Behaviors that reveal romantic attraction - "Psychologists coded 36 verbal flirting behaviors — such as making compliments, asking questions and revealing information — and nonverbal flirting behaviors —such as leg-crossing, palming, leaning forward, playing with objects and nodding."

iliketurtlesdurr · 2015-02-13T23:53:39+00:00

So in summary, only 1 of the 5 flirting styles will give your more interest and iois as they like you more and more. The other 4 will tend to become more coldly polite, or more physically separated, or more withdrawn.

That makes sense considering RSD Alex's observations that when a girl is attracted to you, she is "quiet attentive", not "energetic". But comon girls... really??? comon.

Lightfiend · 2015-02-13T16:57:41+00:00

Full Study: The Verbal and Nonverbal Correlates of the Five Flirting Styles

PanchDog · 2015-02-13T18:42:12+00:00

Or just always assume attraction lol.

ALTE12EGO · 2015-02-13T18:56:55+00:00

Ignore everything... if she looks into your eyes for a prolonged period of time and smiles and gets a bit self conscious in general its a sign. Also if she spends time with you and doesn't leave or make you leave. Don't assume attraction, bad advice. Don't overcomplicated everything with these body language advice. Your mindset should be SHE HASN'T FUCKED OFF OR TOLD ME TO FUCK OFF SO MAAAYYYYBE SHE LIKES ME. Make your escalations accordingly.

SpaxsonEpicNoob · 2015-02-14T00:34:07+00:00

As someone who has had to of been told by friends about the "signals" any girl ,whose been interested in me, was giving off this is rather helpful. Thanks op

Odderino · 2015-02-14T11:36:25+00:00

I wouldn't pay much attention to nonverbal flirting behaviors. Many women, if not most, pretend to be interested in a guy to get free attention. From my personal experience and from what observing what women do and are like when they are near other men, they are highly flirty because they know men will pursue them if they act and talk and display a body language behavior that is prone to make the guy think the women are interested in them.

But they are not. I've had women who would brush their hair everything they see me, they'd blush or get incredibly nervous or shy and as it turned out the women weren't attracted to me. They were simply looking for attention.

on the other hand, I've had women act like I was a leper, treated me like shit, would look at me in utter contempt and as it turned out, they did this because they were attracted to me. They either didn't want to show their attraction or they were trying to act hard to get by putting an Endor-wide bitch shield, as if to make me think they were worthy of being pursued.

Unless the woman is on her knees sucking your dick I would not take her smiles, hair flipping, giggles and what not, as flirting, as sexual interest. I'd just see her as enjoying the attention you're giving to her. But guess what? Women - every woman - is the center of the universe. They literally are being hit on by men 24/7 even the most plainest and boring of chicks.

bangthemermaid · 2015-02-13T18:02:07+00:00

That's really cool!

thedelfactor · 2015-02-14T07:01:48+00:00

This is a great article and should be read by all on this sub. The point isn't to tell you what style of flirting is the best. The point is that you should be using each style that caters best to the given situation. You're at the club or a party, use the physical style more to your advantage since it's harder to hear anyway. When the conversation becomes serious, be sincere. By just being well rounded and knowing what style to use, you will get girls' interest. The only style I don't recommend is the polite flirt because, like the article says, you aren't making your intentions clear.

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