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2021-11-14T05:49:46+00:00

Most definitely breaking bro code. Wether she wants you or not, it really comes down to how much you respect your friend & how much you value the friendship. If we wouldn’t do it to you, you probably shouldn’t do it to him. If he’s a good friend, don’t do it man. Girls will come. Good friends are rare.

devilkingx2 · 2021-11-14T06:03:23+00:00

There's a possibility she doesn't even want you and is just trying to get back at him by flirting with you.

But bros before hoes, unless this guy is a shitty friend or this girl is the best girl in the world, don't do it.

arezzes · 2021-11-14T05:27:39+00:00

It’s definitely breaking bro code. If you don’t care about the friendship then by all means but at least have a talk with him about it and get more on his opinion

themostgianthorse · 2021-11-14T05:59:25+00:00

Almost 4 billion women in the world.

dark_helmt8 · 2021-11-14T06:35:50+00:00

Lol, why do you think she wants to fuck? Comon man, it's for revenge/retaliation/spite and/or the knowledge that she ruins your friendship with him.

If you do it, word will definitely spread and soon no one who knows you will really trust you.

This is why bro code exists, for psycho trash-ass snatch. If I were you, let him know she came on to you, that you didn't take the bait, and told her to f-off.

letmereaddamnit · 2021-11-14T07:18:40+00:00

How would you feel if he railed your ex? I knew a guy who had a twin brother, and they were literally best friends too. The one that I knew hooked up with his twins ex and that absolutely destroyed their relationship. His brother moved out and as far as I know they haven't spoken since. Although I haven't spoken to him in like 6 months it was around a 1 year period that they hadn't spoken at that point.

It absolutely breaks the bro code. There's nothing worse than having someone you trust betray you like that, so I suggest you rub one out and then think about it.

ericburnham · 2021-11-14T07:50:45+00:00

I genuinely don't understand why anyone would think this would be okay, would you not feel betrayed and angry if a friend would do this to your ex?

Apprehensive_Fuel_22 · 2021-11-14T05:59:37+00:00

100% broke the unwritten bro code, you fuckin up, get your shit together , your welcome🤙🏾

2021-11-14T08:50:32+00:00

Don’t sleep with a friends ex. She probably don’t even like you just wants to make him jealous.

Also girls come and go but a good friend will stick by you. Don’t ruin that. Bros before hoes my man.

ChoppedBelAir · 2021-11-14T05:49:05+00:00

While the bro code isn't an actual thing that exists, it's pretty uncouth to hook up with someone who left some emotional scar on someone you are supposed to be friends with. If its just an ex that they don't still have feelings for then it's kind of whatever but if it's someone that dumped them and they're not really over it then it's kind of a dick move that shows a lack of integrity on your part.

2021-11-14T06:22:30+00:00

If your friends cares and you care about your friend - then don’t. If he didn’t care it’d be different.

YouKnowWhyImHere111 · 2021-11-14T08:11:29+00:00

I’m almost 99% sure you’re still going to based on the fact you’re even asking. Your decision and your life but it just shows you’re not a solid individual. It’d be much different if it was a girl he just liked but had no history with. But if you fuck your friend’s ex, you’re just not a solid friend. I most definitely wouldn’t wanna be homies with someone willing to do that. If he gave you the go ahead then by all means, but since he demonstrated otherwise, if you still choose to, I hope he drops you as a friend. That temporary high you get from the pussy will most definitely not be worth it. I’ve been in the same situation with a friend’s ex. But I put myself in his shoes and realized it wasn’t worth it. Be a standup friend or be a dickhead, the choice is yours

Entire-Part1066 · 2021-11-14T06:38:04+00:00

Definitely breaking the bro code. Women are snakes, she only wants to fuck you to cause drama and out of spite. Ghost that witch.

insane__knight · 2021-11-14T09:12:25+00:00

If you have to think about this, you're not a very good friend.

warlocklevel69 · 2021-11-14T09:21:19+00:00

If you had to ask a Reddit group for their opinion on this, I think you already know the answer deep in your heart.

I'm sure the sex would be amazing. But once you finished, imagine the absolutely dreadful feelings you'd have literally right after you came. It'd sink in right from there.

You already know the answer to your question.

GodOfSociety · 2021-11-14T10:19:41+00:00

There’s more girls in the world bro, you think he can look at you the same after you fuck someone he used to love? Shallow.

justmuro · 2021-11-14T07:53:54+00:00

I mean if you guys are like in your 20s and it was a high school fling in the 9th grade I guess and I’m pretty sure he’d not care if u was honest. But if it’s a recent ex or they had long history together your breaking the bro code… don’t break the bro code

407J-219 · 2021-11-14T08:15:24+00:00

You need to discuss this with him and let him know what your intentions are if you do in fact want to sleep with this person. Do you want to be in a relationship with her? Do you just want sex? Ask yourself these questions and then figure out what your friend wants. If you ask for his consent about this specific thing and he isn’t comfortable with it, you will lose him as a friend if you have sex with this person. If he is okay with the sex then make sure you are 100% crystal clear about your intentions. Ive done this before and you must ask him if he’s okay with it.

MrKrabbydaddy · 2021-11-14T08:29:36+00:00

Think with the brain bro not the dick

birdthewrld · 2021-11-14T08:42:23+00:00

Choose Bros over hoes. She is a passing temptation. Your bro has been there, is there, and will be there.

Resist the seduction by not putting yourself in situations which you must choose. So, decline invitations to see her, do not be left alone together, avoid and don't encourage. Find another willing girl quickly. One that wasn't sleeping with your bro.

goatmolester2000 · 2021-11-14T10:31:39+00:00

Total dick move

dxnieljxy · 2021-11-14T10:43:28+00:00

What are you thinking mate? Obviously it break the code, think about how your brother would feel.

metalion420 · 2021-11-14T10:47:49+00:00

How serious was their relationship? Because I banged a girl that first banged my friend but it was never a serious relationship it was a one time hookup with my friend and then a few months later I asked her out we hooked up we banged and we still friends “Eskimo brothers” Again how serious was it.

lildudefromXdastreet · 2021-11-14T07:02:43+00:00

You sound like a loser

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2021-11-14T08:49:50+00:00

No, it makes you tunnel buddies or sausage sisters. Depending on the gender you’re into.

andWan · 2021-11-14T10:14:46+00:00

Alternative view: There was this german rap crew consisting of Sido and B-Tight and they made a very good song about their friendship: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3IEZb_9eP-M Lyrics: https://genius.com/Royal-ts-erundich-lyrics „Wenn er 'ne Muschi hatte, konnte ich nach ihm bei ihr landen Wir teilen alles: wenn er was brauch, soll er es nehmen Als ich nicht wusste wohin, da ließ er mich bei sich leben“ Translated: „When he had a girl (pussy) I could land with her afterwards. We share everything: If he needs something, he shall take it. When I did not know where to go, he did let me live with him.“

This song for me really is one of the tightest inputs when it comes to „bro code“. But I guess you have to listen to the whole song / album to get the experience.

Nevertheless I can totally understand the other view. Not yet sure actually how I see it myself.

CoinXante · 2021-11-14T11:10:42+00:00

Think about possible consequences. You could loose a possible lifetime friendship to get laid.

Even by the small possibility where your friend is accepting it, will your friendship be the same? How would you three be able to hang out, how does that scenario play out in your head.

Hard to regret your choice once it’s made.

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