Cool Hobbies/Rec Classes to be involved in?

wtjones · 2012-09-06T07:47:37+00:00

Don't ever do things for women. Find things that YOU like to do and do them.

banana_box · 2012-09-06T10:02:08+00:00

Here's something that I've been told by several people and from some close friends who are girls. If a guy has a hobby that he is truely passionate about and is really into, that is attractive. You can pick up hobbies that you might think will impress girls and it might be a good conversation starter, but it won't take you all the way to the end just because it'll show through that it's not your true passion. Here, it kind of looks like you're writing a resume and planning out the interview that you'll be presenting to girls.

Bear with me here, because I'm still in my beginning stages of turning non-AFC so I might be wrong, but I understand that the whole seddit thing about finding a hobby isn't about using it to attract women. Rather, by finding a true passion, you begin to respect yourself more and thereby improving your inner game. I dance in hip hop teams in college and I would say I'm not bad, but I don't even bring it up or try to bring it up to girls I meet. In the back of my head, being a dancer just makes me this good feeling inside that I can use to extract confidence from.

But to answer your question about trying new stuff in college, you can try a frat, learning an instrument, music development, an acapella, martial arts, dancing, rowing, cultural clubs, painting, wood shop, circuit building with soldering.

You seem like a busy guy and I'm pretty impressed with all the stuff you've done :) so high five for you! I mean this post in no disrespect, but it seems like you've got your shit down and settled. It gets difficult to manage too many things at once and you don't wanna collapse. For instance, I'd work on working on expanding the business and whatnot.

CreepyOrAlpha · 2012-09-06T12:34:57+00:00

As banana_box said, don't stretch yourself too thin. Work on expanding your business and growing it, because that's an opportunity a lot of people don't get.

If you're really looking for something else to do, dance classes are usually filled with girls. If you're into yoga then, well, clearly there are women there.

But yeah, you can literally do almost anything and be incredibly passionate about it and it will be attractive. You could play video games professionally (and stay in shape clearly) and girls would be interested.

jdrawesome · 2012-09-06T13:58:06+00:00

I'd pick up guitar and cooking for the hell of it, and you don't really need to take classes to learn that stuff if you are determined enough. Other hobbies I have enjoyed are painting (personally I like painting miniature models) and carpentry, always a good feeling to know that you built that bar everyone likes.

itsmevichet · 2012-09-06T18:36:48+00:00

Well, it's never a bad thing to discover a passion through your motivation to meet more women - that's how I got started dancing.

It IS a bad thing to stick with an activity you don't really feel JUST to impress women. That's... why would you do that?

Women are impressed by accomplishment and passion - and not necessarily in a competitive "are you measurably better than _____" way either. Be passionate about what you like (make sure it's something that requires real work to cultivate as a skill), and your positive vibe will affect those around you.

Anyway, practical suggestions: I've heard a lot of schools in AZ have really good ballroom dance teams. You could consider competitive dancing - college teams are a great place to start off as a total beginner, being cheered on and supported by others.

haloll · 2012-09-06T22:52:24+00:00

I personally have been thinking of taking up archery. My local forest preserve has a free range that is about 5 mins from my house. (I'm a community college student).

Title	Cool Hobbies/Rec Classes to be involved in?
Author	CreepyOrAlpha
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	September 6, 2012 6:55 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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