Do Women Ever Get Oneitis

FereallyRed · 2019-07-20T23:31:02+00:00

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-07-20T23:49:27+00:00

Men get oneitis, women get alpha widowed.

Angelrun · 2019-07-20T23:12:58+00:00

If they get dumped by the guy maybe, or if they can’t find anyone close to their exes SMV maybe. Personally I think they used to but no anymore thanks to tinder.

kick6 · 2019-07-21T02:10:52+00:00

They get alpha widowhood. It's like oneitis, but only after he skates.

Borsao66 · 2019-07-20T23:12:26+00:00

Yeah kinda, if they manage to land their crush, he often P&Ds her and creates an alpha widow.

disciplinedFreedom · 2019-07-20T23:22:45+00:00

Haha Yes. It is called Hypergamy. They are monogamous with the highest available suitor to them. They will leave and become monogamous to a higher status individual when that opportunity arises

PM_ME_LEWD_SHIT · 2019-07-21T00:42:58+00:00

I’ve seen something like it happen once. Back in high school one of my friends dumped his girlfriend and she cried wanting him back for 3 straight months threatening to kill herself and harmed herself.

comu_nacho · 2019-07-21T02:32:09+00:00

Women that stalk men, maybe? according to this https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2695740/ there are types:

1.- The Rejected Stalker—stalking follows the end of a relationship

2.- The Intimacy Seeking Stalker— stalking based on a desire for intimacy

3.- The Incompetent Stalker—stalking with lack of social skills; stalker feels entitled to a relationship

4.- The Resentful Stalker—stalking meant to frighten victims

5.- The Predatory Stalker—stalking in preparation for a sexual attack

It seems to me that 1 and 2 could be female ways of oneitis.

vullnet123 · 2019-07-21T02:53:08+00:00

My ex had it for me about 7 months before we got together. When I was younger there were two girls who made a fucking Facebook group about me and tagged me in it lmao. Haven’t had that happen since tho.

[deleted] · 2019-07-21T04:46:36+00:00

I think it's called being alpha widowed but either way oneitis or that it feels the same. Oneitis = guy can't get the girl or she dumped him but mostly is when guy can't get the girl right?

LingonberryPancakess · 2019-07-21T01:11:46+00:00

Yes, it’s called love, or limerence to be more precise

dani098 · 2019-07-21T04:52:07+00:00

Crushes- yes off course they do

[deleted] · 2019-07-21T15:33:29+00:00

It’s different. More men fall in love visually than women do. Men can “fall in love” and get oneitis with a girl without knowing much if anything about her.

Women don’t do this often for men, and if they do it’s all for mostly the same man. Women also move on quicker because they have a much better support system and guys ready to court them.

Both can get alpha widowed though. It’s what happens when you get with a guy or girl of significantly higher SMV (2.5+ points).

I’ve had one or two drunken hookups with embarrassing looking or below average chicks that 5 years later STILL reach out after one night.

If you get with women who are genuine 7s or better then most likely not. They have their shit together, surrounded by other high tier men, etc. so unless they get with some celebrity they won’t get alpha widowed, but they will monkey branch

Just watch interviews of ex’s of contestants from the bachelorette. They would take them back in a heart beat

Pockyaf · 2019-07-21T04:34:54+00:00

I’ve seen they would in high school or college. The longer you’re around them and if they’re attracted to you, then yeah they’ll develop an obsession for a guy

Cold approach is the hardest and least efficient way of getting girls. But unless you have look, money or status then being around a girl for some amount of time still wouldn’t be effective anyways

Skinnyboiwithadream · 2019-07-21T11:55:55+00:00

I have a girl (ex-fwb) who has pretty big oneitis with me, it’s certainly possible.

robbiedigital001 · 2019-07-21T13:29:45+00:00

[deleted] · 2019-11-17T10:49:11+00:00

Women do not get oneitis.

SilenceOnTheWire · 2019-07-21T03:23:00+00:00

lol

Yes they do. It feels like misery.

Title	Do Women Ever Get Oneitis
Author	Jugurthajones87
Upvotes	94
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Date	July 20, 2019 11:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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