If a woman says shes engaged, do you give her your number anyway or you just leave it be?

Therocksays2020 · 2022-04-05T15:48:26+00:00

It shows you don’t understand boundaries. No I do not

throwawayaccount068 · 2022-04-05T15:47:41+00:00

If you have shit values by all means.

JetPillar · 2022-04-05T16:09:51+00:00

By this logic you should also be giving married people your number because sometimes marriages don’t really go through

TheFifthEspada679 · 2022-04-05T16:38:46+00:00

How would you feel about someone hitting on your fiancé? Not good for your real life karma. Hunt elsewhere and feel good about yourself for not fucking up someone’s relationship

Sandvicheater · 2022-04-05T16:43:19+00:00

She's either: A) Truly engaged and you should drop it

B) Not engaged and wants to reject gently so still drop it

DependentAd1504 · 2022-04-05T16:44:33+00:00

Even if she's looking for casual or something after the engagement, then as well you should avoid these kind of encounters. Because imagine being the guy that she's engaged with and how would you feel about the she'll hookup with.

Lots of fish in the sea... Avoid already engaged girls ( that's how you'll also have the pride and also the moral high ground in your own eyes, that shit reflect on personality)

ThePenTester88 · 2022-04-05T17:01:39+00:00

If she asks for yours, then I see no problem giving it to her because what she does with it is all on her. Maybe she is engaged but is planning on calling it off or they might even be in an open relationship..

SpookyKG · 2022-04-05T15:51:43+00:00

lol 'give her your number'

already fuckin up, not surprised your fuckups also have DEPTH

jenny4life · 2022-04-05T15:55:05+00:00

An old saying from a book that has gotten me through a lot of situations of dilemma:

“some will, some won’t, so what next…”

I interpreted it as never hurts to try, The worst they can say is no to your approach, no big deal, keep going…

Hope that helps:)

Edit: …you guys make me laugh with your down votes:). Thank you for taking time to read my opinion.

ApeXpredatooR45 · 2022-04-05T16:09:16+00:00

DO AS U FEEL THERE IN THE MOMENT ,THOUGH ITS A BIT RISKY, AND SHE BETTER BE WORTH IT

parodg15 · 2022-04-05T16:37:13+00:00

Leave it be

spicy_simba · 2022-04-05T17:01:41+00:00

Leave it be, stay away from can of worms and do no harm.

Save your number for available single people who you might think are interested.

rwalsh138 · 2022-04-05T17:02:17+00:00

If she wants to bang someone, she's going to do it. Whether it's you, or some other lucky schlub. Give her the number if she asks for it, it's not your problem.

LeverageSynergies · 2022-04-05T17:04:23+00:00

Be the change you want to see. Absolutely let it go.

Leroythedroid · 2022-04-05T17:07:25+00:00

disengage

opqjuag · 2022-04-05T17:24:05+00:00

How to read a cue 101

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-04-05T17:51:54+00:00

I'm not going to bash you because there is a lot of toxic content saying you can pull girls with bfs or whatever which I guess is true.

But it shows you're a scumbag and if you have a small community, word will get around. Not everyone lives in a million person populated city

You say "oh when you see him later make sure to tell him he's a lucky guy"

You're confident, you're flirty and you are socially competent. You're not afraid to compliment your "competition" let's say, while still giving an off hand compliment to the chick.

Then just leave. She'll remember you if her status changes

But you got more important things to do than chase taken women

NewspaperNo4764 · 2022-04-05T18:46:53+00:00

So you are asking, is it okay if you help ruin a relationship? Exhibit A when people say there are no such things as stupid questions. This is so immature and morally wrong.

Title	If a woman says shes engaged, do you give her your number anyway or you just leave it be?
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Date	April 5, 2022 3:46 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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