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Acrobatic_Rock_ · 2022-08-17T17:50:01+00:00

She's trying to build friendship, so the next time she'll need a light bulb changed, she'll call you.

Alternatively, she's just lonely or a very chatty person. You're reading too much into this.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-17T20:34:30+00:00

What does it matter what she wants. The question is what do you want? What she wants is irrelevant at this point. If you want to have sex with her then you hit on her, ask her out, and escalate things physically, tell her she is attractive, and if she reacts well to that, kiss her…

In other words stop trying to find out her intentions and just focus on getting to your goal without giving a shit what her intentions are.

What matters are your intentions and see if she lets you make moves.

JCAmsterdam · 2022-08-17T20:05:16+00:00

I am going to tell you a secret, you know from all women world wide (yes we have meetings)

SOMETIMES WE JUST TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE TO BE NICE

please don’t assume that any women that is nice to you wants something from you. More often than not, we don’t.

dump_fool · 2022-08-17T22:59:40+00:00

Neighbors befriend themselves,they chit-chat, gossip, help each other with little things - it's a social norm.

Or is she just trying to get validation?

Stop viewing the word in these pua shit terms - it makes you really weird...

Sure-Wish3240 · 2022-08-17T18:13:13+00:00

I apologize if there is cultural misunderstandings. Older woman (30+y) do not behave like girls.

So ask yourself: do you desire her?

If you do not desire her, do nothing. She will notice it. Or she will kidnap and rape you.

If you do desire her, you should find the way to say so. A man should never be in doubt about how a woman he desires feels about him. Friendzone is worst than death and one of the most disloyal things a woman can do to a man.

At the right place and time, be direct : i think you should know that i like you and my feelings prevent me from being just your friend.

She will either open her legs or dismiss you on the spot. 2 ways to win, none to lose.

cobraCL · 2022-08-17T21:08:03+00:00

Sounds like neither attraction nor validation seeking. Some people are just friendly and bubbly, and nurturing good relationships with your neighbors is generally a very good thing to do.

chief_yETI · 2022-08-17T21:57:01+00:00

a lot of old people don't have many friends, so it really sounds like she's just trying to be friendly.

I mean, I guess you can bang her if you really wanted to and put in the effort to....but old people really do just like having regular human contact. Its not much deeper than that.

trist0n2 · 2022-08-17T23:53:04+00:00

The real question is, is she hot?

No-Emotion-7053 · 2022-08-18T02:31:26+00:00

lmao pua culture completely ruined this guy, can’t even relate on a human level

KameronKruzJr · 2022-08-17T17:53:25+00:00

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Alternative_Pin5925 · 2022-08-17T19:48:36+00:00

She’s just being friendly. If she’s single start flirting/teasing her

RenegadeBS · 2022-08-17T20:05:00+00:00

Yes. Go outside in a tank top and do something in the yard closer to her house that makes you sweat. When she comes out to chat with you, if she doesn't offer you a water, ask for one. Follow her in to get it. As you stand in her kitchen, enjoying you water, you can joke that you're all sweaty and probably stink. "I can't wait to get in the shower!"

Rheastar · 2022-08-17T22:52:08+00:00

How old are you? If you’re a teenager then she may be a predator.

idunnowutobelieve · 2022-08-18T01:27:08+00:00

Old wisdom says if you feel like she likes you then there is a way for you having more. Now what you’re seeing doesn’t mean she’s into you but it’s clear sign that you’ve got your chances. Maybe try a few moves = joke with a sexual content, or make a joke about how she could come to your place … see how she reacts, could be of great help

jacklongstraw · 2022-08-17T23:07:09+00:00

Women don’t talk to men just for the sake of it. There is something she wants from you.

BeyonceAsare · 2022-08-17T19:26:49+00:00

I wouldn’t talk to a guy or even look at him if I didn’t find them attractive in some way. You should try having more conversations with her and see where it goes. If she found you disgusting or hideous I highly doubt she would even give you the time of day.

EstablishmentLimp477 · 2022-08-17T17:55:09+00:00

Best way to see is by flirting like you would do with any other women. And by flirting I don't mean "Hey your beautiful" that's hitting on someone. Flirting is trying to attract someone with out any serious intentions. Aka plausible deniability that your actually seriously hitting on them.

Example:

He -I wanna be with the girl, I love but ,WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HER?

She - Say “will you be my princess” it's effective

He - will you be my princess?

She - yes

He - Cool!! , It works. I WILL SAY TO HER.

Now that's a stiff example good flirting is natural and flows well in the convo. If she flirts back enough times that's a sign there could be something there. After a month or two if you got aforementioned green lights ask her out for coffee and make a move from there.

KeyGrapefruit1777 · 2022-08-17T20:00:58+00:00

Very vague!

Calamity__Bane · 2022-08-17T20:14:06+00:00

This isn’t enough information to give you an answer. She could be interested, but she could also just be friendly and neighborly. The actual answer is physical, not just whether she talks to you.

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