Decent looking guy picks up model - smile technique (thoughts?)

Captain_French · 2014-08-16T18:45:39+00:00

Is it me or she looked really not into the guy at first? After that, things were getting good but I felt like he had no chance at the beginning of the video.

Do I just misread her reaction?

Well done overall tho. Good video.

vi1xi · 2014-08-16T20:04:46+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CzcjL-uLpwY&index=8&list=UUFH8kR8gq7nn9GqSpgwu1kQ

He posted a video of a girl going lunatic in rejecting him, and all he did was ask for her name....

Squand · 2014-08-16T15:49:16+00:00

This makes me want to record myself, is this what I sound like when I think I'm in state?

When he couldn't name one author, I died.

Date's flaws coming at woman faster than she can rationalize away!

Joking aside. Cool video. It clearly went well.

One thing, I never let her repeat my questions. I make the girl think up her own. 95% of the time it goes over really well.

When she repeats, "What are your favorite books," or "What do you want for christmas" I respond.

"No tag backs. Ask me something else. Ask me a favorite, best, least favorite kind of question. I'll answer anything."

I do this because normally people ask questions they have good responses for. And I hate that, did you ask me because you want to know, or because you want to tell your story. A lot of girls mimic the same question you asked precisely because they think you're selfish and want to talk about yourself. This breaks that mold. (As does flubbing the return, as this good looking loser does.)

I also feel like the ping pong stales the conversation. I need to get the girl thinking on her toes, and it also helps me qualify her as an original thinker. It helps me know what she's into.

The complication comes from when they say, "But I really do want to know the answer to X."

I get tripped up when that happens. The safe play is probably to say okay. But I never do. What I go with is, "Listen, my rule is hard and fast, but if you ask me again tomorrow. Till then you'll have to be patient with your curiosity, kitten." I kino at this point to deflect rising tension from a girl mad cause she isn't getting what she wants.

I would love a follow up. What's your cold read, did the girl ever meet up with him later? Did he make her sign a release so he could post the video? Also, I want to know what this girl has to say about Thomas Aquinas.

CapoDV · 2014-08-16T19:19:43+00:00

I don't like this guy's game but you can't argue, he has game. This really goes to show how the little things don't matter. He was pretty bad at conversation but you could tell he had her eye contact and attention. He might have said umm and ya way to many times that doesn't really matter because shes focusing on the general conversation and your deep eye contact

snuckie7 · 2014-08-16T18:25:34+00:00

That cheesecake menu was a date waiting to set itself up. "Tell you what, write your number next to your favorite cheesecake, and let's grab some at X time"

Aznblaze · 2014-08-16T21:57:15+00:00

She was nice and pretty eyes. Good job dude, you're hella laid back and got a deep voice that a lot of girls like.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-08-16T15:25:14+00:00

It must have been super awkward when he was leaving and had to turn around again to walk down, so they would've had to make eye contact again lol

Also, it seems like he's just running standard game. Props to him, a basic overview of what he did was open as usual (you're cute) and then transition into just questions back and forth. Finally he took the number. Honestly I'm not a fan of just going for the number, he should've tried to set up a date. She might've agreed to it too and bam they would be meeting up for later in the week. Instead of trying to do it over text where things can get flakey

RobbyMalt · 2014-08-16T16:05:09+00:00

I feel like this needed a bit of banter, some teasing, just to get her out of that questions questions questions zone. I also feel like his questions are a reaction to avoiding uncomfortable silence. But real props to the guy having the balls to approach and lead.

Kastler · 2014-08-16T18:17:24+00:00

Cheesecake factory menu, interesting

cheapclooney · 2014-08-17T05:07:05+00:00

There is literally nothing more annoying to an attractive woman than being told to "smile."

willtopower2014 · 2014-08-16T18:34:09+00:00

Lol so cringeworthy. "Smile technique".. frikkin losers.

vibsOveebs · 2014-08-16T19:56:17+00:00

He could have pulled off an instant date right there!

yasserkhan1 · 2014-08-17T03:45:05+00:00

models are so insecure : ) she seems like a cool chick.

interpolatile · 2014-08-17T04:04:13+00:00

if shes a model, then im the queen of sheba

2014-08-16T15:17:26+00:00

I had a boner growing out of my nose the whole time.

LeoTheFirst · 2014-08-17T03:05:57+00:00

A smile can do wonders when you're meeting a lovely lady. It can change your conversation dramatically. I know I've been in clubs, been taking the piss out of a girl hard with a totally straight face, but the smile at the end builds up a lot of comfort. Props to him.

It may not be the most exciting but I know that's what I was like/probably still am. It's going out there and doing it that counts.

polarpack · 2014-08-16T14:06:10+00:00

Very well done. But I was surprised at how he got away with grabbing her to sit with him. Maybe a girl would not have the time for that?

Title	Decent looking guy picks up model - smile technique (thoughts?)
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Upvotes	108
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Date	August 16, 2014 11:08 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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