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islandgyalislandgyal · 2022-01-23T02:56:13+00:00

i would think her approaching you then giving her number is a good sign. i say go for it

Minute-Lie-2287 · 2022-01-23T04:27:53+00:00

Ffs just think of a date and ask...she gave you every green light a girl can be reasonably expected to give.

Don't try to make it friends, make your intentions clear from the start.

If we're splitting hairs I'd probably call if you can manage to project confidence in a phone call.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-01-23T03:12:13+00:00

Even on dating apps, you can never be 💯 sure she's single, so you just have to learn to live with the uncertainty.
There's only on way to ask: by asking. I like to use an open-ended question such as, "We should ____. How's your schedule looking?" If she's interested, she'll tell you when her next opportunity is. If she's not, you'll get some vague excuse. If you get vague excuses a few times in a row, you'll know to quit wasting your time on her.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-23T07:56:42+00:00

Men are literally the dumbest animal to ever roam this earth.

MikeAlphaGolf · 2022-01-23T04:52:16+00:00

She’s given you her number and agreed to hang out. So do that.

Indian_Cap · 2022-01-23T04:28:00+00:00

You are golden. Go for it.

BonsaiDiver · 2022-01-23T08:25:45+00:00

Ask her out, the worst that can happen is that she says "no." Just be sure to protect your heart and don't fall in "love" with her until you are sure about her.

Good Luck.

Sleuth65 · 2022-01-23T07:48:03+00:00

What part of she approached you, she gave you her number and she agreed you should hang out makes you think she isn’t interested enough? You’re trying to define a line between “hanging out” and dating instead of seeing the light. This great situation literally fell into your lap and you’re confused because it didn’t happen through an app? Just go out and see where things lead.

oreopimp · 2022-01-23T06:11:52+00:00

If you wanna check whether she is single or not just politely ask her amidst the conversation that Is she seeing someone at the moment? You'll get the answer and if she isn't with someone else just ask her out for a coffee, drinks or a small stroll down the city.

Pitchiker · 2022-01-23T07:10:19+00:00

Just go for it :) As already mentioned, she approached you first so she is definitely interested in you !!!

modernsaiyan · 2022-01-23T09:26:05+00:00

Bro just ask her to join you for casual dinner, and go for a drink after. Doesn’t really matter whether you label it as a date or not, your only concern is whether you two get along.

After you’ve both got some alcohol in your system, you can ask if she’s seeing anyone atm, how long it’s been since her last relationship etc

britishgent60 · 2022-01-23T11:54:52+00:00

Just a simple “hey I’m free from (insert time) this week, let me know if you want to go out for dinner or do something in the day time”. It’s clear she has good intentions otherwise she wouldn’t have given you her number. But giving her a day date or an evening date leaves no pressure from her side.

badman20129928 · 2022-01-23T15:41:43+00:00

Geezer she approached you. She is clearly interested. Go and secure the bag .

Tankerdood · 2022-01-23T15:54:58+00:00

Ask her out to go do something SHE enjoys.

thebrownmancometh · 2022-01-23T16:22:01+00:00

Bruh the third base coach is waving you around, standing

yuseek17 · 2022-01-23T16:29:35+00:00

Dude just ask her for lunch after the gym. Or whatever. Arrange to workout the same time on a day and then after that go for a bite to eat.

Sensitive-Permit-877 · 2022-01-23T17:53:17+00:00

If she gave you her number and talked with her she wants to go out with you on a date. Do not chat alot on the phone. Your goal is to only give your currency (time ) in person. High value men dont text all day. They setup dates and thats that. So best way make a plan like heres an example. Hey on thursday meet me at this place at 3pm. Wear something comfortable like a hoody its a bit cold and comfortable shoes. Also how do you like your coffee? See you at thursday. I laid out a plan but didnt reveal what we are doing. She will be thinking about thursday all week she will be showing her friends they will all make up scenarios in their heads. She will be constantly thinking about you

Flyleaf531 · 2022-01-23T20:43:44+00:00

Sounds like u dont need any help man It seems like she pushed towards it

If you still struggle i have a classic Tell her you have been craving some random food of your choice and ask if she would like to join

higordemenezes · 2022-01-23T22:52:07+00:00

I girl approaches you, starts conversation, gives you her number, agrees on hanging out sometime soon and you still don’t know if she’s interested?! Just go for it bro

facinateion · 2022-01-29T21:25:15+00:00

Update - we went out and got dessert and ended up talking for about 4 hours. Convo started light and progressed to deeper things like past relationships, personality etc. She was upfront and said she hated texting but asked if I’d be down to do a home dinner together later in the week. Hoping to follow up for a second date - wish me luck!

No_Raspberry3670 · 2022-01-23T03:34:37+00:00

Don’t ask her over text imo, you don’t need to over text her/get to know her super well over text since she goes to the same gym as you, if you two go alot you’ll see each other and you’ll have the rapport to easily approach and start talking to her in person, ask her to hang out at the end of your convo w her at the gym.

This does 2 things: 1. Establishes non needyness bc she’ll see you aren’t super overly eager to text her 2. Allows you to easily and low risk approach her at the gym (and for her to approach you again!) and show her who you are man to woman in person, so you can use all that body language and vocal tonality and whatnot. And asking her out in person will do a better job of showing her you got a pair of nuts between your legs than doing it over text

Aggravating_Yam_6333 · 2022-01-24T17:41:30+00:00

Are you a coffee or drinks person? Is a great Segway Goodluck

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