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revente · 2022-05-16T12:23:54+00:00

It's a numbers game. Keep approaching until you meet some who think that you're perfect for them.

MrBadestass · 2022-05-16T12:07:36+00:00

Grow a beard. That’s what helped me. But now i look 10 years older and landed a 30 yo lol

incognito3107 · 2022-05-16T13:50:02+00:00

Well, many women crave young blood. Maybe your height/body type was the major issue? Firstly try to not dress or behave like a kid, and then maybe hit some gym to get more "adult" body? Keep searching for girls that actually fancy your style.

yourlittleman01 · 2022-05-16T16:01:50+00:00

Bro look young is an advantage, i am 21 but i look like 40s

daring_innovator · 2022-05-16T14:53:22+00:00

Simple: Workout get muscles it’ll increase your testosterone and make you look older, work & get money, get a nice haircut, dress business casual or whatever you like but more “mature” style, talk with more authority. Stand up straight & make eye contact. Anywhere you go socialize with as many women as possible not on purpose but by accident. Act more mature than your age & talk about intelligent conversations, state your opinion about something & be assertive. Manage well your time, money & attention it shows you have a good sense of responsibility.

Don’t fool around or dress like a teenager or hang around losers. Don’t laugh too much because you’ll look like clown. Have life goals and be on top of your game, be responsible for everything. Be respectful of yourself, carry yourself with esteem. Walk like you have business to attend to & with some swagger to it. Look mature, behave mature & through experience you’ll become more mature. Get some nice colognes that communicate freshness, masculinity & sophistication, musky, alluring & sexiness. It’s really about how you carry yourself everyday & how you perceive yourself will reflect with the girls you interact with.

VorpalPaperclip · 2022-05-16T14:19:36+00:00

Same problem(?) here mate, I’m late 40s and look mid 30s. People always jaw drop when I tell them my age. I can barely grow a beard, just not a hairy guy… This become useful when you are older because women in their 20s want guys that are in their 30s. When you’re 45 and your mates look 65, this will be a good thing!

Just keep eating healthy and stay out if the sun!

willgo-waggins · 2022-05-16T17:21:42+00:00

Lol I don’t.

But then I’m 51 and look far younger.

You can compare in a sense. The majority of women my age who look good and young and are fit (my requirements) are usually looking to cougar and grab a younger guy. Online I don’t lie about my age so they will usually not match. But IRL it gets me cracked up how many come on hardcore then when they find out my age get weird and back off. Just had this three nights ago with a 47 year old. We had a great banter and groove. Nonissues and the sexual tension was so thick you could cut through it. Then she asks my age. Then proceeds to tell me that she doesn’t want a relationship or to settle down (neither do I, I was actually just kind of keeping in practice while my friends were finishing their drinks). She only wants to play casual. She has “a bunch” of young guys in her rotation ( I have a woman friend a couple years older than me that while she looks good is obviously in her fifties who says this same thing and it’s bull) and that I have to “be ok” with that and her crazy work schedule.

All this time I’m laughing my ass off. In my mind I’m thinking:

I have a beautiful 33 year old woman that I am in an emotion based situation-ship that we are open and can see other people casually and we sleep together regularly.
I have a date with a great looking forty year old tomorrow for dinner who only wants casual and fun
I have another set up for next weekend with a cute 29 year old that is “really starting to like me” and also is wanting to ease into things and it be serious just yet.

So there you are. I’d look for women older than you that are looking to “teach” a younger guy or something like that. The rest will come around on its own.

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-05-16T14:45:31+00:00

Your in your head and possibly putting girls on a pedestal. Learn how to self amuse and game yourself and things like this won't matter anymore.

The focus is on yourself and the fun you can generate from within as you interact with women. Once you get into the moment your thinking mind shuts off and you don't care about age, appearance, what the girls think, etc... Then you can just free flow with no restrictions and things like how young you look have no meaning. People are too caught up in the moment for it to matter.

Elbynerual · 2022-05-16T15:36:45+00:00

Have you tried facial hair?

Acid_In_My_Eyes · 2022-05-16T18:08:54+00:00

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ronathrow · 2022-05-16T18:13:16+00:00

Looking young is a curse and a blessing.

For what it's worth my baby face didn't really grow into something most women found attractive until I hit my 30s.

After that though things definitely changed.

Allaiyah · 2022-05-16T20:25:06+00:00

Watch some YouTube channels.

I recommend Honest Signalz, Charisma on Command, and Todd V Dating

drunkasaurusrex · 2022-05-16T21:46:00+00:00

Work out and pack on muscle

PHVEDO · 2022-05-16T21:48:10+00:00

become a pedophile- easy peasy

PHVEDO · 2022-05-16T22:31:24+00:00

just do coke for a couple of months and you will look ur age in no time, mby even older

brianbria · 2022-05-17T07:46:23+00:00

Just remember guys can get with girls older than them too. There is even a term for the girls who pursue younger men - cougars. So even if girls think you are younger than you are it isn't a problem unless you make it one. You may enjoy your youthful appearance later on too when you want to pickup younger women.

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