Does dread work if she's not afraid to lose you?

themostgianthorse · 2021-04-29T15:39:31+00:00

If she has told you she is on the fence, she is not on the fence.

Where there is doubt, there is no doubt.

kclanton80 · 2021-04-29T16:07:19+00:00

You put her on a pedestal. I can tell by how glowingly you talk about her. You should have been dreading her all along... . You don't wait until things go bad to start using dread..... But you can certainly give it a try.

Honestly if a woman ever expressed even the slightest bit of being unsure she wanted to stay with me. I will be gone so fast to her head would spin.

Have some self-respect. Why stay with someone and try and get their attraction back if they are unsure if they want you. If you have all this cool stuff going for you that you said.... You can replace her.

319Skew · 2021-04-29T15:29:20+00:00

When I was a kid and I fucked up, I'd be told "wait until we get home".

I'd be in anxiety thinking about what would happen. The spanking was hardly as bad as my imagination.

Dread is the same way. She fears that she will displease you and you'll leave.

If she doesn't care then there's no fear of the consequences.

Alittihad01 · 2021-04-29T15:57:42+00:00

read your first paragraph again! bro , it's time to move on.

no need to bring back the attraction.

Lostfate09 · 2021-04-29T15:47:11+00:00

I think you answered your own question in the title

zlodej87 · 2021-04-29T16:06:51+00:00

She's not afraid to lose you because lack of dread.

Halflotus1 · 2021-04-29T16:08:53+00:00

Tell her you need some space, and go distant for days.

thegreyone3000 · 2021-04-29T19:42:11+00:00

Sounds like it’s about to go south, you may try dread if you like. But as others said, there needs to be obvious signals for it to work... something like the waitress being overly “friendly” to you in front of her or what ever... yano 🤷🏻‍♂️

Up to you man, do what you gotta do

big_ass_package · 2021-04-29T16:26:34+00:00

What happened to listing your stats here first?

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-04-29T16:07:19+00:00

No, it doesn't. She MUST feel that she'll lose you to another(possibly even better) female for dread game to work. That is why self improvement is key. You become attractive to a wide range of women, giving you more options, thus she begins to feel dread.

sicrm · 2021-04-30T00:37:58+00:00

your relationship is over.

sparring partner at best if you want to go down that road

rookieMale · 2021-04-30T03:49:46+00:00

Generally No

You are catching feelings. It will come off in your words and behaviour. Work on yourself and distance from her.

And as a man you decide not let her decide. Break contact and work in yourself.

Title	Does dread work if she's not afraid to lose you?
Author	sobrage
Upvotes	17
Comments	31
Date	April 29, 2021 3:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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