She comes over drunk and asks if she can "play bitch" and slap me around and choke me while we go at it. I straight up looked at her for a while and said no. She gets visibly upset and I go to bed. Couple minutes later says I am not open enough and I dont do what she wants but she does everything I want. I said thats good, its my world and you're living in it.

Is this the best action? Do i let her do it later in the moment or hold firm on not ever doing it?