How can I deal with post nut regret?

Guarnerre1995 · 2020-05-31T10:11:58+00:00

Its normal man. Programmed to chase right till the moment you nut and fullfill your natural mission.

For me it gone away when I met someone I actually cared about other than her ass and tits

spartan_samurai · 2020-05-31T13:18:44+00:00

It happens to lot of us, once you got what you were chasing then the excitement is gone and you start looking for next chase.

And it's better than getting Oneitis.

Rolfenstien · 2020-05-31T10:40:12+00:00

It’s a natural thing. It’s programmed in males bc once we nut and Impregnate a woman, our brain is really telling us to not commit as it’s much more of an evolutionary advantage to go impregnate another woman and not get attached too much to the first so that our genes can be passed on more effectively.

Honestly it’s just something you’ve gotta deal with. Just get away from the person if it’s too much for you

RevolutionaryPea7 · 2020-05-31T14:27:55+00:00

Fuck her at her place then leave after you nut.

By the way, I love the fact that men are capable of introspection and understanding that some things we do are part of our biological programming. If only women could understand this.

Heathcliff-- · 2020-05-31T16:34:20+00:00

Be honest to yourself. How attractive are the girls you're banging?

You don't get post nut regret with a very pretty girl. Even if she's dumb as rocks. It's more like pride.

cracksniffer666 · 2020-05-31T14:11:04+00:00

The older I get, the quicker I get (the fuck)

I wish I knew how to seem interested afterwards. Ole girl just texted me saying she has my black hat. I'm gonna have to be really horny if I want that hat again. Shit just aint the same anymore. Be careful.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-05-31T14:05:03+00:00

The technical term is called Post-Orgasm Dysphoria.

It has nothing to do with "clarity." It's about mild anxiety and paranoia. Don't fool yourself. "I'm so frosty and clear-headed right now." I doubt that's true.

Stop overthinking it. Go do something else for an hour or two if absolutely necessary. Either way, learn to chill the fuck out and not take how you feel in the moment very seriously.

I suspect guys who whine about post nut "clarity" really just lack much chill factor. They bust their nut and then start getting all froggy and neurotic.

red__Man · 2020-05-31T14:29:23+00:00

fuck hotter girls

Whisper · 2020-05-31T19:06:10+00:00

This is simply a normal indication that the chicks you are banging are not LTR material. LTR material chicks are the ones who are nice to be around even when you are not horny.

babban_rao · 2020-05-31T15:30:18+00:00

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OlderRedBrother · 2020-05-31T21:25:26+00:00

stop banging 5s and 6s and try to land higher quality pussy like a real man

MrAnderzon · 2020-05-31T15:46:57+00:00

Your not feeling the girl your with. Every one says have sex with ugly/fat girls to get your experience.

Yes & No. Obviously the experience is good but not all experience is worth having. You would only have experience with girls you’re not attracted to.

And when you have someone you are attracted to, you probably won’t know how to handle it because you only have experience with girls with no mutual attraction.

hedged6161 · 2020-05-31T22:25:45+00:00

Whereas a woman gets more attached after sex. Bro evolution in that regard kinda fucked us

Tambamwham · 2020-06-01T02:29:04+00:00

cumming then coming to your senses is a tale as old as time

maverick9759 · 2020-06-01T03:01:23+00:00

Damn .. You articulated my feelings so precisely .. I nut and then suddenly I wanna deadlift, shoot arrows/guns, start a business, conquer a country and shit .. I just don't wanna deal with women AT ALL and for a while I ponder if that's how MGTOW was created ahaha

Swimming-Syllabub · 2020-06-01T13:07:05+00:00

You could always fuck someone you like

Ill_mumble_that · 2020-06-01T16:09:18+00:00

It's called "marriage regret"

Unless you marry a perfect 10 who never gains weight or ages and has zero hypergamey ability so is guaranteed to never cheat on you, while simultaneously ticking all your sex fetish boxes and also being an emotional support for you.

Such a woman doesn't exist.

So in other words, it's impossible to avoid. You learn to deal with it.

Musicgoon · 2020-06-02T19:44:42+00:00

The post nut regret or guilt was usually in my past when I didn't do so well with women.

I could sell you some line about the comedown of endorphins. That, scientifically speaking, is correct.

The honest truth is: the chicks I felt that with were ones that weren't a catch. Easy, not the best looking and not anyone I would brag about. I knew I could do better. Don't settle. I did for a few years until my game got better.

FuzzCod · 2020-05-31T16:06:32+00:00

After you nut, your prolactin raises. I call it the bitch hormone.

chazthundergut · 2020-05-31T17:06:00+00:00

"Suddenly I want to get away from this person as much as possible and achieve something in my life and not waste my time on women."

Ahh, the old post-nut clarity. Trust your gut!

spedoid · 2020-05-31T17:19:07+00:00

Play some Madden and smoke a bowl

empatheticapathetic · 2020-05-31T12:11:49+00:00

Research how to lower prolactin.

millenialprincess · 2020-05-31T16:29:35+00:00

You need to have more oxytocin than testosterone after you nut in order to not have regret.

courtesy_flush_plz · 2020-05-31T11:37:54+00:00

Better than the opposite .. wanting to cuddle up & start a family 🤷‍♂️

alphakari · 2020-05-31T16:55:52+00:00

The post-workout high usually evens it out for me if I go hard.

It's also less significant for me if I'm on a bulk.

Title	How can I deal with post nut regret?
Author	UKTeenThrowaway69
Upvotes	87
Comments	39
Date	May 31, 2020 10:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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