Can't bring girlfriend to orgasm

Solidgame · 2017-09-29T09:51:36+00:00

Read The Sex God Method

RylanBlackwood · 2017-09-29T15:43:37+00:00

I wouldn't take the advice on here banging on about how it's not important to make your gf have orgasms. When women orgasm they essentially get an overdose of oxytocin hormone, the bonding hormone they produce when they have children. Obviously this means she will bond to you.

You're lucky she's a virgin since this situation shouldn't affect you too much since she has nothing to compare to. If she wasn't a virgin and you couldn't make her orgasm but her past bfs could, then you'd be in trouble.

My current gf said "I think I've been missing out on something here" while I was finger fucking her A-spot.

The thing you need to understand about orgams is that it's all in the brain, which means if she's isn't in the mood or relaxed enough it won't happen.

Orgasms also happen through a pelvic muscle contraction, (put your finger on your arsehole when you cum and you can feel it) if these muscles are weak then it also won't happen. (If she's a virgin then these will likely be weak.)

I'd say weak pelvic muscles is likely the issue here. But fortunately there's an easy way to fix this. I can't real detail an extensive amount of instructions on orgasms techniques on here since it would take way too long, but I'll give you a quick technique on the house.

If you seriously want to improve the situation inbox me an email or anything I can send a pdf file over since I have 300 page e book which should help you out drastically.

So the technique: (report back what happens)

Lie her on her back

Get your middle finger push your way inside as far as you can.

Then curl your finger upwards

do it hard

and do it twice per 1 second.

This is an A-spot orgasm or vaginal orgasm, which she can continuously have until she runs out of energy.

Smigg_e · 2017-09-29T10:24:31+00:00

Some girls just don't orgasm.

FeeedMeCarbs · 2017-09-29T08:35:35+00:00

Its not your problem

TheDisillusionist · 2017-09-29T13:11:32+00:00

She got the same 45 seconds you did, bro.

Venenarium · 2017-09-29T16:16:58+00:00

The responses on this thread is a great proof that the TRP is filled with MGTOW inexperienced virgins who act wise.

If you can't get your LTR to orgasm then be prepared to get dumped or cheated on.

Read the sex-god method.

Venenarium · 2017-09-29T10:56:47+00:00

Take a look at "Female Orgasm Black Book"

SovereignSoul76 · 2017-09-29T14:56:39+00:00

Tell her to order and start with the following: Magic Wand.

I heard about it on the Black Phillip show and can confirm that most chicks can BLAST OFF with that thing.

Thizzlebot · 2017-09-29T16:18:40+00:00

Some women just have mental issues or aren't comfortable with themselves but ultimately who gives a fuck.

vandaalen · 2017-09-29T10:09:48+00:00

Can you cum? Everything good then.

Tell her to touch herself and make herself come while you are fucking her or ask her if she's got a toy she uses. I have also got good results with buttplugs. Start entertaining the idea by massaging her anus with your spit-covered thumb, eventually sticking it in.

Then buy a beginner sized buttplug and give it to her, tell her it's her slut duty to wear ot next time you meet.

Etc.pp.

Have you also tried the two-finger banging technique already, by the way?

Whisper · 2017-09-29T22:03:39+00:00

You are certainly getting some shit advice from losers who are terrible in bed.

Here's what you need to know:

It is not your masculine duty to make her come every time. You are having sex for you.
It is, however, important to be able to make her orgasm when you choose, because training girls requires both the stick and the carrot.
All the physical technique advice you are getting isn't worth shit. Physical technique is nothing. Mental state is everything. Excite her brain, and she can come from 30 seconds of nipple play, or a stiff breeze.
To make a girl come hard, you must control her mindset, and put her in an excited state.
To control her mental state, you must understand it. This means you must know what excites her. And you must know it without asking her, because asking her is useless... she doesn't know. Girls don't know what they like in bed until it happens to them.
That means you have to infer her sexual tastes from her behaviour and character.

JTCX · 2017-09-29T16:40:31+00:00

Can she bring herself to orgasm?

prodigy2throw · 2017-09-29T21:09:38+00:00

You need to get her to relax. Make sure she knows she can let go with you and be herself. Sounds cheesy af but I swear this gets women more wet than anything.

doctorlw · 2017-09-29T22:05:17+00:00

With many girls, especially virgins, they have not learned how to orgasm even on their own. Before you have any chance of getting her off, she needs to get herself off. Buy her a rabbit or hitachi magic wand and encourage her to learn her own body... it will come naturally.

vajav · 2017-09-29T17:32:46+00:00

Give her my #, I'll take care of it

hippiebarbie123 · 2017-09-30T02:30:06+00:00

OK so I'm a girl and I can be like this…
maybe you need to talk dirty to her like " mmm yeah you like this hard ___ inside you?" Lolllll along those lines.... Just get kinda nasty and aggressive that's what makes me orgasm. Or if he compliments my body in a dirty way.

Not degradation but just showing me how turned on he is

In general, a girl wants to feel like she's pleasing you and you're getting/taking what u want? Or It could just be a me thing

they do say that for girls it is more Mental than Physical. So true for me

[deleted] · 2017-10-01T16:06:34+00:00

Dodson method all day every day. The shit has like a 98 percent success rate of helping women orgasm who are clinically anorgasmic.

zuhbooze · 2017-09-29T11:05:09+00:00

Some women are broken. Not your problem.

McVaghunter · 2017-09-29T10:36:59+00:00

The only people who care about making their LTRs orgasm are the ones afraid of losing them, and if your gf notices your fear of losing her because of how you're desperately trying so hard to make her cum, that's gonna be bad for you. As long as you ejaculate you shouldn't care if she does.

But if YOU enjoy watching a girl orgasm and you're not doing it for her, try to google how to "properly eat pussy" and "how to make a girl orgasm", there are videos on porn websites that are better than any written replies you'll get on reddit.

Nergaal · 2017-09-29T16:25:31+00:00

1) is she gay

2) does she has a history of very bad sexual experiences

3) if neither 1 or 2, you are pretty bad or she is not sexually attracted to you (you don't actually excite her; don't listen to what she says, but to what she does)

Venenarium · 2017-09-29T17:16:42+00:00

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SirAttackHelicopter · 2017-09-29T15:26:49+00:00

No, she isn't a virgin. This isn't a physical issue, this is a mental issue. IF she was a virgin, it would be the exact other way around, in that she would finish far too quickly to get you satisfied.

Kommanderdude · 2017-09-29T16:26:24+00:00

Who gives a fuck. As long as she is bringing you to orgasm and making it fun in the process then don’t worry. If she needs to get off that’s what vibrators are for.

XelentGamer · 2017-09-29T18:03:43+00:00

Dude, she obviously doesn't give a fuck. She is fucking you and you are happy which likely means she is happy. That said you eat the pussy right? If not let her ride your mouth and just spend a good half hour to and hour figuring out what she likes the best. Maybe you will get lucky and she will cum but that isn't the mission. Another good move is (don't know the name for this position or any position really) do missionary but where you sit back on your heels and while you are rocking into her rub her clit. Also try the two finger beckon on her g spot while you rub her clit. The last thing to try and that a good percentage of guys have an aversion to is to get her a magic wand, the smaller variable one will run you about $100. Do the same upright missionary or even better, face down ass up from behind while she uses the vibe. If she doesn't cum from that ... there is no hope.

Extra hack tips for the really stubborn: give the girl 10mg of cialis after a good 3 days of no sex and wait 6-8 hours then do the last suggestion.

AlphaGrad · 2017-09-29T16:58:23+00:00

Tie her up. Gag her.

Casanova-Quinn · 2017-09-29T17:43:19+00:00

Foreplay. You need to build up to sex so she is really turned on before it happens. It’s a mental thing. Try 15 mins of kissing, touching, etc. before you start fucking.

UnluckyPenguin · 2017-09-29T22:27:00+00:00

You probably need more experience with different people. Not to get her off, but so you can understand how the world works.

Some girls just can't reach their climax, others will reach their climax in 30 seconds while rubbing lightly on their jeans, true story.

powerbaseballfan · 2017-09-29T11:11:22+00:00

Read this as mom

Title	Can't bring girlfriend to orgasm
Author	Venenarium
Upvotes	23
Comments	68
Date	September 29, 2017 8:18 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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