Break down deadbeat/hobosexual game for me

DisplayAcrobatic · 2024-07-25T13:42:00+00:00

I only know of it by hood dudes. And the women they’re doing it too are undesirables.

atomant88 · 2024-07-25T16:02:06+00:00

low standards homie. thats all there is to it

GymBroTRT · 2024-07-25T14:32:12+00:00

I will let you know what is the biggest secret of these type of guys. It sounds simple, but can be difficult to implement. However, if you can implement it, it doesn’t matter if you are a regular guy or an unemployed guy or super successful in your career, you will be able to get women easily.

The secret of hobosexual guys is that they DO NOT FEEL BAD/ASHAMED about their situation. They do not feel bad about any aspect of their life or personality. The opposite of this is a guy who actually feels bad or ashamed about aspects of their personality/self/life. In essence when you feel bad about your whole self or parts of it, you are actually REJECTING yourself or parts of yourself.

This SELF-REJECTION is something that women can sense form your vibe and how you carry yourself and how you behave. It can literally be sensed from across the room without them ever speaking with you. Are there aspects of your life or personality that you feel bad about? A common one might be height or not being financially successful. You feel bad and ashamed about it and women can sense something is off. They can’t read your mind, they just know that you are rejecting yourself and therefore they are forced to reject you as well.

Perhaps you feel bad about your lack of dating success, or you think there are aspects of your personality that are so off putting that you are desperately trying to hide them because you believe if anyone saw the “real” you, they would reject you instantly in disgust.

Well, the hobosexuals don’t feel bad about what society perceives as being unsuccessful or failure. They may even have. Very positive view of their lives and their personalities. Here is another example. It is kind of a well known fact that many women find criminals and even serial killers attractive. These men are objectively horrible people, yet women find them attractive. Why? These guys don’t actually feel bad about the horrible things they have done. A criminal is trying to hide his crimes not because he is ashamed of having committed them, but because he may actually be caught by the police.

Yet, a nice guy who has followed the law all his life and has a good salary and probably objectively will make a much better partner than some criminal, spends years single and alone while the criminal is banging a new chick (including his parole officer) every week. What gives?

Well, the nice guy is secretly ashamed of many aspects of himself. He might feel bad about being a sexual being so he portrays himself as a good guy who doesn’t treat women like sex objects. But secretly, his browser history is full of PornHub searches about BDSM and gangbangs. He might think he’s not good enough because he was bullied in school. He feels bad about it so he tries desperately to hide this aspect of his personality and on top of that he is desperately trying to act like someone else that he believes people want him to be in order to not be rejected.

At the end of the day, the real problem is when you FEEL BAD about certain aspects of yourself or your life. That’s what’s tripping guys up. Many think the only solution is to of course change all these flaws they think they have that are so terrible and only when they change them or get rid of them, can they feel good about themselves. This causes many guys to go a bit crazy because they start believing they have to be perfect in order for women to like them. So they become frustrated and angry.

But you don’t have to be perfect. You just have to not feel bad about yourself and even feel good about the things that are objectively awesome about you. For example, if you were really shy and socially anxious as a kid you can feel bad about it and tell yourself you shouldn’t be shy and anxious. Perhaps you never got the opportunity to socialize properly. But this is in the past. You can’t change the past, you can only change how you feel about it in the present. Feeling bad about some flaw or something that happened to you in the past doesn’t serve a purpose. We tell ourselves that it does. That unless you feel bad about it, you will never change it. But that’s not true. It achieves nothing but feel bad about yourself. You can feel okay that you were a shy kid who didn’t socialize enough and take concrete steps today to compensate for your lack of social skills. So actually taking steps towards changing aspects of your because is not the same as feeling bad about them. The ones you can’t change, it makes no sense to hide. The more open you are about things you can’t change, the less shame you will feel about them until they become something g you don’t feel bad about.

Ever wonder why women tell you “just be yourself”? Do you know what they are telling you? They are telling you, hey there buddy, you are not giving yourself enough credit and you are trying to pretend that you are something else because you feel bad about who you are. But I can see through that and if you just learn to be okay with who you are, I can be okay with who you are as well and chances are I will actually like you if you like you.

Betelgeuzeflower · 2024-07-25T13:45:42+00:00

I don't know mate, I was plenty successful when I used drugs and alcohol. I Had upper class women paying everything for me and treated them somewhat like shit. I'm fairly attractive though.

Now that I got my life together and treat people more nicely interest dropped off, though I lately see it picking up again.

No-Preference8767 · 2024-07-25T15:08:15+00:00

Attractive man date unattractive girl. Attractive man offers nothing when asked or asks for things early .

That's about it .

CNC_Addict · 2024-07-25T17:59:41+00:00

Beach bums are a thing

appolonysian · 2024-07-25T18:41:32+00:00

Just own who you are and your situation despite of its “faults.” If you do with complete belief, others won’t really care usually. It’s not usually the situation that makes a dude undesirable but rather the very clear shame/insecurity he has in front of others on account of it.

WatchExpert1672 · 2024-07-25T20:03:19+00:00

Lower your standards immensely and you should be good to go and try to upgrade yourself as much as possible In the looks department

entitledwank · 2024-07-25T22:19:14+00:00

ratchet girls don’t like cleaned up guys. Imagine a girl think “oh so you think your better than me”

sometimes i purposely look like shit and go to dive bars girls are much more likely to let you hit raw, be bisexual, and into drugs.

i wouldn’t date a girl like that but I have my fun sometimes

throwawayofc1112 · 2024-07-26T00:34:01+00:00

It’s the idgaf attitude

nordik1 · 2024-07-26T03:43:12+00:00

Lower your standards, but idk man that seems like an incredibly inefficient way of living

Blitted_Master · 2024-07-25T15:16:13+00:00

I had a chick paying my bills for 7 years and even buying me cars. What is your question? You’re talking about shame holding you back. If you feel shameful about something then don’t do it. She was ok with this arrangement and we kinda just fell into it. There was no shame involved for me. I did decide it better to stand on my own two feet after a while though. Living under a woman is risky after a while. All good things come to an end.

Title	Break down deadbeat/hobosexual game for me
Author	Feeling-Aspect916
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Date	July 25, 2024 1:12 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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