She’s a great girl, has no friends or social life which is rare considering she’s a 8/10 Spanish girl. Very close to family, can have fun. But since the lockdown she’s been lazy, sleeping in, no hobbies just bumming around. Can’t even hold a conversation sometimes. She’s still very caring loving etc, I tried to get her o to hobbies but no bite, tried get her into fitness, no interest. Sex sucks because apparently I am “too big” and she’s too “tight” it gets painful For her and she backs away a lot. Sometimes we manage to go at it and it won’t hurt, but sex is meh. Thing is my ltr is madly into me and clingy af now, without anything to offer.

Do I “talk” to her or do I go cold? Honestly if she wants to keep living in a shell I can’t deal with that. I believe she should have a hobby or be working on herself. She does work, was a flight attendant before COVID and has plans to return to that. Other then that she’s boring me out.