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[–]Icy_Rub1839 55 points56 points57 points 3 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
She makes conversations easy, she wants to spend time with you, she laughs at things you say (no matter how unfunny) AND she touches you/bumps into you. The last one is a huge sign.
[–]North_Sheep 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
…That’s good! Thanks!
[–]Mr_lightning22 49 points50 points51 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Laughed at literally the worst joke
Motherfucker you gonna get laid
[–]surfershane25 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Or overthink it to oblivion and wonder if she’s into you when she’s at your house in your bed wondering if she’s actually into you, or is that just how daft I was in High School?
[–]hughiewray 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don’t worry mate. Had this same situation except she gave me a whole massage and I just went “yep, not into me!” Seriously fuck that guy.
[–]surfershane25 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean that was 16 years ago that I was that 16 year old kid who didn’t get it at all. I do fine now.
[–]Icy_Rub1839 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Is she also pleased to see you when you start talking to her? Watch for body language too.
[–]North_Sheep 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
She seems like she’s pleased, also what kind of body language is a good sign?
[–]Icy_Rub1839 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago* (10 children) | Copy Link
Whilst I don't agree with most of what Wheat Waffles says, he does a good video analysis on it here:
https://youtu.be/azBEWpbtlxM
[–]North_Sheep 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Alright I’ll be sure to watch it, thanks again for the help
[–]Icy_Rub1839 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good luck, man.
Remember to try not to get hung up on her, particularly if the feelings aren't reciprocated. Plenty more girls out there and you're only young.
[–]North_Sheep 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yesss you’re right
[–]Mr_lightning22 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
another wheat waffles watcher
Are there more of our kind here?
[–]Icy_Rub1839 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I said that I don't agree with the majority of things he says, but this video and his videos on dating apps for men are correct.
[–]Mr_lightning22 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You still watch him tho
So it counts
[–]Icy_Rub1839 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Apologies, I misinterpreted your comments.
Many people on Reddit just assume you're an "incel" if you like Wheat Waffles, even if he offers good advice.
[–]Mr_lightning22 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I don't look at the world like that
I can see the yin in the yang and vice versa
[–]Icy_Rub18392 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yes, that's the best philosophy.
Take what is good and discard what isn't.
[–]Rahdoes69 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Just shoot ur shot buddy, dgaf about what could happen…cause let me tell u this that window might close if she senses that u are not taking her hints. P.S. missed opportunity really hurts
[–]Rahdoes69 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly more of the reason to do so…else u’ll have to see her for the next 2 years and that regret will hit u everytime u see her. Everytime you cross her u’ll be like i wish….speaking from experience
[–]North_Sheep 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah you have a point
[–]North_Sheep 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I normally would but the thing is we’re going to be classmates for the next 2 years so it may be awkward
[–]breakfastburrito24 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It doesn't have to be awkward. IF she doesn't reciprocate after you shoot your shot, it depends on how you handle that. It might suck, but it's not the end of the world.
I'd recommend just asking her to hang out after or outside of class
[–]TH3BUDDHA 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More awkward than some other guy shooting his shot and you always wondering what would have happened if you did?
[–]rattled_by_rush 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This kind of attitude kept me from pursuing so many sure-things (and plenty of probably-things) over the years. Attraction is normal and healthy and you shouldn't be ashamed to want to date girls. At the very least she'll be flattered
[–]Sp00mp 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It won't.
[–]SaquonB26 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In ten years you most likely won’t have anything to do with her or a lot of any people in high school. Shoot your shot, it really doesn’t matter.
[–]bmalbert81 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I had a similar experience with a girl a long time ago, almost too a T. She was always nice to me, let me touch her when she didn’t like being touched. I didn’t think there was any chance in the world she liked me so I never did anything about it.
Fast forward 3 years and her friend spilled the beans that she liked me, then we started dating. and a month ago today we had our 14th wedding anniversary
Point is while you guys might not get married like us, she says all the time how she was trying to get my attention but I was oblivious and thought she was out of my league (I still do).
What do you do next? Ask her out! Ask her for coffee, ice cream, a walk in the park, a movie, whatever gets you quality time with her to learn more about each other
[–]North_Sheep 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my god, your story is so amazing. It gave me perspective on what I’m missing out on if I don’t go for it, thank you so much
[–]incognito3107 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I believe girls are not looking at relationships by 0-1 system as much as men do. She may just really like your company, but not thinking about anything more intimate at the moment. You should take some time 1 on 1 to escalate and get more clearance. Take part in some class parties or just casually meet her outside school.
Got it, how do I slowly escalate things?
[–]incognito3107 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Keep close proximity, talk about more personal stuff, get new mutual experiences, take some part in each other's lives, touch her casually, look her in the eyes, spend regular time together, actually care what she says or do etc. Thing is about starting from scratch and gradually and smoothly moving your borders, try out new things. Of course we assume that she likes you in the first place, so you should keep your frame as attractive and interesting male.
[–]North_Sheep 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Awesome, this helps a lot, thanks
[–]Leone_brt 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
By her feet definitely.
If they are behind your ears, she probaby likes you.
[–]Agret 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks TikTok
[–]Sure-Wish3240 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Greetings. Things are usually quite chaotic at that age.
Usually talk about it its the best solution for adults.
At your age, created a moment of laught and cheerness and drop the bomb. Telle her you like her and wanna know her better . She either runs ir stay. If she stays, dont ask, kiss her. If she runs, she will cê back with after a bath and make up and kabedon you into nirvana.
There is a slim chance that you haver mistaken signs and she will act neutral and tell you so.
[–]North_Sheep 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
hahaha, that really usually is how this works at my age, I guess I just have anxiety
[–]Sure-Wish3240 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The important thing to understand is that doing something about it is always better than doing nothing.
People are perfect when they only live inside our heads. They dont age, they dont show us their imperfections. But people that live inside our heads are not real.
Usually kissing, grabbing and fucking real people is more rewarding than let people live in our minds.
That's how you avoid friendzone: you act at the very moment someone ia living inside your mind. They either become real, or you realize you are day dreaming and get rid of them.
[–]North_Sheep 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Got it, thanks!
[–]exclaim_bot 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're welcome!
[–]stonkmaster02 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
watch where her feet are pointed if theyre directed at you its a guaranteed yes
guaranteed??
[–]stonkmaster02 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yes that is a huge sign if she isnt talking to you but is still facing you its an easy sign, its pretty unlikely but its a dead giveaway
well good to know then, thanks!
[–]zapadz 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=clHiMt9D_DI
https://www.artofmanliness.com/people/relationships/know-woman-likes/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGwQR_A2faA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--B5hwpqPuY
great links, especially the first one gave good insight into the subtle signs, thanks!
[–]Repulsive-Fee393 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only thing way to truly know if a girl likes you is if she lets you hit it, let that sink in.
[–]catniagara 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask her out.
[–]Bl4standcruis32 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
When I was your age there was a girl I liked and she behaved exactly the same way she behaved with you--I never had the balls to tell her and got nothing, I was hurt about it for months. GROW SOME BALLS AND TELL HER RIGHT AWAY,DON'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE I DID
[–]dietra_ 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Tell her how you feel. Life is too short. I assume you are in high school so if it goes bad, you won’t be stuck there for very long. YOLO
[–]AqueousBeats -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nope
[–]dietra_ 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why
[–]immn00b -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She doesn't
[–]PhysicsObjective6875 -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read This
[–]Will_Block03 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
common saying that there are no such things as mixed signals
[–]napndash 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She has 3-4 orgasms in quick succession.
[–]TH3BUDDHA 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also any advice on what to do next?
Tell her you are interested in her and see how she reacts.
[–]Ok_Abbreviations2264 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask her out immediately don’t waste time thinking it will only make you more miserable … the worst possibility is her saying “NO” ….it will hurt but try to move on immediately .
[–]idkbbitswatev 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Youll never know if you dont try, ask for her number after having a good conversation, talk to her more, then ask her out :)
[–]SleepyBeast89 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just ask her on a date. You’ll have your answer
[–]Talktomeifyouneed2 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Usually you will feel the energy lil bro, specially when talking up close, touch you, eye contact, ect
[–]MrDownhillRacer 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only sign you need to care about:
Does she say "yes" when I ask her out?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She doesn't like you. She is secretly dialing the FBI on her phone and reporting you as a mega creep. Expect to be canceled any minutes thrown in jail.
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