I’ve been lifting for a couple of years now, my physique has shown some noticeable improvements. Throughout that time I’ve been with the same girl a few times. We hang out a little bit and she’s accused me of being “obsessed” with lifting, told me I’m going too far with it etc. But last time I fucked her she drunkenly told me I was “out of her league”. That same evening she admired my torso while I stood in my kitchen, commenting on how I can eat so much food and still “look like that”.

I suspect I know what’s going on here but it’s actually becoming annoying. She clearly likes it, is she just trying to discourage me from improving because it attracts other women?