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Domin8u315 · 2022-01-11T20:52:51+00:00

Take your shot because they probably think that you wouldn’t be into them though besides just trying to get a piece of ass, you’re already stating that you don’t think you will have much in common with them. I will say this, I could be described as the Latina type you mentioned and I graduated with honors from high school and college as well as played the French horn, so don’t judge a book by its cover.

Therocksays2020 · 2022-01-11T20:47:05+00:00

You said it best you need to be yourself if a woman wants a hip hop dude and you’re not it then you’re not compatible end of story. There are plenty of black women who like brown guys. My sister is married to one and he’s a comic book nerd. But you just need to find one who likes you.

Dressing well and having a good physique will help

MA_CA_NV_CA · 2022-01-11T21:26:30+00:00

Shoot your shots. If your fundamentals are on point you’ll get your share.

I would just try to learn a little bit about their world though. Like if they’re massive hip hop fans knowing a little bit about it will help you in conversations.

wj2smooth · 2022-01-11T21:49:39+00:00

My guy, just do some research on systemic and systematic racism and how it impacts black and brown communities. Women of color LOVES someone who can stand up for them and will use their privilege to promote a safe space for them. Try reading books like “the color of law” and “the new Jim Crow”… good luck my friend

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-01-11T21:12:10+00:00

It’s not about the look, it’s about the vive, and how you make them feel. You just have to behave masculine and charming.

5_7pickup · 2022-01-11T21:26:42+00:00

Why do you want to date someone who participates in a culture that you have no interest in?

thelambofdeth · 2022-01-12T00:39:22+00:00

Im an ultra pale man with red hair and I have a very high success rate matching with black and hispanic girls on dating apps, I match with almost every one if I swipe right as opposed to maybe less than 5% normally. Not interested in hip hop culture at all and listen to neutral milk hotel so very white music taste. The reason they match with me I believe is because I'm just the complete opposite of the kind of person they'd normally meet in their day to day life, they're attracted by how milquetoast and comically white I am basically, so maybe try leaning into that instead of towards them.

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-01-12T00:40:50+00:00

For some reason I have more success with people from other ethnicities. I've always found them more interesting, since I was a kid.

Ashtothelight · 2022-01-12T02:20:31+00:00

Hi I'm mixed. Black and Jewish

I think on some level you have to embrace the culture of the type of girl you want to attract. I'm a big nerd, but I also collect sneakers and generally dress in a way that corresponds with the women I like. My style is a bit modern, but I would say it will be helpful to Taylor your style to skew towards the women you're interested in. Personally, I like to wear flannels/polos and a nice pair of Jordans or something like that. Clothing conveys a bit of information about the social world you come from. If you're completely alien to them, it could be that they feel too much friction to take your advances seriously.

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2022-01-11T20:56:15+00:00

Everyone has their own personal tastes and preferences and that’s okay, so I’d just try to interact on an individual basis with the ones you find attractive and see where it goes. Let them get to see you as an individual and don’t worry so much about what their preferred type of guy may or may not be.

Fun_Current_4900 · 2022-01-11T23:00:24+00:00

I agree with all the above answers but will just add that one word, confidence. Show them you are interested in them, their beauty, v and getting to know them but step to them with confidence, not pushy.

tes_befil · 2022-01-11T23:12:57+00:00

Its all about just shooting your shot. If you dress nicely that'll help but showing you're interested and buying them a drink or something will bring you a long way. They're just like any other person at the end of the day they'll jump in some comfy ass clothes and relax at home.

redsealsparky · 2022-01-12T00:07:05+00:00

Not exactly as you described but I moved to the cayman Islands and was swimming in these kinds of girls. I guess for starters you have to put yourself in places where you'll cross paths with these people.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-12T06:29:19+00:00

Just FYI, a lot of these girls like more macho guys, so you have to work on your dominance. Walk around like you own the place and be super focused on what you want. Ie expect that the woman will want to get on your page and not the other way around. To achieve this focus on what you want and only on what you want.

2022-01-12T23:00:51+00:00

maybe you should try to see them as a person and not an object or racist fetisch :)

DressProfessional864 · 2022-01-31T05:37:57+00:00

I seem to attract a lot of black women on dating apps. For reference I’m a 5’11 Icelandic/Romanian and I power lift.

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