I dont care about hollywood affairs nor do I follow. However, in 23 years of marriage, Jada(48) cheated on Will Smith (51, who I think is really charming guy) fucked Alsina(27).

Wtf happened? Granted everyday is not Sunday and in 23 years, you might start acting beta at some point, but can anyone get insights on this. What might be the lessons for us? Even if its an open marriage, how can one deal with thoughts of someone fucking your wife/gf... I simply dont get it.... Seems like Beckhams are holding up though.