Been in an LTR for 3 months now. Great girl in pretty much every aspect. Cooks, cleans and we have sex anytime I want and however I want.

Now on to the reason I am making this post. She has told me in the past that her n-count was 7. She told me last night, with tears in her eyes, that her real number is between 12 and 20. (Why give a range? Why not just the actual value?)

This happened after being at a bar with her friends. She went for a smoke with her guy best friend, and then was glossy eyed and quite when she came back. We went home and then she told me about her n-count and how her friend told her to come clean and that its not fair to lie to me.

Now I don't care for the number in particular. I'm just pissed off that I was lied to. I have made it extremely clear that the one thing I find more important than anything else, is honesty / trust. She has had plenty of opportunities to come clean about this, so why now? Also is this common? Is it something I can just look past?

The main problem is I now feel as if I can't trust her. This leads me to believe there is so much more she has lied to me about.

I've heard enough times from people on this forum that there is always that one specific girl or one specific heartbreak that finally leads the man to fully indulge in TRP. Maybe this is the one that sends me on my TRP trip.

Background red flags:
-> Lied about n-count.
-> Has a tattoo.
-> Has dated a girl in the past and eventually decided she was not actually gay. And from what I have gathered, she was alpha-widowed by her.
-> Best friend is a guy.

TLDR:
LTR of 3 months lied about n-count. Why would she finally come clean now?