Advice from my grandma

InnerDemonSlayer · 2021-02-02T00:57:04+00:00

Best wishes to your grandma for the fight with covid, hope she makes a speedy recovery. My prayers are with her!

veeeerain · 2021-02-02T02:54:03+00:00

Grandma handing out free game

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-02-02T02:28:22+00:00

Grandma knows her shit.

blackhart452 · 2021-02-02T01:18:06+00:00

Praying for your grandma and family

sanchitk26 · 2021-02-02T02:02:13+00:00

I pray quick and safe recovery for your grandma... Btw her advice did hit me in a different way...

On_The_Tweek_Again · 2021-02-02T02:23:10+00:00

Good luck man. My grandma has been battling Covid/Copd complication since December. She had a stroke in mid January and it’s been tough. Hang in there and have faith.

JONNYDIRT2 · 2021-02-02T08:07:38+00:00

I just read some of the other comments, People i think what granma knows and you guys are not thinking about is him. She sees that he is quick to fall in love and then gets hurt when it doest work out. She wants him to let her fall deep in love with him then the wisdom of her words will prevail...Its really very good advice for someone who maybe wheres his hart on his sleeve.. And yes im speaking from experience....Unfortunately.

ConstantinePainter · 2021-02-02T04:33:37+00:00

I'm glad to hear your grandma is recovering. nothing like advice from the old and wise. her advice reminds me of a sign someone hung up in a bathroom once: "handle your lover with care, they come undone under too much pressure"

DubDeuceInThisBih · 2021-02-02T04:55:36+00:00

that's solid. no sucka shit from grandma.

jlemstea · 2021-02-02T03:29:10+00:00

I grew up with my mom telling me to have the guy love me more. Enjoy the times with your grandma and try to accept that life is meant for growth through certain experiences. I wish you the best of luck

take2please · 2021-02-02T04:56:56+00:00

Maybe she means don't love bomb your girlfriend. That way the girlfriend will genuinely love you for you, not for the flowers or gifts.

bigash2 · 2021-02-02T02:59:41+00:00

The fact that some of us girls have this same mentality with guys... we’re all screwed 😬

EarthRocker_ · 2021-02-02T12:04:15+00:00

It's the wholesome version of "don't put the pussy on the pedestal". LOL.

Wise granny.

WTTT · 2021-02-02T13:55:15+00:00

Your grandmother might be the first woman in all of history who told the truth about relationships to a man. Awesome.

2021-02-02T14:50:18+00:00

She's basically saying don't be needy. Love her enough while she loves you. Moderation, balance is key. Dating and being in a relationship aren't equivalent as they're different though. Anybody can date. Takes quality to be in a relationship.

daproest1 · 2021-02-02T01:29:30+00:00

Patrice O’Neal said it best. The best kind of relationship is when the girl loves you, and u just like her.

ronin_557 · 2021-02-02T17:18:14+00:00

I hope she will be okay, she gave you a good advice really ,take care of your heart .

zckattck77 · 2021-02-02T02:40:04+00:00

Still confusing, just take my love will you! :'(

paul_brightside · 2021-02-02T06:30:51+00:00

May your Grandma get better ASAP. She's got solid advice too, mate

JONNYDIRT2 · 2021-02-02T07:57:35+00:00

My friend i have often said to my friends your parents are one thing is space we call life, but granma and grandpa are the ones who give you the wisdom to survive. Just take the time not to listen so much ,But to absorb you will need there advice later in life i promise.

God bless your Grandma and i hope all turns out well.

Stratton_Oakmont_ · 2021-02-02T16:42:28+00:00

Hey man, I really hope she gets better, my grandma passed away from COVID this past weekend. It hasn't been easy on me but all I can do is pray she's in a better place! God is GOOD!!

metrosuccessor2033 · 2021-02-02T17:02:48+00:00

Words to live by when dating. Gonna try it.

Also, covid sucks. I hope your grandmother gets better!

super-bird · 2021-02-03T00:16:27+00:00

Grandma ain’t raise no simp

-Oceanwolf- · 2021-02-02T14:10:46+00:00

Dude, ive been trying to stop chasing girls so hard and giving them a chance to love me. Has not worked a single time. I really dont fucking know how to find love.

just_some_dude_blah · 2021-02-02T17:33:13+00:00

wise words indeed. Actually, incredibly wise words I, an internet stranger, will remember forever. Hope she recovers.

thechaiboi · 2021-02-02T07:11:35+00:00

Speedy recoveries to her.

hdylan99 · 2021-02-02T09:00:24+00:00

as someones whos bad with the girls for this reason, this hits deep cuz its so true. will be sure to remember it

i hope your grandma makes a speedy recovery :)

Zemtex · 2021-02-02T09:04:12+00:00

Solid advice right there. It worked for me. Thank you! :D

TerminatorReborn · 2021-02-02T10:52:08+00:00

I wished I had a Grandma too man. She will recover pretty fast and teach you more game!

DabblingInIt · 2021-02-03T00:01:18+00:00

Best thing on reddit.

I'm pulling for your grandma. I hope she's here for a long long time, she sounds wonderful.

It sounds like she should teach some masters classes on how to live right.

JONNYDIRT2 · 2021-02-03T06:20:33+00:00

Wow my friend, and I certainty hope this finds yourself and grandma doing well. Im so sorry that something so special that you wanted to share with people turned into this debate field session. The one person I think it was primarily or some stage name he is way out there. Anyway reading these ridiculous comments to something so meaningful is crazy...people lets digress for just a moment and think about the friends or neighbors who have relatives who just celebrated 50, 60 65 year anniversary and yor going to tell me that they might not have a little better Idea about relationships and maybe even life . I don't think it was a video game, a text or even some marriage counselor that kept them together it was good old fashioned caring. It was a simple thought from a lady who loves and cares about her grandson...that's all people. You should be so lucky to have someone has wonderful as she obviously is.

Present_Ground8353 · 2021-02-03T18:57:38+00:00

Funny thing is older women understood how relationships worked. It's these new generations messing it up and getting it wrong

primallyours · 2021-02-02T10:51:14+00:00

Rihanna said either her mum or grandma told her something similar about men. So both sides are playing this game, but to what end? Some half-assed approximation of love? What’s the point?

Also kids, remember that just cos somebody’s old it doesn’t mean they’re mature or wise, so take their advice with a pinch of salt. Experience is your best teacher.

BiggestNerdZ · 2021-02-02T04:05:22+00:00

Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Wish her a speedy recovery!

Artistic_Tradition50 · 2021-02-02T06:11:28+00:00

Man when your grandma gets better, you gotta ask her to clarify this for your friends on Reddit.

Jz_360 · 2021-02-02T10:20:16+00:00

Hope your grandma gets better soon! She certainly knows her shit.

David-13 · 2021-02-02T11:06:11+00:00

Godspeed recovery grandma!

MadRhetoric04 · 2021-02-02T14:19:00+00:00

My gramma the other day said you’re never to you g to find the right person to love you even if it’s not who you’re with now. I’m mid 30s and my gram was my mother growing up.

Grams are awesome, and it’s so awesome to have a different yet still loving relationship growing up with them.

I hope your gram gets better soon!

ormagordons · 2021-02-02T15:57:56+00:00

Wow thats so true.

Reddit-Masterz · 2021-02-02T17:55:14+00:00

This actually makes a lot of sense

PeterPistolee · 2021-02-02T21:05:07+00:00

Sending Good Vibes to your Grandma! She Rocks!

Descendant_of_Innana · 2021-02-02T11:25:43+00:00

That's not right. Tell your grandma she is wrong.

Bubbly-Manufacturer · 2021-02-02T22:53:24+00:00

Sounds like bad advice tbh. You gotta love her the same she loves you.

DoctorRobertsGMOs2 · 2021-02-19T03:46:52+00:00

TLDR; lesson from woman with experience, don’t love women they will intentionally break your heart

DaJosuave · 2021-02-02T23:24:56+00:00

Yea I think some women want the challenge of getting a guy to love them, maybe maybe what she's reffering to.

Fuckazepam · 2021-02-03T01:01:47+00:00

Best wishes for your grandmother fighting COVID , wish yall all the best, keep the positive vibes , hopefully it’ll over power all the negative vibes , especially the way the world today. All the best plus thanks for the advice . Always appreciate an elders advice as they’ve seen and heard more than us and been through some troubling times of there own .

sadboysforever · 2021-02-03T06:23:24+00:00

Grandma spittin

superdoooeryeahnah · 2021-02-03T06:59:47+00:00

But how do you know when as a woman you are crossing the line from acting interested and expressing your desire for more to overdoing it and being too needy I am interested in more from this guy and he had said we should date previously but I didn’t really answer as it took some time ie another date to realise I truly did like him Now I don’t know if I need to express my newly realised interest or wait for him to initiate contact

2dice1hand · 2021-02-03T21:06:24+00:00

Grams understands the power dynamic

CrazyKurd420 · 2021-02-25T14:30:30+00:00

Really needed to hear that. Thanks N hope she feels better 🙏🏼

Title	Advice from my grandma
Author	ChocoSalt
Upvotes	1745
Comments	103
Date	February 2, 2021 12:48 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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