I have been in a 6 month LTR with an attentive, attractive and successful girl now for 6 months. How do I stomach her N-count of 17-20 since starting out in highschool at age 15? I have a 30s N count myself, but have never dated someone long term with even remotely this high of a number and do not know how to stomach it. Is it even worth it to try and find a girlfriend with a more conservative N count these days, because once they go to college it seems borderline impossible.