1. Don't put her on a pedestal. She's just another human who pisses, shits and wears silly socks at Christmas.

  2. Don't worry about impressing her. It's the desire to say something that's "good enough" that makes us run out of things to say. Notice how this never happens around your friends and family, because you're not trying to impress them.

  3. Talk about what you want to talk about, rather than what you think she'd like to hear. Let your enthusiasm for a topic rub off on her.

  4. Don't filter yourself. Tell the same dorky jokes you would around your friends and family.

  5. Don't be sold on her just because she's pretty. Find out if she's cool enough to hang out with you as friend. Is she funny? Does she have cool hobbies?

  6. If she is cool enough, ask her out. Don't be that guy who waits weeks or months for the perfect moment. Women are attracted to go-getters.

  7. When you ask her out, say "we should....", not "do you want to....?"

  8. After you've asked her out, ask yourself "who would have the balls to do that?" Not many men would. Most men are pussies in these situations. If anyone else spotted it, they're almost definitely admiring your bravery.

  9. Be aware that asking her out now is way better than not knowing whether she likes you. Either you can make something happen now, or you can move on with your life. Some men waste years of their lives crushing on one woman who has zero interest in them.

  10. Think about previous crushes you've had, and how meaningless they are now. If she rejects you, it ultimately doesn't matter. There will be plenty more crushes in the future.

  11. Go meet a ton of other women. It's much easier not to be nervous around one woman if there are others on the scene.

  12. Keep using forums like this. Ask questions and get feedback on what you could have done better. It's easier to be confident when you're more sure of the right action to take.

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