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What has been the most influential book you've read that has bettered you as a man?

CypressSmallz

September 5, 2017
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Title What has been the most influential book you've read that has bettered you as a man?
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CypressSmallz

Upvotes 14
Comments 31
Date September 5, 2017 11:06 AM UTC
(8 years ago)
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Comments

[–]Shaman662410 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The slight edge, the subtle art of not giving a fuck, models: attracting women through honesty. Those are great.

[–]TheRedSwordsman2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I read mixed opinions about models in trp and dunno what to make of it.

[–]Shaman66245 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think that's because the author has some ideas that do not match the way guys in the anger phase see it. And some others probably see it as bluepill. For me it was one big aha moment it really helped me focus me on my own life and not give a fuck about what women think and just do it my way. He has a great frame. Not just a frame that gets you laid but also a frame that makes you happy.

[–]TheRedSwordsman2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cheers, you convinced me to give it a read.

[–]Work_In_Progress926 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The Rational Male

[–]apollosapien6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Every man on this subreddit should read this as a primer before venturing off on self-discovery.

King, Warrior, Magician, Lover by Robert Moore. It's the most accessible book I know of which explores the masculine psyche, outlining methods on transforming it to be positive

[–]Shaman66245 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A cool one is also Iron John: a book about men.

[–]apollosapien0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cosigned. Great book.

[–]biglaughingcock0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Can you please link a PDF for the Moore book?

[–]apollosapien0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=0B7FBErciOmOwaEhvdl9lSzVqNk0

There you are.

[–]zeussingh0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

hey can you share it again. I guess you removed the book.

[–]poisedStygian2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nietzche, The Gay Science. Don't worry, it's not as gay as it sounds. Another brilliant collection of his aphorisms is Human All Too Human. I'd suggest reading either on kindle so you can have a pop up dictionary as dude is rather flamboyant with his vocab.

[–]AwakenedSovereign2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Zen in the Art of Archery

A short readable 100 pages that forever improved the way I look at winning/losing, abundance mentality, outcome independence, and pursuing mastery.

[–]Arabian_Wolf1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (10 children) | Copy Link

48 laws of power only from a single read of translated version it totally changed my outlook in life in almost everything, plan to reread it in English, not sure if I should read the full version or the Concise is enough.

Mastery, both full and concise, how to find your passion from what you liked when you were young.

In general, anything Robert Greene is life-changing.

No More Mr. Nice Guy but it's one of the books that need rereading to interlize then apply it, more of therapy book.

Richest Man in Babylon, about how to wisely deal with money in a Concise package, will apply its teachings once I land a job and have a salary of my own.

Plan to read Meditations, art of war and The Way of men.

EDIT: forgot to mention, I read the legendary Nassim Taleb book Antifragile, has some nonsense financial parts and not easy read, but many life lessons in it and I plan to reread it to fully internalize it.

[–]zebberz 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Richest Man in Babylon was one of the first required books to read when I was studying for my finance degree. Gives a great general grasp on building wealth.

[–]Arabian_Wolf1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's realistic, on point too without too much of crap, technical, useless info that are in books with names like "how to be millionaire in 7 milliseconds".

[–]IBeMadToo1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I've read both Mastery and 48 Laws in concise and in my opinion they are both in depth enough to get the points across. Currently reading Meditations and it is quite bland at times and takes some re-reading to internalize/translate the message/s.

[–]Arabian_Wolf1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I was thinking of reading 48 laws the full book and only read a single law each day.

Perhaps for Meditations each printing company differs in their translation?

I read around here of a Meditations book print that's on point but don't recall which printing company it was.

[–]esfoster1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The good version of Meditations is the Gregory Hays translation. It's got to be one of my favorite books.

[–]Arabian_Wolf0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What's different in his translation?

And who prints that version?

[–]ArabSigma1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Can you give suggestions concerning books that are written by Arab authors ?

[–]Arabian_Wolf0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Mostly fiction is all I know, arab authors aren't known for non-fiction and self-improvement books outside of religious context.

There's Naguib Mahfouz novels that are translated to English, guy got Nobel prize in literature for a reason, he has a way of telling stories, as the Novel I read few weeks ago it had many stories but went seamless as if reading one, single story.

[–]ArabSigma0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Fiction is fine, most self-improvement books are like mental masturbation to me. IIRC, Ibrahim Al Fiqi wrote a few self-help books, but I haven't checked them.

There's Naguib Mahfouz novels that are translated to English, guy got Nobel prize in literature for a reason, he has a way of telling stories, as the Novel I read few weeks ago it had many stories but went seamless as if reading one, single story.

I vaguely remember reading about Najib Mahfoud in elementary, but I didn't know he had a Nobel prize. What is the novel called ? I'm trying to get back in touch with my roots, so I'd prefer to read the original version.

[–]Arabian_Wolf0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

The Nobel Prize in Literature 1988 was awarded to Naguib Mahfouz "who, through works rich in nuance - now clear-sightedly realistic, now evocatively ambiguous - has formed an Arabian narrative art that applies to all mankind".

From: https://www.nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/literature/laureates/1988/

Don't recall the exact Novel name though, the only Novel I read was called "Albaqi men Alzaman Sa'a".

[–]xeroblaze01 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

This book completely changed how I approach people and how I view myself, through their eyes and my own. Everything else I've read or listened to since then has been food for thought.

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is another favorite read of mine.

[–]Aaren_Augustine0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Way of Men by Jack Donovan. When I Say No, I Feel Guilty.

First one's a great mindset. The second is excellent in communication.

[–]writewhereileftoff1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I can second the way of men. To this day one of the best books I've read on human behaviour.

[–]IveBeenWatching1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Purchased and added to the list.

[–]prodigy2throw0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Controversial pick but minus all the cult shit, Dianetics is actually pretty helpful for inner game. Just don't get lost into the cult religion. Read the book, take what you can and move on.

[–]zayelion0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Games People Play

[–]zebberz1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Atlas shrugged by Ayn Rand. While its ideals can be extreme, it still promotes how your position in life is entirely up to the efforts of yourself.

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