Why do bums have confidence and I dont?

jakethesnake5000 · 2018-11-04T13:51:32+00:00

Because they have the mindset that they have nothing to lose, and it’s true

byronshadow · 2018-11-04T14:00:21+00:00

Bums are playing the numbers game so their skin is thick.

wawakaka · 2018-11-04T16:26:48+00:00

intelligence is a double edge sword. it comes with too much self awareness and self criticism.

the bums you talking about are not very aware and this leads to a blunting of their self criticism also known as the dunning kruger effect where the incapable believe their are capable and the capable believe they are incapalble.

liberty1127 · 2018-11-04T13:48:51+00:00

Because you care too much and they don't.

You sound boring....like you've lived a perfect cookie cutter life. Where is your edge?

The difference between you and them is that they have an edge and you don't

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2018-11-04T12:21:27+00:00

0 Kelvin doesn't exist in the entire universe as we know it, so at least take pride in that you've reached an unattainable state.

No1Buck · 2018-11-04T10:10:48+00:00

Dunning-Kruger effect.

Renzotl56 · 2018-11-04T16:46:58+00:00

Nah it ain’t cause they are stupid. Or they have nothing to lose. It’s cause they have one thing and that’s called experience. I hate these guys that come out here and Bitch about not being confident when it comes to women.

You think someone should be confident about something they don’t practice ? You don’t start of being some confident alpha god. You start off at the bottom getting rejected by fat chicks until you finally build your game up.

Stop bitching and put in the work.

theromanshcheezit · 2018-11-04T16:35:20+00:00

Actually there is science and stats behind your observation.

According to Wikipedia on “Fertility and Intelligence”

The relationship between fertility and intelligence has been investigated in many demographic studies, with contradicting evidence that on a population level, intelligence is negatively correlated with fertility rate, and positively correlated with survival rate of offspring.

OfficerWade · 2018-11-04T10:46:06+00:00

You need to work on a strategy. If your goal is just to slay pussy then you might not have a job, you know? And it works vice versa. Just focus on what you’ve been doing and watch yourself do it.

Granite_Pill · 2018-11-04T13:52:50+00:00

Too stupid to feel shame. I know guys like this too. They have no trouble talking to women because they're too stupid to feel shame and embarrassment. Granted, the women they associate with tend to be low quality, but some of them are pretty hot. I have an obese coworker who gives no fucks and has hot college girls melting in his hands. Stop caring so much. Confidence is king.

TheL1zardKing3214 · 2018-11-04T12:41:22+00:00

Cuz you a bitch dawg, you actin like a straight up little bitch

Musicgoon · 2018-11-04T18:05:54+00:00

When you have Nothing to lose, all you can to is gain.

Zero fucks given. That's how It works.

frequentlywrong · 2018-11-04T18:12:33+00:00

Don't ask why they have confidence. Ask yourself why you do not have it. What is the voice at the back of your mind telling you?

jizzonmypants · 2018-11-04T17:17:32+00:00

Frame is everything

You having 0 confidence means that you get pushed around easily ,woman smell this like dogs smell fear

by not giving a fuck girls asóciate those subcomunications as an alpha guy that has higher smv than her even tho in reality might not be the case.

Don’t get mad at the game, improve, after all sexual strategies for men are woman are mostly obsolete seen within a practical point. We guys don’t need to chase big booty bitches for a good offspring cause medicine, and bitches don’t really need an alpha just a guy with a decent job, yet we al carry this basic instincts.

SpinPlates · 2018-11-04T18:48:34+00:00

Because you are socially aware and more intelligent than those idiots. You know your shortcomings. Those guys think they are gods gift to women.

idontevenlift37 · 2018-11-04T18:28:31+00:00

If the timing is on point confidence can trump almost anything.

Andgelyo · 2018-11-04T15:17:38+00:00

Try and fail, Try and fail. Try and fail. Try...fail again. Try until you succeed. Over coming failure creates success.

It's like a sport. When you first try a sport for the first time, you probably suck ass. However, the more you play, the more you practice, the better you become.

mrpoopistan · 2018-11-04T18:05:43+00:00

And the world owes you pussy because why . . . ?

got plenty of things going for me

Other than no personality and a total sense of entitlement without any actual effort . . . sure, you sound like a cool guy.

Have fun spraying the sorority house with bullets.

woodquest · 2018-11-04T18:24:33+00:00

Maybe be lithg it from another angle : What can you have that bums don't ? Now ? In six months ? 2 years ? 5 years ?

And how ?

You have 2 hours !

MasterSharinganUser · 2018-11-04T18:36:26+00:00

Have you read the last piece on the sidebar? Matter of fact, have you read the whole sidebar?

11-Eleven-11 · 2018-11-04T20:40:24+00:00

The subtle art of not giving a fuck

waynebradysworld · 2018-11-04T21:03:04+00:00

The world is easy for those not blessed with the curse of self-awareness

Dontneedflashbro · 2018-11-05T00:45:10+00:00

Those bums realize you don't need money to sleep with women. Plenty of nice guys think once they get "x" women will come. Truth be told you don't even need it. The less a woman is attracted to you the more she requires.

Truth be told men can learn a lot from these "bums". They realize a woman is just a hoe, no need to worry what happens. Speak your mind/do what you want to, if she leaves she leaves. I can't tell you how many guys I see stepping on egg shells to please a woman. Worried how they can change their life to complement the womans.

geo_gan · 2018-11-06T13:58:44+00:00

“The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence” - Charles Bukowski

TFWnoLTR · 2018-11-04T17:27:50+00:00

Outcome independance. They don't care if they win or lose because they are so used to losing.

You need to learn to lose and accept losing. Who gives a shit if some bitch turns you down? Literally nobody, and neither should you.

rambler429 · 2018-11-04T20:48:49+00:00

A man with nothing ain't got nothing to lose.

daveofmars · 2018-11-04T21:42:39+00:00

They have nothing to lose.

tbu987 · 2018-11-04T21:48:51+00:00

This makes sense the more you think about it. The more "intellectual" you are the more self critical. Thus you may self reflect and overthink things more. This can make it harder to be more social as you try to judge every action and its consequence. When in fact you dont need to. Ive had plenty of situations work out for me simply because i didnt overthink things and just went with the flow and used my confidence. A person less self aware can be easily overconfident thus not overcomplicating things when approaching women and with a less caring attitude he immediately makes it easier for himself and is less worried about rejection.

BurningOrangeHeaven · 2018-11-04T22:05:48+00:00

Low pay jobs and bums are two different things.

319Skew · 2018-11-04T23:19:45+00:00

Watch fight club

wobbleelbbow · 2018-11-04T23:53:28+00:00

Why are others richer than me? Hmm maybe because they are smarter and/or work harder?

Work on yourself, stop asking daft questions.

Title	Why do bums have confidence and I dont?
Author	FluidForm
Upvotes	74
Comments	74
Date	November 4, 2018 9:58 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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