I gave myself a little goal

TalkShit247 · 2022-08-23T00:36:55+00:00

This is exactly how i started & success came almost instantly

mariokart890 · 2022-08-23T01:22:16+00:00

Great job taking initiative!

Remember you don’t have to hit on every girl you talk to, sometimes just have a fun convo and leave it at that. If you try and hit on every girl you talk to then they will tell their friends about “that one time” etc and you build bad social rap.

Gibnez · 2022-08-23T02:14:03+00:00

Good on you bro, you’re already braver than 90% of dudes on this subreddit.

Mc_Dickles · 2022-08-23T01:31:57+00:00

Not every conversation has to be a banger and end with exchanging info. If this is gonna happen at your college, just know you’ll run into people again and it’ll help build curiosity if you keep some conversations sweet and simple.

CositaSexy · 2022-08-23T02:35:43+00:00

Good luck!!!

Wooden-Cockroach5911 · 2022-08-23T04:49:59+00:00

This is similar to rejection therapy. My advice to you to avoid small community like college that for sure you might meet these girls again in activity or any other good chance. Go to more open community that you do not care if girl rejected and there is no high probability to her again anyway

thathoosiergirl · 2022-08-23T08:00:05+00:00

This is amazing! Wishing you the best of luck. And lots of enjoyment!

putcoolusernamehere · 2022-08-23T17:03:14+00:00

A word of advice on college: cold approach on occasion is absolutely ok, but your main source of success in college will come from forming a large social circle through your student associations, dormmates, etc. Finding a likeminded social group to hang with is going to make dating so easy for tou, and doesn’t come with the risk of building you a reputation as the pickup guy. I did cold approach a lot on my campus and I still to this day don’t understand how I didn’t develop a super major creep reputation (maybe I did and no one told me). If I had put all that effort into finding my “people” so to speak, it would’ve been better.

But yeah, definitely approach every now and again, 3x / day seems ok.

Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-08-23T05:46:23+00:00

It’s not gonna stop at 3, trust me

MsBitch0157 · 2022-08-23T07:06:16+00:00

That's awesome!! You'll do great: I just know it!! You're gonna make a ton of friends, and I know people love you aleady! Way to go .. you don't need luck bc u got confidence and NO FEAR!! :) THAT'S HOTTT!! ❤️

Sharp-Computer-2179 · 2022-08-23T07:07:33+00:00

Are you gonna delete this after mods downvote this too?

incognito3107 · 2022-08-23T08:37:44+00:00

Pick wisely :)

texaspete3 · 2022-08-23T09:03:28+00:00

bea bit more clear in how you define goals. How will you measure success? How will you be able to learn from your mistakes, let alone know what your mistakes are?

Oscarboy3333 · 2022-08-23T13:17:01+00:00

Here are the things you can ask at college

Hey where is this building ?
Do you know if they have XXX(food) anywhere around here ?
Hey, you were at the party last month right ?

Doesn't matter what you start of, you want to initiate with something friendly, then continue to talk. Ask questions like "What do you like about this college ?" instead of "how do you like it ?" . Ask questions where they have to kind of explain and share their opinion and views. Then latch on to it and jump to another topic.

I.e
She says : I really liked this college because it has nice pools
You: You swim ? hey I can't swim, maybe you should teach me, I'll pay you.........with vegan sour candies

Bull shit like that.

Raphael1758 · 2022-08-23T15:37:57+00:00

Keep us updated please?

Suspicious-State · 2022-08-23T17:12:21+00:00

Best of luck homie

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agentStag · 2022-08-23T19:31:25+00:00

I did 1 girl a day and success came pretty quick. Just make sure you stay consistent. You cannot go back home without at least one approach.

Perfect_War5446 · 2022-08-25T15:28:49+00:00

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Title	I gave myself a little goal
Author	Perfect_War5446
Upvotes	87
Comments	62
Date	August 23, 2022 12:25 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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