1) Self help is masturbation. Self destruction, now....(that is the answer) - Tyler Durden (Fight Club). Expect to get rejected every-time, seek rejection, seek to be blown out. Smile when it happens. Only when you've lost everything are you free to do anything. Only through destroying yourself can you discover the greater power of your spirit. When you operate with a Fight Club mentality, you are operating at one of the highest echelons of game you can possibly be: seeking rejection. When you seek rejection girls will suddenly throw their phone numbers at you with reckless abandon. There's no need for approach anxiety because you are seeking a blowout, what you get instead (not all the time) is a blowjob on the spot.

2) What's the worst that could happen? This isn't tick-by-tick futures trading, give me a break. There are much more nerve wracking things in life than approaching a woman, I don't know why we build it up into such a big deal. The worst that happens is one of you doesn't like each other, and then it's off you go in your separate directions. The best that happens is the two of you end up married and happy forever. The upside is worth the risk, here. Trust me when I tell you that there are far risker, scarier, more nail-biting instances and experiences to be had in life than walking up to any woman and saying: "how are you m'lady?"

3) Girls love being hit on, at least by the right guy (hopefully you believe that that guy is you or you haven't been here long enough). Once you get this through your head, your anxiety goes down 10fold because you're not a dancing cymbal-monkey. You're not trying not to be all these things, and suddenly you can just be everything that a girl wants you to be. She wants to be hit on in public by the right guy. If you can keep this in mind before you approach your 1st impression will be 100% more confident than if you are just trying to be "cool" or not "get rejected".

4) How she reacts to you says more about her than it does about you. If you get blown out, it's not because you have a zit, you didn't get to shower that day, and you had bad breath because you're walking home from a alcohol bender at your buddies place it's because she's a shitty person and clearly doesn't realize that on a saturday morning, some of us look like shit, move on.

5) Go indirect. If all else fails. Go indirect. She's holding frozen peas? While walking past just say, "oh not those peas." Drop the hook and keep walking, let her reel you back in. If hse doesn't respond her problem, not yours. What kind of a girl wouldn't ask what is wrong with the frozen peas she has selected? ?!!!?