How can I (19m) go about improving my status? [recovered]

C0333 · 2022-07-23T21:14:58+00:00

Become interesting and rich

Kimhooligan · 2022-07-23T21:52:06+00:00

Well, choose a career where you get a high salary. It's a big sacrifice, because you won't have a lot of time to do a lot of other stuff.

Work on your body, which also requires a lot of time.

Find a lot of things that interest you that would hopefully attract a lot of people. Things like hosting parties at your place, going to expensive places, doing a lot of cool activities.

But above all, post everything on social media.

And at the end of the day, you'll realize that you're "balling out," but also that your life doesn't have any real purpose or true fulfillment. And that there's an emptiness to your life that you can't really explain but try to fill in with useless shit.

Have a nice life, buddy.

Yarmanite · 2022-07-23T20:53:33+00:00

Women want what other women have. Preselection is what I'm talking about

RegretsNothing1 · 2022-07-23T19:01:47+00:00

lol I love this subreddit. A lot of gold like this one every single day.

Erbium-Oxide · 2022-07-23T21:17:21+00:00

I feel you.

Even worse since I’m born to money and have shit to live up to.

MILFinurhood · 2022-07-23T22:38:44+00:00

Those men are rich and famous. The women they attract only want their money. Is that who you want surrounding you? Why not work on become charismatic and attracting women who fancy your personality.

nio5021 · 2022-07-23T22:37:51+00:00

become a doctor

knueverl17 · 2022-07-23T23:48:53+00:00

Turn 30 and have money.

150420throwaway · 2022-07-24T07:41:02+00:00

Make me laugh and sad at the same time when I see the same retarded comments I’ve seen asking the same question few years back, and as a 19-20 year old who really needed some guidance and was not confident at all - you fucking morons really need to either learn to contribute something useful and quit trying to be a comedian on Reddit.

OP I can’t exactly say what to do to do that as I’m working on that myself, but focus on working on your confidence, appearance and intelligence - work out, read books. Research around the topics you’re interested in.

Right now my (potentially) last hurdle is just posting pics and using dating apps, as that’s quite likely the only way I’ll find a decent number of women to talk to.

Like somebody else mentioned - preselection. I started going to a hobby with one girl, who I did try to hit it off with and probably had a chance but blew it and she got a different guy, so she ‘suddenly’ stopped coming, and it’s harder to break the ice with new people who come into the class, but thankfully the other people I’ve met before when she was still coming are still there, so that ‘status’ remains to an extent.

It’s an odd one, but a man is judged by the woman he can bring with him, but it shouldn’t be your primary focus, as in, “I’m looking for a woman so she can raise my social status”, that’s something I noticed the dumb bitches do but with men.

I’m trying to find some answers for my own questions, just keep asking them, we’ll mostly get some useless comments but a few of them will come across and probably be the stepping stone we neededZ

SnoaH_ · 2022-07-23T23:17:54+00:00

Become a scammer. All they got is free time, and cash to spend on shit that doesn’t matter since they can’t prove it to the IRS 😂😂

MountainGoatSC · 2022-07-24T00:44:20+00:00

Better start rapping

Polsoka · 2022-07-24T05:18:41+00:00

A fun one I did was befriend the entire bar and wait staff at a local restaurant/bar. I then took a couple of dates there, and interacted with them as I usually would. I can't guarantee it helped, but it sure as shit didn't hinder.

Amikatey · 2022-07-24T07:24:02+00:00

It's not about being rich. It's more on the being interesting side + their is a way you have to be thinking. I can't write it on paper.

incognito3107 · 2022-07-24T07:30:32+00:00

Well, most of the time you should be popular among the girls and respected by guys. By being extremely handsome, extremely smart, rich, successful in sports, social with other high status people, cool, strong etc. etc. Just be the best around.

rushopolisOF · 2022-07-24T13:06:22+00:00

Are you in school? If so, become an athlete. If not, still still become an athlete. You can also pick up a sales job which allows you to talk to a lot of women and just make an effort to let them know you're an athlete.

Classy-Glassy · 2022-07-24T15:12:17+00:00

Find your Ikigai

This will ensure you find your purpose and then the riches and bitches will come.

hagakurejunkie · 2022-07-25T00:16:06+00:00

Become someone worth respecting. And you’re 19, you don’t know shit yet. I didn’t know shit at 19, or 25, or even 30.

What can you do that should be respected? Do you fix cars? Can you build furniture, do you wake up at 5am everyday? Can you do anything well that the average person cannot?

anou142 · 2022-07-25T01:40:41+00:00

It has nothing to do with money most young girls don’t care about money they care about having fun… you are not supposed to be rich at 19.. if you want to increase ur statues become confident and in turn you will have social proof because u will have friends who like you and want to be around you.

Title	How can I (19m) go about improving my status? [recovered]
Author	JSnake5 [recovered]
Upvotes	26
Comments	42
Date	July 23, 2022 6:48 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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