Let me put you in the context first.

Yesterday, we went out at the club, we were 6 and we're all 18.

Among all of my friends, one of them, let's call him Mike, is a guy who LOVES clubs, he's kind of used to the way it works since he has been to clubs plenty of times.

Then, there is this other friend, let's call him Paul. Paul is considered as handsome by most women : Chiseled jawline, hollow cheeks, great hair, etc...

And last friend, let's call him Logan, is well known on social media, he has a lot of followers and often get recognized in public.

Then, there is me, not the best social skills, I have trouble flirting since I have poor improvisation skills, not bad looking, but not especially good looking, you get it, I'm still grinding my way to be the best version of myself. I'm not used to go to clubs, I went in there a few times but that's it.

The other friends are not important for the story.

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Arriving at the club, things were going absolutely great, we went to a part of the club were the music was not too loud so we could speak, and this women (that I've seen once before) starts to talk and flirt with me (Teasing me, sitting on my lap, putting her head on mine, etc...).

However, as I said before, I have poor flirting skills and, it didn't work out great, I mean I tried to flirt with her as well, but I didn't really knew how to tease her and I was often out of things to say.

Then, one hour after this, I see her with some other dude...

First rejection lmao, it's all right I'll just go find some other girls, right ?

So me and my friends go dancing, and this is when things starts to get interesting : My friend Mike (the one with great social skills) starts to flirt and dance with with a chick he just saw, and she seems interested. I'm like "Okay, this can't be that hard I guess".

So as we were dancing, a girl accidently hit me in my face, she saw it so she kisses her hand, and then put her hand on the spot she hit me on. As a joke, I make her understand (not verbally) that she has to make me a kiss on the spot she hit me, and she says "no" with her hand.

All right, second rejection but it's okay, it was funny at least.

Then, we come back to the place where the music is not too loud and we can speak.

And my friend Mike, who just got the instagram from the other girl on the dance floor, starts to talk to women he just saw, I'm like "wtf how does he do that ?". As I'm standing next to him and hearing the convo going, he truly has excellent social skills, he know how to talk to women.

All right, I'll try it myself, can't be that hard right ?

I come up to two cute girls, and I say something that was really lame and cringe lmao "I fell in love with both of you but can't choose which one to pick" or something like that. It sounded better in my head...

They just (litteraly) tell me to fuck off.

All right, third rejection, and this one was hurtful.

This is when I basically lost hope.

I was seeing my friend Paul (the handsome one) getting girls without even trying.

My friend Logan getting recognized by women, and I was standing here, don't know what do to.

It's funny because I already done cold approaching in day time, and it seemed to work better than night time.

I don't know if it's important, but my friend with the great social skills (Mike) drank a good amount of alcohol, while me I drank just enough to get my head dizzy and feel some little effects but that it.

The party was cool tho.