Should I pay for it or be patient? [recovered]

Glodan061 · 2022-08-29T22:43:47+00:00

Fake it until you make it dawg. Only way she knows you’re a virgin is if you tell her

dump_fool · 2022-08-29T22:51:05+00:00

I am 22 and a virgin

You aren't sexual and bold in your interactions you are afraid to be called a "creep".

I have cold approached about 100 girls and I only have gotten 6 numbers...

Hopefully now you can see how shit cold approaching is, try instead to engage girls that like you and are on the same level of attraction as you are.

I have began to just think about paying for it since girls would probably be turned off from hearing that I am still a virgin....

Stop calling yourself a virgin, you don't have a hymen! You are just inexperienced, unfucked... :)) I have never ever thought of myself i'm a virgin. You can definitely pay for sex, it will be a valuable and fun experience that should build your confidence a little.

Adistracteddude · 2022-08-30T01:54:48+00:00

I was virgin until I was 26 and I decided to pay for it but it wasn't as good as I expected. I regret that decision maybe would have been better if it was someone i felt really attracted to.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-30T02:37:41+00:00

If you think women will be turned off when you tell them that you are a virgin, imagine telling them you paid a prostitute.

Just don’t say you are a virgin simple as that, i don’t get why you need to tell something like that to women, like there is no benefit at all, and it’s not like lying about that will affect negatively the rest of your life or anything really.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-08-29T23:40:34+00:00

Don’t advertise you’re a virgin. If they ask, but upfront but put a positive spin on it. Say you didn’t put yourself out there a lot before, but are working to improve.

Don’t pay for it.

MissionAd399 · 2022-08-30T07:11:49+00:00

Rules number 1 of virgin club, you never tell a girl you’re a virgin.

zapadz · 2022-08-29T23:20:00+00:00

You don’t have to tell them you’re a virgin

Don’t just blindly cold approach. Learn and get better.

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TooMuchJibberish · 2022-08-30T00:37:27+00:00

Just pay for it, majority of women won't want you anyways. Can't go wrong with paying for it, plus you get to choose the attractiveness of the girl.

Remnato · 2022-08-30T03:06:09+00:00

The best advice I have every received is once you have the date it means you already have interest, stop overthinking of needed to overly trying to impress just be how you would be in a normal social situation. I would also recommend just do you since you are still young, stay with the gym and eating healthy. If you have the means start to traveling internationally, see places you have always wanted to visit. This will help give you interesting thing to talk about on dates. Also when on the dates be an active listener to your date, and try not to talk about yourself excessively.

incognito3107 · 2022-08-30T04:35:53+00:00

I would rather suggest you to keep improving and try to meet girls other ways than cold approaching (by mutual friends, hobby meetings, vacation trips, casual jobs). I guess it's nothing wrong to hire a sexual service, but you are still very young and I think you would prefer to manage it on your own. Sexual bar is getting higher and higher, but I believe most guys have good chances of attracting some girl if they are at their best.

Prestigious_List5878 · 2022-08-30T04:38:34+00:00

Sounds life you need to work on your game, be relaxed and confident have fun with the ladies, don't over think it all too much, talk to some of your female in your life about it ie family and friends, like find out what they think is fun it what is attractive about guys.

But hey if you want to pay for it, it's not like it's uncommon but if you don't believe in it then you shouldn't do it.

pusillanimous303 · 2022-08-30T05:11:16+00:00

First, congratulations on your list of hobbies. Don’t stop that. It builds your confidence and makes you a more interesting person. It also gives you more opportunities to interact with people. In answer to your question, there’s nothing wrong with paying for it. If you have that outlet, I think you will come across as less needy when you’re interacting with non-professional women.

TheTruth221 · 2022-08-30T05:47:42+00:00

never pay

AssistTemporary8422 · 2022-08-30T07:28:13+00:00

If cold approach isn't working for you don't do it. The vast majority of guys don't cold approach and do just fine. Instead keep getting in shape, make some friends, meet women through your social circle, and get social at school. You don't have to tell women you are a virgin, that is private information you can keep to yourself. I don't oppose sex work as long as its safe and consensual, just try not to get into any legal trouble.

CometAzur42069 · 2022-08-30T07:53:35+00:00

The fact you dont have friends is bizarre despite you claiming to do things like dancing or fixing cars. These kind of activities lend themselves to socializing and meeting people who have similar interests. Nobody begins dancing or fixing cars solo, someone taught them or showed them.

Even people who have autism and learning disabilities can have friends. You have to stop making excuses. Make some friends, put in effort to reach out and meet people and establish bonds. Part of that is being proactive about asking them to do things with you. Guess what, people you try to befriend will reject you too. That’s good practice because the women you want to date will too.

The fact is your post gives off a weird loser vibe already. You have a lot going on in your life already personally, why not utilize it to meet people (including women)? Guys without friends at all dont get laid much, and those who do are likely not going to be in any healthy relationships with women.

dobbs1997 · 2022-08-30T14:09:19+00:00

You don’t even have to tell women you’re a virgin lol..& no, you THINK they’d be turned off but in reality most wouldn’t care as long as you got a strong personality and give off the vibe that you’re proud of who you are & love yourself but from this post, it sounds like that may not be true.

Sup3rHD · 2022-08-30T16:28:13+00:00

50 $ for 5 mnt of sex is not worth it

PachoTheP · 2022-08-30T19:31:54+00:00

Dawg give it one more year at the gym and you are gonna be living the life. It's gonna be way more satisfying of you win something yourself instead of paying.

yeetorbeyeeeeeeeted · 2022-09-01T16:15:31+00:00

Believe it or not - lots of virgins your age and older and it’s not a bad thing.

You can try and find another reserved virgin or you can just find a normal girl who doesn’t care

Don’t worry about your weight as a barrier to girls but if you wanna be healthier that’s different

Title	Should I pay for it or be patient? [recovered]
Author	justinsavage2u [recovered]
Upvotes	0
Comments	40
Date	August 29, 2022 10:22 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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