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| 3 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesSpeak for yourself. I'm a man and relationships are totally for me. Most of my friends prefer relationships over anything else. Yes, women need more, but it depends on the people too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesLooks aren't enough for commitment, you need compatibility. But to just date a girl, all a man needs to see is how she looks, and a small demo version of how she behaves. If that checks out, he's interested. A woman is way more picky. They need more dates to determine if you're a good choice or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesmost women have plenty of options most men struggle to get a date dating for women is a trial and error period of selecting the BEST partner they can for themselves if one guy won't pay on a date, but others will, it instantly makes you lower value to her, or shows her you don't desire her as much as the other guys do men and women value different things in their partners as a man you already saw what you liked in that woman and decided you wanted to date her, whereas the date she agreed to is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:38 AM |
| 5 | Kevin Samuel's approach to telling women what they need to hear is about as perfect as you can possibly getThe guy is a joke. He practically aims to place these women in the "gold digger" category. His questions basically go like this: K: You want a kid? Well you'll need a man making 100k to support that child. W: Oh, 100k? Ok, then I want a guy making 100k if that's what it takes to support a kid. He leads them on to a false narrative he prepared for himself, then traps them in it. Most of the women he has on aren't really ones who thought about this financially. So they likely don't understand that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)Basically you're projecting traits onto the younger person that would deem those traits "sexy" or at least "attractive" when in reality you might have nothing but those illusions of quality to offer. And the person, later in life, will recognize that and understand they've been fooled. But that's usually after they already had kids with this person and now their life is already over. For example I know some highschool girls (16) dating 23-25 year old guys (illegal). These dude's were nothing but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Effective Flirting Is The Most Important Dating Skill for MenYou kinda have to balance not giving too much attention to the girl, but in the same time, leaving a positive impression every single time you meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4M Do you appreciate a woman's personality/hobbies/achievement?Achievements? I'm just proud of her for feeling happy about it. I don't care about the achievement itself. Small or large, as long as she's happy, I'm thrilled. Her becoming a CEO or successfully making ice cream is the same to me. Personality? Yea, it's everything in a LTR. You NEED compatibility. Hobbies? Sure, if they overlap with my own and don't take up all the time in our relationship that would have otherwise been spent on me, then I'm ok with it. I don't "appreciate them". As long as she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 09:54 AM |
| 2 | how true is the thing about men with female friends?Men and women can be friends, here are the conditions: one of them has to make it clear they're not attracted to the other person one of them has to be in a commited monogamous relationship one of them has to be gay This is basically what it takes. If one or more conditions are met, men and women can be friends. I have a lot of female friends and I'm engaged. I'm not sexually interested in any of them, obviously. I'm purely interested in them as people. And I have both unattractive and attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 09:51 AM |
| 2 | How Important Is Sex In A Relationship, Actually?Sex and love are connected for me. I express love in many ways, physically is the pinnacle love. Sex drive fades, and sex become less frequent. But then I'll value different things aswell. For now, while we're both connected, young, horny, sex is important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?Well, take your dating privilege and enjoy. You'll find a man that's desperate eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 10:48 AM |
| 0 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?If you yourself are an overweight woman, you LITERALLY need to lose weight and you'll be able to secure almost any man no problem. If you're really unattractive, you'll eventually find a partner, but don't expect a partner to be sexually exclusive with a person that is sexually unappealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?Men not wanting you doesn't mean they won't have you. So many men have 0 options in dating, so dating unattractive women is sadly a thing. It's unfair because it's usually the dudes that look better have to settle for obese ass women because no single, average woman wants them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?70% means 70% of men and 70% of women, not 35% of each You presented no data, so I misunderstood it. Relax. And no, you're wrong about this I'm interested in talking about the millions of american men who are triggered by 80/20 but just fuckin fine with 70/30 🤷♀️😂 80/20 is a real thing on DATING APPS, where 80% of men get 0-1% of women, and the top 20% (best looking) get all the rest. 70/30 doesn't exist. Fat women date without issues. Obese women date without issues. It doesn't exist because w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?So it's about 40% for women worldwide. Not everything is America. Also, 70% of people meaning HALF of those are women, which probably means around 30-40% of those are women that are overweight. And yes, it's not a high standard. Not being a fat woman is easy. I'm a fat fuck myself, but I have a fiancée. If I didn't, I wouldn't go dating ae a fat fuck because I can overwhelmingly score only ugly women (fat women). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 06:09 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: do men have “protective” instincts to the average woman?I personally protect any woman that needs it, if the situation doesn't prove to be too dangerous. I do it strictly because women are weaker. And if men abuse them, well, they get what's coming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Are you someone who cares about a potential dating partner's politics?Not in general, but there are a few political parties in our country, so if she voted for these nationalists, racists and homophobes... I'd be very disappointed. Because it shows that she's clueless about issues affecting our country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 05:59 AM |
| 0 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?Listen, if you wanna build a long term relationship, you're gonna need a lot more to a woman than just her not being fat. If we're talking only physically, yes, most women just need to lose a bit of weight and they're good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?How did you get this number? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Does a woman being funny change her value in relationships at all?Good sense of humour is always good. I don't want my jokes failing... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor.Croatia. 6'0" is average, 6'3" above average, 6'5" tall I'm 5'9" I'm also 220 pounds. Usually young people here are thin/fit and beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do men fuck & date obese women if they're their last choice?Desperation and sexual depravation are fun things... A tree stump looks curvy when you're sex deprived. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 06:17 AM |
| 6 | If personality matters more than looks then why are most couples looksmatched ? Doesn’t that mean looks is the main currency ?Looks matter, to a certain degree. The reason most are looksmatched, is because most people, by definition, are average looking. So naturally they match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 06:16 AM |
| 2 | If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor.Yes, 40% of couples meet online. Leaving 60% meeting IRL. You gotta understand that just because a statistic shows that 40% meet this way, it has NO MEANING to you personally, if you happen to prefer meeting people *the other way (IRL). I, for example, never liked dating apps because they overvalued looks. So I stayed away from those and tried harder IRL. I dated mostly friends of friends and within social circles. That's the best way to find potential partners. Because they're "vetted" by your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Are there really that many men interested in silly nerdy girls?Yep, I love these type of women. It's nerdy, it's sexy and it's just cute af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 06:10 AM |
| 3 | If RedPill is wrong, then how can we explain the appeal of muscular men?Because muscular women aren't something that's a sign of very good health. Thin women with larger hips, breasts and buttocks are more designed to give birth. Men are the ones naturally evolved to hunt, so muscles are a sign of good health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 06:25 PM |
| 14 | If RedPill is wrong, then how can we explain the appeal of muscular men?Healthy bodies = more attractive bodies. Bodies full of steroids tend to be "too much" for women. Untrained, skinny or fat bodies tend to be unattractive for a lack of care. Fit, muscular, lean bodies are a very good sign of health. Sure, you can have a deadly disease and look hot, but it's what's on the outside that signals good health most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 02:12 PM |
| 4 | How does womens behaviour change when they get older (30s compared to 20s) and why does it happen?With age you inevitably gain life experience. Short thrills, fast money, casual sex, all that becomes irrelevant. People tend to get serious in their 30's and really settled into their careers and lifestyles. So some want to progress in life, other than their career, and have things like a nicer car, home, kids, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 02:10 PM |
| 48 | Purple-Pillers, how evenly are your beliefs in both pills mixed? What in particularly are your red and blue pill beliefs specifically?Redpill: Improve yourself to the maximum in order to attract the best partner you can Bluepill: not every woman is the same and just because you have some flaws, doesn't mean you're gonna be replaced as soon as your woman finds a better option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 12:21 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]Can Dating/Romance for the most part be broken down like this?I disagree. You say you HAVE to grow 5 inches. Are all the women you date the same height and have the same requirements? Doubt it. I am 3 inches below my national average. And basically the same height as most women here. I still found a girl bit shorter than I and we're engaged. It's not all over jist because you're not the tallest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 10:23 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All]Can Dating/Romance for the most part be broken down like this?Well, that's an issue you have to settle with yourself. Confidence is the biggest issue in men. That is, lack there of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 06:31 AM |
| 3 | For those who have ever been overweight: how do you view weight in the context of social and dating life?TL;DR: Being fat didn't have as much impact as being insecure. I found no love while fit and insecure, but found a fiancée as a fatass I am the perfect example, since I was both underweight, normal weight, fit and overweight throughout my life. As a kid, I was bullied for being super skinny. I had an operation that apparently triggered my eating disorder, and I have gone from underweight to 220 pounds. Basically, I've been fat most of my teenage and adult life. When I was a fat teenager, I could… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 06:19 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All]Can Dating/Romance for the most part be broken down like this?No, it's not. This happens all the time... As red pillers would say, the guy just "exercises his options" when he's higher value 🤡. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 04:05 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All]Can Dating/Romance for the most part be broken down like this?Sure... No guy ever cheated on his girl or moved on when they started earning more money, or got fit, LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 03:59 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All]Can Dating/Romance for the most part be broken down like this?That logic is super flawed. Would you take up an unemployed, very overweight, with no hobbies, knowledge how to cook, clean, etc. woman? No. Would you take her a few years after, where she's now living alone, has a job, works out and looks good, taught herself how to cook and clean? Yes, you probably would. You not wanting her at her worst isn't surprising, but when they got their shit together, now they look like a way more attractive partner. Same as a woman not wanting you when you're broke, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 03:57 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All]Can Dating/Romance for the most part be broken down like this?That's what I said... Monkey branching... Horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 03:35 AM |
| 0 | [Q4All]Can Dating/Romance for the most part be broken down like this?You can improve yourself while dating though Then it's gonna be very inconsistent... The success you're getting. And what if you find someone, keep dating them for a year and get in a relationship in that time, but the person you acquired is still stuck at the stage you were at a year ago. But you improved and now you're "worth" more. Sure, love trumps the fact you "deserve better" if you're in love with your partner. But as you said, not everything ends in long term or with kids. So monkey bran… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 08:42 PM |
| 6 | [Q4All]Can Dating/Romance for the most part be broken down like this?It's best to improve and then go and date. Dating at your low value self, then monkey branching later can leave people hurt. Don't date until you think you're good enough for the women/men you want. When you deem yourself good enough for the people YOU'RE attracted to, then date. Or realize your worth and date in that area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Two rational but opposing hypothesis about beautiful women.On average, people will be how they're naturally wired to be in the brain. Yes, beautiful people might get away with more shit, so their personality MIGHT go towards a "worse" alternative, where they behave any type of way and still get the same results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many liberal feminist women discourage so many under 30 women from getting married and having kids in their 20s ?They don't impose them. They say "do what you want, but this whole movement is about doing everything yourself, so you're not part of it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 11:16 PM |
| -2 | Why do so many liberal feminist women discourage so many under 30 women from getting married and having kids in their 20s ?Because in their opinion, no man is worth a damn. Or almost any man at least. It's probably because they missed their chances, so now they're trying to inhibit other women from achieving those goals themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you really want someone that challenges your views?Well, it would also get boring if someone agreed with you all the time. It gets boring if you just magically agree on absolutely everything. It's more fun if you have differing opinions about things. Not BIG things ofcourse, like having kids for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.If you, as a woman, aren't enjoying sex as much as your partners, then you either have trouble communicating your needs, or you pick worthless fuckboy that use you as a fuck doll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.3 months isn't indefinitely... I'm so glad I have a low libido so I can behave like a normal human being around women, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 04:49 AM |
| 1 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.There you go. And unless you've had casual sex, I think most men wouldn't mind. Definitely not slutty lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 03:55 AM |
| 1 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.Usually, at my age, 22, Nothing above 5. Absolutely not. Because the numbers don't add up. Either she gave it up in her early teens (red flag) or she had one night stands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 03:50 AM |
| 0 | What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives?No, we just shame them for being incels. Jk, but yea, a lot of people shame these men for no reason. Basically, they need to step up their game. Socially, mentally, physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.As long as she's had sex in long term relationships, and hasn't had it casually... I'm fine with it. But if she's picking up Chads, smashing, then getting ghosted every other week, nah... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.Yes, but if you want a virgin, you're gonna have to deal with that. 3 months is a good number. By that time the sex hungry guy should have buzzed off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.What about if she fucked around before 25, then started getting serious and vetting men because she wants to settle down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.Hint hint, because I'm not wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 09:11 PM |
| 0 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.It's not for no reason. If you wanna play games at one point in your life, you don't screen men for more than their looks. But if you wanna get serious, you gotta pick them slowly and carefully. Can't fuck the dude you wanna be the father of your children on the first date... That's not a good indicator... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 09:10 PM |
| 2 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.Ye, why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 09:09 PM |
| -1 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.So you want a woman with a low N count, but in the same time you don't wanna wait. So should she behave like this with every man that seems compatible at first? How would that work exactly? If she has sex on every 3rd date, because you were compatible ENOUGH. And then some guy she had sex with dumps her, she's now no longer a virgin and has a higher N count. Is she supposed to be incredibly good at reading people's true intentions from just 3 dates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.So? If a virgin decides his value is high enough for her to fuck him, then she does so. What's the big deal? He has attributes that falsely inflate his value (his looks). And? You gonna piss shit and cum about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:02 PM |
| 6 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.Men usually either don't wanna wait for either, or do wait regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:01 PM |
| 4 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.Oh I have a very good understanding of the topic. And btw, her having many partners doesn't imply cheating or STDs. If you're safe about it, and value relationships, but want casual sex when ur not in one, then cheating and STDs aren't something you worry about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.I'm engaged. And no, never asked. But I never pushed for sex either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?What are you even talking about..? I don't lean right. And I don't want casual sex... What is this comment... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 12:47 PM |
| 7 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?These women WANT to be around these men. Do they sometimes pay? Sure. But they don't give a fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 12:32 PM |
| 5 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?So many things wrong in this message lol... If you guys don't want to put effort into your marriage/divorce arguments, I'm not going to bother continuing them. You don't look at the reasons for the divorces, and you guys don't even take into account that you're looking at ALL MARRIAGES, not merely first marriage. Yea sure, looking at all marriages, not just first, it's still bad however, especially for men, because women initiate 80% of divorces. It's irrelevant why they failed, they FAILED. Of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 12:31 PM |
| 7 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?Bruh he just picked a woman he found attractive. Why did he pick HER EXACTLY? I don't know, any reason really. If you really think Trump couldn't fuck... Bruh... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 12:24 PM |
| 7 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?It does get you quality. All famous men have their pick. Because many beautiful women want these men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?Nationwide, nearly half (48.2 percent) of all Americans age 15 and over are married Given that half the marriages fail, that leaves about 24% married. But them remaining being married doesn't indicate a happy marriage. Sooo... That's not a good look. I say this AND I'M ENGAGED. This also shows the 80/20 rule is bullshit btw. No, it actually does the opposite. Danny DeVitto is definitely in the top 20%. Top 1% of men actually, since he's really rich and famous. 80/20 refers to dating apps. Where … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 12:18 PM |
| 10 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?Because he's famous. Famous people get sex because they're famous, nothing else matters. There are countless examples. You think trump, looking like he does now, would be making babies with a model, if he was an accountant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 12:04 PM |
| 10 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?I mean the dude got married. And so many women fuck celebs that there's no point in trying to prove he can get laid... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 11:44 AM |
| 28 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?"Women like feminine men, here are the examples" Let’s not forgot Kpop, Prince, and David Bowie were intentional successes. Ignoring the fact these are giga celebrities and women loved them for other reasons. Let's give you a claim with similar logic. "Women love extremely short, balding, obese men, just look at Danny DeVitto" Hyper success > all other traits In general, men that are very feminine won't do well with women. I have a "bisexual" friend that dresses very... Well, gay. And he's chise… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Do you think beauty is subjective or objective?Both. Some people are objectively beautiful because they just have too many positive, compared to negative traits on their face and body shape. Some people are subjectively beautiful to certain people. If you don't mind chubby girls, they're gonna be subjectively beautiful to you. Because usually, men prefer less chubby, or non chubby girls. There are also facial shapes people dislike and like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:43 AM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Because I wanna see if your opinion is realistic. You can't go around looking for virgins if you wanna smash on the first date. Because if they all did that, they'd all be non virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.How long would you wait for a virgin woman to have sex with you? Give me a time period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Yup. Can't have fetishes. Basically anything but missionary is rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 03:48 AM |
| 1 | The concept of masculinity and femininity are the reason why men's and women's life are messed upOk, and? You can be supportive of others being what they wish to be. And to express what they truly feel inside. But in the same time, you don't need to DATE these people if your personal preferences don't align. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.I'm just saying your argument is stupid. How is a woman with N count of 4, at age 25, a slut? What if she spent 1-2 years in 4 relationships? Yes, there are nuances as you said, but there will be with every adult woman. Why would they wait for YOU of all people to finally lose their virginity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)You gotta pay on dates. Don't be that weirdo that assumes a woman is equal to a man and that she should only be after your hotness. Men like hot and tame women. Women like dominant and generous men. Generous in all ways. Love, time, money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 3 | The concept of masculinity and femininity are the reason why men's and women's life are messed upCorrect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 07:13 PM |
| 2 | The concept of masculinity and femininity are the reason why men's and women's life are messed upAsian fetish lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 07:13 PM |
| 9 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)You provide only yourself and expect sex? Are you in the top 20% of men? No? Well, then no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 05:20 PM |
| 16 | Let’s talk about arranged marriagesIt breeds successful marriages. But "successful" as in "can't divorce so it's low divorce rate". It doesn't imply happiness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:19 PM |
| 2 | The concept of masculinity and femininity are the reason why men's and women's life are messed upBruh, that's maybe in Korea, UK and US. If there's one kpop fan for every 100 people, that means 1% of people are fans of kpop and therefore like feminine men. But that's nothing. And it's even less popular in other countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | The concept of masculinity and femininity are the reason why men's and women's life are messed upKpop is a thing because korean fetishes are a thing. Yes, they're that exception of "feminine" men. But it's not something a lot of women would find sexy. It's a small % of weirdos fetishizing asian men for being asian. I'm young. Basically no women like feminine men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 43 | The concept of masculinity and femininity are the reason why men's and women's life are messed upWomen simply don't want feminine men. They don't. Overwhelming majority don't. Even my fiancée, who is pro lgbtq and "against some gender roles", doesn't want me to act feminine. Women SAY they want their men to be able to cry. But if he did that as often and openly as a woman, she would feel less attracted to him. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] Question for those who think women put more effort into their appearance.Why are you pretending that cheating in order to appear more attractive is putting effort into actually being more attractive? If you don't look like that day to day there's no point. Because it's active effort to look better. Yes, it's cheating. But it's not easy to do it EVERY day EVERY time you go outside, or even when you're just chilling at home. There is a point, it shows that you're trying to make yourself better looking any way you can. Similarly, why don't you think that men who learn t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 12:35 PM |
| 2 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Well, I don't live in America, so if it is really that difficult, then you did right by moving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.I understand the US issue. Nevertheless there are still women who won't put as much value on looks. There just are. Not all women are that shallow. And there are short women aswell, and couples with height differences. I am in a country where average for women is 5'7" to 5'9". Many are even taller than that. But I'm only 5'9". And for guys here, the AVERAGE is 6'0". That's the norm. You're only taller at 6'3". And really tall at 6'5". So while it was hard for me, I didn't give up or think I'm go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 11:25 AM |
| 2 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.You said most men will be satisfied with "just any woman". No. They won't. When you ACTUALLY put enough effort it to make yourself dateable, then you'll understand that settings boundaries will actually make it easier for you to target certain women you'd like to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 10:48 AM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.That's where you're wrong. Women, sure, they want a good looking guy. Who doesn't want a good looking partner? The only difference being that women actually have the patience to look through many "applicants". While men aren't selective and many don't have standards. Ironically, having no standards leads to you looking pathetic. No girl wants to hear "oh I'd date ANYBODY". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 10:30 AM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.It's not possible to transfer personality into online dating. Sadly, it's mostly looks that determine if someone's interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?When you say you weren't compatible romantically. How do you mean? At the time I was very insecure. I was definitely not a whole person. And because of that I had trouble communicating with them. I barely got to know them out of pure nervousness. We also had different wants and needs in life. I didn't know what I wanted at all actually. I was looking for dates out of habit. Not even because I wanted a specific woman to be my gf. I just wanted "a girlfriend". Which isn't a good mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?Well my gf is really attractive. But she's cute at first. She's not like a supermodel. She's really sexy and all that but I like the fact it's not BOOM in your face, huge ass and titties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 08:24 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?Not really. You can say someone is different from your average something. Not quirky and different, but just actual different behavioural patterns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?Can you elaborate? Sure, but it might come off as rude. You see, I dated while very young. Before my 20's. From ages 16-19. Most girls were really shallow, looking only for good looks and branded clothing. My parents didn't have much money, and I was fat my whole life because of constant bullying in primary school (food was my cope). I was also not the greatest in the face and was 3 inches shorter than the average for men here... I didn't have a great time dating... The girls I did manage dates … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?Few women showed interest in me. Only after I got engaged have women started to notice me. But that happened like 2 times within 3 years lol. Usually, the women I dated I wasn't compatible with romantically. It was usually the "not like the other girls" type I dated. And they really WEREN'T like other girls, not the meme. Only one pattern tho. Cute > Conventionally attractive. I can't handle the heat with the amount of men interested in a hot woman I would be dating. So I look for "hidden treasu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work.Oh... Sure you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.You can't do that with women if you're not what I described | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:59 AM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.6'0"+ Lean/Super fit impeccable facial bone structure impeccable hair It's how you're born, not what you can become | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.So you only deem virgins "non-sluts"? That's very telling why you're not getting the women you want. You're also likely not HV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work.That's horrible :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Are you a Chad? No? Then you're not getting a Stacy. And you just said, point blank, "Stacy". That means nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | How much do diets play a role in relationships?Unless the person makes it their whole personality, it shouldn't be a problem. It also shouldn't be a problem if you are that type who makes veganism their personality, and your partner is agreeable, so they convert. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 06:08 PM |
| 3 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.The man has to: be of desired height (often objectively tall) has to be handsome has to be fit HAS TO PAY ON ALL DATES has to treat her equally + benefits (wink wink) has to be supportive of her can't have sexual fetishes can't watch porn has to be a higher earner ("ambitious" 🤡) has to treat her like the one and only woman in the world (her kwin) can't be flawed in any way, shape, or form | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 3 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.FDS women define "shitty men" as anything other than top 1% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.But it is true that the majority of men lack the quality/compatibility that the majority of women deserve Where did she say "abuse/misogynist"? You're putting words in there because you're trying to make me argue something else. I'm saying that you don't DESERVE a man that's compatible and of quality. You have earn him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 04:57 PM |
| 6 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.No. Men get excited to get a date in hopes of something more. Where in turns to rejection, you feel worse than before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 4 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Sadly yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Not gonna go in thinking that it will most likely eventually fail... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:40 PM |
| 3 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Totally wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:38 PM |
| 9 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Level up when dumping a man. That's not a level up, sis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:38 PM |
| 10 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.You don't deserve anything. Literally nothing. This entitlement is exactly what I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:36 PM |
| 4 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Minority of the men alive reproduce and even less have sex actively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 3 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.I will definitely be the husband. My fiancée is great and this talk about her messing with a richer or hotter dude just isn't reality for many women. They just won't do it if they're commited. But hey, maybe it's where I'm from. I personally don't wanna fuck random women all the time. Do I have the desire? The slight desire to smash a hot woman I see? Yea, sure, but it's not something I'd want ruining my soon to be marriage. I value relationships over sex. And that's why I'm completely fine bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 9 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Most men can't rise to top 10% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:13 PM |
| -1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Yes. Because are you looking to be miserable or happy? Do you wanna get used for free dinners and be dumped after plenty of them? Leaving you drained? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.You'd be surprised... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:12 PM |
| 8 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.It's not. It might be in the book, but most users look at themselves as the prize, encouraged NOT to improve, but rather to think men are of no value, and eventually one out of her league will settle for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:12 PM |
| 4 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Usually they're too high. So most of the time it takes women some adjusting, to what is FAIR to request.of a man. Since they're not looking for equals most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:07 PM |
| 10 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Idk. Many think they know what they want, but are sure as hell surprised when it doesn't work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.Thanks :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:00 PM |
| 11 | The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth.I think most guys want a pretty lady around their arm. There's no shame in saying that. I literally joke with my fiancée about her being my favourite bracelet and she lights up. As for girls, they wanna be proud of their man. That he's achieving something. And they wanna be HIS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | The bad-boy appealHigh SMV is attractive to women. SMV related to crime is also SMV. Not good, but still SMV. I also had a few women admit it was sexy. It's very disturbing and I try not to think about that. Otherwise nice girls, but jesus christ... Why would you EVER date a criminal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | men of PPD: would you marry an unattractive woman who has potential to get prettier?Nope. Women kind of... Don't improve unless there's an absolute necessity. If they get what they want looking the way they do,. they're gonna keep looking that way or get worse. Rarely will a woman actually put in significant effort and actively make herself better when she's already in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Sex just isnt worth as much as some of you think it isFor me it never did. Relationship status yes, but not having sex never bothered me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Cheating Mega ThreadWell, you do you. I'm not submitting to my woman. We're either equal or she's the one submitting. The difference being I don't abuse a position of power in a relationship. I'll stay loyal regardless of someone being submitted to me. Edit: money doesn't excuse bad behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Cheating Mega ThreadThat's stupid. If you'd really get cucked for a rich woman then you value money over loyalty. Or looks over loyalty. Sharing a woman is the dumbest thing a man can do, unless he's looking for an open relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Sex just isnt worth as much as some of you think it isSomething is worth as much as YOU value it. Nothing in this life has any value. It's all arbitrary. We put value on things ourselves. I don't see any value in a G-wagon. Some people would kill for it. Similar with sex. I know someone is likely to of not had sex often if they value it that much. Sex in a real LTR is just a part of expressing love. A PART of it. It shouldn't be something your relationship revolves around. And for all the RP's valuing sex that much, it's really not worth it. This i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Cheating Mega ThreadWould you tolerate a woman cheating on you? Exactly. Does that make you insecure? Not really, you just don't like your partner fucking other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 03:33 AM |
| 9 | Cheating Mega ThreadSome red pillers like to think that men are fine to be cheating, since men can have emotionless sex, and women can't. This is untrue, and basically no woman will tolerate being cheated on. Cheating is one of those things where it's either agreed upon (then it stops being cheating) or it's because one person is completely manipulated by the other. No man should settle for a woman that cheats on him. Neither should a woman to whom the man does the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?Casually date a person your life perspective doesn't bond well with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How much has losing weight impacted your dating life?Not much. Back when I lost 60 pounds and became fit, it meant nothing because I was still mentally crippled from being fat and called ugly all my life. So when I talked to girls at the time, nothing changed. If I did it now, when I'm a bit older and have a much better mindset, I'd be a god lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Line up guys....So she's: a mom clearly dumb entitled jealous but doesn't want jealousy back | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/05/21 06:18 AM |
| 5 | Women getting older and age gaps in relationships?You married an older guy who: has a lot more money than you do has his life together is the one benefiting from the tremendous power imbalance in your relationship Your issues are the fact you'll stop losing your value in looks, and therefore stop receiving attention from other men, including your husband. You're worried about not feeling as safe next to him, and him not craving sex as much as he used to. You basically want a fresh young worker, with 30 years of experience. You're literally tryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Men do care about a woman's occupation. (CMV)Gonna ignore all of it, it's just not true that men care. Idc as long as you're not putting away too much time on your career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?It's unfortunate for an average Joe like me. I work for an average paycheck and am satisfied. I did find a girl that doesn't mind, but it ain't common to NOT care as a woman, about a mans paycheck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 05:38 PM |
| 4 | Why are most college graduates women?Women weren't encouraged to go to school before. At least where I live. It was kind of "housewife or bust". Now that they're actively working in society, it's clear that the school system is rigged against men because most educators are women and unless the dude is really interested in something, this style of studying everything useless and vomiting it on tests caters more to women than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 0 | The redpill is not accurately portrayed in this subI agree. The redpill is too mild on this sub. If you look at Fresh&Fit, you'll quickly understand that redpillers are wannabe HVM with little to nothing to offer in relationships. Most women are objects of pleasure for them, and nothing more. Even if he does lock down a woman, he'll cheat on her because "men and women don't show love in the same way". Basically all excuses for being a bad partner, and only maximizing your own pleasure, which doesn't work if you're actually trying to find a long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 13 | Why are most college graduates women?From literally everyone I've observed, guys learn best from actual work experience, while women tend to like education and higher positions (where you do less physical work) more. They are completely willing to study for hours upon hours and be fine with it. While no guy I've ever known has been like that. Either they're interested in the topic and already know a lot about it, and actively learn about it (not through textbooks, but rather the internet in general). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are most college graduates women?Sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 08:37 PM |
| 25 | Why are most college graduates women?most educators are women school is catered better to how most women learn compared to how most men learn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Does tinder consist of low quality women??Well, it's mostly women attention seeking. Few women actually use it out of necessity. I know a few of that type, that just use it because they don't go outside much. Introverted type. But if they're very good looking, it won't matter. They'll get approached in the stairway, grocery store, etc. So it's not necessarily that they're low quality, but it definitely does say that they're attention seekers which isn't the greatest quality, but most women have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 10:52 AM |
| 1 | No women on the planet actually likes overweight dudes, and any fat dude in a relationship with another woman was settled for or killed the bedroom by getting fatOh I ain't doing it for her. It's so I don't die in my 20's lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 07:33 AM |
| 2 | No women on the planet actually likes overweight dudes, and any fat dude in a relationship with another woman was settled for or killed the bedroom by getting fatAhahahah Yea, nah. Luckily I don't snore and I'm losing weight. I don't wanna die from a heart attack lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 06:10 AM |
| 0 | No women on the planet actually likes overweight dudes, and any fat dude in a relationship with another woman was settled for or killed the bedroom by getting fatWell again, I'm not saying that if you're fat that you can get chicks, I'm saying that there are women who won't be that judgemental regarding looks, if you got other things to offer. Obviously, go to the gym. It helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 06:09 AM |
| 2 | No women on the planet actually likes overweight dudes, and any fat dude in a relationship with another woman was settled for or killed the bedroom by getting fatI'm technically borderline obese. I have a small fiancée. If anything I kill her in the bedroom, and she enjoys the size difference between us (100 pound difference). And we're both in our early 20's, AND she's a gorgeous girl, so settling wouldn't exactly be true in my case since she had plenty of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Women sexual marketplace value is ZERO. Here's whyIt's very telling what kind of women are around you, or what kind you've had experiences with. If you seriously think that women got nothing to offer besides sex, then you're very mistaken. The amount of emotional support a woman can offer is immeasurable. If my fiancée wasn't here, I don't know if I'd ever get back in the gym, work on getting my job licence, start up some new hobbies, start reading, etc. I might be more "traditional", but women definitely make a man's life more enjoyable, if yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 7 | Love between gendersIt's very telling what type of men you dated... Going through the hottest dudes, hoping one will be a romantic and treat you well, isn't a good idea... That MUST be what you're doing, since so many men these days are starved of love, that they'd give anything to a woman for it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?Did I say awalt? I'm generalising, not saying many exceptions aren't out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 09:51 PM |
| 0 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?Basically, women wanna live their life like they're men. And wanna party young, use their youth and beauty to gain favours, and then turn around and settle down when their worth starts to fall drastically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | The Orgasm GapI feel like most women that just have casual sex are a lot more likely to encounter the orgasm gap. Because the guys fucking them are mainly interested in their own pleasure. Unless they're planning to keep it FWB. But it's true that commited partners are a lot more likely to put in actual effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 05:45 AM |
| 28 | Cheating Mega ThreadIf anyone tells you "men don't cheat, they just exercise their options", run. This redpill notion that women don't care about you cheating as long as you provide only holds true for a minority of women. Most women are emotional creatures that WILL DEFINITELY be devastated if you cheat on them. Same as if a woman cheats on a man. It's not about "men can have sex with a woman and feel nothing", it's about self control. If you enter a monogamous relationship, it's MONOGAMOUS. Both sides. No excuses… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men complaining about women not being as pretty under the makeup when our society has put so much emphasis on their beauty and their need to maintain it?It is. But when it's your girl it doesn't matter AS much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men complaining about women not being as pretty under the makeup when our society has put so much emphasis on their beauty and their need to maintain it?I'm under no illusion of how most women look. I'm lucky to of found a girl that looks good without makeup. However, most guys that date, always have these awkward moments when their girls don't wear makeup. They don't point it out, it's just how their girl looks without makeup. And they don't really mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 10:14 AM |
| 3 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?A woman who is young, loyal, not money hungry. You women have to recognise that GROWING TOGETHER is A GOOD THING. A man doesn't have to be a pre-packaged deal. Grow with him. I have a fiancée and that's exactly how women SHOULD BE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many men complaining about women not being as pretty under the makeup when our society has put so much emphasis on their beauty and their need to maintain it?Yes. You get attached to a person. Then looks start to matter less. Sure, they don't always put on makeup at home, but I know plenty of girls that do, not a lot, but enough to boost their looks up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 08:03 AM |
| 56 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?Because unless you get lucky (considering you're not a HVM, but rather an average Joe): A man will never have a good time dating. Teenage years Most women care about looks only. So only hot guys get laid. Young adult You just finished your education, or are going to further it. You have little money, and women your age are dating guys 30+ that have their shit together. Adult You have more options than before, because you're in your prime years. Women your age have also made money, and no longer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Why are so many men complaining about women not being as pretty under the makeup when our society has put so much emphasis on their beauty and their need to maintain it?Because you have a way to artificially, cheaply, increase your value as a whole. Men are simple. We care about feminine looks and behaviour. That's the MAJORITY of what attracts us to you. But because women can go from a 3-4 in the face to a 6-7 with a bit of makeup, it's incredibly unfair. Also, most women only need to lose weight by eating properly and running for 30min a day on the treadmill. Doing that and putting on makeup, while behaving well, automatically makes you desirable. While men a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Are relationships business transactions?No.... If you have relationships like that, you're not finding good partners. Relationships are so much more than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Why should a woman have sex with you? What do you have to offer her?I don't care for casual sex. I got stability, loyalty, thoughtfulness, I'll make her laugh, etc. I got a bunch to offer, just not looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 06:52 AM |
| 3 | Hello RPs and other men (perhaps) alike, why do tattoos bother or not bother you? Does it make you see the woman as less or undesirable?A lot of people saying the woman is impulsive if she has many tattoos. Sadly, I would agree if her whole body is covered in tattoos. But one or two tattoos is kind of sexy to me. Me and my fiancée both plan to get some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls brag about having simps?They're using it as "proof" of their worth. "Look how many men are after me, that means I'm hot" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Covid-Vaccine Mega ThreadThat there is a pandemic and we need to control the actions of those who are not intelligent to recognise what's in the best interest of the world? Ok. Then I'm a totalitarian dictator that doesn't wanna let uneducated people decide to kill other people with a deadly, infectious disease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Covid-Vaccine Mega ThreadIt's a pandemic. There are regulations made so stupid people are controlled. For your own good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real?Yea... Because Andrew is extremely toxic himself. treats women like shit wants commitment from them but then cheats on them, and uses his XY chromosomes as an excuse for bad behaviour thinks that because he earns a lot of money and is tall and built, that he's a HVM, when really he isn't "doesn't take shit from anyone", a.k.a. constantly interrupts his guests but gets triggered when they do it to him, and gets borderline physical when he's throwing out women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Covid-Vaccine Mega ThreadYou and your stupid "private property rights"......... THIS IS A PANDEMIC. LAW > RIGHTS. YOU HAVE TO ADAPT TO THE SITUATION. The businesses were shut down to try and prevent the spreading as much as possible. That was stopped, because half the Americans showed how brain dead they are, and didn't follow the guidelines. So now they have mask wearing as a mandate, even for kids. Because they're desperately trying to prevent the spread. Kids spread half as much, but they're not gonna die from wearin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Covid-Vaccine Mega ThreadThe US has had a president who was so arrogant and uneducated that he went against the words of his best doctors and LIED about the ineffectiveness of mask wearing at the begging and throughout covid The US has combined capitalism with public healthcare, which makes healthcare very unaffordable to most people The US has an "army" of rednecks who vote republican, and think wearing masks is "against god", which is about 50% of the population The US has very bad general public education about healt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | “Women ghost before sex. Men ghost after sex.” How true is this comment? Have you seen the opposite happen?I've seen both. I have a lot of female friends so I know well enough how often some of them ghost after sex. Guys... Only the super hot ones do that if they have plenty of women after them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Covid-Vaccine Mega ThreadYou're completely, 100% delusional. Masks are what saved us from a real disaster. If there were no masks, the spread of covid would be at its maximum. And there would literally be tens of millions more deaths, and hundereds, even billions more infected. You don't know anything about the medical field, you're completely uneducated. Take it from me, an actual front line worker that has been to med school, masks prevent the spread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations?I protect how I deem protectable. I won't jump into a gang rape situation without a literal gun. That's insane and dangerous. 1 on 1 ? Maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Whats your thoughts on the idea/phrase of “We all pay for sex/It’s cheaper to pay straight up”?I don't like the idea that a relationship boils down to you paying on dates as a man, and just having sex. A relationship is so much more. Me paying on that date means a lot less than having a beautiful woman around my arm, parading her around town. As long as the woman pays half the bills at home, it doesn't feel like "paying for it" at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Women dating men less attractive than them generally means there's some flaw or cost that is leading to the discountMy fiancée earns more than I do. no trauma no daddy issues not a slut is pretty Not all women come with baggage just because they're not shallow. You'd be really surprised how great SOME women are, but they're just super hard to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Dating women who expect you to change is a bad strategy for menIf they try to push you to become a better version of yourself, then that's good. That's LITERALLY the partners role. If it's to change you completely, then no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 01:58 PM |
| 18 | The distinction between the Nice Guy^TMs and genuinely nice guys is irrelevant if women don't value either of themNiceness to random people leads nowhere other than them thanking you. If you're genuinely nice, you won't mind that this happens. I also do this stuff, but I do it because I like to help. I literally expect nothing other than a potential "thank you". Niceness when it comes to dating? Yea. Niceness alone won't get you far. Because it's expected of you to be polite. Yes, some men fuck even if they're rude. But that's only if you're attractive. Bottom line is, being nice is an expectation while dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 05:28 AM |
| 5 | How often do you think women of varying levels of attractiveness are approached by men?Honestly? Very conventionally attractive women get approached a few times a day. If it's a densely populated city, much more than that. If it's average women, they get approached here and there. Unattractive women? Honestly? Don't really get approached. This might be the effect of where I live, but it's kind of embarrassing to be seen with an ugly girl. You do the dirty in secret, and never talk about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Covid-Vaccine Mega ThreadOk... Your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Covid-Vaccine Mega ThreadWe just gonna ignore that we literally had lockdowns and majority of people are wearing masks which are SUBSTANTIALLY decreasing rates of people getting infected. We're also gonna ignore numerous health effects that are caused or triggered by covid, and can later be your demise? Aight. Keep being delusional about covid "not being that bad". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Do you hate being attracted to wo/men?At one point I did. I thought that women were these super judgemental creatures that wouldn't ever let me prove myself as boyfriend material because I wasn't a Chad. Then I understood that if I were gay, men would be a lot more masculine, and have all the traits I dislike in people. So now that I found a good woman, I'm happy I'm not into men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Covid-Vaccine Mega ThreadNo they don't. Have you verified it with every blue piller? And have you verified it with every person driving alone? Maybe they use their car to drive someone from work so they don't want any risks. You can still get s mild form if you're vaccinated. But if you transfer it onto others that aren't vaccinated, it can be bad for em | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 06:17 AM |
| 5 | Covid-Vaccine Mega ThreadWrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 06:16 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.Oh I'm sorry mr. Bouncer. I had no idea you form relationships with every person you let inside, so when they cheat on you, you get heartbroken... Your definition of assholes isn't good. For women, it's guys that cheat, ghost them after sex, treat them poorly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 06:09 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.Europe. Won't dox myself to prove a point, but a quick google search should show you that some countries in Europe have men as tall as 6'0" on average. the guys causing the most trouble and treating women like garbage tend to be between the heights of 5'8"-5'11" - average faced to unattractive and poor. You date men that you find unattractive and are poor? Yet you still date them and they treat you bad? Hmm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 11:39 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.Gentle giant? Yea... Maybe where you live... These dudes are usually assholes. And that comes from a person who knows plenty of gentle giants, but unfortunately a lot more bad ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 11:22 PM |
| 17 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.Noone wants to be called a hoe, but some of them keep picking the same fuckboy over and over, expecting different results. And guess what ladies, most 6'3", built, chiseled faced dudes are gonna treat you badly. The overwhelming majority of them. Why? Because you let them, in hopes of them turning husband material after months of trying to change them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Sex and dating will become a luxury in the future because of sex robotsWhen these ultra realistic VR pornos comes to life, or actual sex robots appear, we might see a turnaround in dating. Men will mostly still prefer REAL women, but unless these real women are attractive, men won't bother with the rest, because they can get a much more beautiful robot to cater to their sexual needs instead. Real relationships will still be wanted tho. Something a sex robot or VR porn isn't likely to provide any time soon. But it won't matter to men, since having friends and having… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 10:32 AM |
| 11 | Jordan Peterson advocates the red pill?Who cares really. He's a smart dude in some cases, has really dumb takes in others. Him advocating for red pill (in your opinion) doesn't really mean anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 10:24 AM |
| 4 | [Q4ALL]What would you say is the biggest mistake you see your gender make in dating/romance?You won't constantly put yourself down and stop taking care of themselves because people more handsome than them succeed despite their setbacks. That will lead to self improvement and possibly ascending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 09:49 PM |
| 24 | [Q4ALL]What would you say is the biggest mistake you see your gender make in dating/romance?Comparing your experiences to those of handsome men. "Chad doesn't shower and gets laid, why should I?" "Chad gets laid without taking women on dates, why should I?" "Chad isn't nice to women, but still gets laid, why should I be?" "Chad doesn't pay on dates, why should I?" It's things like these that that piss me off. It literally doesn't make sense to compare yourself to handsome men. Literally treat them like they're not human. Don't compare yourself to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 05:08 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Which gender hates their kids more for not submitting to their assigned gender roles, boys not being more masculine, girls not being more feminine?I want a lineage. It's not the way I was raised, but I just wanna continue my bloodline. It's caveman instincts. And yea, they can get a surrogate. That's not the only reason I'd prefer not to have a gay son. More than half my friend group is gay/bi people. And most of them don't find a partner, since the LGBTQ community is apparently very promiscuous and doesn't commit very often. This is not my opinion, this is what I've heard from them. I didn't even know that was a thing. Therefore I feel li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Do you think we overanalyze sex relations too much?Incels most definitely over analyze. So much so that they can't see the ACTUAL problems infront of them. Redpill just teaches you how to be a terrible person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | How many of you sincerely prefer the average women without makeup?Me. I don't care. Don't ruin your skin with these products. You look infinitely worse when you take off your makeup after years and years of wearing it. Your face is discoloured and you look very different each time we look at you, which is very strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Are we heading towards a polygamous society?shorter attention spans with every generations more advanced sex toys each year lack of willingness to go into a relationship less and less shame for casual sex culture top men are wanted the most top men (in general) don't care about women, because they can easily get them women overvaluing themselves more men undervaluing themselves more women more willing to stay single than date below their overblown standards less and less dependency on men (from women) Yep. We're slowly getting there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Platonic relationships with women aren’t the magical panacea for sexually unsuccesful men, and in the case of a friendship with a high N woman, they can be harmful.They're not meant to morph you into a normal human. That's on YOU. You have to learn to behave like a normal human being. Befriending women is a logical first step towards eventually finding a woman for a relationship. Having a relationship before female friends is infinitely more likely for that relationship to be full of miscommunication and misunderstandings. You have to KNOW women. You have to observe what they do and how they behave. The key is actually befriending a variety of them. I used… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 10:10 PM |
| 5 | [Q4All] Which gender hates their kids more for not submitting to their assigned gender roles, boys not being more masculine, girls not being more feminine?I feel like it's men. For example my fiancée says stuff like: I would love it if our future son was gay Stuff like that is something I wouldn't mind, but would definitely prefer it if he was just a masculine man when he grew up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Men saying ‘if you didn’t want me at my worst, do you don’t deserve me at my best’ have a valid argument.I think that a lot of men don't care about themselves. And they never reach their peak. Just because these men are lazy, and fine with the way they're living in their small apartments with a VR headset and porn for most of the day, doesn't mean that that is their maximum. It doesn't mean it's what they truly want. Sometimes it does take a woman to push you in the right direction and then you discover things you love to do you didn't even know you'd like doing. Sure... Half of the women I know wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Men saying ‘if you didn’t want me at my worst, do you don’t deserve me at my best’ have a valid argument.Me not wanting to date a jobless obese women isn't a high or surprising standard. Me then wanting to date that person when they got their shit together, got a good steady job and got fit, it perfectly normal. Obviously you don't want someone at their WORST. You want a normal person that constantly improves. You don't wanna pick up a druggie and hope they get clean one day. They ought to date you when they clean up their act themselves. Obviously, if a man is building his wealth over time, and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Why don't "Nice Guys" know any good people in relationships?They do, they just think they got it because they're hot, not nice. Even though you can easily find people where the dude is average or at least lesser looking than his girl, and it be a perfectly good relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:36 PM |
| 0 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.If you as a woman are getting used for sex, you're: not attractive enough for a relationship not good enough in other aspects to bring home | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:31 AM |
| 3 | men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why?I don't mind if a random person has casual sex, and does so safely, without endangering a % of the population with STD's. I don't mind if a personal friend of mine has casual sex, as long as they're willing to accept me not being vocally supportive. I do mind a partner of mine having had casual sex, because that's not who I AM, and that's not the type of role model mother I want as an example for my children. If I can walk around town, and see the men she had sex with all the time, because there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Are attractive guys actually less creepy?Halo effect. Usually more creepy with their intentions, because they can actually get the stuff they creepily are after because they're hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?No, I didn't. MOST doesn't mean ALL. Most don't mind staying single and dating Chads when young, then later they settle when they lose most of their dating value. On the other hand SOME women don't care from the start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 0 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Most women only wanna give chances to Chads. Eventually they settle. But some women straight up don't care. My fiancée is a good example, since I'm 220 pounds and 5'9". And she doesn't give a fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Do stats show that women more difficult to have as Long term partners than men?Well, I got a fiancée. And she definitely imposes a lot of stuff on me. But it's more so to read books and not waste my time by playing videogames all day. So I kind of implemented some of the things she wants me to do, to better myself as a person. Ofcourse, I fall out of some of those hobbies I wouldn't enjoy. But some I keep. So it's fine with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Most women that get rejected are rejected by guys in relationships or by Chads. Chasing men that are already taken or too hot for you doesn't entitle you to say "wow I've been rejected so much". Most women, overwhelming majority,. won't ever know how it is to be rejected by so many women. Women that are single, and sometimes even below your looksmatch. It's overwhelming the amount of rejection men get compared to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Do stats show that women more difficult to have as Long term partners than men?I feel like it depends. For example, a woman will constantly try to change you and get you to take up some hobbies or activities you wouldn't normally do yourself. They kind of try to impose their life on you. Whereas a man is more likely to just do his thing, and set aside a part of his life for you. There won't be any "let's go on this trip on Sunday!" Or "let's go to the museum on Friday!". It's more relaxed dating a man, for sure. But, if you don't mind someone imposing their lifestyle on yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:54 AM |
| 0 | What are things men find attractive?Doing everything? Meaning being an adult? I do the same. I have a job, and when we have kids I'd come home when I finish work and take care of them alongside her. We split house chores 50/50. What do you even mean??? Some women literally think that if the man isn't absolutely a stay at home cuck or some wealthy business man, he's nothing at all......???? We're literally adults. Both have jobs. When we have kids, while at work they'll be at our parents and when we come home they're with us. We ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 05:36 AM |
| 0 | What are things men find attractive?She wants and will do both. Mine and her parents already offered to take care of them while we work. So it's no issue at all. But when she comes home, she'd obviously want to be with them. She's doing some low level programming at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 05:09 AM |
| -1 | What are things men find attractive?It is different then. This mindset doesn't go beyond America. Everyone thinks they need to be giga rich in America. Most people don't mind doing normal jobs and having a calm and happy life. Women and capitalism doesn't work well. The higher women earn, the more they want an even higher earner. And they forget that to men, career women aren't something that's attractive. Other traits are ones that matter, like looks, behaviour and some general commonly shared opinions. Not your career. It isn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 01:40 PM |
| -1 | What are things men find attractive?You can be a feminine woman, that has a normal job and works alongside her husband. Ask my fiancee 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Why is a woman's lack of sexual experience considered attractive but a men's inexperience considered unnatractive?Women's mind: if no women wanted him, why should I? Men's mind: I can be the first to have her? Amaizing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 11:38 AM |
| -1 | What are things men find attractive?Where I live, if we both have a job, we'll make it raising a kid. I don't want a career woman who's constantly talking about her job. I want a woman. Not a man. I don't think you understand what men like me want. We want WOMEN. Someone who looks up to me and supports me at every step of the way. While I take care of all her needs. This years are time of equality. So ofcourse she can work. And should, since men aren't the sole earners these days. So 2 normal workers is fine. I don't want a woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 11:02 AM |
| -3 | What are things men find attractive?No. You don't need to go after a high earning man to have 1-2 kids. I said "wants kids", alternative to "doesn't want kids". If you didn't notice, most families aren't had by millionaires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 07:34 AM |
| -2 | What are things men find attractive?feminine behaviour acting cute genuinely nice and caring wants kids smart good sense of humour willing to try my hobbies willing to share your hobbies with me not money hungry not a feminist not career oriented | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 05:26 AM |
| 6 | Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger?Some men. I know I and majority of my mates would never | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted toNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?Balkans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.I don't think you saw some of my other comments. I'm engaged. We're young and currently don't live together (will change soon, because I'm getting a job again and she's finishing college in a year). So moving in together will definitely increase the sex. I'm not saying that I wouldn't desire it every day if she was around. I'm saying now that we're not living together, I can easily go a month without sex, no problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.I don't watch porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?So many things about women. I live in a christian, conservative country. So my world is gonna be a lot different than a person's in America. we have a clear distinction between normie and alternative girls we mostly have women who want the man to make all the moves, but they'll be thankful and act graceful about it dating apps aren't used much here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | What does someone do in a sexless relationship?Watch porn or cheat. If there's an issue, address it and fix it if possible, if not, then do the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | What is the most honest thinking a man goes through in a relationship?It's good. For me, because I found a good match, we enjoy our time together. It opens doors to new activities, it allows you to share everything with someone (this sounds bad at first but it's actually more enjoyable). It fulfills that part of you that wants a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 06:05 AM |
| 2 | What gives a young man more clout, sleeping with a bunch of women or having an attractive gf?Depends on his circle, but often times the latter. However, it also depends on your age. If you're 40, sleeping around makes you look immature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How much is love worth?Nothing can put a price on it. Not for me at least. I'd never give up my fiancée for material gain. Or any sort of power or anything similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 10 | Feminism Mega ThreadSo many things wrong with this... Many people have different ideas inside feminism. some support trans people, others don't some support hookup culture, others don't some still want the man to provide, others don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 5 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.Im fine as it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.Oh I don't currently live with my girl. We're young, I'm between jobs because I gotta take an exam (related to my job, after I did my internship for a year) so I still live with my parents. She's in college. When we're together it's never an issue. Once or twice a day. But if we didn't do it for a month idc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 07:11 PM |
| 19 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.I have an "urge" to fap. Tbh do it mostly out of boredom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 37 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.I feel you on that one. I have a low libido. Can go months without sex with no issues at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 7 | What exactly is "pump and dump" and how frequent is it?Guy leads a girl on, fucks her, ghosts her. It's usually when women only date hot guys and then are surprised Pikachu face when they get fucked and ghosted. Like omggg a dude that gets casual sex every day fucked me and left me on read, whaaaaaaaaaat????????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Do you think any man can Be a “player”?Right off the bat, no. If you're not good looking, instantly disqualified. If you are good looking, but not charming and know how to court women, possibly not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Utah Law requires men who are biologically the parent to pay half of pregnancy costs -- positive or negative?A father is a person who raises you, not the person who created you. Imagine donating sperm and some bitch goes after your money... I've seen some stories like those popp up. That's literally insane. Otherwise, if you were reckless and slept around with women you didn't want to be mothers of your children, it's your fault. The kid didn't deserve that. But for example, if the dad doesn't want the kid, and the mother does, he should be able to abandon him, just like the mother has the right to abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Why is Tinder and so on significant?It creates MORE incels, because these women have MORE Chad options than before, and feel less of a NEED to give a chance to a dude that seems nice and approached her, but doesn't look that great. I used to approach girls a lot. Some real hotties too. And a few gave me their number. Yes, most of them failed on first date, likely because of lack of attraction, but that a shot wouldn't have been given to me if I were on a dating app. Because they'd swipe immediately and not give my personality a ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 06:32 AM |
| 1 | How far would you lower your standards to get laid?Wouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is Tinder and so on significant?Before they could select the Chads they had in their immediate social circles. Now it's ALL Chads from her town being selected down to the perfect few that make it on dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: In your opinion, at what age is it still pathetic to be a virgin?If you really haven't managed to court another person until 30, that's extremely sad. Either because I genuinely feel bad or because the person is so pathetically bad at interacting with people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Confirmation of 80/20? Dating app Twoo Response RatioThey get too many options. The fact it's even 20% is amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 09:49 PM |
| 16 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?It ain't about forcing someone to lower their standards. For me, it's frustrating the amount of expectations many women have, that aren't met by these "hot" guys. I'm looking at these men, and I can clearly tell they're fuckboys. But these women fall for it EVERY SINGLE TIME in hopes of finding one that isn't a shitbag. However. When they finally let a good guy into their circle, and he impresses them, they're suddenly "in love", and "can't believe they found a guy like this". Turns out all they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?4 categories: people who want casual sex but can't get it people who want casual sex and do get it people who don't want casual sex and can't get it either people who don't want casual sex but could get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 10:09 AM |
| 5 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.Sharp jawline, strong chin, high cheeckbones, hollow cheeks, proportionate nose, hunter and coloured eyes, forward canthal tilt, good thick hair and hairline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 11:02 AM |
| 15 | If men and women can just be friends, Then why do a lot of women stop talking to their male counterpart once they are in a relationship?You just get busy.happens with guys too. They drop their friends when they enter a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What would be the top three factors that enables a person to get more casual sex than another person?Good facial bone structure, good body (tall, big frame and muscular), confidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Do most men really prefer younger women to women in their age range?I mean.. women are most beautiful in their 20's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 08:22 AM |
| 2 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.The actor is good looking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 07:01 AM |
| 2 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:58 AM |
| 8 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.I just googled "cute guy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 18 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.cute boy jacked guy nerdy guy bald guy Notice a trend? All very good looking, even though they have different likeability points. All have/are: good head shapes impeccable facial structure skinny/fit It's not about "people like different things". Those are personality traits. But all like this type of dude, just in different contexts. Yes, personality matters. Ofcourse it doesn't matter online, but if online dating becomes the rule, and 40% (and growing) are meeting online, looks start to matter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | What do you think would be a silver bullet for the dating market?Think Dictator would fit me more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 4 | What do you think would be a silver bullet for the dating market?ban dating apps shame hookup culture shame men who don't want to "be tied down" shame women who don't want to be wives and mothers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 07:08 AM |
| 2 | What is there to gain from an even sex market?Why would we have a healthcare system. If you fell down a tree and broke your neck or leg, suffer the consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | What is there to gain from an even sex market?If only women and top men have sex, and bottom men have nothing, why would bottom men be okay with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 08:24 AM |
| 6 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.I definitely agree. Never had casual sex, nor wanted to. But my ideas would likely change if I had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 08:24 AM |
| 3 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manWomen put more effort into their physical and social media appearance. Making them SEEM more appealing. I'd argue most women, without makeup, would actually look even WORSE than their male counterparts on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | So, I'm not part of the top 20%. How can I change that?No such thing as too tall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Practically speaking, is there anything wrong with increased promiscuity in society?Results of increased promiscuity: more STD's being spread around top % of men will get all the women while bottom % of men get no women women will continue to increase their standards for looks and dick size (both mostly uncontrollable) more inceldom among young men more transactional relationships for bottom % of men (loveless sex for money) onlyfans and porn industry profits go through the roof because the bottom % of men can't find women emotionally and sexually deprived men being emotionally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 09:48 AM |
| 5 | So, I'm not part of the top 20%. How can I change that?keep going to the gym and building muscle, while eating a well balanced diet put effort into your skincare routine, it'll make your face and rest of your body feel nice and smooth, and it will look more appealing go to a hairstylist to recommend you the best haircut type for your own head and continue going to a regular hairdresser with the same haircut order invest money into clothes, it can really make you stand out more in public (colour coordination and well fitting clothing) (remember expen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 09:42 AM |
| 4 | BluePillers, what makes you still believe the bluepill? Have you gone from red/purple pill to blue pilled?I just never gave up on women. I strongly believed that even though most wouldn't look at me, some would give me a chance, even though I don't look the best. And so they did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Which race of men has the easiest time dating? (intra-racially to be specific)Oh there are stats, can't bother linking, just Google a bit "which race has it best in dating" the stats will.come | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 08:41 AM |
| 3 | My previous thread got removed for witch-hunting so I'll try again -- is it unethical to tell a minor "if that's your pic, then wow"?Definitely weird. There's no way you didn't know she wasn't at least in her early 20's. So it's weird... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Which race of men has the easiest time dating? (intra-racially to be specific)White. Statistically whites have it easiest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 06:50 AM |
| 1 | My previous thread got removed for witch-hunting so I'll try again -- is it unethical to tell a minor "if that's your pic, then wow"?Depends on how old you are mate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 06:49 AM |
| 2 | My previous thread got removed for witch-hunting so I'll try again -- is it unethical to tell a minor "if that's your pic, then wow"?You tried converting atheists to Christianity??? Holy shit DM me, I gotta hear what you gotta say to an atheist like me lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Does "male-privilege" exist in developed societies ?Yea absolutely. It's more minor than it is in less developed countries, but it exists. For example, when it comes to rape, men don't call our their friends for bad behaviour. Even if they see it, they're gonna overlook it, and would rather believe their friend than a girl who got assaulted. This "rape culture" is something I didn't believe in because it sounded ridiculous, but when I think about it, it does seem to be a really big issue. Do I think the problem also lies in the hookup culture? Ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 06:47 AM |
| 5 | Do men want woman to just do what they say and be okay with whatever they want?Everyone would ideally like to do everything that benefits them and make all that as selfish as possible. Reality sets in, and people realize that it's not ok to do that. To form a partnership you need to consider the other person's feelings aswell. I don't think all men would like a one sided open relationship. To me, it would feel as if I'm betraying my partner. And I'd feel bad. If you wanna have casual sex, either be in an open relationship, or single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 09:50 PM |
| 17 | Attractiveness Has Nothing To Do With Love; Only LustAttractiveness is mainly physical, but your behaviour can influence it too. Unless you're UNATTRACTIVE, that's when behaviour can't make you more attractive (not as a partner, I'm talking specifically about physical attraction). When you're average, it matter how comfortable you are in your body, how you express yourself and how you act in general tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | What is your view on guys who like to keep exes around?I don't have issues with guys she regularly hangs out with. I even met all of them and they're good lads with no intentions. We're all friend now lol. But her ex having feelings and having been in a romantic relationship with her is VERY sus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | What is your view on guys who like to keep exes around?I did for my girl, and since her ex still had feelings (he's a pathetic dude) I would never be comfortable with them hanging out. That's a hard NO from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | What is your view on guys who like to keep exes around?No. Because you might feel more inclined to relapse into an old relationship, than starting a new one with a whole other random person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Men Respect Women Who Like Sex More Than Those Who Withhold ItI'm engaged and happily so. I'll go ahead and take my success and run with it, since taking the red pill would only ruin things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 06:42 AM |
| 0 | Men Respect Women Who Like Sex More Than Those Who Withhold ItBecaause those relationships were often based on only physical attraction. And that's why they had sex on the first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 06:41 AM |
| 7 | Men Respect Women Who Like Sex More Than Those Who Withhold ItSure. She successfully vetted a fuckboy before me. He took her on 4 dates, she denied sex, and he ghosted. I fully agree that women should vet men and make them wait for sex. To see if they want more than sex. I think many guys are just gross and want only your body, and quickly move on after they got it. EDIT: I don't agree with women vetting some men and making them wait, but having casual sex on the side with men they find hot. I don't want a woman that let's some men in on the first date, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Men Respect Women Who Like Sex More Than Those Who Withhold ItTo me, sed before a 3rd date is a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Is most dating advice rooted in good nature or narcissism?Dating advice is dependent on the personal beliefs of the individual. Some men would call you a simp for even complimenting a woman, while others claim you gotta pay for everything. It's dependent on the individuals past experiences as well. If they were all negative, well... Most of their dating advice will be pessimistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:58 PM |
| 10 | Men Respect Women Who Like Sex More Than Those Who Withhold ItI didn't have sex with my fiancée until the 2nd month of the relationship. Until then we did some stuff like that. But what I really mean is just that I know that she's romantically interested. I don't need her to jump into bed with me, 3rd date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:39 PM |
| 34 | Men Respect Women Who Like Sex More Than Those Who Withhold ItIt doesn't necessarily have to be sex early. To me affection early is good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that most relationships really start as friendships?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyWomen want this for themselves, and they wanna be independent of the men they date. Great. But then they start wanting men that earn even more than them, because of hypergamy. And they mistake their own value on the dating market. Making more money as a woman doesn't mean they are now entitled to look for men that make more than them. Because that's how it usually goes. "I want a man on my level or higher". But high earning men don't care about how much she makes. They care ONLY about how she lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with arguments this man makes?Kevin Samuel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:35 AM |
| 5 | What is your view on guys who like to keep exes around?I'm a guy. And yea, it's just an excuse for a person to keep their ex around. They clearly feel differently towards them than they do other friends. They used to be lovers at one point, and it's never the same after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:21 AM |
| 6 | What is your view on guys who like to keep exes around?Red flag. Any person who has baggage from an ex is a red flag. Your ex should be dead to you. If you're "friends" or whatever, there's always a risk of your partner running to their ex after you run into troubles in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Just face it, Relationships are deadWomen not being in the workforce was used as an equaliser, by which women's hypergamy was satisfied and all men were earning more than their female counterparts, because women weren't working at all. Making it possible for almost all men to find a woman. Now, that the education system clearly benefits women, and women are going into higher and higher earning positions, their hypergamy and selfworth is flying of the roof. They're falsely connecting their job with their value, because men don't se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: FDS women have a ridiculous expectations in public placesHow is approaching women in public bad manners? You see a cute or beautiful women, you are respectful and shoot your shot, if she denied you, you walk away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Mega ThreadLook, employers can be more inclined to employ a man if they don't want a worker leaving and taking so much time off. But they legally can't in most countries, there are laws protecting women of JUST THAT. You can literally take people to court for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 07:02 AM |
| 0 | ''John Shaming'' and the stigma around paying for sex; only a Western thing?You don't understand. Sometimes women are literally scared of refusing sex to a man. Sex may never be implied, and you personally wouldn't have a problem with that. But you gotta understand that some men don't view it that way. They can get angry and lash out at these women. Recently, a good example, David Dobrik's "friend" cornered a girl in a room, and wouldn't let her out until she gave him a kiss. Literally didn't let her out of the room, blocking her path. Do you see how a small woman would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Feminism Mega ThreadAnd yet women get off easier than men do for the same crime. Maybe if we stop viewing women as always being the victim we find they commit similar amounts of crime as men. Yes, that should be fixed. And mens rights activists are accounting for that and fighting for equality on that front. Talk about feels over facts. I point out a fact, and you call it "feels over facts". Actual dumbass. Nope, just men as clearly they are the ones to blame as clearly its only men who caused all the problems for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Feminism Mega ThreadDon't forget the bashing of men, and not call out women. Also men don't owe women anything. You specifically ignore where I said that we should hold false rape accusers accountable... Therefore I don't encourage bashing men. Remember kids only men rape and women are the victims. Here are some stats sweet cheeks. As of 1998, an estimated 17.7 million American women had been victims of attempted or completed rape. As of 1998, 2.78 million men in the U.S. had been victims of attempted or completed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Mega ThreadIt's not the existence of the wage gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Mega ThreadThese morons commenting "IT CAN KILL YOU" KEYWORD, CAN. I didn't say it was IMPOSSIBLE. In MOST CASES you survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Feminism Mega ThreadI will talk to you about logic. I MENTIONED TESTOSTERONE. Because you left it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Feminism Mega ThreadI'm not saying that it's unjust women get paid while they're taking time off to be pregnant. I'm just mentioning that as a reason an employer might be more inclined to push for a man or a non-family oriented woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Feminism Mega ThreadWomen aren't less violent because they're weaker. It's because they're significantly lacking testosterone and are therefore less aggressive. Which men have a lot of. Logical fallacy you are making: Men have a lot of testosterone Therefore They are stronger Therefore Men are more violent because they're stronger Correct way of looking at it: Testosterone makes people more aggressive Therefore Men are more aggressive because they have more testosterone Women aren't less violent because they're wea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Feminism Mega ThreadWhat..? It's not weakness that prevents women from killing. It's that they just don't kill as much. Slitting someone's throat doesn't take a lot of strength. Neither does shooting someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Feminism Mega ThreadWomen leave work because the OPTIMAL solution for who takes care of the baby when it is just been born, is the babies MOTHER. You have some dads that take leave when the baby is born, but that should only be done in cases where the father is 100% ready and willing, also, if he earns less than his wife, since it has a financial purpose then too. This is a disadvantage YOU CHOOSE as a woman, if you decide to make a family. You need time off work. For YOURSELF. The employer has every right to be di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Feminism Mega ThreadLol imagine thinking men are socialized to be killers. And that it's not caveman instincts and genetics that are still flowing within us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Feminism Mega ThreadAnd men in all the others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Feminism Mega ThreadIn some aspects I think it goes overboard. Some false theories like the wage gape taint the movement since they're clearly falsehoods and shouldn't be brought up. Another one are abortions. And the negation of the fact that those fetuses are infact yet to be born human babies. And normalizing abortions like it's a procedure, rather than literally taking a human life, and it being an extremely tough moral decision to make. Some things are valid, like fighting the normalisation of rape. And fighti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Feminism Mega ThreadSometimes guilt comes over people and they admit to it being fake. Or it's found out they were lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Feminism Mega ThreadMen are the majority share holders on crime in general, especially violent crime. Just because there are certain areas where women "excel" in violent crime, doesn't mean that men do most of the "bad stuff". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Feminism Mega ThreadIt would help that women are questioned before making the decision to be a hooker. Maybe there is past trauma that CAN bi fixed with medicine, time, mental healing by breaking down what happened alongside a psychiatrist, etc. If it's just them being poor and resorting to prostitution, then sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Feminism Mega ThreadThe issue being that men are naturally more violent. This is simply explained away because of testosterone. "Some races commit more crime"? You mean people who are poor commit more crime? And more of certain race/races in a country like the US commit more violence, not because their skin colour, but their disposition in life, due to their dispositions in the past. And given that that is true (which it is), women should then logically committ more crime since they were obviously way more subjugat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Single men (so called “betas”) what if it’s a good thing that you can’t get a girlfriend?Better to have the option to date or not to, than to be denied datiing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Feminism Mega ThreadContinue to encourage men to call out other men. Heavily punish false rape allegations. That way we'll have less men getting away with rape. Because the reality is that it's not some creep in the forest, waiting for you to run by, so he can snatch you up and rape you. It's often times random men who catch you when you're drunk and use you for sex without consent. We need to address this a lot more. But in the same time, punish real rapists and those who falsely accuse men of rape even more heavi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 09:47 PM |
| -1 | [Q4All] Was there a specific moment When you realized your league/Level?I realized that I'm a 5. Despite being many people's 4, I'm definitely a 5. Although I'm engaged to a 7-8. I'm dating out of my leauge, but I wouldn't give myself less than 5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How Much Is Your View On Relationships Influenced By The Family You Grew Up At?0 My parents are in a loveless marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the push to get people to be "happy on their own" and is it a good thing for the individual and society as a whole?It's important that you feel whole as your own person. But understanding that being able to share everything with another person is even better than just enjoying things for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Does intentions/motivations matter or just results/actions?Both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Let's rumble: What does it mean to not put women on a pedestal? Do any "pill" actually teach men how not to do that?Other than blue pill, pretty much every other pill. Men have an issue of naturally putting women 1st. And this sucks because it makes dating hard on us mentally. Sure, you can be a gentleman. But you don't need to make women these god like creatures that are unobtainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 06:57 AM |
| 2 | What patterns have you noticed in the people you tend to date and/or attrract? What kind of conclusions could you draw about that?I tended to date: not overly sexual people more down to earth girls that aren't complete normies atheists that laughed at my jokes and liked me as a person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Define a feminine woman.These women are common in the balkans..? Women are gorgeous here why is this a surprise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Define a feminine woman.That's my fiancée I described. 5'5" 110 pounds (hourglass shape) well shaped butt and boobs medium sized hair round face with big eyes and even bigger round glasses smart good sense of humour dresses feminine and behaves feminine very helpful wants kids kind and caring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 07:22 PM |
| -2 | Define a feminine woman.Did, but it's dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?How. If they're on average physically inferior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?No it doesn't. Men are shit, women can be shit too. But in this physical aspect, they sometimes need protection. If it's your friend, you should probably help. Even if it's a stranger, depending on the situation, you should help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Kaj tocno, ponovi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Ma kaj si ti mislio | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with arguments this man makes?I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Men.Are.Trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Interesting at FDS there’s a trending post about a woman having to give her boyfriend the card to pay so that he wouldn’t feel insecure.I don't care what others think. I care what my girl feels like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 11:26 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looksI was too when I was in social situations. But you gotta help yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 11:26 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looksAgain, that's just dating apps. The reason that is is because part of your attractiveness is how you carry yourself. On dating apps that won't matter because they can't see you IRL or hear you. IRL it really matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 09:44 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looksAgain, you misunderstood the point. If you meet the minimum requirement, it's a go. Often times it's not that high. But you gotta really make them like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 09:41 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looksNope. That's just untrue. Your looks are part of your likeability. Obviously you gotta meet some sort of requirement, but often times it's nothing crazy. Your personality can totally take the cake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 09:36 AM |
| 0 | Define a feminine woman.Ahhaahah Obviously purposely misunderstanding my point. Men can be all those things, but those aren't traits that are very masculine. Those are just general good traits, but are traits also found in feminine women. Masculine traits are confidence, assertiveness, dominance and such. You know what I mean but you'd rather purposely misunderstand so I won't reply to your further comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 09:34 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looksAn attractive woman and a woman you find attractive are two different things. Objectively attractive women are always attractive. But harder to find if you're into nerdy stuff, or some real guy stuff. Women you can find attractive, and that are interested in the same things depends on your personal preference for beautiful women. What kind and how many women do you find attractive, that's on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 09:33 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looksWell, you don't necessarily look for hot women if you're looking for that type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 08:28 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looksIt's not. You can definitely improve traits that would make you a more likeable person. You CAN become more social. All this "I'm an introvert" bs is so boring to listen to. I was told I was antisocial by my psychiatrist back when I was younger. So? I crushed my anxiety and overcame it. These are things that you CAN change. Being into nerdy stuff and shit like that is never a problem. Those parts of your personality you can't necessarily change, but you don't have to. You'd be surprised that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 08:01 AM |
| 6 | Define a feminine woman.It means that they're not trying to absorb traits of a man, but rather embrace their femininity. I love these type of women: giggly genuinely nice kind and caring helpful sweet talking gentle small (frame and height) round face with big eyes and a big smile longer wavy hair proportional boobs and butt slim figure with a more hourglass shape doesn't dress in all black, but rather brighter colours wears dresses and cute outfits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Interesting at FDS there’s a trending post about a woman having to give her boyfriend the card to pay so that he wouldn’t feel insecure.It's about how I feel when I pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Mah ti si glup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 07:49 AM |
| 4 | Why are girls on Bumble hotter then the girls on Hinge?Weird question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | What *should* men/women's standards be? If you criticize them for having unreasonable standards, what should these standards be then?Not hypergamous. Or at least not if they're not willing to rise up to their standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Interesting at FDS there’s a trending post about a woman having to give her boyfriend the card to pay so that he wouldn’t feel insecure.I do. I don't like my girl paying for stuff. I'd rather pay on all dates and her paying more rent so it's equal. When we go out, I like to pay for her everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Question to those who believe personality does matterTo what extent does personality matter? Personality that makes you a genuinely likeable person to a lot of people. Usually traits like that would be: social, nice, funny, smart, etc. What do you think constitutes a good personality for dating as a man? The question doesn't make sense since it assumes all women are the same, and there is one greatest personality that fits for all women. The truth is, it depends on the woman you're trying to attract. Being dominant and a manly man might work for s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?There are things you can argue based on facts alone. But come on. We all know men can be abusive, and it's unfair to women. And we are the ones who sometimes gotta step up. Especially for your friends. But you don't have female friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Ah, wrong again, I'm neither a woman nor a simp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?No, because there's no need to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?If you're a real man, you'll help your female friend out. You'll help even a random woman out. Not necessarily in a god damn deathmatch. But with something simple, if you see she needs help. Helping a dude is fine, helping man is white knighting? Ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Face it mate, when you respond with kekw you sound like a moron | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Is there a threshold for men to be attractive or is it just relative ?I don't think that, statistically it's true that these features are most attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Oh don't worry mate, you'd probably be useless anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Is there a threshold for men to be attractive or is it just relative ?It's just a way your scull is formed that is most commonly found attractive. This is basic biology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Inkwell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Is there a threshold for men to be attractive or is it just relative ?Because those are objectively attractive features. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?The top percentile of men who do well on dating apps (get regular casual sex), are the ones who can get it at all times. It's around 20% on dating apps. But if we're talking IRL, only about half of those that can keep women interested online can do so irl aswell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?No, it's just an irrelevant comparison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?Men can't get casual sex unless they're in the top 5-10%. At best, a relationship is what they can get. Women can get both. They either have to set realistic standards that oppose their hypergamy, or they can stay single and take occasional sex from men they find hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 4 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?Most men don't want sex from a woman that doesn't wanna have sex with them. You paying her doesn't mean she wants sex with you now. It just means she HAS to give you sex because you two made a transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 02:19 PM |
| -2 | Is there a threshold for men to be attractive or is it just relative ?It depends from woman to woman. In general, these are physical traits which will basically guarantee you to be attractive to a woman: being 5 inches taller than her having a sharp jawline, strong chin, high and hallow cheeckbones, good eye area and blue/green eyes good hairline and hairstyle physically fit (muscular, low bodyfat %) It is true that most men, in the same time, put little to no effort into their appearance. most don't go to the gym most don't pay extreme attention to how they dress… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Ne zovi druge luzerim kada si white knight. Znači to što sam pomogao prijateljici je white knight? Ti si obična budala. Women are still abusive and stupid Look in the mirror buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?That has nothing to do with men naturally be responsible for protecting women. We were strictly talking about how men should protect women for other men if they're able to. Women and men are just as abusive in marriages (statistically). And that has nothing to do with what I'm talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 01:53 PM |
| 8 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?Nope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?You should. It's a matter of morals. If you don't have any, you wouldn't understand this. White knighting to protect a friend who can't do so herself? Ok. Sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Ne čudim se da nemaš luzeru Men are still abusive and stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?Baš si kreten frajeru. Slabić obični ak nemres prijateljici pomoć | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?If you're a real man, you'll protect a woman.if you're not, you won't protect a woman. You do you. They're not entitled, but as a stronger gender, we shouldn't abuse them, and we shouldn't have to protect them. As long as men abuse women, they're entitled to our protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Despite what the average person is like, it’s only the individual who matters when it comes to relationshipsWrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:27 AM |
| 6 | Despite what the average person is like, it’s only the individual who matters when it comes to relationshipsIf 90% of women are gold diggers (its 100%, but let’s be generous) then individuals don’t matter, because the strong trend is that any individual girl will be a gold digger. Just gonna ignore the blatant lie generalizations absolutely matter They always do, but to a degree. Sometimes things aren't so black and white. You need deeper examination. When you're looking for a relationship, generalising can help you locate the TYPE of woman you're looking for. But finding a specific one in those group… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are improving in certain fields, but also getting worse in othersBecause that's how humans work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?I don't care about your opinion, because it's selfish. If you don't have think men should protect women, you're stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:02 AM |
| 8 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?No. The amount of (pardon) ugly women, a.k.a. fat women is insane. Ans they all date up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:01 AM |
| 4 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?It's not woman's fault. I never said it was. We are way more sexual than women, and have it much harder to stay alone. Yes, masturbation is a thing. It's not enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you think its hypocritical to have a dating preference or standard you yourself don't meet?Not really. Because most of the time those men have traits to offer to women that they're actually looking for, but were either too shallow before, or just didn't know they wanted that yet. Also, men don't really do that. They often say "she's out of my leauge". Literally anyone I know that is in a relationship with a beautiful girl says that. But never the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?I agree with your experience, because that is my own aswell. But apparently there are differing opinions on this, so I consider others experiences too, who say that they constantly see less attractive women date up. This trend is DEFINITELY true in America. It seems like the men who are alone aren't considering or willing to date women who are conventionally unattractive, because those women are feeling just as lonely if not moreso. I agree that some men are definitely too picky for their own va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 11:54 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: The Creepiness Factor: What would you tell a woman you’re close to?I had those situations. I even had a situation where a guy that a girl was going out with got "suddenly creepy". I had a situation where my good friends Ex boyfriend and me had to come to her house, because a guy she was going out with turned creepy and got a bit frustrated with her. He came to her doorstep and cried and begged for her to come out. Banging on the door. So my friends ex and I came to scare him away. Because he was really freaking her out. You gotta take action. As a man, you gott… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 11:46 PM |
| 37 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?Women have it better in the dating scene. They would rather be single than date less attractive guys. Most at least. So the women who are less attractive AND would date in their leauge are rare. Men are either always alone and looking hopelessly, or they're doing ok, searching for a compatible partner. Only top 10% of men have any woman they want. Women date who they want. Regardless of their own value. Because they stay single if they don't get what they want. That's how women win in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Men don't value friendships with women because it takes away time and effort from pursuing romantic/sexual relationships.What about after you get that relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you think its hypocritical to have a dating preference or standard you yourself don't meet?In its nature, yes. Does it matter in all cases? Not really. I just hate seeing some women complain about not finding the men they want, when they're lacking the tools to attract those men. Or when they're searching for the top 5% of men, but they themselves aren't offering anything special in return. For example, a not so good looking, but financially successful woman looking for a man that earns more than her. It's ridiculous. Because money isn't a trait men necessarily look for in a woman. Su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 3 | The difference between friendship and romantic relationships is just sex.Nah. What you would say and do with your partner, you wouldn't with your best friend. Look, you can get a really deep connection with a best friend, but with a romantic partner, you go even further. If this is a long term partner, obviously, then you'll feel eve MORE free to say/do whatever. I had secrets that I wouldn't share even with the best of friends. But I did with my fiancée. That's the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 03:25 PM |
| 7 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.I agree. I have a fiancée and female friends. Any dude that I know and said he "doesn't trust women" , or doesn't have female friends is only after sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 02:02 PM |
| 2 | How many "options" do you personally have?Basically had next to 0 when I was dating. Almost no woman would agree to text me (friends of friends), and the ones that did would quickly find out we have nothing in common. Veeery few that I went on dates with rejected me by not showing up, showing up seeing and leaving me, or ended the first date badly. Until I met my fiancée where everything was literally perfect and effortless. While in the relationship, I fixed up my confidence and clothing style. I seem a lot more attractive apparently, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 08:23 AM |
| -1 | How important is make-up, nails, hair and clothes when it comes to dating?Makeup too much is not good no makeup when we're going out for dinner or something, shows you're not trying Ideally, it's to enhance your previous given beauty. I personally like: a bit of highlighter on the nose and cheecks (cute e girl vibes) eyeliner bit of mascara no powder Nothing extreme. But this is only when we go out. When we don't, 0 makeup preferred. Nails I'm just gonna say it, if you care about her nails, as a man, you gay son. Hair Straight and down below your chin. Personal prefer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 08:17 AM |
| 3 | Where does this idea of the 'ideal relationship type' come from?See, your example is of something boring and uninteresting. I personally just tune out and uh-huh along. But your main conversations SHOULD be interesting. Don't get involved romantically with an individual you can't have those conversations with. Or fill your time with them with something interesting. Like some sort of activity. From sex to going for a beer somewhere, partying, movies, escape rooms, etc. Whatever your jazz is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanFam I just googled "hourglass body". She looks like she has one so I linked it. That's all that matters. She's not some unachievable body standards anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Where does this idea of the 'ideal relationship type' come from?Your mind. Sure you watched cartoons, sure you have your parents and grandparents as examples, but if I followed that, I'd never even date a woman. Luckily, I have my own feelings and thoughts. It makes sense to me that a companionship with a woman would complete me like nothing else would. I've done nothing but improve in my relationship with my fiancée. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?Nope. Sex is sex. The feeling of someone I know, and she knows, having seen her naked, performing sexual acts... That's disturbing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Being tall doesn't automatically mean hot. So many men think women have unrealistic look standards for men because they don't know what women find attractive.Sure. Anecdotal examples rule | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?I wouldn't be comfortable with a "friend" of my future wife that had sex with her... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanHer body might be modified, sure. But I've seen many real life examples of this body type. It's not as uncommon in the countries where women are beautiful. Lol. Women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 08:43 PM |
| 12 | Being tall doesn't automatically mean hot. So many men think women have unrealistic look standards for men because they don't know what women find attractive.Famous people might aswell be 10/10. Using any celebrity as an example instantly invalidates your comment, because famous men get a pass. It's because status > everything. God damn danny devito is a 2/10 and incredibly short. But he's a celeb, so none of that matters. Either way, men that are 6'3" are instantly hot to a lot of women. Men that are 6'0" instantly have that "ringer" for attractiveness because of height. Men that are below 5'7" basically don't exist to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?Yea, I don't buy that. Every time someone is friends with benefits, one party catches feelings. I think when you introduce sex into a friendship, it's no longer just a friendship. For example, if my fiancée had sex with all the people that claimed were her friends, that would change my view of her A LOT. As soon as sex introduced, it's no longer just a friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?I do not agree, here's why... While I do agree that there can't be naturally forming friendships between men and women, like there are between women and women, and men and men, I do think you can form strong bonds that are just on a friendship level, with the opposite sex. Conditions to female and male friendships (at least one of these has to be met): the man is not sexually attracted to women the woman is not sexually attracted to men the man made it clear he's not sexually attracted to HER th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?No sweaty!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanEmm... Idk, should it? To women, even if the average man is 6'0", 6'0" is still an attractive trait. So I'd say that our country is just filled with better looking people. So the "average person" here might actually be a 6/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 07:05 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] If you couldn’t have sex with your wife/partner ever again, would you still choose to be with them?If we were just dating, no. Instantly would leave, before I catch feelings if the person can't ever have sex again. Since sex is a big part of a relationship. However, right now, when I'm happily engaged, even at this young age, I'd choose to stay. Because it's more than sex and all that stuff now. I'm bonded with her on a deep level. I can still jerk off and do other stuff which is a ton of fun too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 07:03 PM |
| 0 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?Low value women? I mean... i have high standards because of my fiancée. The average women here: sleeps studies goes to college / works random job has no hobbies watches netflix That's low value to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanThis is saying 5/10. To me, if you're 6'0" with an average face, you're a 6 at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanIt's probably not hourglass what you're seeing. They can have a similar shape, bur you'll know hourglass when you see it. Being skinny just eliminates maximum amount of fat to the point where if you even have a tiny bit of an hourglass, it'll be visible. Fat girls get that little bit covered up with fat, so it seems like they're just a blob. There are crazy hourglasses out there. https://pin.it/3ZJD6QP This is good enough of an example. It can even get more hourglass-e than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 03:22 PM |
| 14 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanWhere I'm from? Women: 5'7" NOT an hourglass body type either really skinny or chubby (not thick) not well proportioned or shaped breasts and behind minor facial flaws, no extraordinary facial features Men: 5'10" NOT a V shaped body type either really skinny or chubby not muscular minor facial flaws, no extraordinary facial features | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Men using weight as a rebuttal for lofty preferencesI especially love when fat women say "why do we need to be attracted to fat guys?" It's hilarious how they don't see the hypocrisy. I'd rather die in the gym getting fit and deserving a thin girl rather date a fatty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?It is yea. If you stab someone in the middle of a busy street and get away with it, it's impressive. But it should be discouraged. Just like casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 10:10 AM |
| 1 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?Yea, totally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 10:03 AM |
| -3 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?I'm not praising them myself. It's just objectively more about impressive is all I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:53 AM |
| 0 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?I know. But he's not gonna go through 9 months of pregnancy and they're most likely not gonna be stuck with the kid, since the mom always gets it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:51 AM |
| 2 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?Like using your casual sex example... Does that actually justify shaming and discouraging women who have casual sex? Yea it does. Women should know that picking hot guys while they're young to have sex with, makes them undesirable partners later on in life to most men. Also, casual sex is often less satisfying than with a commited partner, because a partner will make sure to please you, while a random tinder date wants to cum and go. Because if anything that is counter-intuitive to men's goals o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:39 AM |
| 2 | What is your biggest deal breaker in a woman physically speaking?Obese, unattractive face, short hair (if by short you mean veeery short, like a man would have). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 07:00 AM |
| 1 | what do you think of the concept of ‘looksmatch’? And how many couples do you see that are ‘looksmatch’?Balkans, EU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI agree. And the things people experience regarding dating aren't (most often times) enough for them to move. So just because someone would be better off ina different country (regarding dating) doesn't mean they can just move. I and many others never had that opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:38 PM |
| 2 | what do you think of the concept of ‘looksmatch’? And how many couples do you see that are ‘looksmatch’?That's exactly why I left a comment and post earlier about paying attention to where you live. Because it affects your perception greatly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadNope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWhat? It's in the Balkans. A bunch of people seem to get this wrong. So I'll just name 3 countries. Bosnia, Croatia, Serbia. BALKANS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 3 | what do you think of the concept of ‘looksmatch’? And how many couples do you see that are ‘looksmatch’?I just don't see that. Idk where you live, but not the case here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 8 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIt's funny how people just disregard the location of the planet you live on, and judge all claims based on their own experiences. For example I said I was a short guy at 5'9" where I live. I got downvoted and told I was average. AVERAGE WHERE? In my country, 6'0" is un-Ironically the average national height. So I leggit look like a 5th grader when walking next to a primary school, since kids entering puberty are MY HEIGHT. It's also when they make claims about how women/men act. Which is HEAVILY… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 09:40 PM |
| 7 | what do you think of the concept of ‘looksmatch’? And how many couples do you see that are ‘looksmatch’?Meh. It could be that he just doesn't care. There are dudes like that tho. And it's not always that you'll meet a hot person that will be your partner. Sometimes it is the average looking that takes your heart. All I noticed is that's much rarer than seeing hot girls with normal dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 4 | what do you think of the concept of ‘looksmatch’? And how many couples do you see that are ‘looksmatch’?Looking in the mirror or? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 05:22 PM |
| 10 | what do you think of the concept of ‘looksmatch’? And how many couples do you see that are ‘looksmatch’?Saw it literally once ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 05:18 PM |
| 21 | what do you think of the concept of ‘looksmatch’? And how many couples do you see that are ‘looksmatch’?Most are looksmatches. The ones that aren't are hot girls dating normal guys. I basically never saw a guy with a less attractive woman than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What’s better, starting off as friends or starting with a casual relationship?Well we were very friendly. We called each other friends. True, not a long friendship but hey, it was what it was | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Balancing the financial factors in dating versus paying for sex/selling sexI'm fine paying more over time in a relationship. I get emotional security, financial security and sex security. With a prostitute I get loveless sex and nothing else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 08:53 AM |
| 7 | Men using weight as a rebuttal for lofty preferencesYou can have any standards you want. If you don't hold yourself to those standards, you're being ridiculous. Weight is extremely important to judge attraction. Especially to men. So if she's fat, that's a NO for most guys. It's not insulting to say "no fatties". Women say "noone below 6ft" all the time. Also, if you have those standards as a fat woman, you're gonna be single for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 08:52 AM |
| 3 | ''John Shaming'' and the stigma around paying for sex; only a Western thing?No. But that's not a fair comparison. Again, I said sex was implied. But it's not the main reason I'm going into the relationship. It's a byproduct of love. And the best way to express is with someone you love is to have sex. So for me it would be a No. Again, wanting a relationship isn't just a long term strategy to have sex. That would imply the MAIN goal was sex, and the secondary was having to be in a relationship. Whereas for me the main goal is a relationship, and sex is secondary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Needs to DieAhahhaah. Sorry, I meant better as in that's not borderline child molestation like 30 and 18 is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 07:11 AM |
| 4 | ''John Shaming'' and the stigma around paying for sex; only a Western thing?If your intent is to have a relationship. It's not a hidden long term strategy for sex. Your primary goal is a relationship, and sex is implied later on, but that's not why you're doing all of this. Your MAIN goal is a relationship with that person. If you're a player, and really smart, you'll try to take the girl out on 3 dates, attempt to court her with gifts and paying for meals, and then get into her pants. Your primary goal was SEX. Paying for a prostitute is just a transaction. Sex for mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Needs to Die30 and 80 is better. But it's usually mutually taking advantage of one another. The old person for the looks, the young person for the money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 06:54 AM |
| 3 | ''John Shaming'' and the stigma around paying for sex; only a Western thing?I do yes. Again, that's my PERSONAL opinion. That's how things are. Pick your women better. If you see on the date that she's not your type, split the check and ghost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyHahaah, yea I added a trait, and forgot to add the number 5. That's kinda funny. Anyway, I do have a good sense of humour, since I'm the group clown. I make everyone laugh. You can say I'm not smart, but I got an iQ certificate of 137 saying otherwise, along the fact I work in a laboratory and am studying computer science on the side. I'm not fit rn. I do have issues with my weight because my addiction is food. Working in it tho. As soon as they open the gyms back up I'm joining! Yea... You don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 06:51 AM |
| 4 | ''John Shaming'' and the stigma around paying for sex; only a Western thing?Well, when I took my girl out in dates in hopes of a relationship, sex was implied at some point, but it was never my intention to groom her into that. It was just a natural course of actions. A better example would be a guy trying to get into a girls pants then ghost her. Then taking her on dates and such would be a long term strategy so to speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 06:46 AM |
| 8 | ''John Shaming'' and the stigma around paying for sex; only a Western thing?There's a difference. Because paying for only sex and no emotions isn't the same as treating your girl and having her be a huge part of your life (both emotionally and physically), and having sex as a product of that. One is clearly more purposeful than the other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 8 | ''John Shaming'' and the stigma around paying for sex; only a Western thing?Pathetic to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:05 PM |
| 8 | ''John Shaming'' and the stigma around paying for sex; only a Western thing?I'm gonna be straight up honest. I think paying for sex is pathetic. The ONLY time I would make an exception is if a person is unable to find a relationship (of any kind) with a woman, due to his severely bad looks or mental illness. If you're buying sex otherwise, because you can't man up enough to be able to attract women, it's pathetic. The sex workers? Even more pathetic. Selling your body? Disgusting. That being said, it should be legal and I don't think it should or shouldn't be shamed. Le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 09:40 PM |
| 3 | What’s better, starting off as friends or starting with a casual relationship?Every relationship is different. Making an assumption like that doesn't mean it will be true for everyone. Maybe it really would have been better for some couples to of started off as friends. And for others to of started dating immediately. I know people who can't look at anyone romantically after they've befriended them. I also know people who won't get into relationships with random people they started dating right away, but rather have been friends with that person for months or years. It al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Female Dating StrategyI had my expectations and they were met by a woman that is all of those. Some men say they want a hot woman. Try listening to her talk for more than 5 seconds in between you banging her. Guess what? It's pain. That's why men that look for long term relationships quickly realize that being smart and understanding humour is very important in a woman. Just like women learn that hot guys pump and dump, while if you compromise on looks, and let a smart and/or funny dude in your life is much better. C… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Fat/Ugly women are entitled to having preferencesSure. But don't complain when you're alone or have LVM approaching you if you ain't worth shit yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Needs to DieI'm saying there's a difference between being gay and being in an age gap relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Would you date a pagan/wicca girl?Everywhere, you just gotta look | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Needs to DieExcept gay couples of the same or very similar legal ages are both consenting adults (or both teens). And 30 year old men dating 18 year old women are borderline pedophiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Needs to DieAge gaps are shamed for a reason. 30 year old dude and an 18 year old girl might be legal in most or all countries, but it's definitely not ok. 30 and 50 is fine because they're both grown ass adults. After 30 everything is fine. It's alarming when it's age gaps before 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 4 | Female Dating StrategyNot everyone does. I always used to ask girls why they rejected me. Either got left on read or told why. Mostly bs reasons, but some were helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 4 | Female Dating StrategyIf you're a decent person, you'll let them know. Given that they're a stable person. If they've harmed you in any way (emotionally or physically) or are clearly unstable, then no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 02:19 PM |
| 17 | Female Dating StrategyIt's an echo chamber sub, which allows no men, or women of differing opinions to enter. It's a pool of women who are very entitled. They often times have things to "offer", that almost no men care about. Having a career isn't sexy to a man. Yet they portray themselves as HVW for having careers. AGAIN, IT'S HV TO THEM, NOT TO MEN. A woman having a career is a bonus. It just means more money, nothing special. To women, men's careers are important and can very well attract women. So they think them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you leave your girlfriend if you could have casual sex elsewhere?Absolutely not. Having one gives stability in life. And when I say stability, I mean emotionally, physically and financially. I don't wanna risk that for some random pussy. No offense ladies, pussy is pussy, yours ain't special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:55 AM |
| 7 | Would you date a pagan/wicca girl?Hell no. I date intelligent women lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you find Jordan Peterson's content useful?I'm not influenced by anything. My beliefs come from me, and me alone. If I were influenced, I'd still be going to church occasionally to please society, I would get married in a church, etc. I'm not influenced, you might be, I'm not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:53 AM |
| 0 | People lower their looks standards to get what they actually want.Because the culture is BETTER HERE. Women aren't as selfish or as self centered here. Not all, but a good % of women here understand that dating men is a joy, not a chore like American women make it up to be. And many of them understand that just because a guy is not the best looking, doesn't mean he's worth nothing. It's this American mindset of having to get the BEST of everything. So instead of dating normal men, women there go for only the top % of men. Even though they'd have a fine life wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:51 AM |
| 0 | People lower their looks standards to get what they actually want.That's literally just not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 07:48 PM |
| 4 | People lower their looks standards to get what they actually want.In "progressive" countries like the US, women want it all. Even if they have nothing to offer, they want everything in return. But, when it comes to other countries, with some more conservative values, this no longer holds true. Some women will still agree to date or marry a lesser looking guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 07:48 AM |
| 1 | How much would having regular sex solve your problems?Before my fiancée, nothing would have been solved. I never wanted sex, emotional intimacy was my goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Do you find Jordan Peterson's content useful?Ooof. I don't think I wanna go looking for that. The dude has soooooo many videos. I know he mentioned it briefly in some random interview, because I watched many of them. He doesn't like to talk about god, it's pretty obvious. Yes, he's well spoken and educated. It's some of these more theoretical areas where he falls behind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 01:26 PM |
| 14 | Do you find Jordan Peterson's content useful?I thought I did before, realized he doesn't really know what he's talking about in some areas. Especially when I heard him talking about religion and how atheists don't know it but are "being influenced by god anyway". Some of his opinions are just dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Danger of legalizing prostitutionTo me, it would make sense to make it legal for many other reasons. The sex trafficking is something I didn't even think about, and this really sucks to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Just be confident bruhThat sucks to hear... But I also lost all motivation to talk to women. That was the point. I literally gave up and was completely calm around women. I notice my behaviour changed aswell and I wasn't so tense or trying to impress them all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 07:40 AM |
| 3 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.It doesn't to me. Most of the time these women act dumb. What I mean by that, is that they wilfully ignore red flags if the guy is hot. Even if everyone else is telling them the guy is a walking red flag. Men on the other hand don't really do that. We don't blindly trust girls just because they're hot, well, not most of us at least. What I see from experience, is that guys tend to be careful with their girls no matter what they look like. They're protective and aware. While women seem to just ig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 07:39 AM |
| 5 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.Guys won't commit to women they don't find attractive. If they're desperate, maaaaybe, but that's just settling. Women seem confused to me. They have a set of things they want in a man. Then most keep going after the hottest dudes instead of actually looking if they're compatible, and are then surprised when the dude cheats on them or just dumps them (or treats them badly). Then suddenly some fall for a normal ass dude that they never envisioned themselves being with and they're happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Just be confident bruhThen if you admit to working on yourself to improve, you are yet again shamed. I would disagree, personally. Depends on who you hang with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Just be confident bruhYep, takes time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:31 AM |
| 12 | Q4ALL: Just be confident bruhI used to have none, but faked it will I made it. It was a process of going to parties, having panic attacks and hiding in bathrooms, and constantly putting myself out there in uncomfortable situations. Eventually, I grew confident, because I gave less and less of a fuck about what people thought. And that's how I went from having none, to having a lot. Now? That I got my girl and shit, I feel like a king lol. So what does confidence with women mean to you? It's just absolute domination in socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:19 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I don't want them to. It always ends in my female friends crying and/or complaining to me that their dating life sucks because they catch feelings after a quick fuck. I also never wanted casual sex so yea. I don't want them to (ideally). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how?Actually, for me, it made 0 change when I lost 50 pounds. Basically, I was overweight as a kid, and when I was 16, I started working out. Next year, I was fit. Lost 50 pounds and gained muscle. Nothing changed for me. Because my mindset did not change. I was still pathetic, simping after a girl, self pity was my jazz, I had no self-esteem or confidence whatsoever. So nothing changed. At 18, when I decided to say "fuck it", and not care about anything anymore... Is when I started seeing progress.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree or disagree with Daniel Tosh about relationship sex?Nothing to be sorry about. I just think your standards are high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree or disagree with Daniel Tosh about relationship sex?Again, if he's 5.5, I'm the Grinch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 07:26 PM |
| 2 | A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man?Yea I would be picky. The reality of the situation is different tho. A woman has to prove very little to make a good partner to most men. She has to be cute or hot (as long as she's skinny, has well managed hair and stuff, she won't look ugly). Also, she has to be nice and act feminine. That's pretty much it for a standard female partner. On the other hand, women value so much more. While women are now picky regarding looks aswell, you need to be funny, willing to commit, willing to pay on dates… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree or disagree with Daniel Tosh about relationship sex?Tue picture in the OP. 8.5/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How attractive or unattractive does everyone imagine the users of FDS are?They're entitled. And they probably look all sorts of ways. But I doubt many very attractive women are on there. They don't need strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 03:19 PM |
| 33 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.Being friendzoned by all the women you ever try to date, and being friendzoned by a couple Chads because they're out of your leauge isn't the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Do you agree or disagree with Daniel Tosh about relationship sex?Bro, if that's average, then I'm the Grinch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 11:07 AM |
| 5 | Do you agree or disagree with Daniel Tosh about relationship sex?Better haircut to hide a bit of his forehead. And that's it. Strong bones, head shape, jaw and chin and yea. He's 6ft+, white... Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 07:11 AM |
| 6 | Do you agree or disagree with Daniel Tosh about relationship sex?Don't feel like listening to opinions of a career and SMV maxxed Chad. Anything he says will come from experience that will be infinitely different than that of a normal man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Why are seemingly all women bi?No stigma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIncels on incels.co and incels on Reddit aren't the same people. Some use both, but those are very few. There are incels who are horrible, like ones on .co. And there are just edgy young guys who can't get women. If you think being involuntarily celibate has nothing to do with bad looks or being short, you're mistaken completely. Are there lots of "incels" who are just insecure, antisocial or introverted guys who simply lack knowledge on how to court women? Yes. But many men experience inceldom … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadGive each incel a yearly budget for prostitutes as "medication". Also, as a possible long term cure, every few years, fund a trip to a 2nd/3rd world country where incels can easily get laid even without paying for sex. Prostitutes will never be able to compensate for someone loving you so intensely that they wanna have sex with you. Or someone lusting after you, genuinely, and wanting you for sexual pleasure. Funding a trip to a 2nd or 3rd world country won't work for people that LIVE in a 2nd o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 10:12 PM |
| 13 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?There are more important things in life than women. Would I feel better that women who I'd consider equals in my surroundings won't look at me, but some 3rd world poor asian girl would? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 10:08 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] Do you think it's men or women who mostly engage in small penis shaming?Guys won't really shame you for that. Unless they're assholes in general, so the dick thing will be just another thing to make fun of. But women can use it out of spite. To really sting you if that's your "soft spot". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What do you think both sexes need to improve on?Actually, funny you should say that. Yes. That's literally how I managed to socialize. I was extremely antisocial and had no self-esteem at all from bullying. I was confident after I realized (at age 18) that I don't give a fuck about others opinions. So I was confident, but had low self-esteem and sense of self worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What do you think both sexes need to improve on?Self-esteem and confidence ain't the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What do you think both sexes need to improve on?Feeling good about yourself* Not confident about yourself. You're misunderstanding what that means. My fiancée feels very good about herself. She isn't necessarily confident. When I see confident men, I wouldn't call that trait in her confidence. Because it's different for men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:03 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] What do you think both sexes need to improve on?What's weak about not being confident? A "confident" woman is rarely a positive trait. They always end up being bitchy. When men are confident, they can be cocky, some of them, but in most men women find confidence attractive. With women, not so much. What's wrong with a laid back, dainty woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] What do you think both sexes need to improve on?Being confident is valued in men and not in women. Women being confident is useless, while for men it's required. I'm not saying for them to become less confident. Just stop thinking so highly of yourself for having a hole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 6 | [Q4All] What do you think both sexes need to improve on?Irrelevant since they carry themselves as if they're worth infinitely more than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 05:11 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] What do you think both sexes need to improve on?They don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 4 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?I think most men want love. At least eventually want it. Meaning they wanna sleep around when young and settle down later. I got engaged at 21. Idgaf. To me it's amaizing and would never leave my fiancée for some random pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 07:48 AM |
| 6 | [Q4All] What do you think both sexes need to improve on?More men need to go to the gym, spend more time thinking how they're gonna dress, bonding stronger with other man (rather than trying to be alpha all the time). More women need to learn to be humble. They need to try and see what men have to offer beyond their height and chiseled face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Attraction isn't simple and the reason why many people struggle with datingYour looks can be the reason some people don't even give you a chance. Or why people will always give you a chance. For me, it was always the former. And when I finally passed the threshold, I got engaged. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | On a scale of 1-10 how proud of yourself/happy do you feel if your wife/gf is hotter than another man's wife/gf?Like a 1. I don't care. I notice it and think to myself (I really got a pretty one) and that's it. I'd never gloat or think highly of myself because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 07:41 AM |
| 0 | How do you want the opposite sex to interact with you?Just be nice. Don't need to go out of your way to do anything, but just be nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?Lel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you ever become exclusive/official with a woman before having sex with her?Absolutely. Did so with my fiancée. No sex before commitment. I don't wanna get attached and then being rejected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:32 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Women can only fall in love with a guy they are having sex with, guys can fall in love just being friendsWomen can fall in love with friends too if they're hot dudes. However, women can also romantically fall in love on dates before sex. Men can fall in love with a girl they just saw. Imagine your whole life with that woman and dying next to her, as she literally walked by you on the bus station. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Do women carry extra weight better than men?Women hide it better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:30 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadBefriending women is important to learn from first hand experience about female behaviour. Don't necessarily listen to their advice, see what they do. Friendly Chads are gods, so it's good to have some around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:30 AM |
| 1 | What is your ideal body type for a potential partner?Small (short and small frame) Cute face proportional breasts and butt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:28 AM |
| 1 | How productive is rating yourself and others on a 1-10 scale?Yourself? Not at all. Overconfident people rate too high, no self-esteem ones rate too low. Let people around you give you honest opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:27 AM |
| 1 | What really is the "spark"?It's a combination of physical attraction and compatibility as two people. You HAVE to pass the looks barrier to enter spark zone. But it's not all about looks, it's mostly compatibility as two people. You have same core opinions, you can talk freely, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Do people realize that complaining about being lonely,incel,ugly, lack of options etc. is a turn off to most people?Incels don't understand that while their looks MIGHT be a deterrent, their behaviour is too. shy awkward unconfident not assertive not outspoken no self-esteem talks badly about themselves Unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | What are your personal experiences with a "Chad"?My buddy from HS was a giga chad. Super nice, pulled me out of a life of misery. Invited me to group coffee's and parties. Super nice and considerate guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Your Biggest InfluenceNoone really. I'm more focused on viewing everything from my viewpoint. I take advice if I deem the person knowledgeable and successful in that field. But I didn't get much of that from such people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?Bitter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:03 AM |
| 6 | Does the 80/20 rule apply to women too?I understand that, but trust me, those guys probably had to do a lot more than any woman ever did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 07:15 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: If male birth control existed as a pill like it did for women, would you take it?Nah. I don't force my fiancée to take it either, I'd advise her not to aswell. Since she doesn't use that crap, I wouldn't either. And that's good with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 07:13 AM |
| 1 | So are you an Alpha or a Beta ? Why ?Used to be beta, but now more of an alpha. I'm not overly confident to the point of being arrogant and an asshole. But I have a lot of confidence and carry myself in that way. I am assertive and speak my mind in conversations. I got big dreams and am not afraid to work in them. I don't take shit from people (where I'm from it's more normal that if you're talking shit in public to get hit). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 07:13 AM |
| 8 | Does the 80/20 rule apply to women too?Even though men might find some women most attractive, and others average, men wouldn't isolate themselves to only dating hot women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 07:10 AM |
| 1 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".I can't stand it when incels say it's a good way to determine your future in dating. Fam I'm engaged and when I used dating apps I got 0 matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 07:06 AM |
| 0 | What is masculinity and what it femininity? And do you think both genders are capable of having both traits or must they lean to one?Masculinity: being tall chiseled face muscular assertive dominant confident ambitious Femininity: being short round faced skinny and hourglass figure with larger breasts and butt submissive kind and caring loving giggly soft skin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | What are your standards?smart good sense of humour genuinely nice caring and empathetic monogamous trustworthy and reliable has a job FEMININE shorter than me cute face skinnier body at least medium sized boobs and butt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Who should be in control of the relationshipThere shouldn't be a leader. Unless one party is more imaginative and intelligent, there shouldn't be a leader. Relationships shouldn't be power struggles. For me, my fiancée plans dates because I don't care where we go. I'm perfectly fine paying for the date, but I don't wanna have to choose and hear any "we should have gone..." sush. I wanna hear none of it. We go where you want and I'll pay. When it comes to big decisions, I offer my piece, she offers her, and that's that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 09:34 AM |
| 3 | What is your ideal first date?Grab a bite to eat, sit in a park and eat, walk around, get a drink, go home | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | For those where it's applicable, who hurt you and what did they do?It means she was my crush. But the term oneitis is used for when you have an intense love for one person and that person alone. A crush is more of a temporary phase when you meet someone, like em a lot for no reason and then it eventually lets you go. If it goes on for a longer period of time, even if you've been rejected multiple times and her showing you she doesn't like you (and you keep liking her) then you have a oneitis. You said everything is fine because you now know she's a terrible per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 10:07 AM |
| 1 | For those where it's applicable, who hurt you and what did they do?Wut? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 09:39 AM |
| 6 | [Q4A] Do you think if a man doesn't put a ring on it after the 4-5 year mark, that he never will?I personally don't know what takes people so long. I know everyone has their own pace, but after 2-3 years you should know that person well enough. You're just prolonging the inevitable. Unless you don't wanna get married, then it's fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 08:25 AM |
| 7 | For those where it's applicable, who hurt you and what did they do?Had a 3 year oneitis that broke my heart in the end, but in the same time was the cause for huge positive changes in my life because she made me see she's worth nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 08:24 AM |
| 2 | When do people start looking for LTRs?I don't think there's a good time. Either you happen to meet a high compatibility person, or you don't. I met her very early. And people tell me it's too early to get serious, but what should I do? Reject a next-to perfect match? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How/where do you think women should be getting their dating advice from?What kind of men are you trying to attract? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 10:15 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All]How/where do you think women should be getting their dating advice from?But I used to ask them out This is fine text them after dates I hate when women don't text after dates. I hate that shit. When I'm left on read or not replied to for a couple of days. Idk why that's working, that would make me very annoyed. generally make a bit of effort If you make no effort, I feel like I'm dating myself at that moment. I don't think this is a good strategy. Yes, it might make some men more interested, but if you're looking for compatibility, showing no interest or effort is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How/where do you think women should be getting their dating advice from?If you're hot men come | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All]How/where do you think women should be getting their dating advice from?Women don't chase men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Abortion Mega ThreadI honestly don't care if it is legal or not, just don't make it tax payer funded. It might be in your interest. You know who shouldn't have kids? The people who wanna abort them. And these kids, if they're born, they're gonna be a strain on the system. You're gonna pay a lot more when that kid ends up in poverty or prison. Better to give an extra couple dollars every month than to fund them after they've born. You can't have abortions all the time. 3-5 max, then your uterus can't make any more b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How/where do you think women should be getting their dating advice from?Like women being worth everything and most men nothing? Most overvalue themselves... A lot. Being entitled so much and nothing to offer, lol. And no, I don't care about their careers, etc. That doesn't attract men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Abortion Mega ThreadAbortion should be legal because women can still get them done illegally if they're truly desperate. The illegality can hurt both the babies and the mothers if the abortions are done in an unsafe manner (illegally). I think the solution isn't to ban something, now that it exists. Because all it will do is produce unwanted children. Children of the parents that did not want these kids don't turn out so great. Not to mention, children in orphanages experience lots of trauma and loss. So dumping th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 09:24 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All]How/where do you think women should be getting their dating advice from?Definitely NOT FDS. I think it should be from men that are ACTUALLY your friends and not trying to get in your pants. Because men know men. We can instantly tell when a guy is clearly a fuckboy, or when the guy is actually nice and likes you for you. At least I and my male friends can. To me personally, all a woman has to do is honestly look at how much she's worth. If you're actually hot or can improve. If you can, do so. Rise up to your standards, don't lower them necessarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 09:07 PM |
| 4 | How do encourage positive self developmemt in men?Well, unlearn all that fairy tail bs. Make sure they grow up to become as attractive as physically possible. Being fit, dressing we, hanging out with people should all be mandatory. Make sure everyone is included in group activities, even if they don't like it (at school). Make sure to punish bullies and reward intellectuals. Women on the other hand need to be more transparent with what they want in dating. Telling the men they reject WHY they reject them. Being honest and not hiding the real re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 07:37 PM |
| 2 | What do you want your son to be like? What do you want your daughter to be like?She will most likely go through a slut-phase like every other whore before her despite of what you instill in her. Yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 06:28 PM |
| 30 | [Q4All] What would you say is the biggest advantage of being Ugly?You don't have advantages. Unless you consider being ignored by everyone an advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 02:59 PM |
| 8 | Why exactly do you call yourself "purple pilled"? [Further questions below]I'm rainbow pilled. I understand the perspective of all pills. And in certain doses, they all make sense. Some things are wrong, some are right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to pregnancy prevention, how much caution do you take with sexual partners?I pull out and piss in between sessions. Wipe my dick too. I only sleep with my fiancée. So I don't need to be careful. We want a baby eventually, if it SOMEHOW happens, it happens. That's the good part about being married or engaged. If it happens, you don't have to panic, it's what you wanted anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 07:44 AM |
| 0 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."When a female friend showed me her phone. The dudes on dating apps are critical. 7 billion of them trying to get in her pants with "hey" or some dumb one liner. Sometimes dickpics too....... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 07:43 AM |
| 0 | Men here are too obsessed with masculinity, even though women love feminine men too.Women want real men. Taller than them, more mascular, serious when needed, fun when needed, determined, confident, leaders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 07:42 AM |
| 2 | How do you filter out women??You go on a date and examine her as a person. It easy to tell a gold-digger from a real woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 07:40 AM |
| 0 | What do you want your son to be like? What do you want your daughter to be like?Son I want him to start some sport he likes really early on I don't want him to play videogames as much as I did and waste his life away (unless he wants to be an entertainer) I want him to eat healthy food I prepare (being fat is what held me back so much until now in life) I want him to go to the gym when he stops his growth I want him to not sleep around, but rather look for a long term relationship I don't want him to be obsessed with branded clothing, and just focus on dressing well If he w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 07:38 AM |
| 6 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglect"If you can murder him, I can at least abandon him." ~ Dave Chappelle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 07:04 AM |
| 2 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Being entitled to a restaurant date must make me think you think highly of yourself. I get investing a lot in a person, but why on the FIRST date? If you're truly Compatible with someone, you're gonna click over a coffee OR a restaurant meal. It really does not matter the location if the two of you are clearly compatible. And trust me, any dates that ended in nothing eventually I've been on, had a common denominator. Incompatibly. Not poor date locations. The 3 most successful dates that lead so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.I give advice to people on how to dodge certain behaviour patterns in potential partners. Restaurant on the first date is too big of a commitment. I know women that dislike it because they feel obligated to stay until the end of the date, even if they feel uncomfortable. Getting up and leaving a guy in the restaurant is much less comfortable than saying you gotta go home after a short walk on a semi-busy street or park. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 09:37 PM |
| 3 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.Less attractive women struggle just as much There is no amount of unattractive a woman can be to have absolutely 0 men after her. All a man has to be is average and not interesting, and he could be single for life. And I mean, not even unattractive or unawanted women would seek them out. I mean NOONE AT ALL. Unattractive women struggle with their need for an attractive man, but they're aren't able to get one because they're unattractive. Men can actually also be EXTREMELY picky especially when i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Do you *want* to attract shallow women? When you complain about women with long list of requirements for sex/dating that you find ridiculous, are these the women you want to attract?Nope. I like women that have their own way with words and deeds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Do you *want* to attract shallow women? When you complain about women with long list of requirements for sex/dating that you find ridiculous, are these the women you want to attract?Nope. We like those women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 07:26 PM |
| 9 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.I don't agree, here is why: Men and women don't struggle equally Men can struggle with getting any woman interested in them romantically whatsoever. Whereas a woman can never be truly alone, but rather simply lack "good options". Men on average crave sex, then intimacy. Women in general crave intimacy, then sex. Women have extremely easy access to casual sex (not referring to the quality of sex, just availability of sex itself). Whereas most men have no access to casual sex. Women however find i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you *want* to attract shallow women? When you complain about women with long list of requirements for sex/dating that you find ridiculous, are these the women you want to attract?Describing reality doesn't make one a feminist It's not reality. Many women just have little to offer besides looks. So it seems as if they're the "beautiful gender". By the way, downvoting comments is petty female behavior Now that's just straight up sexists lel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you *want* to attract shallow women? When you complain about women with long list of requirements for sex/dating that you find ridiculous, are these the women you want to attract?You said they had bad options and that basically they're better and hotter than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you *want* to attract shallow women? When you complain about women with long list of requirements for sex/dating that you find ridiculous, are these the women you want to attract?Ok mr feminist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Do you *want* to attract shallow women? When you complain about women with long list of requirements for sex/dating that you find ridiculous, are these the women you want to attract?It's just frustrating how sometimes these women... Act as if they deserve these things. Or that they really want them. I know a chick who "loves tall dudes". She even "bragged" about her boyfriend being 6'0". I meet him IN PERSON. His ass is 5'10" at best... The guy is basically my height and I'm 5'9". I just say it like I see it. WOMEN DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. They don't know what they wanna eat in the restaurant, or the man they wanna date. They always end up getting swooped up by someone th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Women That Falsely Accuse Should Get The Same Sentence Of Punishment As The Guy Would’ve Got Or Has Spent Before It Was Found Out He Was Not Guilty.I'm not talking about "not enough evidence, being equated to "false accusations". Countless women admitting that their claims were false. Those are the ones I'm talking about. And I don't think a RAPE ACCUSATION should be visible on someone's record. They should be able.to hide that if it's JUST an accusation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Women That Falsely Accuse Should Get The Same Sentence Of Punishment As The Guy Would’ve Got Or Has Spent Before It Was Found Out He Was Not Guilty.Too long to read. Unless she was falsely accusing of rape and got registered as a sex offender and got 30 years in prison, idc. Women that falsely accuse should be put in prison or... Or ***** so it makes the charge valid. EDIT: I don't think you understand how common these false accusations are and how badly they can ruin an INNOCENT person's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Abortion Mega ThreadOooooh. Holly shit, you really look at it that way? That's fucked lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 07:28 AM |
| 10 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Women are gonna continue with that immense lead in dating until men literally invent things to replace women. Sex robots, advanced AI's, etc. The situation looks grim, and while there certainly are women that will still enjoy being dominated by a man (in a non sexual way too) those feelings will be repressed by our sexually "free and liberated" societies. Men are gonna sell their sperm for money, women are gonna be single mothers and raise kids in case any of them want to. Most women won't want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Abortion Mega ThreadI mentioned you being the Chad as a joke... Relationshilps aren't a price you pay for sex. It would imply that you don't get anything from commitment, and that only sex is worth anything. Which it isn't. I'd rather have a relationship than just sex with random women. It's not a price. You look at it from a perspective of being "pinned down" and "trapped" in this thing called a relationship. To me, a relationship is a beautiful commitment between two people. Where you can rely on your partner for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Abortion Mega ThreadHerr we go. The alfa and omega giga chad is in the room. Nah fan. Sex isn't everything. Sex is just a fun activity you and your partner can do from time to time. It's really nothing special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 06:58 AM |
| 25 | Is there any evidence indicating that the 20% of the 80/20 are the same men for each and every woman queried?"Bookworm" guys that women like: https://images.app.goo.gl/KMGwg4wuBcfAzHRr9 "Geeky" guys that women like: https://images.app.goo.gl/T9hTWnry8iiuVmMS6 "Sporty" guts that women like: https://images.app.goo.gl/Y2dJyvkiEHPWh7dH6 I could go on, but I think you get the point. Women don't all like the same type of men (regarding looks). But there are simply things that women find MOST attractive on men, and don't even notice it. hunter eyes blue/green eyes high cheeckbones strong chins sharp jawlines … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Do I even need to say more?See, women are career women too! The only difference is they get pregnant and take half of someone else's money! /s | /r/MGTOW | 04/03/21 09:11 PM |
| 5 | What do you mean when you say “intelligence”?Intelligent as in not dumb. When I'm talking to you, I want you to be able to engage on many topics in an intelligent matter. I want your opinions, your reasonings and logic behind them. I don't want you to be opinionless and boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Female-male friendships?Real male and female friendships, that are in no way romantic, can only exist under one or more of the following circumstances: the man is gay the woman is gay the man is not attracted to the woman and has made that known the woman is not attracted to the man and has made that known the man is in a commited relationship the woman is in a commited relationship I might have missed some but these are basics. One or more of these has to be the case. Only one is enough. But if you're both single and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 09:49 AM |
| 1 | How attracted do you have to be to a woman to be sexually aroused by herIf she isn't a 7, I'm not getting an erection from just seeing her. If we're actually dating, she's gonna have to be a 5-6 to date me and only then would I get a boner from laying next to her for example. I wouldn't date girls below a 5. There's just no point. If they aren't attractive, I don't want them lol. And if women apply the same to me, that's completely fair and fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 09:44 AM |
| 1 | How I find my fiancée and basically escaped being an incel.I didn't post it because of you, some people actually asked me to just post it. They said they couldn't see it on my profile, so I posted it here. It's not for you. | /r/seduction | 03/03/21 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Progress with Girls is Not Linear. And that’s why so many guys give up before they get good with WomenDid it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offConventionally hot girls want Chads only. Potentially abusive ones or really dumb, heartless but cool ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Progress with Girls is Not Linear. And that’s why so many guys give up before they get good with WomenNeither are good for this tbh... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Most guys who don't "pump and dump" only don't because they can't without going sexless for long stretchesSaid it before, I'll say it again. Pussy is pussy. A commited woman with a pussy, just as good as many women with a pussy. But the difference is, this one is aaaaall yours. The only tradeoff is you can't pum pum anyone else. Which is fine with me. Sex is best with the one you love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Progress with Girls is Not Linear. And that’s why so many guys give up before they get good with Womenhttps://www.reddit.com/user/geyejoe7/comments/lx37uz/the_way_i_managed_to_escape_what_could_have_been/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Progress with Girls is Not Linear. And that’s why so many guys give up before they get good with Womenhttps://www.reddit.com/user/geyejoe7/comments/lx37uz/the_way_i_managed_to_escape_what_could_have_been/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Progress with Girls is Not Linear. And that’s why so many guys give up before they get good with Womenhttps://www.reddit.com/user/geyejoe7/comments/lx37uz/the_way_i_managed_to_escape_what_could_have_been/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Progress with Girls is Not Linear. And that’s why so many guys give up before they get good with WomenI don't know tbh... There's a lot more details to it but I feel like I couldn't post it here or anywhere basically. It's just a life story and idk if anyone would be interested anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 10:14 PM |
| 2 | If you agree that men are polygynous and instinctively desire multiple women, what does that mean for you, personally?I have a fiancée and understand that we're in a commited monogamous relationship. I see hot women that I would totally smash if I wasn't in a relationship. But, since I am, I can simply silence that "desire". I don't give a shit basically. I just ignore the feeling. It's something you can and should control. I'm not gonna let my "man" nature get the best of me for some random pussy, lol. It's not worth it. You THINK you want it, but when we look at it from a logical stand point, pussy is pussy. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 10:12 PM |
| 6 | Progress with Girls is Not Linear. And that’s why so many guys give up before they get good with WomenIn highschool I was really physically unattractive. (No skincare, perfume, messy long hair, not shaven, fat) I hit the gym hard and still got no women interested. Later I gave up and got fat again, still no women. Then I said "fuck it" and completely relaxed. For the first time ever, a girl saw something in me. We went on a couple dates and I even ended up parting ways with her since we weren't compatible. But it was the first time a girl was interested in ME. So I kept that attitude up. Then ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?Hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Career women are not miserable.You can't run from nature. Yes, not ALL women want kids. But overwhelming majority do. If not in the moment, they'll want them later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Career women are not miserable.The women on these sites aren’t necessary model beautiful either These days, women don't really have to be. Women have too much advantage in dating. So if they look average they'll still be successful. But plenty of successful men join dating websites that feature successful women. Because of beautiful women that are also successful. Possibly because they might think they'll be able to relate to them more. Again, not because they make a lot of money or anything like that. What about rich women w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Career women are not miserable.Sure, there might be women that wanna date only upper class men, and the men that go on those websites are probably those looking for women that are actively searching for a wealthy man. These women could be successful themselves so they want a partner even more successful (hypergamy). And these men might just find it easier to find women this way. Because not all women will overlook some thing in favour of status and money. But some do, so these apps are the easy way to get rid of gold diggers,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Career women are not miserable.They met through a mutual friend. Actors are likely to hang out with people of the same or a bit lesser high social status as themselves. She's a lawyer and they had a mutual friend. Through which they met through. There's a lesser chance of him meeting a waitress than there is a lawyer. Since George doesn't exactly go your local pub. But he does have friends that are rich and therefore will simply be more likely to meet women of those statuses. But I guarantee you, her looks and behaviour DEFIN… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 04:28 PM |
| 5 | Career women are not miserable.They make men miserable lol. /s No man wants a woman who's so overjoyed by her career that she flaunts that as her "most valuable attribute". When in reality, her career is practically worthless in attracting men. It can just make a good bonus, that she makes more money. But that's all, a bonus at best. Ladies, your career doesn't impress men. If you're happier because of it, great, but you'd be a lot happier as a mom and a commited wife aswell. So don't think you can indulge yourself in a caree… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?I guess I see what you mean. But idk if women these days would agree to a life long partnership without marriage. So to me it would make sense to get married if you're gonna stay together. At least where I live. From a logical standpoint I definitely see what you mean, and you're right. It doesn't REALLY make sense. But we each give our own meaning to life. And to me, a marriage is a representation of the love we have for each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Women are the chasers, Not men !Ahhaahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Abortion Mega ThreadThe issue with study is that in the first part it says: One study in Denmark, which included 1,221,546 pregnancies between 1978 and 1992, found the overall miscarriage rate was 13.5 percent. But then later says in another study: A 2014 IVF study found that, of 284 successfully karyotyped embryos from young women, 151 had abnormalities in the number of chromosomes - a rate of 53.2 percent. This sort of abnormality, called aneuploidy, is the most common cause of miscarriages, accounting for 50 per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Abortion Mega Thread"cited" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Abortion Mega ThreadYou can google "how many pregnancies end in miscarriage" and the majority will prove you wrong. I don't feel any kind of way, you were just wrong that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?You were married so you know this? How old r u? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 15 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?I'm engaged to one. They do exist, you are either not good enough for them or did not find them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Abortion Mega ThreadFirst link: professional soccer player for Orlando Pride, recently posted her own story of pregnancy loss on Instagram. The statistic of losing a baby is 1 in 4, she said, which means so many women are going about their day, trying to bury their grief and pain. “I want to tell my truth in hopes that other women like me don’t feel so alone,” she said in her post. That's an instagram post, not scientific article. Second link: The research, which has yet to be peer reviewed, was penned by evolution… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Abortion Mega ThreadI argue with facts. You linked not a study, but some article about a random woman. I linked science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:03 PM |
| 18 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?Sure, muh love and muh social status and all that Lol, just ignore EXTREMELY important parts of ones life and carry on to "practical" reasons. To me, having one loyal partner my whole life is more PRACTICAL than dating around, sleeping with random women, worrying about what I texted, how I should impress this person the first time we meet, constant drama with ex girlfriends or sexual partners, etc. Having a loyal, caring, supportive partner who I know I can rely on for anything is THE BEST feeli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe that *everything* that people do, is to attract the opposite sex? That opposite-sex attention is the only thing that matters in life?Basically anything you do could effect your dating prospects. From something as benign as what food you prefer to eat, to what hobbies you enjoy, to what job you have, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Abortion Mega ThreadI linked scientific studies. You linked a mom's "I'm 1 in 4" from today.com. Wow... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Abortion Mega Thread??? It's untrue, lol? I have stats and you just said a random thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Abortion Mega Threadhttps://www.tommys.org/pregnancy-information/im-pregnant/early-pregnancy/how-common-miscarriage It goes up with age. At 30 it's 10%. Then goes up to 20% at 35-40. Then as much as 50% at 45+ years of age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Abortion Mega ThreadI need a source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you honestly feel about your partner getting cosmetic surgery?I don't mean it magically goes away. But let me give you an example. I am fat. I've been sucking in my stomach since the age of 13. Here I am, a 21 year old dude, still fat (after ups and downs with my weightloss) and I don't feel insecure no more. Why? Because my fiancée goes behind my back, squeezes my stomach and says squish. That literally changed my life in a way I can't ever describe to you. It's like all of my insecurities vanished about my weight. I'm aware I should lose it, and I am wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Women are the chasers, Not men !Not really. That's a big assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you honestly feel about your partner getting cosmetic surgery?I say that to me it's perfect. I don't mean to tell her she is objectively a perfect person, there is no such thing. She can have any flaws, but to me it is a part of her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Women are the chasers, Not men !I mean... Sure. It's not always competition like that there. Sometimes the group has very handsome single men and it's harder to get to a woman in those groups if they already like that guy. But these are relationships we're talking about, it takes good timing too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | What do people on here actual define as a high value person?What I noticed when women and men talk about the opposite genders high value traits: To men, these things are HV in a woman (this usually applies to guys that are looking for LTR's, not hookups): good looking feminine (falls under good looking but wanted to add) intelligent good sense of humour has a job (any career, doesn't matter as long as they can pay their share of rent and groceries) genuinely nice and caring sweet and cheerful loyal To women, these things are HV in a man (this usually app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Women are the chasers, Not men !Well, there are friends of friends, social circles, work, same place you guys might go to, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you honestly feel about your partner getting cosmetic surgery?What are you on about?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Abortion Mega ThreadI agree with all that you said. I have a fiancée and never engaged in casual sex. I would have always wore a condom if I would have had casual sex. I agree that education is the best method to rid of this. Also, if you end up pregnant, it's a lot different if you are married or it was from casual sex. When are you gonna be more likely to keep the baby? With a happily married person, or some Chad behind the club? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Abortion Mega ThreadIt's not the exact same. Because the procedure itself is different. It's taking someone's life away before it started, rather than taking it away after they've already been born. The issue is that you can look at it from a perspective "the baby will never know it lived" or "you took someone's 1 in 400,000,000,000 chance of being born". I personally don't want abortions to happen, but since the "technology already exists", it's hard to say NO to women. Since all countries would have to ban it una… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Women are the chasers, Not men !It can happen after someone got to know you and starts to love you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 08:15 AM |
| 4 | How do you honestly feel about your partner getting cosmetic surgery?Bad. I'd feel like I let her down or made her insecurities feel worse. My fiancée's said in the past she has a "bad profile" and smaller boobs. She has a perfect face. And her boobs are well shaped and a good size. I hated her insecurities. So I made them go away by focusing on her boobs during sex a lot, and always complimenting her gorgeous face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Women are the chasers, Not men !Any woman a man has to chase is a woman that’s not attracted to him at all Completely and utterly false. The men that are being chased are good looking men. Not men of any other value on the surface. Just because a woman doesn't lust for you at first, doesn't mean you can't ever impress her. That's just false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Abortion Mega ThreadI am for legalising abortion in my country, but against abortion from a philosophical standpoint. You're killing a child. Let's not pretend it's anything else. It's not just a fetus. If you let that fetus grow, it will become a human child. It won't become a demon or an elephant, it will become a human child. Therefore, you're taking life away from that child, before its life even started. In the majority of pregnancies (about 85% to 90%), pregnancy ends in a human child. In the minority (about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 06:35 AM |
| 4 | Since the progressive approach to the world is a fail, is it time to subjugate women and establish balance again? Hear me out.You can never reverse the decisions about someone's freedom on a large scale. We can't say "Oh the Negroes are wild! We should put them back to chains!!" /s "Oh these Jews are wild! Back to concentration camps they go!!" /s "Oh these hoes are wild! We should put them back into the kitchen!!" /s It's just not gonna happen, nor should it. Eventually, the oppressed WILL rise. And women certainly rose. And now, we have to live alongside them. Yes, the way these societies with equality are heading is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 07:07 AM |
| 6 | What are the advantages to being a beta male/orbiter?a woman uses you as an emotional tampon you love someone that will never love you you give all your attention to someone that gives you none or next to none Oh wait, those are only bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 03:20 PM |
| 35 | Will the dating market get worse? How?It's only gonna get worse. The sexes are starting to co-depend less and less. If you're asexual, there's literally no need to interact with the other gender. You would literally lose nothing by only interacting with one gender. There are manly women and feminine men now. It's an everyday thing to see those two. So eventually we'll make sex robots and most of society will hate each other so they'll only interact with sex bots. Most women will flock to handsome men. The ones that can't compete go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.parental divorce, parental substance misuse, or parental incarceration, poverty, bullying, bereavememt, or another type of trauma None divorce, substance misuse, incarceration, poverty, bereavement or another type of trauma None Do you currently experience low mood, feelings of worthlessness, (social) anxiety or depression? Mood swings? Sure. This serious? Not anymore, no. Do you feel socially isolated/ unable to connect with others? Do you have a supportive social group? If we ignore covid, nop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 09:26 PM |
| 3 | How does culture affect beauty standards?In some cultures it's beautiful to be fat. Probably because everyone else is poor and underfed... In my culture, being skinny is important. In some, being thick could be hot. It's also person to person preference. My best friend loves skinny, and I love thick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 09:13 PM |
| 3 | If people where actually honest what 3 traits do woman and men find most desirable in the opposite sex?IKR!!! Imagine viewing women for anything but their uteruses and boobs!!!! /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 08:52 PM |
| 2 | If people where actually honest what 3 traits do woman and men find most desirable in the opposite sex?Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Are you able to see a girl as a “sex toy” and value her as a person in a relationship context?Would be a but weird. But hey, most of the time we don't choose what turns us on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Has OLD been a net positive or negative for society at large?I wouldn't be so grim about it, but you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Has OLD been a net positive or negative for society at large?Sure you can NOT find anyone in real life then turn dating apps on. But it could mean I haven't found anyone YET. I met my fiancée at 19. I had nothing but bad dates and being left on seen, stood up, rejected in the face, etc. before that. So it could mean you didn't give it enough time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 01:36 PM |
| 3 | What does the typical day of an "average woman" and "average man" life look like?Working days Get up early Wash my face, brush my teeth, put on deodorant and a nice perfume I make myself healthy pancakes Go to work on a tram and read a book on the way Eat my pancakes Eat my pre-prepared lunch Go on the tram and read again Go to the gym or pool after work for 2 hours Wash up Make lunch for tommorow Watch an episode or two of the shows I'm tuned in to Stream for a couple hours Do my at home workouts Eat dinner Go to sleep Text my girl throughout the day, or see her on some day… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 10:05 AM |
| 8 | If people where actually honest what 3 traits do woman and men find most desirable in the opposite sex?As a man, I find this most attractive (equally), although these are broad: 1) Good looking It means I like a woman that naturally has a beautiful face and a figure on the slimmer side. Looks very feminine, dresses feminine, uses skincare, makeup (small amounts), perfumes, etc. 2) Smart If she isn't smart, I can't have a conversation with her. How can I expect a girl who has no hobbies other than partying, sleeping, going to college/working to stimulate my brain in any way, shape or form? She won… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Are you able to see a girl as a “sex toy” and value her as a person in a relationship context?Oh idk if it is. For me it's 1-2 times a day. Idk if that's a lot. But yea, all I was saying is that it's a positive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Are you able to see a girl as a “sex toy” and value her as a person in a relationship context?My concern is, that if I were in a relationship with a man would having lots of sex ruin things? If you were a maniac that wanted 5 rounds of sex and have that 5 times a day, then yes. If you just wanna do it 2-3 times a day, then no, it's a very big positive. The only thing that would ruin it for me, is if you had been doing that with ANY dude and LOTS of dudes in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 11:36 PM |
| 6 | Has OLD been a net positive or negative for society at large?7-10/10 men They still get all the women they want, just quicker They encourage hookup culture They cause most of the heartache that women experience, and make men as a whole seem like cheaters, players, etc. when in reality those women are just picking the same top men all over again. And since these men get away with bad behaviour, most never have a need to change and be respectful. 1-6/10 men likely get nothing or few matches on these apps ruin their self-esteem OLD creates a lot of 4-6/10 "i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you or your friends care about the pleasure of your female casual sex partner?Top men get all the women they want Top women get all below 7/10 men, and plenty but not all top level men all other men get outliers or low value women all other women get whatever sub 7 men they want, sometimes even 7+ men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you or your friends care about the pleasure of your female casual sex partner?If I were into casual sex, it depends. Do I want a good reputation or do I wanna cum? If I'm in a different town and I'm never going back, I wouldn't care about her pleasure. If I wanted a good reputation, I'd pleasure her. I don't get casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you be content with your daughter’s decision if she became a sex worker?Absolutely not. If my daughter became anything close to a sex worker, I'd be extremely disappointed and would likely disown her. If your daughter becomes a sex worker, you clearly failed in raising her. Your only excuse can be that you literally died, and she became fatherless (which makes women way more likely to go into sex work for some reason). https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-truth-about-exercise-addiction/201711/the-link-between-absentee-fathers-and-womens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 07:37 AM |
| 5 | Men, would you take an offer of 1mil a month in exchange for never having sex or porn again?Thanks. Ik this sub is full of redpillers so saying you're happy with your wifey is a BIG YIKES here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Men, would you take an offer of 1mil a month in exchange for never having sex or porn again?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 09:39 PM |
| 6 | Men, would you take an offer of 1mil a month in exchange for never having sex or porn again?Eventually I'll stop wanting sex too. We both have low libidos so that works. But as a 21 year old dude, there are tens of years of sex to come. So I'll take it. If you're as young as me, no sex = no relationship, so I couldn't "just marry her" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Men, would you take an offer of 1mil a month in exchange for never having sex or porn again?Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 09:26 PM |
| 9 | Men, would you take an offer of 1mil a month in exchange for never having sex or porn again?Nope. I love my fiancée and I'd rather have her be my wife than a millionaire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?5'7"-5'8" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?Balkans ye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 05:38 PM |
| 4 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?So many other thing besides romantic interests in life. If you looking good is all you got, that's sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 09:47 AM |
| 5 | As a man, are there any benefits to marriage?I (20m) grew up watching my parents fight verbally all the time, and I come to think that my mom doesn’t really love my dad. So here’s some cons towards marriage. So did mine. I'm 21 and engaged. Both of us are trying to be better than our parents. 50% of marriages end in divorce That's no good way to determine if your marriage will fail. There are concrete factors that will give you more knowledge about if your marriage is more likely to fail or not. were you too young when you got married were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?Sadly, no. SOME women are fine with it. It's less than 50% for sure. Idk where you live, but here, women are on average 5'7"-5'8". Some women literally called me short even though I'M TALLER THAN THEM. I dated a 4'11" girl. And she told me that she usually find guys around my height attractive. I AM A TOWER COMPARED TO HER AND IF I WERE 2 INCHES SHORTER SHE WOULDN'T HAVE DATED ME............ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 07:01 AM |
| 3 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?If I lived in America, I'd have different preferences. Preferences can be heavily influenced by your surroundings. Women here weigh 110-130 pounds. We have gorgeous women. Some are 140, but those are usually thick women, that look incredible aswell. We have some fatties, but not many. So my preferences naturally go towards skinny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 2 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?If all I had to bring to the table was that I would not feel loved. I mean I like a those body types that aren't fat. You have to bring much more than your body to be a good partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 10:11 PM |
| 2 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?I mean my fiancée SOMETIMES has tiny unnoticeable hairs on her upper lip. I don't mind. But it's not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 09:02 PM |
| 3 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?I'm sorry, short men? No, no. 5'10" isn't short. And some women don't date 5'10". It's hilarious you make that comparison. I was not talking about men that are shorter than the woman they wanna date. I was talking about either men as tall as you or taller. But in most cases, being taller isn't even enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 08:41 PM |
| 10 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Crippling loneliness because noone wants you is also kinda bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 08:17 PM |
| 8 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?Example for "lowering standards regarding looks" I personally love women of all women that are in the healthy weight range. -I don't at all mind, and am attracted to small breasts. But would I prefer perfectly shaped C cups? Yes. I don't at all mind smaller butts. But would I prefer a well proportioned and shaped butt? Yes. I don't at all mind a bit of fat on the belly. Would I prefer a small waist and no fat on the belly? Yes. While I prefer some things, I wouldn't disregard a partner because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 08:13 PM |
| 10 | “women are much harsher on male virgins than are other men” — is that a true statement?When women try to be mean, they'll pick out your deep insecurities. So when a woman wants to be really mean, she'll make fun of you being a virgin. Because it "makes you look pathetic". But to men, virgin shaming is more so teasing. Sometimes it's real, like when they're bullies and trying to put you down. But friends might also tease you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Would you be ok with a marriage where you both lived in different houses? Why or why not?No. We're married, not penpals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.Screams: bitter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:22 PM |
| 7 | People in relationships: under what *external* circumstances would you leave your partner?I wouldn't leave my fiancée for anything. I don't want casual sex I don't need a "better woman" I wouldn't hop into a relationship with another person since my fiancée and I have been through so much TOGETHER | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.What??? I think a couple of you completely misunderstood what I wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 08:13 AM |
| 3 | CMV - I think a lot of women's issues with dating could be solved by waiting, or abstaining from sex.For those of you saying that men will wait and wait until they get what they want and then dump, are wrong. Players don't wait 4 months for sex. It's a couple dates at most and if nothing happens, they ghost. My fiancée was naïve before and went on a couple dates with a player (she didn't know since she had little dating experience). Eventually, in the 4th date he tried for sex but she denied him. He ghosted her right after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.Small PP container needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 08:11 AM |
| -1 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.What are you on about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.Some as in 10%. Some men have poop fetishes or they mutilate their own genitals Here, some would be 20 people alive lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:31 PM |
| -1 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.They might just be hot. I don't know. But men wouldn't actually date these women. They're not attractive to us. Violence is something men do, it's not very feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.I looked at your laws and yea, it's not illegal. But it's closely monitored, and there's a lot of manipulation there. I won't specify my country. It's illegal here tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:29 PM |
| -2 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.The thing about teens is that they're very young women who are mature. I don't think men watch teens because they wanna see a 15 year old get fucked. But rather because it's when their prime years start. Incidentally, that's when they're legal too. Pedophilia is a mental disorder, not a fascination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.The important distinction being that some women will WILLINGLY NEGLECT the fact they're MURDERERS. Yes, he can have ANY quality on this planet. If that person is a murderer, that should scare and repulse you. You'd have to be mentally disturbed to willingly neglect a murderer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.Qualities Right, men aren't too fond of murderers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 10:15 PM |
| 0 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.So yeah I can have a holistic understanding of men in my network outside of the realm of “sex.” I'm sexually conservative and got engaged at 19. I view people based on basically EVERYTHING EXCEPT SEX. Because I don't consider you being a sexual person as anything special | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:32 PM |
| -1 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.Okay mr.BigBrain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:30 PM |
| -2 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.I said I can't offer any. It's just my estimate from what I've seen. All I pointed out is that it's definitely more than 1%. Take it or leave it. I'd love to know the real number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:26 PM |
| -2 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.Either way those guys pursue us. They pursue women. Women tend to date who pursues us. “Bad boys” are typically more likely to pursue without a care in the world because they’re already low inhib ppl. That alone fast tracks them to the top of her radar. This is the main reason “bad boys” get women. Women aren't helpless creatures that just have no choice but to agree to sex or relationships with bad boys because they're pursued by them. You have agency. Some of you are just attracted to bad men.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.10% is not weirdness. Trans people make up 1% , and yet are the main topic lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.92% of men in prison have kids. https://www.fatherhood.gov/for-programs/incarcerated-and-reentering-fathers 16% are non violent offenders https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incarceration_in_the_United_States | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.Cult leaders on large scale and serial killers aren't common. Still pursued. Majority of men in prison have children (look it up). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.These guys ARE PURSUED and they GET WOMEN. The guy in the clip "I was introduced to her, and she couldn't wait to jump into bed with me". Letters are SENT TO THEM IN PRISON. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.1% is a lot. I've been in many amphitheaters (school stuff). The stats for psychopaths are 1/100. I hate knowing that I could have been in a room with at least one psycho every time I've gone there. But the 1% stat is something you made up. I'd say it's 10%, made up aswell, but from what I've seen IRL, about 10% is a fair estimate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.I know them, they are great girls. Nice, caring, fun to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.If you were attracted to a gang member and ran your mouth, using his status to cover yourself, you're the problem. Women like you should have been raised better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.Yes but that's way less common than women thinking crime is sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.He had power over them. Psychopathic manipulators have power over weak minded vulnerable people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.He was a cult leader. Cults are ILLEGAL. And he was a psychopath that drove weak minded people to kill for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.These men receive attention from women because they are famous. Anyone whose name and photo is widely circulated across the media will pique the attention of certain lonely, sad, desperate, mentally ill, etc. women. It only takes a few out of the hundreds of millions or billions to find something about the individual particularly appealing. "Among the more than 800,000 parents in federal and state prisons, 92 percent are fathers." These men aren't famous. They're criminals who got partners. And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.You're the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.Hitler killed noone. Absolved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.He was a psychopath who had a cult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.That's good to hear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.I wish that were true. I know a few girls who briefly dated mafia members. I didn't even know until they told me. Great girls, but they just got a rush when the guys told them they were in the mafia. Super weird, and very red flag-e | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Some women find serial killers and psychopaths irresistible. And people don't like to talk about that.Mafia men are usually hard and very rich Yes but you don't normally look at people that are criminals from a positive side... I wouldn't care how hard or rich someone as if they were a criminal. I'd stay the hell away. I thiink t's obvious that their followers are mentally ill - and also heavy drugs are often involved (Charles Mansons followers were all fucked up on drugs). His direct followers yes, but the women he got inquiries from weren't. They loved him for being a criminal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.TF??? LOL NO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.I wouldn't like it if my girl was jumping on my dick and all that. I like her to do what I want. I'm not rough, and from the feedback I get, my wife is perfectly happy with me. So yea, I prefer submissive since I know how to please both myself and her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 09:48 PM |
| 0 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.Being in the fields they are just means they're MORE LIKELY to meet someone that just happens to be in that field. The actual field they're in doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.No. Literal actors date waitresses. I know many successful and educated men. Their wife's are either stay at home moms or have a low paying job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.I got a fiancée. She's got the basics AND the bonuses EDIT: But I never cared about her career lmao, wtf is that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.Men generally look for beauty and kindness in women. Other quality traits are: good humour smart considerate of your hobbies general compatibility submissivness in bed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 06:56 PM |
| 9 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Yes it is. But for a lot of women "Compatibility" means that he's better than her in every way and she can admire him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 08:50 AM |
| 0 | How do men want women to behave?An ideal woman: is cognitive, and had actual hobbies, not just watching netflix and going to college/work has a sense of humour, and doesn't just laugh when a hot guy says something isn't loud and rude, bur rather soft spoken and calm nice, caring, loving submissive in bed has her own opinions and like to converse has a job, but understands that it's a requirement for a stable relationship, not something that'll impress men ideally virgin or Low N count doesn't give up sex easily (This is contro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 07:06 AM |
| 17 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Because women's loneliness is often self inflicted. No woman on earth can be alone, unless she's 1-2/10. And those are extremely rare, basically less than 1% of the population. Majority of women have too high of standards. When a man says he can't find anyone, YOU KNOW he can't find ANYONE. When a woman says she's "can't find anyone", it meamys anyone she'd deem good enough for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Just how successful are your close friends in dating/romance?I'm young. 21. I'm engaged. My best friend had a 4 year relationship, and now has a much better 1 year relationship. Best female friend 3 years and going strong. Other friends either: don't date had multiple short term unsuccessful relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 05:15 PM |
| 9 | What's the point in marriage?No further explanation needed. This is everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | WOMEN "HITTING THE WALL" IS NOT BASED IN REALITYAll I care about: most women's fertility goes down the older they get most women lose their beauty slowly by aging, even if they take care of themselves, whereas if men do the same they look even better women rack up too many partners by that age if a 30 yo woman hasn't found anyone by 30, she's likely either too picky, low quality, or both (whereas for men, they can be not picked simply by being less lucky) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"Lmao imagine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"Oh shit, I had a brain fart. Mb lmao. Idk why I wrote that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 01:12 PM |
| 76 | Bullet dodged I'd sayThe entitlement... Ew. Jesus fucking christ the entitlement. "He failed the vetting process" as if she is some sort of employer looking for a position of "boyfriend"... Not paying for an uber for a slut you took from a club is normal. You won't start a LTR with a person you fucked same night you met them... Wonder who else she fucked. And this chick thinks not getting a diamond ring is somehow indicative of a man not caring for you? Bruh... A diamond ring is expensive. Too expensive. All it matt… | /r/MGTOW | 16/02/21 07:32 AM |
| 2 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"I strongly prefer skinny women, but don't mind it if they're thick or a bit chubby. Women gain a lot of weight during child birth. And if she was skinny before, she won't be a whale afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Being high n doesn’t necessarily mean you are promiscuousWell, I wouldn't date someone with many partners. To be perfectly honest, I'd only want a virgin like my fiancée was before I met her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Being high n doesn’t necessarily mean you are promiscuousSure, but it doesn't matter to me really. Dating at 30 is depressing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Being high n doesn’t necessarily mean you are promiscuousDating at 30 is... It means failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Being high n doesn’t necessarily mean you are promiscuousBeing high n count means you had many partners. High N count to me is 10+. And if you're my age, 21, 10+ is high N count and it's gross and promiscuous. If you're 25, same thing. 10-15 is a lot. And it means you couldn't keep a RELATIONSHIP going. Or that you're a slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"I dated women. Women are either small and 115 pounds or tall and 130 pounds. Women. I date women. Not whales. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 11:01 PM |
| 6 | RP'rs, what are your thoughts on spinning plates in an LTR as a male?What are everybody's thoughts on plates during an LTR and do yours differ to the sidebar in any way. Disgusting. I hope these poor women in these horrible relationships find out and destroy your car or burn your house down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | What is the mindset of women in their late thirties or older wanting to have kids?Yep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Is ANY contact with an ex unacceptable?Yep. No contact. We saw him once on the street. It was uncomfortable. If she had his number it would be a problem. No hanging out with ex's. There can be feelings left over, and I'm not taking any risks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | What is the mindset of women in their late thirties or older wanting to have kids?You have fun when you're young. You reserve your later years for boring stuff like marriage and kids. I don't view it that way, but I get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?No. Asexuality is also an uncommon identity, popularly cited to be only 1% of the population (Wellings 1994) but is reported as high as 4% for individuals aged 18-24 (GLAAD 2017). This is 1% higher than those reporting strictly gay or lesbian in the GLAAD study in the same age range. I'd really love to see their sample sizes. Because if you test 100 people, 1 person being an asexual is 1%. I can't really tell from the study, but they mentioned multiple. I'd really like to see the number of peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?Don't need to do research to be able to tell that asexual people are so small in numbers that they basically don't exist. You're trying to tell me that over 3 million americans are asexual? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?There are such things as false stats. There are also such people that wanna label themselves. So they call themselves asexual but really aren't. Same with incels. Call themselves that but aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?If you're trying to tell me that it's more than 1%, this is false and I will never ever believe this false stat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?Allowed? I don't allow anyone anything. You got nothing to do with me. Call yourself what you will. Yes, there are asexuals. Extremely rare. Less than 0.001% probably. Even less most likely. If you're one, cool. But I don't really accept everyone calling themselves that since most are just young are confused. You're neither, so whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?That's an atheistic world view and im not an atheist. So i disagree. I can tell from that view. And that's fine, you're consistent with your views. BTW loving someone doesnt mean you want to mate with them lol. By that logic you cant love family, friends, coworkers or anything. I was referring to romantic love. I separate familial love from romantic love. I have acquaintances that I like to talk to sometimes, because humans are simply social beings, we work better in groups, so naturally you'd f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?It definitely is. There isn't any magical thing such as love. Not very scientific. You can describe it as chemicals. And then after that you can add your own meaning to it, and say you're in love. But if someone removed your brains function that compelled you to breed, you wouldn't be in love right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?Asexuals are so rare they don't even exist. Many women would claim that until they meet a hot guy lmao. Or realize they're not into men, but rather women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?Families in poverty aren't exactly a good example of healthy families. There as a lot of issues that come with that. I'm not saying they can't love each other, but the relationship is gonna be rocky. Having different desires like different hobbies or things you wanna do that day is fine. General world views and such have to align tho. True love doesn't exist. It's chemicals in your brain that force you to breed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone considered that women are just more physically attractive than men objectively, and that’s why there appears to be an imbalance in how many can get dates?Most women take care of their appearance (on average) than men. I almost never hear men using skincare products. Hair products that are anything further from a shampoo for washing and a gel to make it stick. No makeup. Men usually try and get fit. Other than that, little to no effort. Most men (going based on what I see out there) either dress to try and point out their status (branded clothing) or don't care at all. Some, like me, just dress to look good. But in all honesty, it's one in every 3… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?Solely based on anything is bad. A successful relationship takes: financial stability world view compatibility sexual desire for one another same wants and needs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Exactly how is casual sex different from sex within a relationship? And which one is "better" to you?Casual sex for women in usually not great. Yes, she might find "new partners" more exciting. But in the end, if the guy is just looking to use her as a fuckdoll, she's not gonna get much quality sex. The guy could also be of a smaller size. He could be inexperienced, etc. Whereas your partner, if you have good communication, will know how to please you. Basically, it depends if you're looking for constantly new excitement, or good quality sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Monogamous relationships aren't the cure for the "desire" problem for men who can't have casual sex, they are simply the only realm where they are toleratedI am 20 and engaged. Women didn't really like me and I didn't have my way with them. I haven't been so much as kissed by another women, other than my fiancée. I truly never had desire for sex, only to be loved in a relationship. Before my current relationship (engagement) I had no wishes to have sex with a girl without being her boyfriend. I never understood how some men wanted to just have sex. I had no opportunities for casual sex, nor did I want it. And now that I'm engaged to this beautiful … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 10:09 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Again, you seem like you ARE an attractive woman, because you got no problem attracting men. It's just that whenever I would ask a girl to rate herself, it's either "I don't know (because they're average), or 7-8 if they're actually average but confident, and 10 if they're good looking. I'm not saying YOU ARE a 6. I'm pointing out what I've most commonly noticed. And that song is a singular example of a bunch of thugs rapping about how there are uglies in the club. It's not that men treat sub 5'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I’d say realistically I’m probably like an 8? Maybe? I’m confident in my appearance but I’m not “Hollywood” beautiful or anything Most women tend to overrate their appearance. Sorry if I seem rude, but 8/10 is the top 1% of the population of women and being that is next to impossible. So when women say they're 8's, I usually just think a solid 6/10. https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/kx4qv6/22f_have_not_been_active_on_reddit_and_have_not/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share This is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".Lots of men see having sex with many women as a point system. The more people you've slept with as a man, the more of a "player" and "successful" in your romantic life you are. Whereas other men want relationships, and view that as the peek of ones romantic life. For me personally, achieving a successful LTR, having kids and getting married is success. Having slept with 100 women shows me nothing. Possibly that you're too immature to keep a woman or that you think sex is a point system (more par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Aj reci kolko si zenski prisao i dal si ikad bio na dejtu. Usput kolko godina imas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Every man has abundance, the unlimited pool of pretty women to chaseThe idea of women having to "wait" for the "right man" to approach her is completely unfounded. Women can approach. Ironically, women value confidence in men, because they lack it themselves. A woman that is at least average in appearance, realistically, would have 0 issues finding a partner if she approached men. No issues at all. Why wait? It's not like women are unable to approach. Or this idea that it makes them look pathetic and needy... IT MAKES MEN LOOK LIKE THAT TOO. Women can chase, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 08:51 PM |
| -1 | Dyadic attraction 2: guys, what female features do you find attractive/repulsive for dating and mating purposes?Personality traits I like: smart good sense of humour genuinely nice and caring takes care of her own self financially (although I prefer to pay on all dates) strong woman on the streets submissive in the sheets WANTS KIDS Personality traits I don't like: being a feminist (not equality fem, but FDS kind...) lacking intelligence no sense of humour refuses to pay on dates (I like her to offer at least) entitled too wild in bed or too low libido DOESN'T WANT KIDS Attractive: short to long hair roun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | What are some nice things you do for women out of kindness?pull chairs open doors and let them in first feel more protective over them just because they're women more gentle with the way I talk to them There's a lot more stuff to name, but generally I don't treat them the same way I do men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn’t there be more tiers of men than just the top 20% and the bottom 80%?Top 20% can get any woman they want, just on the basis of their looks. Ofcourse, this doesn't guarantee you a relationship, since that takes compatibly. But it means that majority of women will find you attractive, if not all. The other 80% are the ones who can't use stuff like dating apps. Because our looks don't give us enough to get a woman interested in us. The bottom 80% needs to try infinitely harder to get a woman that the top 20%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Having low value men simp over you is not something that women want. They can look bad and never attractive HV partners. Whereas men can, with other attributes. Some men ofcourse, if they compensate well enough. I'm not arguing it's easier for men in general. Just that getting hot women IS POSSIBLE as a man, if you're even low as below average. But not for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 08:14 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Pa bit ce ti jako tesko ako si tak nizak. I ak su ti rekli da si ruzan nisu ti prijatelji. Tako da sumnjam da su ti to rekli. Al eto, ja imam frenda kaj je ko ti visok (doslovno 168) i da curom je kaj je 160. Nije dobar u faci, oko 4/10. Al je super decko, ide na faks i stvarno se cini kao dobar lik. Znaci neko mora biti savrsen? Ne. Ali sto vise ti nedostaje izgleda, to vise moras compensetat. Makar ponekad možeš naic na cure kojima nece biti toliko bitno. I siguran sam da moji prijatelji koji … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 08:11 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Unless they meet me and talk to me, probably 0-5. If they meet and talk to me, 0-10. If they get to know me, 0-20. I'm fairly confident I can get some girls just with my personality alone. I'm confident, smart, funny, genuinely nice and respectful. It doesn't interest most women. But some will fall for it. 1 in 5 is a fair estimate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.If you can, then sure. But if you're an incel, and refusing to admit personality and stuff like confidence and self improvement is bs, then you're gonna stay an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I don't need to follow it. It's gonna make you more attractive as a partner, but my partner doesn't care. I wanna look better by working out but I'm not rushed to get fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Nisi onda cijeli paket. Ili jos nemas pojma kak privuc zene | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Znaci ako imas curu znaci automatski da imas humor?Jer vidis koliko si GLUP? Ne. Nego nisam fizički privlačan, ali imam curu. Očito moram na neki način suplementurat to. Imam li novaca? Ne. Da li ju manipuliram? Ne. Da li sam popularan? Ne. Očito je nešto drugo. Dal mi svi govore IRL da sam im smiješan? Da. EDIT: DAL JE TO CIJELI RAZLOG? NE. AL JE VELKI DIO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Znaci bukvalno si priznao da ono sto si rekao je bullshit. O moj jebeni bože.... CURA SA SUPER FACOM I AK JE MRŠAVA NEMOZES BIT MANJE OD 5/10. Čak i ako nema ni sise niti guzicu. Sise i dupe su stvari koje su samo bonusi. I ak je cura visoka, nekima je to bonus, ne minus. A ti kao jesi?XD Pa ja definitivno znam za sebe da jesam, ali to mogu dokazat time što imam hrpu prijatelja i zgodnu zaručnicu, čime ti možeš dokazat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Boli me jebeni kurac da li je tvojima neprivlacno. Njemu jeste ali ga boli kurac. Super je cura i zato je sa njom Neprivlacno mu je, al je s njom. Da... Ne vjerujem to. Vjv mu samo ne smeta. Biti MRSAV ZA CURE JE PRELAKO JER TREBAJU DA IMAJU SAMO 15-18% body fat. Za muskarce je 10-12% da bi izgledali dobro. I KADA IZGUBIS KG LICE TI BOLJE IZGLEDA. Cure zadržavaju više sala na tijelu zbog bioloških razloga. Isto tako, nisu svi debeli zato jer ne hodaju i prejedaju se. Tonu mršavih ljudi rade isto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Izvini ali biti mrsav je nesto sto svako moze biti Da. I milioner je nešto što svako može biti. Samo treba jako puno motivacije i dedikacije. I biti mršav nije sve što može učiniti ženu lijepom. Lice je ogroman dio privlačnosti. Dok žene koje su 7+ i dalje mogu potencijalno vidjet nešto više u manje privlačnom muškarcu `` $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ NOVAC Da, ne. Osobnost. Biti smiješan, ali ne da tu i tamo napraviš foru nego da se društvo cijelo smije kad si ti tamo. I biti pametan. Ne da dobis 5 iz fizi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Ne. Samo neke žene imaju kvalitetu da prepoznaju muškarca za puno više od izgleda. Čak je to poveća manjina žena. Dok muškarci oče većinom mršave cure koje su prosječne u faci, kao minimalno, za vezu. A za seks bi koju god ako su dovoljno očajni. Ali to se ne dogadja sa muskarcima koji su 7+/10. Jer oni imaju izbora. Dok žene koje su 7+ i dalje mogu potencijalno vidjet nešto više u manje privlačnom muškarcu. Al zgodni likovi NIKAD u milion godina nebi se jebali niti vezali za ispod prosjecne zen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Ne. Većina muškaraca bi jedino htjelo ispod prosjecnu curu za seks. Ništa više. To što ljudi to neće priznat je drugo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Ne, ne shvacas sto hocu rec. MOZES imat 4/10 partnera. Ako se potrefi da ti ta osoba baš sjedne. Ali ofcourse, SVI žele zgodnog partnera. Ali ponekad ne biraš ko ti se svidi. Neki te ljudi jednostavno pridobe osobnošću | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Yeaaa.... Woooow. That's an extremely weird example. And that woman is sadly a 0. I feel extremely bad for her and it's so unfair she has that. And idk how this happened. How is this dude... Wow. That's a genuine humongous outlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Are women who are “addicted” to erotica/smutty romance novels/fanfiction equal to men who obsessively watch porn?Idc about it at all. Literally couldn't care less | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to find/enter a healthy relationship immediately after a breakup?It's all about finding maximum compatibly with a person. But it takes good timing. So it depends on the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | What's the average body count for men and women?For men that I know. If handsome, it's as much as they want If not, 0 - 5 maximum in a life time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous?The "hypergamous" thing is funny to me. Obviously everyone wants the best quality partner possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Not dating exactly 8's. Maybe just above average, or good looking girls. Like 6-7. I see often enough to have it not be exactly rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | What counts as 'too high' of a bodycount?Mmm. Does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 11:53 AM |
| 1 | What counts as 'too high' of a bodycount?21 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Muškarci su više hypergamous za izgled nego žene, AKO ŽELE VEZU. Ako žele samo seks, onda će htjet bilo koju ako su dovoljno očajni. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 10:15 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Nije, al je uvijek veca fora imat zgodnijeg partnera lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 09:11 AM |
| 3 | What counts as 'too high' of a bodycount?I want her all to myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Ne. Kazem da muskarci visoke vrijednosti, 7/10 i vise ne zele cure koje su 5 ili manje, za VEZU. Seks je drugo, zato jer ponekad mozda nemogu nac zgodnu curku za jebat, pa pokusaju neku prosjecnu. Al ne vidis ispod prosjecne cure u vezi sa likovima 7+/10.ali definitivno vidis prosjecne ili ispod likove sa zgodnim curama. EDIT: Nauci citat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Da imam, i znam ih mnogo. I ne, to kaj ih oce jebat neki lik kaj je em ruzan em bezobrazan ne znači nista. Curama to kaj bi ju neko jebo jer nemre jebat nis bolje ne znaci nista. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 07:26 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Idk, to me gorgeous can be skinny and short with a gorgeous face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 07:06 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.To me that's not. I value the face most. Then body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 07:04 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Znas da samu pravu, al nemas dovoljno kompenzacija za svoj izgled, pa nemres nac zenu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 07:02 AM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.You do have value. And good men can see that. The issue is most guys wouldn't value any of those traits if you weren't pretty. For example, to me, it matters that my fiancee is smart, good sense of humour, going to college to get a degree, etc. But if she wasn't as pretty, idk if we'd be together. It sucks to think that because I love this woman, but if she just wasn't that pretty, I wouldn't have asked her out... I'm not saying I'll leave her if she gets lol, don't worry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 07:01 AM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.You missed it. Like 90% of people... IF THE WOMAN ISN'T AT LEAST SOMEWHAT ATTRACTIVE, 5/10, NONE OF THAT MATTERS. For men, it's different. Because some men can get away with being shorter, fatter, lesser looking, but woe a woman in another way. 3-4/10 guys dating hotties happens much more often than the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:59 AM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Nope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I'm not saying these things don't matter. I'm saying they matter ONLY if there is a baseline of at least some attractiveness. 5/10 AT THE BARE MINIMUM. FOR GUYS IT'S LOWER IS MY POINT. I'm 220 pounds, 5'9", messy hair, no facial features are pronounced because I'm fat and I used to dress poorly. And I found an absolute hottie. On top of which she's all those positive traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.That's meeee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Depends how much better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I'm saying that if a woman isn't at least a 5, no other traits will matter, since most men NEED women to be at least a little attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:54 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Not really. I'd rather have a hot pillow princess than an ugly good in bed girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:53 AM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Won't get anything on tinder if you're sub 7 male, but you will in real life if you're skilled enough with women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:52 AM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Nono. Men can be as low as 3-4/10 on the looks scale and some of them can still score a hottie, if they can compensate with their personality traits and themselves as a person if they're interesting Women that are 5 or lower can't really score a 7+/10 dude for anything more than sex (when he uses them to cum), because those guys don't struggle with women at all, so they can easily find a better looking girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:51 AM |
| 2 | What counts as 'too high' of a bodycount?Idc tbh. Either you are careful and don't give it up easy, or you do every time a guy makes you wet and think that he's the one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Okay, you're just going on a tangent, and you're clearly just a bitter person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 06:44 AM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Women ARE valued for more than looks, after they meet the criteria of looks first. You COULD say it is the same for women, but it isn't. Because while even very attractive women can make exceptions for men that look like me (4/10), men don't do the same if a woman is my looksmatch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.How could you even know I'm HV unless I mention it. This isn't real life. The only way I can prove it is by saying I am. IRL it's all deeds. I don't go around talking about how good of a partner I am IRL. I just gift my girl a big ass teddy bear, have her carry it around town and treat her to a good date. I don't need to say shit. The looks on other women's eyes when they see her with a big ass bear and a well dressed man next to her says it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 10:47 PM |
| 3 | What counts as 'too high' of a bodycount?Above 0 is an issue because I'd rather have a girl all to myself. 3 or less tells me you had some experience. If it's in relationships, fine. If it was all casual, nope. Not for me. More than 10 is ridiculous and you're clearly not caring about sex as something special, so we're just of differing opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 10:45 PM |
| 7 | Whining about not having sex as much as other men is a form of entitlement.I never got men complaining about "lack" of casual sex. Like what are you providing to get sex? Nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 10:43 PM |
| 0 | Would you trade places?Not in a million years. Being a man has all the advantages. Just being honest, walking around and feeling safe, not getting unwanted attention is good. The feeling of being easily overpowered is frightening. And no, I'd rather have the challenge of getting a woman than some approaching me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Well, I disagree. It doesn't make her wet because it's not a seductive method. Being funny makes you endearing when you're not trying to fuck her, but just have fun. You don't need to act like a clown to be funny. And you're not a clown just because you're funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Ah yes. Keeping up appearances on an anonymous reddit account | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 09:52 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Well I can easily tell if someone's exploiting. Especially if my fiancée is doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.But are they with 7+/10 men? No... That was my point. They can be settled for or just married their looksmatch. But never actual good looking men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 08:49 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Nope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I'm 5'9" almost 5'10". In a country where women are 5'8" on average, and men are 6'0" on average. Obese and most people are skinny here. And I'm white in a 99% white country. Dark blue eyes that people notice under extreme sunlight or never lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 08:28 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Sure, most women can become average if they get fit. Only a small % actually have enough dedication to make it sadly. And yea, then they'll have their pick. But not necessarily of 7+/10 men, for anything more than sex. Because 7+/10 men ONLY date up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I'd be happy if I could have dated these women. But I couldn't. I didn't complain about it, I knew I was being shallow but I kind of had no choice. I did go onto improve myself tho. Obviously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 08:01 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.FoUnD tHe InKwElL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I have lots of friends and colleagues. And I used to be fuuucking ugly. 5'9" and 3/10 in the face and obese, in a country of skinny/fit people, 6' average, good looking men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I disagree. If you get to know someone, their looks matter less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.To me, being funny and smart gave me a privilege in all areas of life. Being funny helped me with teachers if I was bad at any certain subjects. It also helped me make friends. It helps me make my fiancée laugh all the time. Being smart helped me in all sorts of ways. Even with women. Especially my fiancée, because she's smart herself and needs someone that can stimulate her brain. For women, being funny isn't exactly something men would value unless she's attractive. Same with being smart. A fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Whatever you say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I personally had a lot of trouble finding women. I dated both down and looksmatch. And I never got anywhere. Even a couple 6/10's. And after I had a big change in my life, I said "I'm either gonna be single, or date a good looking, smart and caring woman." And I gave up dating. If it didn't "happen", I'd just stay single. And I happened to stumble upon a gorgeous, short, smart, funny, caring, kind woman. And she loved me for who I am, and didn't care that I was 5'9" or that I was fat. She clearl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 07:45 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Ive even had men say they didn't like that I had a career or a college education. If you're in that camp, go fuck yourself. I love me an educated woman. I simply don't find it possible to be with a woman I'd consider below a 5/10. And I'd go as far as to say I wouldn't want below 7/10. It's high standards, but I like beautiful women, what can I say. And ofcourse, I'd never reject a woman that's a 5/10. It's just that's I'd PREFER higher. And yea. No matter what you do it won't impress a man. A c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Noone is objectively high value. We all have different standards. I don't party, I don't smoke weed, I don't like meeting new people. For my fiancée, those are good traits. For some of our friends, that's an instant turnoff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 3 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.If you live in America, maybe not. But usually that's not uncommon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Tinder isn't for less attractive people. You need lots of character and personality to compensate for 3/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 07:02 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Idk if you think I'm a woman or what, but I'm saying I'm a dude that pays on all dates (sorry if I misunderstood). And no, my fiancée doesn't like that I pay for everything. She's desperate to get a job during her college years because she wants to contribute financially. I just make it easy on her because I love her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Men have high standards for looks if they're good looking themselves, and they don't struggle Average men wouldn't date below 5/10 unless very desperate, and are ideally shooting for hotties Unattractive men would ideally date average women, but would date anyone if desperate enough Women generally want good looking men, no matter their looks Some women make big exceptions if the guy woes them in another way (intelligence, funniness, etc.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Classic MGTOW sentence. You can be bitter all you want. You failed in locking down a good one. Don't take it out on the happy couples <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.The threshold is much lower for some women. As far down as 3-4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Sure, for most maybe, but there's a pretty big "minority" of women that will fall for 3-4/10 guys that have something else to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.If she's overweight, almost obese, no she can't. If she's 4/10, no she can't. EDIT: or she can, but not get a 7+/10 looking partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:38 PM |
| 3 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I don't think that, I am that. I use my fiancée that confirms this as proof. And much like being "nice"...if you have to say you're high-value, you're not high-value. This only applies in real life for people that know you and the deeds you do for people in general. On the internet, you have to establish some facts about yourself, because noone can actually know how you are IRL. I've had no trouble finding guys who value me for more than my looks Then you either: don't look bad don't date hot gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Many, because many do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:32 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Yes... But to men specifically, if the woman doesn't look at least "good", most men won't date them. Or will out of desperation, but it doesn't count since you'd hop onto another better looking woman first chance you got... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Who has money looks and abs??? And is simping?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Lmfao. All u got from that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Oh well yea, but these women are 40+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Depending on the woman, if the man impresses her in other ways, he can get that foot through the door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.But for men, depending on the woman, the bar could be much lower if you impress her in other ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Again, completely missed the point. Looks first, everything else later. If she's not AT LEAST 5/10, which most women are, then everything else is useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I don't betabuxx and got a gorgeous girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Those simps aren't 7/10 men. Is my point.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:38 PM |
| -1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Casual sex and relationships are 2 different things. Casual sex are looks and charisma ONLY. Everything else is useless. Relationships need much more than looks. They need stability, same general world views and lifestyles, sexual attraction, and lots of other areas of compatibility, like making her laugh, being intelligent enough to lead convos on her level, etc. And yea, women get attention. Average women don't get much attention from 7/10 men, unless they're just wanted for sex, which women d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Fetishes are a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.You can be well dressed and in shape, but 5'5" with a small chin, no jaw and bad eye area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 6 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Yup. My fiancée asked me if I'd date her if she was unattractive. I straight up said no. It sucks, but it's honest. I can't fall in love with an unattractive person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.You have to establish yourself as a potential romantic partner. If you got no way with women, you can have all those traits and them being useless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Well, that's a difference of opinion. Those are objectively good traits on a man. If you want more, then you're just needy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:29 PM |
| 10 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Sure. A 7 beats a 10 if she's better as a person. Does a 3/10 amaizing girl beat a 7/10 nice girl?! No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.You don't get me. I claim that she needs to look good first, then those traits matter. If she's a 3/10, it's not important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 4 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.A 200 pound girl can be funny, smart and successful, but still not attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:26 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.No. Looks can be discarded if the person gets to know you before you actually start the romantic part. That's what happened to me and my fiancée. We were in the same social circle. I established myself as the smart and funny dude of the group. And eventually we started dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Men can compensate well if they are able to. If you think you can't be less attractive, but a great partner, then you're bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:24 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.reliable trustworthy loyal genuinely nice smart funny ambitious confident caring want to be a father have a job take her anywhere pay for all dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:23 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Lmao what a dumb comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 0 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Misunderstood my post like the one above... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 7 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.You're wrong. You clearly didn't read or understand what I wrote. I start to value things in women AFTER they're attractive. So if they're not attractive, they're not worth much to me as a sexual partner (friend, sure, obviously). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 8 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I disagree. Most men just don't care about a woman unless she's feminine, and at LEAST average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 03:43 PM |
| 3 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Career doesn't matter to men. Like sure, it's more money. But it isn't really what makes women more attractive. Unless the woman is also fenimine, caring and good looking, it doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I don't actually agree with you. 5/10 is average. And average women get men they want. Even if very attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 03:40 PM |
| 5 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Noone deserves anything. And women don't deserve more of anything just because they're women. Men just aren't attracted to physically unattractive women, no matter their career or personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 5 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Idk. Most girls are just judged on their looks. Unless she's already good looking, the other traits don't really matter for most men. And stuff like career don't even matter to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Looking at your history, have you mostly been dating "up" or "down"?I am 4/10 in looks. I'm guessing you're referring to only physical attractiveness. I've been in only a single actual relationship, which is my fiancée right now. And my fiancée gets rated 7-9/10 on looks, depending on taste. If you like small and cute girls, she's a 9. Which is vastly out of my leauge. Now that I think about it, most girls were 5/10. A couple 3/10. Few 6-7/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Why do men seem less restrained when it comes to fantasizing about their female friends/strangers than vice versa?Well, I'm definitely not in the top 20%, but now that I'm engaged, I feel as if I am. Because I just look at men and women equally. I don't even view them as different genders, it's all the same to me because I got a life partner. But I see what you mean. Ofcourse, if you can pick and choose any woman, you'll be able to have some standards. But if you're struggling to even get a date with ANY woman? Well, no choosing for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 07:55 AM |
| 0 | This is the way it’s supposed to be. Men are supposed to find a way to become sexually successfulI mean... You don't wanna go in the "disposable" topic. All men need is a proper sex robot and we can replace the entirety of women without any loss in quality of life. Men are... Well (this is gonna sound sexists, and I do not advocate for this because I love women) inferior to men in every way imaginable, EXCEPT in giving birth, which with the development of technology can be fixed... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 07:09 AM |
| 11 | Why do men seem less restrained when it comes to fantasizing about their female friends/strangers than vice versa?If a man isn't: gay in a monogamous relationship repulsed by his female friend He will have romantic or sexual feelings for that woman, until she makes it known nothing is gonna happen. Even then, he can fantasize. Also, women aren't usually attracted to their male friends... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 13 | This is the way it’s supposed to be. Men are supposed to find a way to become sexually successfulYou can't get taller You can only get surgery to make your face better You can't make your penis larger Most people can't be rich, unless you got a rich background or are incredibly innovative (which is a natural talent that few possess) Men SHOULDN'T have to compete with the top 20% of naturally best men. 20% of men SHOULDN'T be able to take every woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 07:43 PM |
| 0 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlSee, it can easily be where you're from. I'm from the Balkans. Women are thankful, and you pay as a man. Obviously, if you're in a relationship, it's fine to split. And the girl ALWAYS has to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 06:40 AM |
| 0 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlHa ha. Nice try. This is common decency. And if you liked a woman as much as I do my fiancée, you wouldn't be here saying that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 06:35 AM |
| 2 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlThat's fine, you can look at it that way. There are men that pay for their woman's stuff, and men that don't. I don't mind paying at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | What is your family like?Both bluepilled. My mom (sorry mom, lol) isn't as physically attractive, but had no trouble finding boyfriends in her life. Bluepilled. My dad is also bluepilled. He was a "bad boy" when young and got into lots of trouble. Had a few gf's. Bluepilled. Ironically, terrible marriage. I hope I do everything right, unlike them. I want to be an even better parent and I didn't settle for s relationship with any woman that I didn't find absolutely most attractive in both looks and behaviour. Now that I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Sex in a relationship is a privilege, not a right, but you can't get off on porn either.Why should men consider a relationship under these conditions? If you don't like any CONDITIONS of the relationship, don't engage in it Would you date if you knew sex was off the table? There is no relationship without sex. What should a guy do to get laid instead? Well, idk what to tell you. If a girl is in a relationship with you and never wants to have sex, you can cheat or break up. Pick your poison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Do you think BDSM pretty much universllay being "woman focused" says something about sexuality?BDSM is weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Dating is difficult because men and women expect different things from each other and the things they expect are not what that gender wants for themselves.I expected a relationship, got a relationship. It's not that all men want sex, and women want relationships. Women have 3 modes: Chad only (sex or relationships) only relationships only casual sex They first one is a long phase for some women, the other two are what other women switch from time to time. Men either want a relationship and often times can't get it unless they're attractive (you gotta do A LOT of self improvement and have a lot of luck finding a non-shallow woman) Or Men wanna fuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Does Participation on This Sub Require Dating Success?I think that virgins come up with crazy tactics, like the phone thing, that would never actually work. If you had a successful long term relationship, you realize how silly all these games are. And that it would be mutually beneficial if neither of you played games and just enjoyed dating each other, or just break it off if it isn't working. No manipulation needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 06:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menNo. She wasn't socialized to like that. You don't get to think that all your opinions are unique and that you made them up all on your own, but someone elses MUST be "socialized to believe that". She has her reasoning, same as I do. We weren't socialized to think anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:47 AM |
| 2 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlI want to. I wanna be the man around the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 11:34 PM |
| 3 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlWell, it ain't gonna happen. Either women are raised well and offer to pay or insist, or they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menYea. I told her that I love the fact she never had a previous partner. I literally went on a little date with her today and she saw these comments. She doesn't mind at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlIf you're looking for a hookup, then idk what the tactic should be. If you're looking for a long term partner, the first date should go really well. Preferably it should be long and you should get a good idea of whether the person is good for you or not. If the first date doesn't go well, split the check and stop dating that person. If it's going really good, then pay. If it's neutral, it's likely that she doesn't like you as much, or the other way around. A.k.a. not too compatible. Split. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 09:10 PM |
| 0 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlTaken advantage of for getting to take a good looking girl on a date. Right. A crime indeed. I personally get nothing out of paying for my fiancée's coffee. Just a gorgeous woman wrapped around my arm, listening to all my troubles, giving me kisses and making my life better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 02:35 PM |
| 0 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlIf you think that her having sex with you is equivalent to you paying for her coffee you're beyond delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 02:32 PM |
| 0 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlIf men don't wanna pay for dates, then they either shouldn't take women on dates they can't afford, or if they can but don't want to, they're just cheap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menI wouldn't for myself, because it was me she did it with, but if someone else did that would want her as a partner, that's their reasoning that they're allowed to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menYep. She doesn't mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlSure, but that's not what some men want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 01:31 PM |
| 0 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlShe literally sometimes goes behind my back and pays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menYes. But it's okay since we're together and in a commited relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menI'm not gonna lie, I just hate the idea of prior partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:42 AM |
| 1 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlMy fiancée has 0 interest in my money. She always pushes to pay, but I just don't let her. It's mine to pay on dates. If it's a bigger expense, fine. It's not that we're dating different women, it's that I want and like to pay, and you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:42 AM |
| 0 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menIdk what you mean. Look, the past is the past. And I didn't date women with "rich histories of sexual partners". I datet low N count or virgin women (we were 18+, that's why). I don't own her body, literally. But if she had 10 prior partners, we wouldn't be together. And if she wants to have sex with other people now, she can't. Well, she physically can, but that automatically ends the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menI'm hers and she's mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menI see what you mean, and politely disagree. If it's a random woman and a random guy, they had sex. If it's my wife and a random guy, he had sex with her. The mentality to me is different. It's as if someone took something that is mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:10 AM |
| 2 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlDon't get me wrong, if the woman doesn't offer, I'm not paying. Or if I can tell she's faking. But girls in my country are (apparently) well mannered. Ironically, no girl has ever not offered to pay. Some even insisted. Hell, some paid for everything on dates with me. But I LIKE treating my girl. And will pay later when we're together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:08 AM |
| 6 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlNo. If I never paid for dates, it would make me look cheap, and because other men pay, she might think I don't like her as much. Paying for your girl is just a small thing you can do to make you seem like some provider. The happiest couples are where the man is the leader. On anything big, we split. Me and my fiancée. But on small dates? I take the check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:06 AM |
| 0 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlYou don't understand what I mean. Not paying on dates is gonna get you nowhere because it makes you look cheap. If other men pay for her on dates and you don't, that's gonna make her think you don't like her. It's not about the money. It's about the gesture. Again, if you really can't pay for a small meal or a coffee, or movies, then that's cheap of you. Sorry, maybe it's the way I was raised, but if you won't do that, you're cheap. It's not about her being interested in your money. It's about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menI think I get that, fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menI mean, there's nothing creepy about it. What is creepy about me loving a woman so much that I don't want other guys to fuck her? To me, it's degrading that my wife was fucked by other men. To me it's like "they did something to her". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet themSorry, looked like you just started doing this "tactic" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet themWell, idk what else to tell you. It's clearly not working for you. And I wish you best of luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlIt's not about affording but rather "Seems there's a lot of guys who feel like they're being taken advantage of, or at risk of, by paying for dates." So, you know, some who feels that way can just not do that. Sure. But not doing that won't get you far with women. Being that cheap is not a good look. I dunno if it's a majority but in modern times there's plenty of women that don't expect paid dates Errr... Difference between something being a bonus that can make you more endearing, and something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 10:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet themNot being abused. But picking partners that abuse you. You need to radically change who you date. If it's men that just ask you out over dating apps or approach you randomly, then stop doing that. And date men that your friends can vouch for are good guys. Maybe they won't be as hot or as charming, but you can at least consider your self safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet themI hate these guys. And I hate when these women fall for these guys and end up disappointed, god forbid abused. But if you just keep getting with these bad men... It's kinda time to take some responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 10:31 PM |
| 14 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlYou won't get a 2nd date from majority of women that you refuse to pay for. It's already ingrained in us that paying as a man means you want the dating to continue. Going 50-50 is kind of weird. It's awkward and it doesn't really pan out well. If you really can't afford to pay for a coffee, that's pretty pathetic. And if you can't afford to pay for lunch, don't take women to restaurants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 10:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet themAre you saying I'm responsible for men abusing me? Maybe my personality is attractive to abusers, but that's not my fault. I'm doing what I can to avoid them. I'm sorry that they exist and intentionally hurt people. 🤷♀️ No. But any time I see a woman dating a clear fuckboy that ends up abusing them... I just don't feel much sympathy since sometimes you can tell the guy is an asshole. Ofcourse, you didn't deserve it. But if you keep picking abusers, idk if that's accidental. Sure, you can make t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of menI'm just gonna be honest here. I wanted a virgin because I had no prior sexual experience and because I assumed I couldn't be as good in bed as a guy with a big dick. It sounds funny, but it is what it is. I also don't want any other guy to have fucked my wife. Life is meaningless and we give our own meaning to our lives. And to me, having a guy sleep with your wife is gross. So if that never happened before me, amaizing. I also don't want her mentally comparing prior partners to me. It's gross … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 10:19 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet themI agree that men should put the effort in, but not that women should just sit by and wait for the right guy. If the you're dating are mostly THAT bad , to the point where you're almost waiting for them to disappoint you, then the common denominator are you. Not a whole gender. The women I know don't complain too often about dating trash guys. My close friends are very good at picking good men. That someone they know can vouch for. Not some random hot guy from the club. If the men they date are s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | What are your standards? Other commenters, are these standards reasonable?I just described my fiancée lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What are your standards? Other commenters, are these standards reasonable?I'm from southern Europe. And low N count women are more of the norm here. More than 10 partners in a life time is unusual. 5 is average for hot women. I got a virgin fiancée (not anymore but she was when I met her). And that's a strong preference of mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | What are your standards? Other commenters, are these standards reasonable?Got a fiancée | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 08:24 AM |
| 1 | What is your ideal ONS?I'm not into it. My best ide is I meet her in a club, we make out, I take her out behind the club, fuck her, and then leave and go home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 05:27 PM |
| 5 | What are your standards? Other commenters, are these standards reasonable?In no particular order: we can differ in preferences but not general world views atheist (absolute must, instant disqualifier if not) she has to be kind and caring prefer very feminine women absolutely no feminists (yes, she can understand we're equals without being so caught up on "women's rights") submissive in the bedroom smart (absolute must, pointless to date a brain-dead person) good sense of humour has her own hobbies, friends and job (her own life along with my own) trustworthy least par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 10:55 AM |
| 5 | "Rape" fantasies are the result of being sexually repressed. They are not an actual desire to be raped.Yep. A lot of incels misunderstood the rape fantasies that women get. Women don't want some creepy fuck to attack them in the middle of the night and rape them. That's horrific. But some women have the desire of being desired badly. To the point where a guy they're with couldn't restrain himself from having sex with them. And that's okay. If you and your partner have a rape kink, that's fine. But it's never actual rape women want. It's LIKE rape but not actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Where do your views on female sex drive and attraction come from?“Women can only be attracted to 20% of men.” Women are MOST attracted to the top 20%. Many would rather stay single than date below that. Some exceptions obviously exist tho. “Women will always pine for the most attractive man from her past, making her incapable of being attracted to any other man.” I know a girl who had a bf with a 10 inch dick. She (to this day after years) ends up ruining relationships because she keeps having sex with her ex. I know it's not the same as attraction necessaril… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Why are you guys so pressed about what shallow women do?Because the behaviour of women around other women can influence them. If a good girl gets into a group of women who are slutty, over time, she might not think of being slutty as such a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How can men have a "fun and sociable" personality?Un-Ironically absolutely true. When I get 2 beers in me, I can talk to strangers in a club for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | *Should* you base your entire self worth on how much romantic/sexual attention you get? *Should* every self improvement you do be done solely to attract the opposite sex?The more you improve as an individual, the more you're worth in every sense, including romantically. If you're a man that makes good money, is smart, funny, dresses well, has lots of friends, has interesting hobbies, etc. Then you're gonna be a desirable partner, as well as successful in life. The more you're successful in life, the better of a romantic partner you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | There are no good women or men when it comes to relationships, everyone has a list of must havesThere are no objectively good partners. You can have a partner that's gonna be "MOST LIKELY" compatible with a lot of people. For example, a woman can be beautiful, nice, funny, smart, generous, etc. But if she goes clubbing often, I'm out. Just a small deal breaker can make someone (that doesn't have anything necessarily wrong with them) completely undesirable to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | It shouldn't matter that only 20% of men are considered attractive when 70% of young men are having sex.Most hookups suck for women too, but you guys never want to mention THAT. I was referring to women as the ones that didn't get any joy from those encounters. And yea, women choose Chads that get sex easily for hookups. Ofcourse those dudes are gonna only care about themselves, since they can just move on from you. If you gave a chance to an average virgin, he'd try his best to please. 45% percent of male virgins are virgins by choice. AHAHAHAHAHAAHAGAGAGAGAGAGAGAGAAG YEAAAA. NO HONEY, LOL. No gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What should women like/appreciate/ romanticize men for?I'd like women to notice my humour and intelligence more. I had some women back in highschool that would be very impressed when I took the lead in debates we had (as practice, in class). But 95% of them just ignored that and would never look at that as anything impressive. We actually did iQ testing too. I came out highest in class at 137. Basically no girls except 2 ever commented on it. Whereas guys were very talkative about it and found it interesting. I also do kind of more complicated jokes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Are boys asking their MOMS how to get pussy?!No. They're referring to moms saying: you'll find a girl she'll love you for who you are be nice to women and they'll like you for it When in reality, unless you do major self improvement (unless you're very physically attractive) you won't find anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Has the "keeping your options open" method worked for you?You either want a commited partner, or a fuck buddy. Keeping options instantly means that you're not serious about this person. If you keep options, that means that you're not invested in that person. The "don't keep all your eggs in one basket" analogy doesn't work for partners. You absolutely need to focus on one person if you ACTUALLY like them. If you never had a need to drop everyone else and focus on one person, you never met that special person you clicked hard with, clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 11:35 PM |
| 4 | It shouldn't matter that only 20% of men are considered attractive when 70% of young men are having sex.For men it's 70, for women it's 99. Problems with this post: having sex with prostitutes doesn't count as being sexless, even though there was 0 emotions and no enjoyment for one party having sex once before 25 makes you non-sexless, even though it could have been a drunk, unattractive woman you happened to "get lucky" with. women are all virgins by choice after 15, so the % of women that are sexless not by their choice is 1% men desire sex more than women, yet have it much less, and most don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 11:13 PM |
| 3 | How would you describe your appetite for sex?I am often horny. But I'm more than fine jerking off. Me and my girl don't live together yet. So we can go weeks without sex (because she's in college and I'm between jobs, and we live with our parents). Honestly, I'm fine with it. I can easily go a month without sex. When we do get the chance to be together for a few weeks, we have it once or twice a day. I'm fine with that. I have a low libido for a dude. Sometimes I'm more than fine with once a day if we're living together at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.First of all, I think that number is lower. I know about that study, and I think you're mistaken. Still, 30% without sex is alarmingly huge. And it's going up. While for women it's 100% since 15, unless they choose not to lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 09:46 PM |
| 6 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Judging that by my arguments alone? Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Rarely find someone Or find noone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 05:40 PM |
| 12 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Decent in a mans mind is a girl who isn't an absolute slut, doesn't have 10 kids by age of 25 and isn't obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.No. You're trying to point out that for 20% of men there's 20% of women. When in reality those men cycle women they use and women in general would rather be single than settle. There are exceptions. But few and far between. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Guys treat women well in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 07:07 AM |
| 24 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Decent in a woman's mind means Chadlite with benefits of a hardworking, wealthier guy. Men struggle. You just don't see it then. Or you just have Chad orbiters lol. Women never struggle, unless by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 07:07 AM |
| 4 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Top 20% of men either hookup, or, are voluntarily single and looking for a great partner. They know their worth and they don't wanna settle if they don't have to. I disagree that that leaves 95% of women to date 80% of men. That's ridiculous. Women would rather be single and hold out for a better partner, than give chances to average guys. The top women 8/10 and above, don't look at other men as humans. They're only gonna go for Chad, or stay single. The above average women nowadays act like the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 06:35 AM |
| 0 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Listen, I'm an exception too. I'm engaged to a woman out of my leauge regarding looks. But: communication world views both atheists (we're in a 90% christian country, so this is a big win for me) she's nice she's all giggly she's smart Those are the reasons I date her. Looks are a bonus for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 06:26 AM |
| 6 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Those are a minority. Men don't actually set "hot" as a requirement. Most men expect to get an average girl. If a hot one happens to like them, they'll be overjoyed. But that's not a standard. The 6'0" rule is a standard for women. Men don't usually have those standards. Majority obviously, those that are below 7/10 (20% roughly). I like big and small boobs. I like some meat on the bone and skinny chicks. I like tall legged beasts and tiny little rabbits. I like every type of woman that's not go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 10:53 PM |
| 0 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.No they won't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 08:41 PM |
| 9 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.I'm not saying women SHOULD bang these men. But saying they're single when they got options, that's a big nono. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 08:37 PM |
| 8 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.This is completely untrue. Men date any woman, while women date few men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship with true love and freedom for both - Your Opinion?I don't think so. I see it as moving to a different stage in the relationship. When you both focus on something bigger than yourselves. And are not young and horny anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 07:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Not every relationship needs to last forever or end in marriageI'm a man, and I think relationships are pointless without an eventual end in marriage. I literally got engaged in my first relationship. But hold on, that's because I never actually asked a girl to be my gf before my fiancée. Why? Because I don't want to commit to s person that I don't think I could possibly marry one day. Because it's pointless. My goal was to eventually find a girl to settle down with. I didn't wanna go through multiple women and have different experiences. I wanted one woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Women tend to be more interested in taken men.If a guy is married and has kids. His wife is happy and they have a good, stable marriage and financial situation, a woman will find that extremely attractive. Because for women that are looking for marriage material, here's a guy who fits all those, and without a doubt proves he is able to do these things. That why, and there's nothing weird about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 07:06 AM |
| 0 | There's the idea that in straight couples, the women is typically more attractive than the man. Do you agree with this idea? How true is it as you have observed?This is often the case. Yes, there are many looksmatches, but the other couples are pretty woman <-> less attractive man Maybe it's a cultural thing, but noone in my country would publicly date a less attractive girl. I have once, and the reactions from my friends were mostly mixed. It feels uncomfortable having an ugly or less attractive girl around your hand. It sucks but it's the truth. I was never afraid to show my fiancée off. Since she's very good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't "lying" about what they find sexually arousing.Women complain about wanting men that are good. But then would turn away even average looking guys. The issue with this is that I very often see women falling for guys that aren't good at all, but are just hot. And then when they complain about not finding good men, but only having picked the hottest dudes she could, I find it hard to have sympathy for her. Men on the other hand, unless they're 7/10 or above, will date any girl that shows reciprocal feelings for him, and is the absolute minimum … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 06:58 AM |
| 4 | Who's more expected to make the first move? women or men ?Most guys here that think they're incels, aren't. You're most likely just young, less experienced and just generally don't know how to court women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you identify your looks match as a man exactly ?I never wanted looksmatch women. I only liked above me regarding looks. And I dated a few, got engaged to one. Looksmatches are pretty much you rating the girl and then rating yourself lol. That's a looksmatch in YOUR own view. If you're honest and not overeating either person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How likely is it that couples where the woman is more attractive, the man is compensating with his personalityYep, don't give a fuck lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How likely is it that couples where the woman is more attractive, the man is compensating with his personality"I don't get that many matches" Implying you get some. Which I basically had 0. 7 matches in 2 months in 2 cities. 5 never responded back (accidental right swipes) 2 responded with one word and unmatched instantly That's a real 4/10 on dating apps for ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How likely is it that couples where the woman is more attractive, the man is compensating with his personalityIt's just objective. Also, we both got rated on photofeeler, I'm a 4/10 and she's an 8. So yea... I met her in a social circle. I just got into a group of people (first time in my life). We all kinda hung together, and after a while I asked her out. I never gave her special attention prior to that and she eventually just saw me as the smart and funny guy of the group. As you probably know, over time, when people start to like you, they kinda forget your looks and take you in as a whole person. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How likely is it that couples where the woman is more attractive, the man is compensating with his personalityI'm clearly less physically attractive than my girl. But I'm "smart and funny" according to her and out friends. So it balances things out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 08:46 PM |
| 7 | Do you think men should wait for your indicators of interest before they approach or do you think that would prevent a lot of potential relationships from happening?If I waited for a girl's sign, I'd be dying alone. Girls only give signs to hot men. Noone else. If you're sub 7, you gotta do everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 07:42 PM |
| 11 | Who's more expected to make the first move? women or men ?Are men more expected to ask women out first? or the opposite ? Are men more expected to make the first kiss ? or the opposite ? Are men more expected to initiate the first sex session ? or the opposite ? Men do everything first. If you don't, you won't get a woman if you're below 7/10. Unless women approach you (in case you're extremely good looking), you have to do all the work. It's fucked up, but it's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.Because it's a thing men tend to do? Not in a literal sense, I meant more jokingly. And wtf are you on about? Why would I say "you got beautiful tree trunks lady". Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 07:27 AM |
| 1 | How can we make sure women and men are giving real consent?No. I say that that's the reason it happened. And if it keeps happening you should re-evaluate your picks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Would you be a stepdad?I say no now. But if I'm 40, single, idc. I can't have kids of my own with a woman my age. At least not healthy ones. So her having kids is whatever at that point. As I am now, young, No. I want my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | First comes sex, then maybe commitmentSo my question is: Should we be teaching young boys to pursue sex with girls they like and to wait on making a decision on commitment until much later? Absolutely not. We don't need generations of wannabe alpha redpillers that don't understand that sex is something special, and shouldn't be had with just anyone. The last thing you'd want is to get a girl preggo that you're not at least A LITTLE SURE you could Potentially be in a relationship with. Much better for both sides if men were men, comm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | How can we make sure women and men are giving real consent?Pardon, I didn't read the post, I answered the title. I thought you were just explaining some video. Anyway, no. Pushy guys suck and you shouldn't date them. Idk if you can't tell which ones are like that, but to men, it's obvious which ones are gonna be pushy about it, and which ones are polite and TAKE no for an answer. It's legal for them to have had sex with you. You agreeing is only ok if you thought you'd be in danger if you said NO. And you should consider reporting it. But if you agreed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible for women/men to have strictly platonic friends of the opposite sex? Would you consider dating a girl with a lot of guy friends, and vice versa?Is it possible for women/men to have strictly platonic friends of the opposite sex? Yes. However, female-male friendships are confidential. In order for a woman and a man to be friends, at least one of the following has to apply: the man is gay the woman is gay the man is in a loyal, monogamous relationship the woman is in a loyal, monogamous relationship the man isn't sexually attracted to the woman the woman isn't sexually attracted to the man the man made it clear that they're just friends th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How can we make sure women and men are giving real consent?In my opinion: you shouldn't take advantage of anyone that was immediately emotionally hurt, is drunk or on drugs, or very poor so they have to resort to things for money If the person fits none of these and still has sex with you, they can fuck right off if they wanna claim rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Are you more attracted to women with more traditionally or stereotypically feminine hobbies?I would say no, But my fiancée likes to: read do art's and crafts make up Those are the 3 main feminine hobbies I could think of. I'd say they don't particularly attract me. But I'm more attracted to feminine women. So naturally they might come with more feminine hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that women select partners based on intelligence?From my experience, specific women like really smart men. These women are rare. (Not that many women prefer smarter dudes, but I'm talking about women that love SPECIFICALLY very smart men.) The only "issue" is that they have to be at least average looking for it to be considered a redeeming enough of a quality to compensate for their physical attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 11:21 PM |
| 3 | How is your dating & sex life? How successful have you been based on whatever you hope to achieve?I'm engaged. Been rejected many times, found the one that accepts me and and I adore her. One in a million, but I got lucky / tried my hardest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 3 | How much about successful relationships comes down to luck?Successful long term relationship take: good timing (Neither the girl nor the guy had any other person they dated at the time, and if they had ex's, they're over them by the time you meet them) right circumstances (You met this person at an appropriate time and place. Weather it be while one or both of you were working, when you were out and happened to meet, or your friends met you two up at good points in your lives) high compatibility (You two match on some more important things in life. You … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.Because everyone is tall. So you think women don't care about height. And no, women here get approached, tall or short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.I guess. I'm 5'9" and a bunch of my friends are below 5'10", so I'm probably biased here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.Many women in the balkans are 5'7" - 5'10" Many men are the same. The issue here is that these women only want tall men. Like 6ft+. That's why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.Any woman that's single, is single by choice. Idc if the options they have are shit, still single by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.Tooootally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.What she doesn't tell you is that she wouldn't date shorter men. Shorter than her that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.Yea... No You know what I think when I see a very tall woman? Holy shit, more of her to worship. Those huge tree trunks for legs and gigantic size. Gorgeous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.No. It's because they wouldn't even consider them as potential partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.I honestly doubt the claim she dated shorter men. Statistically, men that are 5'3" (shorter than her, 5'4") are really rare, and furthermore, her dating 6ft+ men makes it even more unlikely she'd date a guy that is 5'3". Probably she dated a 5'7" dude and thought he was shorter than her, since her head isn't looking up at the sky. So naturally he must be 5'0" tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.It's a joke. And her dating dudes a foot taller than her is hilarious. Since she can literally date a 5'5" dude and he'd still be taller than her. But she'd probably consider those dudes short. I'm 5'9" dating 5'5". Not projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 11:39 PM |
| 8 | Taller women don't struggle because they can't find a guy that likes taller chicks, but because tall women won't accept men shorter than them.Well yea because you're taking away tall men when you're literally a midget lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Incels and their issues with lesbians.but 90% of lesbians you see are just chadsexuals 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Incels and their issues with lesbians.Nope, you're just straight up uneducated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:58 AM |
| 3 | Incels and their issues with lesbians.Nvm you're completely uneducated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Incels and their issues with lesbians.Because you don't believe lesbians are real when they say so. This clearly indicates that both genders, with homosexual behaviours, experience sex with the opposite genders. And the female side can be explained by the fact that men are more likely to approach women. And at younger ages, they give in more easily, because of social pressures that come with being gay. And not that lesbians don't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Incels and their issues with lesbians.https://contexts.org/blog/sexual-orientation-versus-behavior-different-for-men-and-women/ This link explains it good enough. To make is easier for you: straight women are slightly more likely to have a female sex partner than a straight man would a male sex partner - lesbian women are 20% more likely to engage in sex with men, than gay men are to engage in sex with women This can be explained because men are more often the initiators of sex. Because of social pressures that "straight is normal",… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Incels and their issues with lesbians.This is just false and shows you don't know anything about LGBTQ. Lesbians exist. It's a combination of chromosome imbalance, brain differences and social influences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Incels and their issues with lesbians.Wanting deeper penetration, but using dildos because you don't find men attractive, rather repulsive (because you're gay), doesn't make you a non lesbian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Incels and their issues with lesbians.Because of social pressures, one can have a harder time finding out they might like both genders, or even prefer their own. Sometimes people go along with social standards and never really rethink their positions. They later come to learn that that "wrong" feeling they've had with their boyfriend might be because they were trying to mentally suffocate their same sex attraction. My male friend realized in his early 20's, after 3 girlfriends, that he likes guys just as much as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Incels and their issues with lesbians.Stupid opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why are most men so unattractive!?I ironically pointed out ridiculous standards to make her feel worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Your average FDS kwin!!!! (Remember ladies, career success =\= being HV partner)Being successful attracts women, not men. So you having a good job and bringing home the bacon isn't something that makes you HV. Maybe as a person, but definitely not a partner. You can't be very overweight and be a HV partner as a woman. It's literally impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Why are most men so unattractive!?Luckily she's not an FDS'r. You women constantly overvalue yourselves, undervalue men, have too high of standards, are really bitter and generally have no idea that you're just over privileged in dating, and not actually worth that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:18 AM |
| 1 | What real hobbies do men and women have?Collecting, swimming, PlayDough (I make tiny sculptures to sell), drawing, streaming, anime, video games. Well, you got two... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Why are most men so unattractive!?You ladies throw around "low value" as if it has meaning anymore. No, I'm not a millionaire. Don't have a six pack. Don't have a god tier face. Don't have a 10 inch dick. But I'm genuinely nice, caring, giving, smart, funny and financially stable. I am high value to some. I am not high value if you consider shallow things like looks and money. Then I'm medium and low value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Why are most men so unattractive!?That's what my fiancée is. Still not out of my leauge. You don't even know me lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Men don't need, nor are afraid of successful women.This is untrue. There have been many studies proving that men are not more or less attracted to women because of their social and economic status, but the same can't be said for women that are way more attracted to more successful men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Why are most men so unattractive!?Have good hygiene Easy Don’t be broke If by broke you mean low earner, my answer is: someone has to be. Not all of us are persistent enough to learn a bunch of shit in school. We don't need and get a better job. Dress well Do that be confident You need a reason to be. If you had no luck in dating then it's hard to be. don’t shoot out of your league Sometimes you know you can't, sometimes you think you have a shot. Don't be so high and mighty that you think of men as lower than you. don’t be miso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | At what point do most men view their relationships with women as more important than the sex?She went to clubs as an 18 year old. Wow. What a red flag right? She never went to clubs alone. During my relationship, she went ONCE with her girlfriends and that's literally it lol. In 2 whole years. It's funny that you think you know my situation lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | At what point do most men view their relationships with women as more important than the sex?Simping after my comments from 2019, where I complained that she wanted to go to a club without me, but didn't and me ending up going with her? Yea, wow kid. That's impressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 07:44 PM |
| 4 | At what point do most men view their relationships with women as more important than the sex?Just so happens that a beggar like me is engaged to a hot girl lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 06:34 PM |
| 3 | At what point do most men view their relationships with women as more important than the sex?u/xtodoubt can doubt me all he wants. But me not WANTING casual sex doesn't mean I can't GET casual sex. I'm not saying I could easily acquire it. Never tried, never bothered. All I ever had in my mind was a dedicated relationship. And I got that, and can't be happier. Before the large confidence boost of my current fiancée, I couldn't even dream of a relationship, let alone casual sex. But me in the market now, it's different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | At what point do most men view their relationships with women as more important than the sex?What are you even saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Do you ACTUALLY want a woman to “settle” for you?It's not universal. But most women would prefer not to be cum buckets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 7 | You females are HURTIf you talk like this, you're a worthless piece of shit yourself, and not a real man. just a useless, stupid, dirty, filthy used up cumbucket who has no human worth Look in the mirror budd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 4 | At what point do most men view their relationships with women as more important than the sex?I'm 20, and engaged. I don't want casual sex, and I always valued relationships over sex. I never even wanted sex before commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Do you ACTUALLY want a woman to “settle” for you?Women don't really know what they want. They'd be much happier with some average dude that treats them well and genuinely loves them, but their hormones make them pick the hottest, most successful men. Ofcourse, not every woman is a victim of her urges. But the ones that are realistically don't even (most of them) deserve the men they desire, and overvalue themselves because society (the way it is today) values pussy more than dick. So naturally, they want the best of the best. And when those ty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Men never should commit. Here is why.I don't believe I'm super unique. But my relationship is a standalone. My partner isn't promiscuous, never was. In fact she was a virgin, and is pretty sexually conservative. She doesn't find regular "objectively attractive" men the most attractive. She's kind of different with her preferences. If you saw what I looked like (generally not that attractive) you'd know what I mean. Basically, we just love each other and are really compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Men never should commit. Here is why.You can look at statistics for ALL marriages that ever happened. But that doesn't actually portray the exact chances I personally have. And that's because you're only taking into account the marriage statistic. Which has nothing to do with our situation. We'd have to look at stats for: how many previous partners the women in those marriages had have these women had past marriages that failed have those women been unfaithful to the partner DURING the marriage have those women been unfaithful to p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 08:04 AM |
| 8 | Men never should commit. Here is why.Yea. Because EVERY marriage ends as a nasty divorce. I got nothing she can rob. She'll earn more than I do and we're not into the actual legal binding contract. Prenup and stuff is something we both want. We love each other, but in any case we both wanna make sure we keep what's ours. We're not into joint bank accounts either. So this notion comes from some of your personal insecurities you're projecting. Since you don't know me nor my fiancée. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 10:52 PM |
| 13 | Men never should commit. Here is why.Basically all you are talking about revolves around sex. And sex, to some men (to me for example) isn't the biggest part of a relationship. I personally never dated women that I had to use PUA tactics on. They were either friends of friends or people from social groups. Sometimes I approached. Got rejected a lot. But in my opinion, if they reject me as me, idc if I COULD have won them over with PUA tactics. That just means they don't like the REAL me. And I'd have to live as someone I'm not to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 10:16 PM |
| 2 | It feels like the two genders are steering further apart, and we as a society are slowly "moving on" from the idea of dating.Well women lack the choice if they're "highly educated". Since men that educated only go for top women. And top women don't mean "educated" women. It means hot and sweet women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | It feels like the two genders are steering further apart, and we as a society are slowly "moving on" from the idea of dating.women are however empirically changing their dating patterns lmao In what way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?Option 2. Slender. My fiancée is slender with an hourglass figure, and medium sized attributes. That's literal perfection for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Women seem capable of admitting negative traits. Are men?I’m under the impression lots of the male posters here are the epitome of not taking responsibility for their actions/mens actions. The majority of men are good men. And can own up to their actions. When a man treats a woman negatively it was her fault for not choosing “a nice guy”. It's both the mens fault for treating her negatively (if it wasn't provoked), and the woman's fault for choosing that man as her partner. I don't think it's impossible to predict someone's true intentions. The person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.I never matched with anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.I mean.. the pics I'd put on tinder aren't really something I can show my personality with... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.That shows you what they want you to see. I can dress up like a skater, even though I've never been on a skateboard in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.Because you can't tell that you got a lot in common with a person you don't know, and only see their pictures. So they pick the most handsome men and hope for the best. Also, having a lot in common with someone doesn't mean you're gonna be compatible with them. Their personality has to match yours. And you only find that out when you meet with them and talk for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.Well that's pretty close to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 09:18 AM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.I'm not into MGTOW. I've been rejected IRL lots of times. But over time I learned to spot out basic bitches and girls that are actually different. I dated many girls that I was incompatible with. No hard feelings towards them. They're amaizing girls that I just didn't have a romantic connection with. Some paid for their share on dates (even though I always insist I pay), and some even paid for the whole dates. My fiancée is a wonderful, gorgeous, smart woman that I met in a social group. All I h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 07:54 AM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.Not if you're staying in your lane, but I trust you're one of the morons that cries out life is rigged because he can't get an 8/10 as a 3/10. how about approaching a 3/10? I never approached 3/10's because I was at least a 4. And I always went for girls in my lane. And sometimes, I punched up and succeeded. My fiancée is a 7-9/10 (to me she's a 10, but she got rated those scores on different websites). And I never had too much issues irl. Sure, I got rejected a bunch. But that didn't hurt me as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.No. Because not all people want that, but when it's the norm,. people think that's normal and do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.Preferring, and only going for are different things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 3 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.Handsome. All your success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.So you took care of your problem and no longer care about the issue? Sounds fucking stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.Casual sex is something I can't get, nor did I ever want it. All I ever wanted is a relationship. Love. And I got that. I don't want casual sex with someone I don't love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 0 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.I never wanted that option. It's stupid and gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:11 PM |
| -1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.And I don't want casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:08 PM |
| -4 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.I have found success. And not on dating apps. If dating apps became the norm, I'd be an incel. And this way I'm engaged. Ban them because if they take over, good men like me will be left alone for the rest of their lives, while.women keep choosing handsome bad men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.Me being less attractive doesn't mean I can't use dating apps. It means dating apps prefer handsome men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:07 PM |
| 2 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.They're here because men have false hope and are desperate and women get free validation and a casual chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.-how do you know most women are there for free validation? Do you not feel validated when someone matched with you? Because the majority of women that I know, and have ever talked to use them for either fun (majority) or casual hookups (minority). Also, most people can verify this. The "I'm just looking for friends" bio for tinder women means they're looking for validation and a casual Chad here and there. -why should she choose an "ugly" man if she's only there for sex? Especially if there's no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:05 PM |
| 0 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.Dating apps directly encourage laziness in dating and casual sex. And a lot of people use them. We shouldn't encourage that behaviour more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:01 PM |
| -1 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.Because it hurts dating as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 3 | A ban on dating apps would be a huge step of fixing todays inequality in dating.First of all, the ratio is 3 men for every 1 woman. Second, yes, you can ban them in your country. The women who use dating apps are more than 1% of the female population. And you got no proof they're not the best ones. Or that there are no good women amongst them. So, go to a fuckin bar and talk to a women for christ's sake. This only works for handsome men. "Go to a bar bro" doesn't work if you go alone, like some creep. Even if you got friends, in bars, there are typically too many handsome m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?:) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 3 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Are you yourself attractive? 4/10, 6/10 when I dress up. Are you conservative / religious? No and I always wanted the same from my partner. Are you/were you looking for your wife/husband at a young or teen age? I was looking for a virgin or very low sexual contact. I found a virgin at 19, and we're currently engaged. Are you willing to get engaged and marry rapidly? Yes, I'm engaged to a 20 year old and am 20 myself. Out of love, not religion since we're atheists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.No, it's because that's how female-male friendships work. They're conditional. the guy mustn't be attracted to the girl the guy must be in a dedicated relationship the guy must be gay the girl must of made it clear that she's not attracted to him the girl is gay the girl is in a commited relationship the guy doesn't think he's good enough for her I might have missed some. But at least one of those conditions must be met to make the friendship work. I guarantee you, if you have a guy friend, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Ideal body count for ltr/ marriage material women?0-5. Depending at what age you get engaged. If early 20's, 0-2. If mid 20's, 0-3. Late 20's, 0-5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 12:13 AM |
| -1 | If a woman is single, but has sexual desire and is not able to get into a satisfying relationship, what do you think she should do?Option A: Practice celibacy and use Masturbation/sex toys, even if it does not completely satisfy her Welcome to being the average man. Option B: Occasional casual sex with either 1 partner or multiple assuming she uses protection Sure, but you have to understand that there are certain men that don't want a partner who had casual sex. Option C: No masturbation, no casual sex (for you tradcons on here) Equivalent to nofap for incels. A.k.a. pointless. Option D: Forego sex and focus all energy int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it.Well looks are obviously needed in dating. To what extent, I usually would disagree with most people here. I think that average looking dudes, or even bit below average, 4-5/10 men, can get girls. You have to be a genuinely nice person, and fun to be around tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it.Auto correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 01:34 PM |
| 2 | If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it.Landwhales and fats = awful to get sexual with and an embarrassment to be seen with. Men don't have such luxury as we are highly scrutinized on face and height and other immutable genetic factors beyond our control. Rest my case. No, but seriously. The girl you linked has huge boobs and is really skinny (if natural, she's the very small % of busty skinny girls, if not, whatever). Her face is 3-4/10. But still, that's a bit over the average considering her body. Yea sure, they're factors like bod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 01:23 PM |
| 1 | If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it.I agree that looks are a good determinator for how much dating success you'll have. However, I have no sympathy for men wanting to "explore their sexuality"... If you want that, pay for a prostitute. Otherwise, be a man, and commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 10:49 AM |
| 3 | If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it.Yea. But being used for sex makes you feel terrible. You wouldn't want that if you knew how it felt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 07:13 AM |
| 1 | If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it.I agree. They're focusing too much on sex, because they're lacking it. Once they'd fulfill the sexual need, some of them would understand that sex isn't everything... But most wouldn't. Aswell as the fact that femcels are a thing entirely because they can't get relationships. To the woman's mind, she's a femcel unless she can lock a guy down. I disagree, since having opportunities for sex makes you a voluntarily celibate person. But I agree that to a woman: Relationship > Sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 07:11 AM |
| 3 | If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it.Wow you just revolve your dating worth around money... I think you're dealing with the wrong women if you think about money THIS much when dating... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 07:07 AM |
| 1 | If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it.But what about unattractive men who dont want relationships but only sex ? You want sex, but aren't willing to work for it. And connect with a person. In my opinion, you don't have that choice, unless you're attractive. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, while men are of relationships. I don't think having casual sex is worthy of any recognition. Therefore, I think you don't have a "right" to it. Be a man, and commit to a woman you wanna also have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 0 | If you take an honest look, looks aren't all that count for men. And no, you don't have to be rich or famous to compensate for it.And yes, relationships are all about sex. They are not. I would agree that what separates a relationship from a friendship is sex, however, there's a deeper bond you form with that partner as a result of sex (in my opinion). Therefore, after you've had sex and everything, what's left is a strong bond that connects you two. Yes, sex is important, but not the pillar of every relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 06:57 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Is one gender more likely to know their “league” in dating than the other?Men. Men assume they know their leauge, and sometimes, to some men, that underestimate themselves too much, a good looking woman comes into their life, and they assume they're lucky, when in reality they probably have a lot to offer, that they just don't value the same as her looks. Some men are very confident, and go even above their leauge. Some score, some don't. Men generally know better how to recognize their own leauge. But they can be wrong. Women on the other hand either think they're ga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenI think you should be able to state without a doubt that she doesn't have vaginismus, not just that she "doesn't talk" about it. That one sentence just makes me shiver and it's like ALERT ALERT immaturity and poor communication Well idk if she had it. Penetration was extremely painful for her, and she was scared of even trying sex. Took us two months of trying before we actually did it. Her gynecologist also has to use some different tools because she's apparently too tight. I think she has it, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Most women I know are not as funny as the men. Why do you think that happens?Women: are desired because they're women No motivation to self improve in order to score attention from men, and therefore no noticeable behavioural traits for attracting the other gender are developed. Men: are generally not desired by women unless very physically attractive, or exceptional in other ways Huge motivation to strive to be the best of your "tribe", and because of it, lots of character traits evolve to assure your seed's survival One of those being comedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Are women who cold approach men low value?I had 2 approach me (after I changed my looks completely by out-dressing anyone my age, and taking care of my physical body and hair). I loved the intention, and the execution. High value women in my opinion. Good on them. It takes balls, and those are real women right there. Hats off to them. I am engaged, so I had to reject the advances, but I was super polite, and made sure they weren't discouraged to approach in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Should guys trust their partners with gay guys ?I have a dude that is a friend on my fiancée that is gay, but says he'd sleep with a woman. I trust him, but not as much as I would a real gay dude, that is as repulsed by the thought of sleeping with a woman, as I would be of the thought of sleeping with a man. My fiancée has another gay friend that has no romantic feelings towards women. And I completely trust him. I generally dislike these gay peeps that "don't really mind to experiment with women". Since those dudes might not view that as ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women's breasts are way more sexualized than they should be?Well we simply don't view it the same for natural reasons. Women don't go crazy for any man's chest, unless he's ripped. Men will glare at any pair of titties no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 9 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenWell you do need to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 09:36 AM |
| 4 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenWell I personally am. I'm barely 6 inches. I can't compete with an 8 incher. I can't. It's not my fault. I do my best in bed. And my fiancée is happy. But I know I couldn't compete with an 8 incher, ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 08:59 AM |
| 2 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womentheir previous behavior wouldn’t be reflective of who they are now. It would. I don't want a woman that slept with many men. I'm sorry a trauma happened to you, but in that case you should seek help, not burry your feelings in casual sex. If your girlfriend is unsatisfied with your dick size Just gonna stop you there since I don't have issues in bed I'm just saying that the average dick size is 5.5-6 inches. And if she smashed an 8 incher, in her head, nothing will be greater pleasure than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 08:00 AM |
| 3 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenYou don’t have to worry about pair bonding BC it doesn’t exist Women that had many partners will likely regard sex as "nothing special", rather than something you do SPECIFICALLY with your partner. They'll also be less likely to keep their feelings for you (as strong of feelings) over time, this is called pair bonding you also don’t have to worry about your dick being too small because women don’t compare dick sizes with previous boyfriends Yes, yes they do. I had many female friends and they al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 07:44 AM |
| 1 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenShe doesn't, and neither do I. Idk what you'd consider high libido. We have sex twice a day when we're in the same room for a day or more lol. We aren't currently living together. But when we go on a vacation, we spend weeks together, and it's usually twice a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 07:30 AM |
| 15 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenI always wanted a virgin. And I got a virgin. My fiancée. She isn't religious, she doesn't talk about vaginismus, and she has no sexual trauma. She just never had sex before. And she was 19. I was 18. So I was very happy about it. I don't have to worry that 20 men have her nudes on their phones. I don't have to think about some dude seeing my girl naked and doing things to her. I don't have to worry about pair bonding. I don't have to worry about her not thinking I'm big enough, because she didn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 07:26 AM |
| 2 | The nature of the other genderMen are not naturally gentle towards women. Serial killers, domestic violence? Extremely small % of men. Usually manipulators and Chads. Avoid fuckboys and completely, obviously, way too attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | The nature of the other genderWomen have their nature. It's in their nature for example to behave a certain way when it comes to dating. For example, all women like the same qualities on a man. Tall, muscular, sharp jaw, good chin, hunter eyes, etc. It's in their nature to ignore men they don't find attractive, and behave very flirty around men they find very attractive. It's also in their nature to assume that if a man starts to communicate with them, to assume he's into them romantically. It's also in mens nature to be dom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 08:19 PM |
| 0 | The nature of the other genderI multiple social circles and a fiancée. I "went outside" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 07:32 PM |
| -1 | The nature of the other genderThere is a male and female nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | OnlyFans and nudes sent are eventually going to come around and bite women in the ass.I wouldn't date a woman that sent nudes. It's just fucked that some guy has my wife naked on his phone. I wouldn't date a woman that had onlyfans, made porn of any kind, anything similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 09:56 AM |
| 0 | What is defined as success in dating in today's world?To each their own. To MGTOW men it's to slay as much as possible. To real men it's to find a relationship and settle down, raise children, and fulfill your human duty, and thrive with your partner. To some women it's to slut around and settle when she's worth little to nothing. For real women it's to settle down, have kids, only have sex with ones she loves, and thrive with her partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 12:31 PM |
| 1 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoreYou really think that fucking many girls is worth it? You do understand not everyone's life revolves around sex. I'm fine with sex every day, or every other day, 1-2 times. I don't need a million women under my belt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoreyou'll go right back to square one when your wife cheats on you ..loser Hahahaha. The fact you think that is astonishing. Who tf hurt you? She's not the type to cheat. Sexually very conservative. She was a virgin before me and so was I. My n-count is 1. Pussy is pussy. Idgaf about N count in guys. It's not impressive to me to fuck 100 girls. My girl is good for me in bed, does what I want. I don't meed anything more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:38 PM |
| 3 | In most couples, is the woman more attractive than the man?Either the girl is more attractive, or looksmatched. Girls that aren't attractive here don't get attention. It's shameful to be seen with a below average girl. And average girls are usually either temporarily your gf, or they might be amaizing personalities. Otherwise, it's always the girl that's more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoreWe call that a winner. You gotta take L's to get a real W. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | The second biggest reason why guys have low or no n-counts is they have no game or angle they are playing.Hot dudes often have "best game". Wonder why that is... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoreFunny you say that when I'm engaged. I'm not a loser, I just wasn't given anything genetically, so I had to compensate with everything else. I was given: social anxiety (bullying in primary school) introversion self sabotage disorder depression But I broke all of that. I got myself out of a oneitis that lasted 3 years. I singlehandedly crushed my social anxiety by putting myself into extremely uncomfortable situations. I made friends at only 18, but I made them myself. I got into a few social ci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:27 PM |
| 0 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoreOoooh you're wrong there. The situation where average dudes don't settle for the type of girls your Chad friend brings home isn't true Average guys can't pull almost any girls. Maybe some outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:20 PM |
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