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ajayt365 · 2022-05-17T22:52:18+00:00

Same bro same I get 2-3 matches a day and Idk what tf should I say. So many women and it gets tiring

theosamabahama · 2022-05-18T03:04:10+00:00

Aside from what others already said, I would like to add that you shouldn't spend more than 5 minutes thinking of what to say.

I used to procrastinate texting the girl because I hadn't thought of the perfect message yet. And hours or days would pass, sometimes I would even forget about messaging her. When in fact I should have just said anything, better than saying nothing right ?

Don't stress about it. Online dating is a numbers game more than anything. Try to think of something casual and funny. If you can't come up with anything in 5 minutes, just say anything and move on.

Educational_Soup8845 · 2022-05-18T14:33:34+00:00

I think most women just don't want to meet up. Not to be arrogant but I'm literally top 5% and I just can't get girls to meet up. I don't have a social life but I can pick up girls at the gym no problem which tells me the problem is the apps not us

bobyd · 2022-05-17T21:27:34+00:00

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Extra-Boysenberry · 2022-05-17T22:58:58+00:00

I usually just stay kinda witty and then arrange a coffee date or something relatively quickly.

burncushlikewood · 2022-05-18T00:03:12+00:00

Yea tinder is very location dependent, for me it never worked, I suggest doing some approaches, day game/night game you'll have more success than dating apps like tinder. If you need some tips on how to approach women in clubs watch this video, it's very long however it's really good even if you just watch like 20 minutes. https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE

Bingo_is_the_man · 2022-05-18T05:22:20+00:00

Grill them about where they went to school and ask for a transcript

frenchiveruti · 2022-05-18T15:02:59+00:00

My advice, drop tinder unless you're INSANELY attractive. Beyond that, tinder it's an unhealthy place to be

Romantic_Adventurer · 2022-05-17T21:14:11+00:00

While texting, it is always different, Using apps and social media to find people should be only to create face-to-face interactions. Get people to see you effective immediately, be it a walk in the park, a coffee, get some hot dogs, whatever. People who want to meet people, they always want to meet people. Read that again.

So if you find someone and they want to meet people, if you tell them to meet you, they will want to meet you. That is because they actually want to meet people. That is what you are looking for.

Remember, tinder is a BUSINESS that makes money from people seeing ads and buying their premium service. The best way to meet people is in your real world, your day to day life.

That person who you buy coffee from, or that person in the restaurant, or that person you found interesting at a social gathering.

Use the apps but also, use facebook, use instagram, use all medias to talk to people. just say Hi and keep talking.

It is not about 'what do i say?', it is actually about 'who is the person that will give me quality time?'

Just like in sales, if you give up after 2-3 'no's' that you receive, you can die poor. Warren Buffet says you need to receive 99 no's, after you can receive the yes

check out this video

https://youtu.be/_WpG4j-o9L0

Emmy-bby · 2022-05-17T20:20:08+00:00

How do you open? Something funny and charming like a cheesy pickup line? Bc that’s good women love that. Ask her about shit you see in her profile, it says she likes hiking? Ask her where she likes hiking at. She should be asking you questions too if she’s into you.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-05-18T04:47:40+00:00

There’s a book called “The Game” by Neill Strauss. Read it. The book will explain through stories what behaviors are sexually attractive to women. You can extrapolate that on to sending messages.

TheCollector228 · 2022-05-17T21:41:43+00:00

How tall are you

alexmaycovid · 2022-05-18T03:13:17+00:00

I talk a bit and if I see that she's interested I ask her out.

SaigonNoseBiter · 2022-05-18T04:13:02+00:00

You should be looking to meet up as soon as possible in the interaction.

cxpcman · 2022-05-18T10:49:28+00:00

Say something stupid, and turn the conversation sexual right away., that seem to work good. Avoid instagramers just want followers

yoitsappy · 2022-05-18T17:43:38+00:00

Talking is easy. Getting matches is the problem

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