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[–]MickIsBlue 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't blame you. When I hear some people say women aren't Rocket Science I say sure. Rocket Science is way easier
[–]Total_Obligation_371 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's all good, give up. The other guys who didn't will just get the women you want. No big deal.
[–]UnAverag-Joe 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Read Models by Mark Manson brother, don't give up
[–]Specialist-Ad-7800 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Are y'all bots. I see this every thread
[–]UnAverag-Joe 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It's a good book? Literally stopped taking advice from everything else and just focused on this and went from being friendzoned to fucking
[–]FaithInStrangers94 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Whilst it did have some valuable insights I think it made things feel more complicated not because it was full of sneaky little schemes like The game but because I would actually get more stuck in my head wondering whether I was being authentic and whether I was thinking with my dick or compromising my goals both long and short term for women etc
[–]UnAverag-Joe 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
What sneaky little schemes does it have? I've read the books several times and it prides itself on being as authentically yourself and also says, in the beginning, it says its the exact opposite of the game
[–]Plenty_Software4415 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro I read that book, your talking about Models: attract girls through honesty right? People must have low reading literacy skills honestly cuz that book is a straight fucking guideline on how to improve your life. If you can’t pick up advice from that book youre fucked tbh. Never had a book so direct and even give examples which I was able to correlate to my own fuckin life. It was crazy
[–]Repulsive-Fee393 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I read it too but I haven’t fucked any bitches since lol
[–]MickIsBlue 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it's got annoying the few hundred thousand times
[–]Connect-Pear-3859 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This I second!
[–]Horror-Perspective28 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You know something I've noticed....there sure seem to be a LOT of threads all over Reddit, Quora, etc. where people (guys and girls but mostly guys) wonder what they're doing wrong, why they can't get laid like their friends do, if they're ugly, and what they can do to change things. But if everyone is so successful at dating, then why are there so many guys, like me, who feel like losers? I'm not saying EVERYONE is lying, and I do notice my friends getting more looks from girls at the bars...I just think dating is difficult, and we should all admit: like, damn, this shit is HARD for like 95% of guys.
[–]Perfect_War5446 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea man. It’s a grind for sure
[–]Environmental_Cress2 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
of course you don’t get no girls. You’re a quitter
and all though they might’ve directly never seen this
It bleds through…
[–]simplyaguyonline 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah, don't give up dude. It's just not quite yet the time.
You deserve happiness. Remember that. This place should be a way for you to find ways to that.
It's not necessarily only about sex and dating, but also, growth and development.
So yeah, it's tough now. It will be difficult, and you'll get pushed down. You have to stand back up, move some weights, drink less beer, channel your inner future, and keep moving.
You have to find your passion. That thing that drives you. Find that, and it will become easier.
Do not give up.
Preciate it bro, I won’t give up
[–]Specialist-Ad-7800 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I also feel like giving up. This shit is ridiculously hard. Good looking or not. The apps especially
Yea man
[–]passengerpigeon20 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
If you really were giving up you would have just left - you are looking for one last reassurance that you have what it takes. What is your height, how would you rate your face out of 10 and what country do you live in? Additionally, what have you actually done so far in terms of approaching women?
Height: 5’10, Face: like an 8
[–]Perfect_War5446 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Country, USA
[–]passengerpigeon20 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You are short, but if you’re really an 8/10 that’s more than good enough to outweigh your lack of height. You never did say how many women you actually approached - you better not be giving up already if it’s some ridiculously low number!
[–]Perfect_War5446 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
5’9 is average here lol
[–]passengerpigeon20 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am aware, but the actual average doesn’t matter so much when girls almost universally want 6ft or over. But with your face they can waive that requirement if you really are 8/10. Since you still haven’t told me how much effort you’ve made so far I can only assume it is little or none, so you have no right to be giving up this early.
Ok
[–]Kiyushia 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do not give up, there are people that, even if you are/was the hottest/richest person on the world, you would still be vulnerable to some relationship crisis, so there's really no reason to give up
[–]bojack1011 3 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link
Yea i feel it. After i spent the night in jail from cold approaching too much. I decided to take a long break. Maybe i’ll pick it up again one of these dam days
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[–]bojack1011 3 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
I live in america so they got strict laws. Its been pretty bad ngl. I havent rlly approached since then. I might go and approach again but far away and at night clubs
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[–]bojack1011 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s a long story, and i don’t want to get banned or nothing. Lets just say cops aren’t lenient where i am at
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[–]bojack10111 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yea idk man. It’s already hard enough to approach. Now i got the police on my ass and got to pay fines. It’s just ridiculous
[–]recyclablebanthas 3 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, you're not doing pickup if you land in jail.
You're being socially awkward and need to seriously fix whatever you're doing.
Guys who know what they're doing aren't going to face jail time for simply starting conversations.
[–]bojack1011 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You obviously dont remember the rsd days bro
[–]recyclablebanthas 3 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I'd ask you to communicate more clearly.
I will say again, no one who knows what they're doing, spends time in jail for starting conversations with people. If you do, then something has gone wrong.
Julien Blanc got himself banned from a few countries for being an idiot. He didn't know what he was doing. Sometimes people with issues still have the sales skills to sell people on the idea of buying workshops from them, which is a shame.
[–]grindforthegold 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
hey man i gave up at one point too. then got tired of giving up. grew out a beard with midox. started making music. started finally getting matches. getting better at talking to girls. leading for dates… still getting flaked on a lot but i’m doing much better than before…
just know i thjnk everyone has a phase of giving up and then wanting to try again. it is natural. by the time this phase repeats once or twice you should’ve either had success or become old enough that the dating pool gets much smaller and women will get less picky until someone picks you. sorry it’s kind of a shitty reality but most people do eventually get married just the less successful you are the older you’ll have to get before it happens (absolute worse think 30-35?)
I’m 20
[–]grindforthegold 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
just keep going bro you’re so freaking young I got my first gf at 20. was a virgin before that. gave up at like 24 afterwards, then got back into it like at 26, got another gf and now i’ve been doing pretty well talking to a few girls, making music , getting flakes and ghosts but that’s part of the process. Just know it’s natural to feel down and when you try again you can often times succeed. But sometimes you just need a chill pill. At least for me, as i’ve aged, it’s become easier, because older girls 23+ are actually much more receptive
Don’t take my advice of 30+ as “omg i’m never gonna get it i’m gonna wait so long”, take it as a way to see that the road may be difficult but as you age it will get easier. Even in the worse case scenario (which i doubt will be the case you’re mad young) you WILL reach that age where you’ll find a proper wife because most of the best looking dudes are tied down and women are more realistic. More likely than not you’ll get success along the way, and as you age find a solid partner. No matter what things will get better as you age , increase income , meet new people , improve your skills.
Ik I hair don’t know really know where to start. I’m stuck between “Do I even want a girlfriend” or do I just want sex
[–]Plane_Reflection6053 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont be a quiter, quiters are losers
[–]jmugs668 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im afraid thats not an option sir. Youve already seen behind the curtain… giving up means for the rest of your life a part of you will know that you are settling when you could be doing much better.
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