7 Day Approach Challenge

Schwartz_Master · 2021-07-17T21:54:04+00:00

Remember: have no ulterior motives when you make conversation. Don't talk about the weather unless you're interested in the weather. Keep it real. Nobody likes a fake.

Conscious-Trifle-137 · 2021-07-17T20:42:50+00:00

I’m saving this one

2021-07-17T23:50:15+00:00

I'll do it. Fuck it. I just went on my first date with a woman after 4 years of being solo, just a few days ago!

It was clumsy, I was rusty, but it showed me I still got it...

Rejection here I come!

heckler5111 · 2021-07-17T21:27:45+00:00

A call to action I like it!

SexyNuggetz · 2021-07-17T21:51:19+00:00

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roarkhoward777 · 2021-07-17T21:31:43+00:00

I don't have a hard time approaching but I'll do this.

OnedayatatimeChicago · 2021-07-17T21:51:24+00:00

I'm going to try this

beem5050 · 2021-07-17T21:02:16+00:00

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ShinbrigGoku · 2021-07-17T22:16:01+00:00

You know what sucka?! I'll take your challenge!!

beem5050 · 2021-07-17T22:51:30+00:00

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EastEndMontrealer1 · 2021-07-18T00:29:06+00:00

I will take every opportunity to accomplish this challenge. No matter how slim the chance of success, I will jump at every chance to complete this challenge

Blackmetalpenguin90 · 2021-07-17T21:27:00+00:00

I'd like to join but I'll be on holiday the 2nd half of the week. But I'll do the first 3 days.

redrumjm · 2021-07-17T21:45:58+00:00

Will try this for sure, I have anxiety but doing things that have boosted my self confidence will leverage my anxiety out

solo2070 · 2021-07-17T21:40:04+00:00

Can I approach the same person over and over? Like, if we’re dating should I try to seduce the person every day? I feel like the answer is a yes.

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2021-07-17T23:03:31+00:00

I really just need to do this every day beyond the 7 days of next week. I'm going to a show tonight and wont know anyone so im gonna try it there

idkyiam · 2021-07-18T01:21:36+00:00

I have a really hard time approaching. But ya know what…duck it…I’ll join you and my fellow Reddit members as well…there is nothing to lose by having a nice conversation with strangers.

Thank you OP!

Traditional_Kick2570 · 2021-07-18T08:10:35+00:00

I need to get over this I’ll do it

dark_excellence · 2021-07-18T08:23:52+00:00

So, dummy question. How do you approach?

"Hey I know this seems kinda random but I'd be kicking myself if I didn't be kicking myself if I didn't tell you I thought you were pretty and ask for your number"

Is that ok?

wtasman · 2021-07-18T15:03:29+00:00

Motivated by your post this morning I went out and managed to approach 3 girls today.

I went to the dog park and let my puppy explore. I talked to two older women. I actually started the conversations one went really well while one kind of fizzled out. Mostly, talked about our dogs.

I then went to the brunch place by where I work and talked to my crush. Just a peaceful interaction but I got a huge bode of confidence when all the girls that work there came around the corner staring giggling. I then heard one of them sigh and say “I’m the only one here who never gets hit on” Needless to say, the cat is out of the bag. I’m straight up asking for her number next time.

I then took my puppy to campus hoping for some easy interactions but she got tired after about 30 minutes and I only managed to talk to 1 older gentleman playing Pokémon Go.

Still a way better day than PMO. Thanks, will try again and update tomorrow.

12imperial · 2021-07-19T12:12:05+00:00

Morning brothers and sisters. Hope yall kill it today!💪

shorty_in_the_wild · 2021-07-18T01:04:44+00:00

I'm a woman, poly, and have been trying different things to meet people. I have kids too, so often I don't get out a lot. I'm going to give this a shot, though. I'll let you know what happens.

sirrhynocero · 2021-07-18T01:28:53+00:00

SAVED!

FrozenTabs · 2021-07-18T11:38:33+00:00

You son of a bitch. I'm in.

PerryFSF · 2021-07-19T19:46:02+00:00

I did it today. The first coald approach in my entire life.

I was at a museum and saw a quite hot girl, at least as i could figured it out (she was wearing a covid-mask) So I walked up to her and asked her about the piece of art she was looking at in exactly that moment. I asked her what it was, and if it be cool. She looked pretty scared and just left. Well, at least I did my first approach. I'm pretty relieved I had the guts to pull this off. 7 day challenge shall be continued

Phantoomer · 2021-07-17T21:34:45+00:00

Maybe I won't do it this week, but I can give it a try on holiday, I guess. Thanks

2021-07-17T22:07:59+00:00

I’ll try until next august since I’m going on vacation! Sadly there is lockdown in my home country

aim_extazy · 2021-07-17T22:35:19+00:00

lets go

farreldjoe · 2021-07-17T22:38:50+00:00

A call to action

zaphaq · 2021-07-17T22:50:22+00:00

Let's do this boys. I'm in.

beem5050 · 2021-07-18T00:25:48+00:00

All in ! 😎

SkiupBaeless · 2021-07-18T01:58:43+00:00

ugh it’s gonna be mid 90’s all week where I’m at

cuteballon · 2021-07-18T01:58:56+00:00

Lets go guys.

ViniciusAndraus · 2021-07-18T02:14:40+00:00

Gonna start tommorow. Lets go boys

4JoshLiam4d · 2021-07-18T03:27:25+00:00

Aight! It'll be cool, updates comin'

DovahCraft · 2021-07-18T03:58:46+00:00

johnweak23 · 2021-07-18T05:39:19+00:00

Challenge accepted!! Let's kill this challenge guys let's do it. Even though I've been learning g game a while now, but I've never taken up a challenge like this where I approach everyday of the week. This will be fun

Nickdr_12 · 2021-07-18T07:35:22+00:00

Challenge accepted I'll let you know how it goes

Constant_Jicama_3977 · 2021-07-18T10:04:07+00:00

When I approach 2 on one day, do I get the second day off? :D

ViniciusAndraus · 2021-07-18T19:50:53+00:00

Finally after months I approached a Girl, but I got so nervosous that after saying hi and that she was pretty I gotta blanked and she walked away

Goulronk · 2021-07-19T10:55:50+00:00

I don't know what's considered an "approach".

Schwartz_Master · 2021-07-18T00:11:05+00:00

I'm afraid I won't be able to take part in this challenge. I sadly started talking to a girl recently and things a going really well and given past history I really want to focus on her. I however encourage all of you to take part.

natpron13 · 2021-07-18T10:21:09+00:00

How do I approach girls/groups of girls on the beach?

Invincible_N · 2021-07-18T03:07:09+00:00

Please dont cold approach women.approach if it seems like she is choosing or keeps looking at you and u have some smooth eye contact wit her or eye fucking(seductive look/eye contact).dont go wit a cheesy ass pickup line neither.You are the prize dont forget it.be laid back and approach with confidence because most girls already know u approach if you’re interested and most likely see yourself freakn it with her.

youKnowImRightBitch · 2021-07-18T04:51:52+00:00

Gosh, this so pathetic. I visualize a bunch of weirdos harassing women, because some wacko on the internet told them.

AtomicCat420 · 2021-07-18T17:42:30+00:00

Damn this sub was advertised to me. Looks like a bunch of little boys who like playing mind games with actual WOMEN.

ToiletLXIX · 2021-07-17T22:25:17+00:00

I'd love to but I'm isolating...

MILF4LYF · 2021-07-17T23:24:06+00:00

Game on!

CoolKid2326 · 2021-07-17T23:37:43+00:00

hell yeah

Xfelix17 · 2021-07-18T00:47:05+00:00

I plan to do this when I move soon

beem5050 · 2021-07-18T01:00:23+00:00

Bet. 🤝

hornyorn · 2021-07-18T01:36:55+00:00

dark_excellence · 2021-07-18T09:49:14+00:00

I'm definitely down, especially because I'm off of work for the next 3 weeks, anyone want to sponsor me? check in with me? I have my notifications for this post on...

Archergold88 · 2021-07-18T10:08:03+00:00

I'm going to accept your challenge but I have no idea what to say or what to do. I live in London. Any tips or suggestions?

Hotshotskilla · 2021-07-18T11:21:40+00:00

I was already thinking of doing this!

Donald-Trompf · 2021-07-18T11:27:54+00:00

My problem is that my self esteem is way to low, so that I feel sorry for the woman who has to talk with me

k-meal0 · 2021-07-18T12:40:17+00:00

That's great idea, set up the reminders for this! Anybody from Poland doin it too?

lowkey-MC · 2021-07-18T19:14:18+00:00

Alright, let me take the center stage. I tried a cold approach today in church with a girl that I was sitting close to. It was during the service, and I kind of noticed that she was sitting down for most of the service. She never stood up when the rest of us did, except during the opening praise and worship session. And since we had a kind of group song, I was able to dance with her for a bit. So, using the fact that she never stood up after that as an ice breaker, I asked her if she was feeling okay, because I never saw her stand up you know. But, her responses were kind of clipped, like she didn't want to have the conversation. So, after giving my best wishes for her recovery, I ended the conversation there, and minded my business till the service was over. Oh well, I pray for better luck tomorrow.

friki57 · 2021-07-18T19:19:22+00:00

Thanks! I really need this kind of motivation. I Will do it for sure.

myfootwasaBALLEWN · 2021-07-18T20:22:48+00:00

Alrite, fuck it im doing it 😤🤌

Southpaw3000 · 2021-07-18T23:47:33+00:00

Love this challenge. But my approach anxiety/shyness holds me back big time. Gather information from videos or books but dont put into action or hard to contain info. Any help and tips?

2021-07-22T16:16:07+00:00

This thread went kinda silent lol

Title	7 Day Approach Challenge
Author	beem5050
Upvotes	496
Comments	135
Date	July 17, 2021 8:28 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/omc2zo/7_day_approach_challenge/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/7-day-approach-challenge.1280194 https://theredarchive.com/post/1280194

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