I keylogged my GFs Facebook info and she hasn't had any damning messages (though there is some stuff I know is deleted which is most likely what I think it is). My problem is that in the last couple months she has become Facebook friends with many of the attractive guy friend of friends that we meet at parties and shit. That isn't bad, except she is always the one sending the friend invitation.

As for our relationship she seems head over heels for me. She chased me for about 6 months while I fucked side chicks and refused to be her BF, but she cooks for me whenever I want, lets me anal her even though she doesn't like it, blows me when I want for as long as I want and as hard as I want, has never turned down sex, etc so I made her my GF 5 months ago. I've noticed that she adds these guys on days where we are at a 'low point' in the relationship, like just last night when I ignored her chatty text so I could lift and I never replied and 2 hours later she friend requested her high SMV frat bro coworker on Facebook. My hunch is that she is the kind of girl that will be loyal when things are good but fuck around when we have a real fight.

Once they become friends they don't exchange messages that I can tell. Probably because I'm 6'3 240lbs and do MMA and the guys don't feel like dealing with the risk of what would otherwise be easy pickings. With what I know about TRP that is a pretty clear sign that she is looking to branch swing. She just wants the guy to message her first and do the rest of the work, after she showed her interest with the friend request. Could she just be looking to increase her SMV by friending them? Is this something I can fix with boundaries or is it just inevitable what's going to happen?