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penis_in_my_hand · 2022-10-31T22:39:45+00:00

Go ask her if she wants to get coffee sometime

Amznatoz · 2022-11-01T00:05:08+00:00

Can you update on what happens next!

epimpstyle · 2022-10-31T22:16:59+00:00

"Hey, what's up, I think you're cute, can I give you my number?"

How this opening is that popular (asking for her phone number or giving your phone number)? Why is a hurry? Do you have to go somewhere?

You should talk to her normally without asking her anything but if you see that everything is OK, you can ask for her phone number otherwise it looks weird.

It is just my point of view because I'm sure it will be other users who will talk about confidence, direct opening, masculine attitude, energy, and all kinds of BS...

Neo-Rio · 2022-11-01T00:43:49+00:00

Women don't make the first move as a buffer against rejection. It's also easier on their ego if they force the guy to do it or wait until he does - so he can take all the risks. (

That's why I'm constantly urging guys to push as far as they can until they get stopped. No, it's not being creepy you numbskull incels.

Coffee, initially, is good. Get her there and then start probing as to what her fantasies and desires might be - and suggest that she come over to your place for another coffee because you have more there.

Also note that trying to go "dipping in the company inkwell" can introduce issues into the workplace. Depends on how much you care about the stability of your job though - should things get out of hand.

coolwater85 · 2022-11-01T03:32:34+00:00

A quick chat with her. Small talk, make her laugh a little, then say “I gotta get going (back to work, back home after a shift, etc.) but this was fun. Give me your number and we can hang out.”

ChicoBrillo · 2022-11-01T04:11:39+00:00

Just do it man even if she’s not interested she’ll be flattered.

ChicoBrillo · 2022-11-01T04:17:02+00:00

Just do it man even if she’s not interested she’ll be flattered.

Skizznitt · 2022-11-01T04:31:11+00:00

Dude just be honest. Go up to her and be like "Hey I've seen you over here more than a few times, we've locked eyes and I felt like there was some kind of connection, would you like to go grab a coffee or some lunch with me sometime?" Easy peasy. You're way overthinking it bud.

Best-Ad-1223 · 2022-11-01T06:51:08+00:00

You basically have cart blanche, my guy. Say anything. Whatever. Start a conversation, exchange numbers and take her out somethimes. She xlearly has a lot of interest.

Jasonhardon · 2022-11-01T07:22:22+00:00

Be like hey I get off at work at 6 or whatever, there’s a XYZ happening. Wanna check it out with me? Yes proceed to get number

WanyCaleb · 2022-11-01T08:28:15+00:00

You know she likes you so, that's essentially 50% of the work done. The remaining is just a bunch of check points unless of course you goof up. Just talk to her like she's already your..lover? Gf? And see where it goes. Coffee, lunch, diner, desert are all good and acceptable. Thank you and good night!

SonnyT2021 · 2022-11-01T09:35:20+00:00

She works in a coffee shop go over and buy a coffee and say hi introduce yourself and say you work over the road and go from there, no pressure

MozartonMDMA · 2022-11-01T10:34:40+00:00

Pro tip: your goal is to meet up with the person 1on1 later not get her number. Say we should definitely grab drinks, etc this weekend, why don't you give me your number. Don't directly just ask for her number.

revente · 2022-11-01T10:54:02+00:00

"Hey, what's up, I think you're cute, can I give you my number?"

No just go there, introduce yourself and initiate a conversation.

„Hey i’m ... i keep seeing you all the time, what’s your name?’

Then ask her some general question, listen to her answers and ask more questions/make statements about those answers. Rinse n repeat. Then get her number when you have to leave.

Also break the touch barrier by shaking hands.

Phantomniaa · 2022-11-01T17:49:55+00:00

Im here reading all of these comments and the only thing I’m wondering is; How do you know her age if you never approached her before??

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