Approach a Girl In Class?

PartyPo1s0n · 2017-09-13T00:35:15+00:00

I have a similar problem and these are the same things I tell myself. If you have the option to sit with her and she definitely has no friends in your class, you should definitely sit with her! Not only will it make her feel less awkward, but will absolutely endear yourself to her. Additionally, timing yourself to walk out with her definitely seems creepy when thinking about it, but if you make it inconspicuous enough (not staring at her when packing up or obviously stalling) it is absolutely fine and makes you seem friendly.

The best advice I cam give you is to just talk to her and then move forward at your own pace. Communication is key

lilstxn · 2017-09-13T04:12:44+00:00

I approached a girl in class, got her number today texted all night and I asked her out and she asked if she could invite her boyfriend smh

DavidGolani11 · 2017-09-13T03:40:19+00:00

There's never a bad time to approach a girl that is into you. (aka she's eyeballing you all the time in class).

Paulo6211 · 2017-09-13T02:41:56+00:00

My opinion, I did this all the time this year and it is really easy to fuck up, so I tell you NOT TO DO IT. Let the streets be your game playground, shit gets really weirds if you mess up. If you dont give a f and are going to do it try being indirect, friendly and extremely emphatic. The best option by far is to be only her friend.

bjaason690 · 2017-09-13T06:20:24+00:00

It is not that hard really. Just sit next to her one day And ask anything about class/ party/event that just happened;etc... Something that works as well is asking a question. Back in college i would sometimes ask a girl a preference question just to start an interaction with her, and it usually worked pretty well. I would show them two pictures of different sunglasses/watches/ shirts, and ask them which one they liked better. After they answered, i would simply take the conversation on from there by asking something else ( again; classes, last weeks party/ event;etc...) dont sweat It man, believe me. It looks a lot more complicated in your head than It actually is. Once you stop overthinking It, and actually take action, you will see that those butterflies that you felt in your stomach will start fading away.

MIERDAPORQUE · 2017-09-13T03:51:46+00:00

Enséñale tu pito

earl-sweatshop · 2017-09-13T01:15:30+00:00

If there is ever group work in the class, that'd be a perfect time. I wouldn't recommend catching her on the way out. She probably has things to do, and it might annoy her that a random guy is holding her up.

eric_shen · 2017-09-13T04:18:17+00:00

I had this question myself until I realized jee what if this was a dude and I was just trying to make friends, and it worked. Except I don't tease a guy... So I say just be really genuine

HumpingJack · 2017-09-13T08:58:07+00:00

I had the same situation in college. This girl that was in the same class as me was a foreign exchange student from Australia. She didn't talk to anyone and didn't seem to have any friends just like your situation. One day after class and everyone was leaving I caught up to her and asked her if she wanted to go have dinner. She was hesitant (and suprised) but said yes. Eventually she started opening up more when we chatted. Moral of the story yes you can fail but you will never know if you don't try.

-shamrock- · 2017-09-13T11:06:28+00:00

"Dont shit where you eat" does not apply to college in these day. Maybe 40 years ago when women where publicly shamed for their sexual behaviour, but today we have a radically different culture.

What kind of class do we talk about? If it is an art class, go talk to her 5-10 minutes before the class starts and than sit right next to her (otherwise it would be creepy if you dont sit next to her after some smalltalk).

If it is not an art class, than embrace the fact that she is there to learn. So you could approach her on the campus when you see her. Just casually say "hi" and than add anything which gives value like something funny you noticed in class.

Manwhorelio · 2017-09-13T08:27:30+00:00

You have zero conversational skills apparently. You need to practice that first before you start harassing girls with your awkwardness.

Maezura_Talon · 2017-09-13T04:38:34+00:00

I would respectfully advise you to look for advice in this instance somewhere other than the seduction thread, if you haven't even approached this girl before. I'm just saying, it would go a long way towards your credibility, and shed some light on your intentions, my friend.

ForeignInUsA · 2017-09-13T05:47:23+00:00

If you see her outside of class approach her. Ask her about the material then a little about her. Just be like hey aren't you in class blabla you can talk some shit about the teacher. If you are good at reading signs you can tell if she is into you here and then if not wait it out. After that you can say hi to her in class chit chat. Don't rush anything college is all about making friends and slowly building it up.

In class if you want to talk to her unless you are sociall with everyone I wouldn't jump for the leash.

waira23 · 2017-09-13T11:10:11+00:00

Well, its pretty simple follow these 3 steps. 1. Build sexual tension within her, you do this by looking at her, strong eye contact. to make her imagination run wild. 2. Do this for a couple of times, such that she doesnt think that it was an accident. 3. Then approach her. 4. This final step is more scary,"what should i say" well dont worry, here since you have been looking at her, tease her, blame it on her. Tell her: Why do you keep looking at me, i guess you want to seduce me huh? She will be finished, from there on you can do the rest. For more try this http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0758W2TC7

Gluten-free-poo · 2017-09-13T13:41:55+00:00

Don't know if this will help but kinda reminded me of how I met my best girlfriend in college...

She was in one of my classes first semester Senior year but sat on the opposite end of the room so I only admired her but did nothing about it. Approaching post-class for no direct reason other than I liked her general vibe she put off across the room felt too creepy. Messaging her on Facebook for some bullshit reason was another thought that crossed my mind but felt like a terrible one so I didn't, and good thing I didn't.. Second semester I walk in Day One and see her in another class of mine. I typically 'can' be shy and don't won't to be intrusive to avoid seeming creepy like you mentioned, but on that day something clicked the moment I saw her and the class had no seating schedule so I said "Fuck it," and didn't hesitate to walk directly over next to her and asked if the seat was taken. Obviously she was cool with it. Introduced each other. We formed groups for a semester long project, turned to her immediately and boom, got a partner for the semester.

After about 2-3 classes together she mentioned she does a creative writing club every week, and so I obviously said I'd love to see what its all about. When I showed up I honestly think she didn't expect me to show because I definitely saw some sparks the moment she saw me. Pretty much sealed the first date after that first meeting and went from there.

ANYWAY, basically what I'd say I'm getting at is if you EVER see a girl sitting by herself like I did, don't feel like you're being creepy when you want to offer them company. If she feels uncomfortable she'll choose a different seat at some point (assuming there's no assigned seating). At which point, more than likely worth just moving along because someone won't move away one of those times.

Just remember that it my internally feel creepy to you approaching a girl out of the blue, but assuming she's available and finds you generally attractive she will admire that you've gone out of your way to want to meet her.

IWLoseIt · 2017-09-13T08:17:46+00:00

You said she's not sitting with anyone in particular, just sit next to her and talk to her.

GET_IN_THE_VAN · 2017-09-13T15:17:38+00:00

I would start by saying hi to her everyday. Don't feel worried about trying to talk to her after class. Unless she sprints out the door everytime the bell rings that's totally fine. Eventually invite her to hang out later with you and your friends. If she has none like you say she does she'll be down. Just hanging out with friends also prevents it from getting awkward in class if you find out she's not interested. Judging from this your chances look good though!

Runlikeaphish3 · 2017-09-13T21:17:44+00:00

So, I have 3 classes with this one girl who always catches my eye. There has always been a time where we catch eyes during the day at least once. One time the professor asked who had a boyfriend or girlfriend and she raised her hand. I sit next to her in my last class of the day which gets out at 9pm. She is definitely not the most attractive girl in the school, but is super cute and smart. She is also a sorority girl, so who the hell knows her background. HELP

TheyTukMyJub · 2017-09-13T10:07:13+00:00

Yeah here's my thought: don't do it. Seriously, don't listen to these thirsty mofos here. Don't shit where you eat.

Why? Imagine it going horrible. Imagine the huge blowback. Now imagine seeing her and her social group almost daily.

You're welcome.

endertheender · 2017-09-13T01:16:25+00:00

Not a good idea, not as bad as approaching a girl at work but still. Unless the girl is OBVIOUSLY INTO YOU, like always finding a way to sit next to you, talk to you touch you, don't bother. If you're a college student, there are tons of ways to meet other girls.

If the girl you like isn't approaching you, then look into hitting teh gym, eating and dressing better. I can tell you now, that having a GQ, Beach body with some decent biceps will get you so much attention, that either you'll be having sex with the girl you like OR you'll be so inundated with women clamoring for you that you wont have time to even remember this "girl in class."

You're first mission should be to HIT THE GYM.

Second mission which goes concurrently would be to eat a caloric deficit if you have over 22-25% body fat. 500 to lose a pound of fat a week 1000 to lose two pounds of fat. less if you hit the gym.

It's actually fairly easy, Eat more protein and vegetables (raw spinach is easy to eat if you hate veggies, goes with everything)

Eat butter with your food, eat less carbs (not NO carb you don't need to go r/keto actually) keep the gym up and in about 6-7 months you'll be looking a lot better an in a year or so you'll be drowning in pussy.

In the MEANTIME , look for a salsa class and join it, seriously just do it. You'll meet lots of girls there, some will like you as you are even now.

Don't hit on women there either, just enjoy the dancing, learn a lot and the ones that HIT ON YOU, are the ones you should talk to.

No one hitting on you? Hit the gym, Have a 500-1000 calorie a day deficit, get better clothing, make sure you're groomed etc etc.

By the time you have a great body, you'll be 1) swamped by women who want you 2)able to get really good pictures put up on tinder

3)drowning in pussy

4)Know how to salsa dance REALLY well (a skill which you'll happy you have for life)

The dividends will yield EXCEPTIONALLY well.

Title	Approach a Girl In Class?
Author	DirectorKrenic
Upvotes	77
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Date	September 12, 2017 11:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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