Is this a shit test

redpharma7789 · 2019-01-25T13:09:26+00:00

Yes it’s a shit test.

Never answer truthfully, use agree and amplify technique.

“Ya! Your the lucky 100th person! Here’s your prize!”

“Today or this week?”

“How many people fit inside an orgy bus?”

Huffnagle · 2019-01-25T13:23:00+00:00

I usually tell them that I’m a virgin with a real serious look on my face. Works great so long as they know damn well it isn’t true.

AUSTRALIAN_001 · 2019-01-25T15:01:00+00:00

I still can't stop laughing at that guy who uploaded the picture he drew of his posture and how it was fucked up. I'm pissing myself right now just thinking about it.

TheScarletScholar · 2019-01-25T13:22:11+00:00

I think the best method is to turn it into a joke. "Huh that's weird cuz I'm a virgin" or "I've banged twice as many guys." This only works if you are able to make it obvious you are joking. And considering she is (seriously) asking you that question it shouldn't be too difficult to pull off.

youngbull24 · 2019-01-25T13:27:37+00:00

These comments are awful . Tell her “don’t ask questions you don’t want answers to “ or my personal favorite response to any shit test “stop asking stupid questions” if you got the balls for it

SeamusAwl · 2019-01-25T16:18:10+00:00

Yes it was a test. My response is "Depends, what do you consider loads of girls" then when she replies with an approximation my shocked response is "You consider that a lot?"

chazthundergut · 2019-01-26T00:19:14+00:00

Never tell her your n-count. Never.

Hypnot0ad · 2019-01-25T13:28:45+00:00

I would say "A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell" with a smirk. You can subtly admit to a high N count (DHV) while also assuring her that you wont slut shame her after.

FieldLine · 2019-01-25T16:47:43+00:00

And I would like to know what is the best response to hold frame.

Exaggerate to the point of absurdity. You can go either way, tell her you're a virgin holding out for someone special, or tell her you're the town pogo stick and just last night you slept with someone for a pair of Reeboks.

Have fun with it. Shit tests that are overtly about sex are the most fun.

The first girl I slept with, I told her I was a virgin and I was a virgin. She didn't seem to believe me, or care in any case. When the sex was inevitably shitty she probably figured I was just another jerkoff who couldn't be bothered to learn his way around in bed.

redhawkes · 2019-01-25T16:51:43+00:00

As always, it's not what you say, but how you say it.

“ I bet you’ve fucked loads of girls”

Yea, guys ain't my thing.

Only the hot ones. (This makes her qualify)

Im actually saving myself for marriage. (apply shit eating grin)

Never answer this questions seriously.

sixseven89 · 2019-01-25T17:57:31+00:00

"I've fucked more girls than you thats for sure"

123_Meatsauce · 2019-01-25T18:16:24+00:00

“Don’t ask questions”

If she keeps on, “your number 50!”

Be mysterious. It’s a shit test.

wobbleelbbow · 2019-01-25T18:42:03+00:00

She is looking for vulnerabilities even if she isn't aware of it. She is also showing her insecurity and fear of being with a player (yet women still fuck players, go figure).

So treat this just like any other stupid question with a woman. Amused mastery, agree and amply or pressure flip. Whatever floats your boat.

T-P-T-W-P · 2019-01-25T20:51:34+00:00

Sometimes I’ll get asked about n-count but moreso they’ll often say something like “I bet you’ve fucked a bunch if girls huh?”. IMO it’s half shit test and half compliment. On one hand they’re indicating you have noticeable SMV, and on the other they may be angling to make themselves seem special, as in they won’t fuck you that easy like all the other horny non-angels. Just play it cool. Sometimes this line of conversation does get in the way and at others they are face down ass up within the hour. Had a chick over the other day with a low n-count (19 years freshmen in college, big on church, she said 3 and I’m going to believe it was genuinely in the 4-6 range) and she was pretty wary because I wasn’t catering to this and was amplifying as if she was any other slut. First time seeing each other and she blew me but didn’t fuck because that’s for “people I date”. It’s not all uniform across the board. Every female has innate traits but they also can be wildly different in a lot of ways. I’d say just read it and say what will spin her mental wheels the most in your favor. Your n-count will likely only matter somewhat to the conservative, less sexual type looking for a boyfriend, in other cases it will mostly serve as validation that a number of other chicks have been willing to have sex with you.

omega_dawg93 · 2019-01-25T16:19:00+00:00

"yeah... i've let more than a few get lucky, and that's why i'm screening you so hard."

HumbleRedPillStudent · 2019-01-25T14:12:40+00:00

It is a shit test, and a sign that she finds you attractive. Overall, you should be very happy to get this comment.

It means that she thinks you CAN fuck loads of pretty girls, but that she would also feel invalidated if she were just another notch for you.

When a girl asks this question I start with a joke:

"I don't know what you're talking about. I'm a virgin [clasp your hands together and look up at your imaginary halo]."

This makes a girl laugh usually; it intrigues her with the small possibility that she might have stumbled across some kind of Tim Tebow weirdo (a special unicorn, but also kinda gross), and she will always laugh and say, "Yeah. Right. You're NOT a virgin. I can tell."

Now, plenty of people are more alpha than me. For them, that answer alone might work. But girls are usually pretty on-the-fence about sex with me. There's a second missile I've had to employ.

If pressed further multiple times about your n-count, it generally means she really is a little insecure about being some kind of notch. Tell her this.

"Sure, I mean I've had some experiences that were amazing, but what I always found weird was that people counted them, like baseball cards or something. I always thought that was kinda weird and not very human. I guess if I sat down I could do that, but I think maybe there might actually be a question behind your question. Incase your were wondering, I never let someone into my bed before knowing that she was an amazing person."

I might get haters saying that's too much talking, and I would agree to distill it down and tailor that bit for the individual situation. I've never not gotten laid after saying it.

If you're new to this, good job on getting a girl attracted enough to ask you that question!

MagnumBurrito · 2019-01-25T15:09:30+00:00

I would say 40+

Don't give an exact number because that looks like you care about it

TRP8myfeels · 2019-01-25T16:05:54+00:00

I dunno, doesn't the sidebar talk about this stuff?

You are supposed to read that first, before you post your lazy fucking questions here.

SalporinRP · 2019-01-25T21:46:27+00:00

My favorite response to when a girl asks me "I bet you talk to a lot of girls" is:

"Yeah I got you saved as (her name)#13 in my phone"

Always has worked for me lol

LightSkinKen · 2019-01-25T22:51:07+00:00

Instead of asking what’s the best answer; how about breaking down what the real question is.

“ hey, I like you so far. You’re getting me a little wet, and I want to make sure I’m not opening up the door for a loser in disguise to fuck me.”

my game is mostly just spitting out opposites and re assigning roles.

So “what’s your count”

Response : “ are you asking about the girls that just fingered me or dry humped me with there clothes on?

There is no right answer. Just how you handle the pressure.

civilizedfrog · 2019-01-27T01:37:27+00:00

I usually start counting using my finger, then her fingers and at last say that I'm a virgin.

deepfunXOXO · 2019-01-25T13:53:46+00:00

Something like: Guess you will have to find it out and tell me afterwards what do you think

kaoussi · 2019-01-25T16:39:57+00:00

"I lost count after 10" works

Neemdor · 2019-01-25T13:51:48+00:00

I’d answer sincerely. Authenticity is Frame. In my opinion.

Title	Is this a shit test
Author	Melanoma_man
Upvotes	29
Comments	67
Date	January 25, 2019 1:03 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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