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willgo-waggins · 2022-02-28T00:24:08+00:00

Text less. Maybe call.

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-02-28T00:33:37+00:00

There is such a thing as over communicating. It would be like people constantly being on the phone together, there's only so much to talk about. I would save some to be more engaging when I'm face to face. We have a couple, who both work here. They work different shifts, but both of them spend their entire breaks and lunches talking to each other on the phone. Idk how they do it. My wife and I most generally exchange 3 texts when I'm at work.

Sensitive_Party_7100 · 2022-02-28T00:22:45+00:00

From my experience. She lost interest and might be talking to other guy (or guys), it's the reality of dating now. "She's not yours, it's just your turn" Richard Cooper.

By the way, Rich cooper has a video on this subject on YouTube. Look for Entrepreneurs in cars, you can learn a lot about dating from him. Cheers brother, you're the prize, not her.

mattgk39 · 2022-02-28T01:18:13+00:00

Maybe she’s just not that into texting? If she’s not flaking or bailing on you, and she’s into you and shows strong interest in person, then what’s the problem? Try setting up times to facetime. Facetiming is so much better. I honestly prefer to facetime than text when I know a girl a bit better. Also maybe you’re texting her way too much? You don’t need to be in contact with her all day every day.

Important-Quote9544 · 2022-02-28T01:07:35+00:00

if she is pulling back then you have to do the same.

FreeNicky95 · 2022-02-28T13:52:15+00:00

Well I feel like I should update everyone. Thanks for all the advice. It is over and I feel as though we need to take a lesson from everything. Game is real. It works and it’s laws are true. She was losing interest and not ready for a relationship after being recently single and felt overwhelmed. I am hurt, but it was stupid of me to think It would be different. All girls are the same fellas. I’ll stick to game and keep my feelings aside moving forward. I’m tired of being hurt :/

KingWolf7070 · 2022-02-28T02:01:16+00:00

Some people just don't communicate well through text. It really is that simple. Not sure why this is so confusing to people. And it's the same for other ways to communicate. Some don't like talking on the phone. Some don't like video calls. People just have different styles.

Kawi9834 · 2022-02-28T03:21:37+00:00

Text/call to set dates. That’s it. Engage her in person, not through texts

ImAAllrightGuy · 2022-02-28T08:13:12+00:00

connections aren’t built through text rather its done in person.

Don’t waste your time trying to “connect” through text, or worse via a DM. You have to realize a women has 100 guys trying to slide in her text, dms every single day.

In person - Build deeper emotional connection
Text - Keep it short and sweet (Logistics, keep her interested with interesting “Updates” and banters)

If you are texting her about what you did in your day, and regular stuff that normal people do then you are doing it wrong.

Everyone goes through the same convo. with their friends, co-workers and literally everyone. They don’t need another person to have that same exact conversation.

Be that ”interesting” guy that she wants to meet up with again rather than another dude.

Edit: Fix format

spicy_simba · 2022-02-28T08:53:24+00:00

Hey there buddy,

This is how you get your freedom :

Ask her

If she likes you, she will still like you after, if not then you will stop wondering about, and everything will be clear

2022-02-28T10:06:34+00:00

Yeah minimise texting maximise meeting up then. If you feel her being flaky talk to other girls

Efficient-Evening911 · 2022-02-28T10:57:18+00:00

I have the same issue some times she is really enthousiast sometimes she repond me 24h after or dry message me tryed to call her but it was late night and she fell asleep i dont want to call her again to not look too pushy ...

Pimp_juice0001 · 2022-02-28T11:25:10+00:00

She is losing interest bro ...make her pregnant

mrbossman123 · 2022-02-28T16:21:03+00:00

Don’t have conversations over text. Use texting to send date confirmations, location, and things that you can’t do on a call. And even calling, try not to spend more than about 5-10 minutes on a call (unless it’s extreme circumstances like she’s crying about something).

Your goal is to make sure she stays excited to see you in person because that’s where her feelings develop the most by far. Remember that

BackFlashy2939 · 2022-02-28T19:41:59+00:00

Best to have other things that peak your interest during your non texting or just in-between the conversation in general

Sup3rHD · 2022-02-28T20:38:06+00:00

Dont call, dont facetime, dont text

Let her reach out to you
Text back later, after hours,

Be busy, talk to other girls

bandsupjay · 2022-02-28T22:25:57+00:00

Depends. Did u fuck? And how many times. Dont take it personal and dont be needy. Find other girls and keep this one on the side who cares what she does. Someone said text less and call more. Thats a good idea whenever u get the chance to. Just do facetimes and link up whenever

Nofapgeneral77 · 2022-03-01T05:49:25+00:00

Im with my gf for 3 years, after half a year we text only when we need to agree on our plans or whatever. Just small talk. U dont need to be in contact all the time. Important is face to face.

2022-03-01T08:25:15+00:00

Text less, I like telling them that I don't like texting.. sometimes some people don't actually like texting and it's also kinda a turn off if you do it too much..

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