15-16, she's averaging about 3 guys a year. This is before alcohol really starts to play into the situation.

Based on this info, I wouldn't view her as a good LTR investment. A FWB? She's probably great.

Archwinger · 2016-04-14T15:07:10+00:00

<5 if she's over 25.

<3 if she's over 21.

<2 if she's 18-21.

If she's over that, you can still fuck her. Just don't marry her.

MattyAnon · 2016-04-14T17:28:31+00:00

9 (ie 27 real) is fine for a ONS. Very dubious for a FWB. Not acceptable for LTR.

Wear a condom, don't offer commitment.

thefisherman1961 · 2016-04-14T17:19:00+00:00

Gotta remember that not all women lie about their n-count either. In my experience, girls with low n-count are very proud of it. You just gotta trust your gut to tell you whether or not she's lying.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-04-14T15:23:46+00:00

I saw this 13 year old girl one time during one of those neighborhood parties. She was talking to two of her friends who looked the same age, and she was explaining to them that she is, and I quote, "still a virgin technically, but her ass and mouth aren't".

In other words, you have no idea. She may have had full intercourse 9 times, and literally blew the entire football team, then the entire basketball team used her ass as a cum bucket, which apparently none of it counts. At 18, yes 9 is very high. When girls do this, it is like killing people. It is generally considered wrong on legal and social and ethical levels. Getting yourself into doing it is hard, and the first time is hard. And before you know it, the next time and every time afterwards becomes easier and easier. Now committing acts of murder doesn't even phase you, and your mind devalues life and no longer has a silver lining between death and avoidance of death. In other words, girls who ride the cock carousel are broken. Girls who ride the CC are sociopaths and psychopaths. There are so many other girls who DON'T ride the CC, so look for them.

ChadsBrother · 2016-04-14T17:12:27+00:00

Yes 9 at 18 is most likely too high for a LTR, especially when you realize that 9 is not counting BJs or that "one guy from the party" whos name she can't remember so it doesn't count.

Perfect number for a plate though because n-count doesn't really matter. What matters is what is in your control and her actions. Does she act loyal? Is your frame and game tight? If she defies common TRP truths and proves herself LTR material, then proceed with caution just like always.

oldslut · 2016-04-14T17:36:30+00:00

9, even without the multiple of x2 or x3 that you will have to calculate into that number, is A LOT. wrap up tight before diving in, and don't give her anything more than plate status, cause that is the absolute most she deserves.

TitsAndWhiskey · 2016-04-14T15:48:59+00:00

I honestly don't give a shit how many cocks they've taken. Not like I'm going to LTR these ho's.

BlackHeart89 · 2016-04-14T17:19:27+00:00

Who fucking knows. There studies that show through more promiscuous a woman is, the more likely she is to cheat. But there is no guarantee. There are other factors to consider.

Obviously 25 people for an 18 year old is telling. Just peep her actions, personality and such. I never trust anyone who is impulsive and/or overly emotional.

scarthearmada · 2016-04-14T23:23:33+00:00

N-Count for a ONS? Who fucking cares? Wrap it, and hit it hard.

N-Count for an LTR? My rule book on the matter says this:

High School: 1-3 is okay | 1-3 in total (the lower the better)

College Age: 1-3 is okay | 2-6 in total (the lower the better)

20-Somethings: 1-3 is okay | 3-9 in total (the lower the better)

Early to Mid-30s: 1-3 is okay | 4-12 in total (the lower the better)

Now I am only 32. I don't plan on being unmarried and without children when I am in my late 30s, but let's assume I am unmarried at 36. At that point, I'll fuck a girl in her late 20s or early 30s, without regard for the number of sexual partners she's had. But if I know how many, and it was above 12-15, I would think twice about fucking her. Now for an LTR? Anything above 12 is a Next.

If she tells me anything more than 5-7, I'm going to assume that it's at least twice that, and so Next. The rare exception would be if she just so happens to be an exceptional catch: pretty, delicate features, the ability to cook, doesn't fuck up laundry, and a witty conversationalist. Sometimes those very intelligent, pretty girls go through a phase at the end of college or in the 2-3 years after, but are otherwise good women.

getRedPill · 2016-04-15T17:06:27+00:00

9 is still too high for me. If she is a ONS you shouldn't care, just wear condom. Never LTR her.

DeputyDelicious · 2016-04-14T14:59:53+00:00

Quick question, for a 18 yo, is 9 notches to much?

Yes, J. Cole said multiply by three.

idgaf- · 2016-04-14T15:48:22+00:00

I had this train of thought the other day when I suspected that yet another girl I'm talking to turns out to be a probable slut.

I felt the old reaction "that's sucks" or "that's too much", then I remembered AWALT and her life choices shouldn't impact me whatsoever. Only thing to do is calibrate and take advantage.

Also realized I was spoiled by my last LTR who had N=2 including me.

fnordsnord · 2016-04-14T19:46:22+00:00

Here's my logic: Girls want boyfriends. If a girl doesn't put out, her boy will leave her for one who does. So unless you are part of a tight, conservative community, expecting a girl to leave high school a virgin is expecting too much.

Staying with a guy for at least a year shows impulse control and emotional stability, and a year is a reasonable length of time for a school-girl LTR to play out. So if her N is around 4 - 5 at the end of high school, I think it's okay. Like wise, around 8 - 9 after college is also okay. After that, I'd rather not see her pick up more than one every 2 - 3 years.

So yeah, if you're looking at LTR material, 9 is more than I would trust. For a ONS, it doesn't matter. For a fuck-buddy it also doesn't matter.

Wear a condom. Do not offer commitment. Also - if she admits to 9, it's 18 - 27.

cheechawcheechaw · 2016-04-14T18:20:29+00:00

Since you aren't going to marry her, it doesn't really matter.

jcromero · 2016-04-15T02:45:56+00:00

Ok, first, women's n-count is determined by the equation:

real N= (stated n)*1.2, with a rounding error upwards If a girl says 9 she means 11.

Second, women are long term material up until 10 partners. Anything greater than that means that they'll be unable to form a meaningful relationship with a man, and it becomes incrementally harder when they have more partners.

Here's a good article that lists out the sociosexual hierarchy for women

http://voxday.blogspot.com/2010/07/mailvox-hierarchy-of-female.html

Ali0_o · 2016-04-14T22:08:55+00:00

Zero. Not gonna settle for anything more. I have kept my virginity, thus I expect a virgin girl.

It grosses me out knowing there has been someone else's dick inside a woman I would fuck. Or even those gooey substances (yes, substance, not semen. Too much std's around) that has ever been on her.

If I wasn't a hypochondriac I'd maybe be more lenient

Vidaric · 2016-04-14T18:41:06+00:00

If you're a guy: Why the fuck do you care? How can you be so insecure?

If you're a girl: Guys with self esteem won't care.

Title	Acceptable female n-count?
Author	throwawyayyyyy
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Comments	38
Date	April 14, 2016 2:57 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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